January 10, 2006
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Tapes
I am going to try another question from the game Scruples. I will do my best to recreate the hypothetical. “You visit the house of one of your best friends. You find a video from their last vacation. They are having fun at a nude beach and have no clothes on.”
Do you watch the video?
Comments (177)
1st?!?!
No, because I try to stay away from that kind of stuff anyway, and if it was a friend it’d be really awkward…
-Jared
first!
Wow, second!
man.
NO!
ack no i dont watch it…i don’t want to see my best friend naked on a nude beach
nope..i wouldn’t want to see that kind of thing
ewww…. no way!
no, photographic memory is an evil thing
no
Depends on if they were good looking or not.
Probably yes and then turn it off right away because that’s me for you. Haha.
yes, for kicks
I’d like to say no, as that should be my answer. But you never really know unless you are put in that situation. And if I knew I wouldn’t be caught watching, I’d probably check it out.
GROSS!!
Why the hell would you want to??
Unless they were hot.. Then maybe
~ck
Eh, I’d watch it out of curiosity. They I’d scream and throw something at the television, probably.
Ew. Heck NO.
You could never look at them the same way ever again. Your mind tends to remember things you don’t want to remember, especially at awkward times.
wow….. what an unusual question…. and mind-contorting.
no, especially if i am in-between meals. i’m still trying to delete the mental pic of someone who was describing his circumcision (as an adult) to our prayer group more than 15 years ago!
no. not at all.
nude beaches are gross. it’s only old people and fat people there.
I really don’t think I would. Not sure why, but I would’nt have the desire to.
And you’re not crazy. Just eccentric. Which is a good thing to be.
Sure, if they will allow me to.
No way, that would just be way too weird.
No, i wouldn’t. there is not need for that and it is a violation of their privacy and seems disrespectful.
eww… no…
Uhhh….no. I have stronger willpower than that.
well.. to know they’re AT a nude beach lacking clothes, wouldn’t I have already watched the video?
yes
Ummm, Ive been to clothing stores with all my friends and either in dressing rooms or changing rooms for the pool or when sharing a hotel room when going out of town Ive seen them at least partially naked but when you add their spouses to the mix…Id have to say absolutely not. I would not watch. Now, if I were single, and everyone on the beach was single and there wasnt any monkey business going on and people were just cauually laying int he sun catching some rays….I wouldnt have a problem with it.
No, thank you.
i meant to say i wont watch it
Heck Yea. lol. Im a pervert!
are they hot friends?
Cause that wouldn’t be awkward…
all my girl friends undress/dress in front of each other. Always
Depends. Is my friend named john or jane?
No for john.. but I’m sure jane wouldn’t mind…
If they left it around to be looked at then they must have hoped someone would watch it, I would if they weren’t scary to see naked.
I wouldn’t, not because I wouldn’t want to, but because I’d be afraid I would get caught!!!
Ha.
-Hil
you do update frequently.
nooo man.
would you?
yup and id laugh my ass off
no. awkward.
ew…no.
H
No way! That’s disgusting.
Ack, no, I don’t want to watch that o.O
lol, knowing me id mis-read the label and watch it. then be horrified and turn it off.
hahaha… um… which one of my best friends?
my guy ones, then no…
my female ones… um… noooo…
Only to see naked strangers that might appear in the video as well. I don’t really want to see my friends nude, but at the same time it’s not really going to bother me; especially if it didn’t bother them to go to a nude beach.
NO! I have a specific friend in mind, though, and I’d go up to her and ask her about it. Maybe we’d watch it together
Hell no. :shudders:
why not? if they’re not close friends, no, but if you guys are like brothers/sisters, what does it matter? it’s only nudity, if you can’t handle that like an adult, you shouldn’t be in society. Immature adults who can’t accept anatomy are really screwed up. if the friend doesn’t like you watching it, ok, admit you were wrong to do it, but it’s not like you’re watching them have sex.
Only if they’re good looking.
Absolutely not, and if you’d seen any of my friends or their spouses, you’d know it’s not an ethics thing. It’s a throw up thing.
no, yipes.
Ohh ick no
well, dere wuld be otha ppl in it =D
No, I love my friends . . . but not enough for all of that flesh.
The circumstance is pretty contrived. How would I know what is on the tape? Why would I be alone in their house?
I respect my friends too much to watch the tape…for more than four or five minutes…tops.
Depneds on if your friend is cute.
OH HECK YA I DO!!! They don’t call me “Nosey Rosie” for nothing!!! Besides, I need the good laugh …as well as good black mail material should the need arise.
yeah, too weird and just not right. So NO. My neice was showing me pictures of her trip to Spain and she said here is a picture of us at a Topas Bar (which is a type of bar in Spain) and I thought she said Topless bar. She didn’t understand why I didn’t want to see the picture.
Absolutely not!!
I definitely don’t want to see my best friend in that kind of light. Let them have their fun on vacation. What is that phrase again? Whatever happens in vegas, stays in Vegas?
I would feel like I am disrespecting them and invading their privacy. The amount of guilt I would feel would be plenty.
heck NO!! anyway, as far as i know, my friends don’t do that.
I have absolutely no desire to see that. Ew. Plus, I’d be very disturbed if my friends were at a nude beach.
No… But I would sure as hell tease them about it!
no. that’d be just weird aaand you never know…what if it like leads you to porn?…idk that sounds improvable but who knows
no, unless the best friend was a girl. then…maybe.
depends how close i am to this person in question.
no, i’d assume that they’d rather the cid not be seen by anyone close to them. just like…you know. they’d rather not stirp while i’m in the same room. same deal. if they put it on and laguhe dover it, well cool. course i’m thinkin my good friend here, who i WOULD laugh with. anyone else, well. keep it to yerself,dude.s
i’d be up for the laugh. no, kust kidding. if it was my best friend, i would have been there, too! no, really kidding there.
my best friend wouldn’t go to a nude beach. even if he did, i wouldn’t want to know about it, let alone see it.
No, I actually wouldn’t want to see that. Some hot guy, maybe (as long as my friend wasn’t hooked up with him).
No, I don’t think I want a mental image of my friends being nude or anything that would ceate tenstion or weirdness to our friendship.
No. If I had a video like that I wouldn’t want anyone watching it unless I invited them to watch it so I’d give the same respect to my friends, especially people close enough to be my best friends.
ugh…ill pass. bad enough i see my best friend every day clothed
If they were a real friend, they wouldn’t be having naked fun without me.
hahah so far I guess I’m the only perv on here
Which nude beach? jk.
Depends on the friend lol
Like some others, I should say no. I know for sure I wouldn’t watch it for long, but I might be tempted to peek a little. I hate to admit that though, so actually I’ll change my answer and say no I wouldn’t look. Darn my curious nature though. LOL!
Eewwwww hell no. I don’t need to be seein all that!
Ewww… NO!
((( GRANDMA HUGS )))
Lori
how do i know they are at a nude beach with no clothes on if i haven’t watched it? did they tell me or was it written on the label?
…no, i would not be any fun at that game…
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yeah, not so much with the nudity of the best friend….
My friends would never do that.
Yes, and I’d be horribly disappointed if nothing kinky happened. I wouldn’t tell them that I saw it, but next time I visited with them, I would giggle because I know what his naughty bits look like.
No way
Well, I never go through personal video tapes at a friend’s house so I thankfully will never be faced with this situation.
it depends on how good our friendship is. But i wouldnt watch it without them knowing and being ok with it.
no
errr… no thanks
LOL Okay…seeing that everyone else said NO….I’m going to change my answer…..NO I would never do such a thing. I do not go through other peoples belongings and would never dream of doing anything that might give me a “different” view of my best friend.
ya. That would be me…. :::smirking as my fingers are crossed behind my back:::
only if it would offend them not to watch it. otherwise, ick.
no
are my friends attractive?
How would I know it was a vid of them on a nude beach unless I looked at the vid?
oh, you mean my real best friends. i have seen them nude. (we have been friends since third grade, and she met her husband when she was fourteen). so, not again.
No, I’ve seen some of my friends naked, and I wouldn’t intentionally do it again
If you can describe that much about the trip, then obviously we have watched the tape already. But, if I had no clue I would not watch. Not cool.
Absolutely not. My friend’s business is their own. However, if I did find that this friend was doing such a thing, I would confront them about it, and probably not remain their *friend* for very long.
I would be ashamed of someone, if they were to do something as that. It’s sickening.
God bless,
Shohna
I can’t say that I wouldn’t. Yes is the only other answer.
Yes.
Nope.
nooooooooo
i dont’ think my friends would ever let me see that tape.
no. Not even if they try and share that kind of video voluntarily.
No, I’d probably take it to the studio and do a voice over though…haha!!
Jon
Hell yes I would.
i would not watch.
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if they are not home, of course! Get a few laughs out of it too!
Prudes! hahhaha
No, I wouldn’t watch either. Not unless someone were being eaten by a shark. Then I’d have to watch. It’s human nature.
No, I wouldn’t want to be that personal even if they were my best friends.
I’d be like, “Or we could play Scrabble rather than watch you run around naked?”
No. I have no interest in seeing my friends naked and I would be embarrassed for them.
Probably, just as all of you that said no!
Depends on the friend and how open you and they are.
-Soldier
As much as I love both of my best friends….I’ve seen Joe naked and it was funny at the time, but I will pass on a second chance. I’ve seen Lisa naked and some how I don’t think after three kids her body has held up so well…so I’ll pass on that too!
no
no
I’m sick……..but yeah, I would. I know, you won’t invite me to your house now!
Depends on the friend.
That would be gross! NO WAY!
No way
Depends on how close we are. I’d certainly ask first.
Well, I myself have videos of me playing at a nude beach in France when I was 3, but that’s ’cause my family was poor and couldn’t afford a swimsuit for me. Does that count if someone watched that?… (Especially all the family and friends who have gotten to watch all that over and over again.)
One of my “best” friends? I’d ask them to pop it in the VCR while I pop the popcorn.
yes…probably with them…and a bunch of other people. we all have a giggle. there’s nothing to be ashamed about…it’s just a nude beach people, get with it.
er…no.
–paige
Honestly….it would depend on which friend. Some look better than others. But I might.
Gross… no way.
Eeeeewww, no! Why do you ask? Have you done this?
ew, and no.
no way. I mean, i love my friends and everything, but that’s just nasty. and none of the friends I have now would do that anyway.
I’ll pass.
NO WAY! That sounds icky, maybe if htey were strangers.. HAHA
Oh, heavens, no! I always try to apply the old “what good can come from this?” test to such questions.
The answer on this one is “nothing”.
Not me!
L,r
Probably. But chances are one of my best friends doesnt have a video like that. If they did, even tho they were nude it probably wouldnt be explicit in nature, so I would have no problem watching it, if they had no problem recording it.
How do you know that it’s a video of a nude beach unless you’ve watched part of it??
I don’t think I’d want to see my friends naked. Sorry.
Even though my best friends are fairly attractive, I would have to put this in the file marked “wierded out.” Run from the house without looking back.
Depends which one. I’d joke about it, and pretend I wanted to watch it, but only to remind said friend to keep personal videos – well, personal.
If my best friend is a girl and she’s hot.
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NO!
No.
I’d want a frontal lobotomy if I even saw a scene from it.
Erika
Not unless, for whatever reason, they wanted me to…in which case, I’d still have to take it into consideration.
I wouldnt actually watch it but i would def tease my friends with it!
Probably no, since I found the video instead of being invited to view it.
It all depends on how lousy their video collection is. I mean, honestly, don’t they have anything else worth watching? How lame is that?
Other than them being butt naked, it’s probably just as boring as anybody else’s vacation videos.
Not only do I watch it, but I get naked and start dry humping everyone in the room! That’s if they’re hot ofcourse. Otherwise I would just point at it and laugh hysterically.
no
I think not.
Nicholas
That would be a NEGATIVE. Can you imagine how awkward that would be, secondly?!
So uh…What was your answer?
i’m constantly curious and am fascinated by what people do, so depending on the circumstances, perhaps.
Ack! no way. I don’t want to see any of my friends naked unless there is some kind of medical emergency and there is no avoiding it.
No
Hell yes…… a little laugh or two, some blackmail? sounds good to me…
No. For a number of different reasons.
No, as it would violate my personal code, which includes but is not limited to respecting of others’ privacy.
I wouldn’t watch it unless I thought there might be good blackmail material on it. And I’m only half kidding- I could get a mocha frappuccino out of this!
Depends on how hot the friends are.
ew, no way!
eww no
Very interesting question. My first reaction is to say, unequivally, NO!. But the first question should be, “What were you doing snooping in someone else’s house?’ And, “Were they home, etc.?” I wouldn’t know why one would bother to watch it. One can see pretty much all of it on TV on any given day. However, none of us is above temptation, anmd somne folks go to great lengths to get thjere jollies, I guess.
The real questions are:
1) How do you know it’s of a nude beach and they’re naked if you don’t watch the video? and
2) How would you watch it without them knowing if it’s their house?
i doubt i’d really watch it. i mean, how awkward would that really be? even if it was for a good laugh… how awkward would that be?
my answer to this has nothing to do with religious beliefs or anything of my spirituality. it’s just what i’m comfortable with and what i’m not comfortable with.
gross, no lol
Nah.
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what the heck.. I didn’t finish my comment lol- actully.. I thought I was number one lol.. How freaken embarrasing!!!
Christina
No I wouldn’t watch it.
Watching unofficial and accidental porn of your friend.. going to have to say no..
Goodness no.
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ick…no, that would be gross.
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hahaha, yeah if they were hott.
No Way!
Is there money involved for watching the video?
Watching such a tape, I think, would only make things extremely awkward for me. It would make looking at the person somewhat… I’m at loss for a word here. Everyone else, on the other hand, may have their differences. Just keep that tape away from my VCR!
- – > Ariana
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