I don’t know if anyone’s death would really phase me. There is a lighter side to death, and I look at that. I would be quiet, thinking, sad, but I would know that there would be a time to see them again.
~The IdiosyncraticPoet
The death of a child is what would hurt me most.
My father or my fiancee.
My brother’s. He’s seven, and really the only family member that I really truly feel comfortable and happy around. So not only is it the death of a young child, but of one of my best friends.
my little sister.
my best friend, or my father’s i couldn’t live with out either of them
Depends on the day, depends on what has happened… Anyone of my friends, I guess. It would only be momentarily, I’m pretty good at phasing out of reality.
My best friend or family member.
Either my mom or my boyfriend.
my best friend, breanna
at the moment my moms
my kids or my husband for sure. i lost my grandpa and it was devastating.
grandma
I thought about this one on my own a bit, actually. A close friend of mine would cause me the most pain.
My best friend (and crush)
Mum or Dad.
my moms
Children
Close Family..Best Friends…
mom or boyfriend or best friend
brother…brrrr
my boyfriend or one of my close friends
mom or boyfriend
my boyfriend’s or my sister’s
probably mom’s
my mom’s or someone close to me who would commit suicide. (i’ve experienced the latter of the two and have found it to be the most difficult to cope with of 4 deaths i have experienced)
i dont actualy know. my sister and I are pretty close.but there alot of people that i care about alot. its a scary thought.
One of my children….
mom or dad or bf.
Well… probably my own, depending on how it happened. Like a shark attack! Yikes!
My mom and one of my friends.
wow. this is not an easy one. i never want to bury my parents, to lose them will be so hard. but not as hard as losing my beloved…i never want to live a day knowing he wont be coming home. to lose him would be unbearable. but even moreso, i never want to bury either of my children. you should never have to bury your own babies.
so this was a hard question. and gesh…why am i so emotional!?
I imagine my own death could be pretty painful.
I hate to think about death. It doesn’t scare me, but I just don’t like to think about it at all. I even hate killing bugs.
my mother, the boy or my best friend
any family member of mine that was not ready to leave this earth…an incompletion of a full circle of their life…
the pain is felt when you know there are unfulfilled aspirations or dreams…that they may have…or that i may have had for them…
any one of my childrens.
I’ve already felt the pain of losing my dad too young.
I’d never really thought about it, but I’d probably say my sister. She’s my best friend.
my mom, dad, big brother, little brother, audrey, my big sister, and my dog. oh, and me, but id get over it, haha. comment back. peace max
…tag on:
anyone i dearly love…”family”…real or created…
You, Dan.
holy crap *bitchslap*
ok, I feel better..
I lost my brother in 2000… no words can tell you how I felt..
I want to die first from now on!
sister’s.
mother
my mom, dad, big brother, little brother, audrey, my big sister, and my dog. oh, and me, but id get over it, haha. comment back. peace max
How to choose? Wife, child, parent? They are all still with me so they will all be hard.
my best friend Johnathan…I wouldn’t even be able to handle that
my family and my boyfriend
and my dogs!!! I honestly love my dogs so much
Parents’.
My older brother died in 1996- that was really, really awful!
Anyone of my children.
my mom and best friend.
my girlfriends
mine,probably.
Probably my boyfriend or my best friend.
My mom, dad or sister
and my boyfriend
god…depressing.
i think anyone in my immediate family would probably be the hardest for me. I guess i specifically think about my parents. but….to be honest, i think i would take it hard concerning a number of people in my life. this is depressing to think about haha
my mom. I didn’t even hesitate to answer that one. If she died, I’d be devastated.
I don’t think that I could name one person and feel satisfied; the people who I hold dearest in my life have all earned a deep amount of respect, and love from me, evenly so. However, I would think that the death of either of my parents would be most devastating. I don’t know what I’d do without them both here; they’ve always been around, and though I sometimes take that for granted, I realize how special they are to me. Without them, I wouldn’t exist as I do; I thank them each day for that, whether by saying “I love you,” offering a hug, or doing what I can to help them out with whatever they are doing around the house.
Second to my parents would be my best friends; the best of the best, who have been with me the longest. While I have more wonderful people in my life than these three, my neighbor, Timothy — “TJ” — and my friends Manesah, and David are so special that life just wouldn’t be complete without them. Even when we aren’t together, there is a special feeling that swells inside me when I think of them. That’s just what friendship truly means to me; I’ve been through thick and thin with each of them, countless times.
Stephen
My husband’s or children’s
Close family, & close friends.
my grandma, she is my rock. without her, i would be a bumb with nothing. my twin, i can’t live a second without him, let alone my life. all my siblings and parents as well. life would be unimaginable.
my grandpa.
My son’s. Is that mean to pick only one?
My children…
Husband, children, and my grandmother.
well since i actually somehow survived the death of my best friend last year, i’m going to go and say that either of my parents or another of my friends would for sure do me in.
dad.
Any immediate family member or close friend dying would tear me apart.
-Jared
if in the future i think it would be my husband’s even though i’m not married yet, but i think the death of a spouse would be unbearable.. right now, it would be the death of my mom.
my best friend, kaitlyn louise adams.
My soon-to-be fiance’s.
Probably my dad or my close friends.
i don’t know…
My mother, my sister, or my boyfriend. I couldn’t pick just one… I’ve already known grief (my dad died when I was younger). & all three would have magnitudes I don’t dare imagine.
mom or dad cuz they my heroes and do anything for me
Oh, and (dare I leave her out) – my dearest & closest friend. She has a brilliant mind… I’d be miserable without her conversation.
any one of my family members.
A best friend or a parent.
My cousin..
a friend
My dad. He’s my absolute best friend in the world. I don’t know what I’d ever do without him.
my husband
Bryan. My dad. My siblings or their kids.
a lot of ppl i used to know hav already died,plus i would take into account how the person died. i think no matter wat i would feel horrible if my mom died. and really if my frend died, she noes my deepest feelings and secrets, if she died it wood feel lik a half of me died. the half that loves the world and all its beauty. the half that is a kid.
*lynnz*
Someone with the initials of B.L.
yours of course!
My parent’s or my twin brother’s.
my kid..
On eof my kids. Closely follow by my wifes.
My mother or my sweetie Nick.
mom
=[
but i dont want to think about it.
cant you talk about something upbeat??
my son’s
i’ve experienced this one already – my baby’s.
That all depends on the circumstances leading up to the death, really
either one of my children
my mommy
Any one of my family members, or friends for that matter.
my closest friends or my mom.
family.
my children and my husband
aye…either a family member or my boyfriends… Kelly
either parents or my girlfriend
My parents or this girl that I’ve loved for almost a year now.
Well, I love her as a friend… but I truly care for her.
my husband or daughters
my boyfriend.
My death …. ouch …. hahaha
my mother.. no doubt about it!
mom.
uhh…you should put some music on here.lol
My twin brother.
My older sister.
My parents or my best friends.
My children and my father.
bevin, leah, kace
my best friend or my parents
My husband. He’s the one I lean on for everything, and the one person I’m really close to that is also a part of my every day life. His death would also certainly be the one that would impact my life the most, everything would have to change, and my whole view of my future “plan” would be completely shaken.
He’s closely followed by my younger sister and my best friend.
JONATHAN
My father.
I have to admit that I instantly thought (comically), “my own.” In all seriousness, my parents or my pastor.
Mine. Is that selfish?
My best friend, Mandy. If she were to die, I would probably commit suicide so that I could be with her in death and not need to live on without her. She is the one reason I continue to live. That she can suffer through so much and still keep a smile on never ceases to amaze me.
my six year old sister.
i can’t even imagine…
My dad, cause he’s supporting me it would be the msot difficult but as far as sadness, I’d lose myself if my boyfriend died.
I think my son’s
Anyone in my immediate family or any of my best friends. I really don’t know how I could live without them.
my husband or my baby
close family, my boyfriend, my future kids and my close friends would really upset me..i try to look at the brighter side of things when there is a death like there in a better place and not suffering in anyway any more…well n e ways have a good day dan
My best friend, followed by my boyfriend.
my best best friends and my girlfriend
my husband!
my best friend or my love. ~ErYn~
ewww- I don wanna think about it- but my children AAAK- that hurts to even think about!
my best friend’s.
Im going to think long and hard about this one
and the most pain causing death for me to bear would have to see my brothers, mothers, or any immediate family soul and personality being crushed. To know that they are in heaven.. wonderful. But to see them dead yet suffering on earth, tragedy.
Probably my little brother’s, although that’s a really, really tough question!
Out of the people who are still left, my wife or my children. I expect all of them to outlive me. The only solace in losing my wife would be that she’d be spared the grief of losing me.
My dad’s.Or my mom’s.Or my best friend’s.I can’t choose.
I think a parent losing a child! The saying is a parent should never have to bury a child!
my sister’s.
My parents
M’s
Either my husband’s or one of my children’s
anyone i’d address by name.
I’m sensitive like that.
mom, dad, or brother
When was in the 9th grade my best friend Kyle (who was in the 8th grade) passed away from cancer that was the worst time of my life. There isn’t a day that I don’t think of him.
Other than that my family or my best friend Simon.
Amanda
Bob’s
oh I plan on having a great time this weekend! probably the most pain would be the death of a close family member, or my girlfriend.
My mom.
My niece who died last summer
I’m sad… please cheer me up!
any member of my immediate family
Right now, probably Kalissa. She is my 7 month old niece. She has the most life ahead of her, though my sister would be right behind her, she is only 18.
My parents, for they are my creators. Then my close friends, because it is them who keep me sane.
My dad or my kids. I came close to losing dad last summer, my emotional state was not pretty. I have had some bad things happen to my oldest and it was scary.
My twin brother…
:
probably my husband’s if i ever get married or my kids’.
When I was younger, it was the fact that I was going to miss them.
I still miss people when they die, but I focus on the part of my life that I was able to spend with them, and I focus on happy I was while they were living instead of them being dead and not there.
… there are three people. My best friends Elaine and Chelsea, and latter’s mom, Paula.
my mother
my little sister
My Mom’s
Damn I can’t read today.
I think either my mom or my husand.
I think my brother’s death will affect me most.
My best friend. What would I do without him?
Either my Mom or my Brother.
Eva.
My father’s. He is the only one I’m really close to that I’m not sure about his salvation. My mom and my best friends I would see again in heaven…
My mother.
actually… if my daughter or my son died, that would probably haunt me more… the pain could possibly kill me.
Most definitely my son’s. I hate to even think about it. A parent should not ever have to bury their child.
any of my immediate family or my best friend
I don’t know if I should answer. I shouldn’t be superstitious though.
My grandbaby. I would miss her terribly.
L,r
Mom, Dad, Henry, close friends
my husband and probably my child when he’s older
My beloved Air Force Jon…=)
Definitely my mom’s
All who are very dear to me would cause me great pain if thet died.
Any one of my kids would break my heart.
The Death of my worst enemy.
my baby.
Rk, because i would probably not find out about it for a while… or maybe Guido for the same reason… either would be devastating.
either of my daughters
mom or bros or dad
Best friends.
My sister.
Probably my own…
oddly enough, the death of the girl i thought i was gonna marry and who broke up with me a couple weeks ago
Any of the kids, my spouse, my parents, my brother, or any of my brother’s children
best friend or dad or brother…..
eh, i dont want to think about this…
the death of an astranged friend or family member would hurt the most. i hate when things end unresolved.
My son’s
My parents. I dont have children yet. But they will die, before me most likely. I want them to see me succeed before that so they can feel like they succeeded too.
It’s a draw between three people…
My dad, my mom, and a certain guy.
my family and my boyfriend..
i dont know .. my mums because she is my mother and everyone needs a mother. or my dads cause i know he feels incomplete, that hes not reached the stage of being needed like a mum does automatically.
My wife.
my son :*(
My grandparents and Miguels.
My parents, first of all, but then my dogs. I love them so much!!!
My husband, then my kids or grandkids. Horrible thought!!! Why did you bring it up!!!!
my grandmother.
My kids or my one friend.
a part from already burying my mother, i would have to say my daughter. just as i was a part of my mother, my daughter is a part of me.
I think the person’s death who would cause me the most pain would be the same person whose death I would mourn the most. Sister!
It’s hard to say though because no part of a death makes it easier for the mourner. If my dad died, I wouldn’t be any more comforted knowing he lived a fairly long life than if my three year old brother died. Each would hurt…a lot. I don’t think I could mourn one more than the other.
That’s a really hard one considering i could care less for the lifes of others. But, it would have to be the person I wish dead, because i use to be really close to him. And yeah, even if i do hate him now, i would cry my eyes out if he died…
~They took you away from me, but now i’m taking you home~
my family.
my mom’s would cause me the most pain.
My mom’s, for sure.
i am broken anytime anyone dies
the death of my birth parents actually. i was adopted. i’ve never met them. it would kill me if i never got the chance to.
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There are so many people I couldn’t lose. I’ve lost so many people that I don’t know if I could handle losing any of my family or friends.
Anyone in my immediate family would really, REALLY hurt me… Probably especially my little sister, just because she is innocent. Also, we frequently fight, so if she died the chances are high that we would’ve died on bad terms. I really would have trouble living knowing that she died mad at me.
I’ve already been there…I went through 5 suicides in 18 monthe my father, favorite cousin, and 3 friends.IT ALL SUCKS and they all hurt. Loss is loss.
*She typo! I can’t stand them. >.<
the one i’m closest with at the time.
cool site random props -Jake
too difficult to answer
i dont like these sad posts
My children equally.
My son’s. I don’t think I would survive if he didn’t.
My love ( whom I lost 3 years ago) my mom, my sister or brother
Even though he’s an asshole i’de probaly say my father.
love the old basterd ya know.
nephew
My parents’ and my best friend’s
My best friend Sarah. If she died…I would probably die too. That girl is like…my other half.
my best friend or my erm…special guy friend.
my parents. or my boyfriend.
My sister or brother.
my mom, my dad, my best freind
I agree with IdiosyncraticPoet. I don’t think anyone’s death really has an effect on me; I mean, we’ll see ‘em later on anyway, right? Riiight.
my mom or one of my brothers
my best friend/girlfriend
the boy i love. hes not my b/f but close enough. lol.
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hey, i really like your site!!
death of the spirit not of the body is what frightens me
> Close friends ‘n my immediate family.
Peace
either one of my little sisters.
my own
how did your site get so popular?
My best friend or my mom
my bro
My own, and my Monkey’s
my niece or my mom. Or maybe my closest cousin.
My cat..she is female in a cat’s body
The death of someone I had an unsuccessful relationship with previously. It would break my heart to know that our differences are not yet completely reconciled and we would no longer have a chance for it.
I have read this every once in a while, and I quite enjoy it. I would like to hear your opinions on some of your questions though.
definitely one of my best friends. the death of a child would probably be the worst, but alas, im only 14
my father.
its a tie between my uncle, jesse r.,will b, and ricky j.
my brother
Anyone in my family
Paul.
the best friend i’ve only known for a month and a half
my girlfriends
Not the death of a person, but the death of an ideal. The most painful loss I can imagine is that of my hope for humanity.
my boyfriend’s.
The Person who I know I won’t be seeing in heaven.
My best friend and my sister.
[ariana]
mom
death of anyone i know (or anyone period) upsets me, even more so if we were family or friends, or even if we just knew each other loosely. it’s weird to think that someone you spoke to once is now gone. just a strange concept
i think maybe andre. because we haven’t talked and we aren’t friends anymore…and i’d just die knowing about all the unfinished business. i’d feel so unresolved and i’d feel guilty the rest of my life
my hubby and my niece and her mommy of course
probably my best friend or anyone in her family, because they are more of a family to me than my own….other than them probably my grandma because i look up to her too much.
boyfriend or best friend
My boyfriend’s death. i have thought what would happen and even thinking of it i feel like crying.i dont know what would happen to me if it happened.i would probably need lots of help if i had to deal with it all
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my best friend, Kat’s.
whoot. first.
My son’s.
My husband’s or my kids’.
I don’t know if anyone’s death would really phase me. There is a lighter side to death, and I look at that. I would be quiet, thinking, sad, but I would know that there would be a time to see them again.
~The IdiosyncraticPoet
The death of a child is what would hurt me most.
My father or my fiancee.
My brother’s. He’s seven, and really the only family member that I really truly feel comfortable and happy around. So not only is it the death of a young child, but of one of my best friends.
my little sister.
my best friend, or my father’s
i couldn’t live with out either of them
Depends on the day, depends on what has happened… Anyone of my friends, I guess. It would only be momentarily, I’m pretty good at phasing out of reality.
My best friend or family member.
Either my mom or my boyfriend.
my best friend, breanna
at the moment my moms
my kids or my husband for sure. i lost my grandpa and it was devastating.
grandma
I thought about this one on my own a bit, actually. A close friend of mine would cause me the most pain.
My best friend (and crush)
Mum or Dad.
my moms
Children
Close Family..Best Friends…
mom or boyfriend or best friend
brother…brrrr
my boyfriend or one of my close friends
mom or boyfriend
my boyfriend’s or my sister’s
probably mom’s
my mom’s or someone close to me who would commit suicide. (i’ve experienced the latter of the two and have found it to be the most difficult to cope with of 4 deaths i have experienced)
i dont actualy know. my sister and I are pretty close.but there alot of people that i care about alot. its a scary thought.
One of my children….
mom or dad or bf.
Well… probably my own, depending on how it happened. Like a shark attack! Yikes!
My mom and one of my friends.
wow. this is not an easy one. i never want to bury my parents, to lose them will be so hard. but not as hard as losing my beloved…i never want to live a day knowing he wont be coming home. to lose him would be unbearable. but even moreso, i never want to bury either of my children. you should never have to bury your own babies.
so this was a hard question. and gesh…why am i so emotional!?
I imagine my own death could be pretty painful.
I hate to think about death. It doesn’t scare me, but I just don’t like to think about it at all. I even hate killing bugs.
my mother, the boy or my best friend
any family member of mine that was not ready to leave this earth…an incompletion of a full circle of their life…
the pain is felt when you know there are unfulfilled aspirations or dreams…that they may have…or that i may have had for them…
any one of my childrens.
I’ve already felt the pain of losing my dad too young.
I’d never really thought about it, but I’d probably say my sister. She’s my best friend.
my mom, dad, big brother, little brother, audrey, my big sister, and my dog. oh, and me, but id get over it, haha. comment back.
peace max
…tag on:
anyone i dearly love…”family”…real or created…
You, Dan.
holy crap
*bitchslap*
ok, I feel better..
I lost my brother in 2000…
no words can tell you how I felt..
I
want
to
die
first
from
now
on!
sister’s.
mother
my mom, dad, big brother, little brother, audrey, my big sister, and my dog. oh, and me, but id get over it, haha. comment back.
peace max
How to choose? Wife, child, parent? They are all still with me so they will all be hard.
my best friend Johnathan…I wouldn’t even be able to handle that
my family and my boyfriend
and my dogs!!! I honestly love my dogs so much
Parents’.
My older brother died in 1996- that was really, really awful!
Anyone of my children.
my mom and best friend.
my girlfriends
mine,probably.
Probably my boyfriend or my best friend.
My mom, dad or sister
and my boyfriend
god…depressing.
i think anyone in my immediate family would probably be the hardest for me. I guess i specifically think about my parents. but….to be honest, i think i would take it hard concerning a number of people in my life. this is depressing to think about haha
my mom. I didn’t even hesitate to answer that one. If she died, I’d be devastated.
I don’t think that I could name one person and feel satisfied; the people who I hold dearest in my life have all earned a deep amount of respect, and love from me, evenly so. However, I would think that the death of either of my parents would be most devastating. I don’t know what I’d do without them both here; they’ve always been around, and though I sometimes take that for granted, I realize how special they are to me. Without them, I wouldn’t exist as I do; I thank them each day for that, whether by saying “I love you,” offering a hug, or doing what I can to help them out with whatever they are doing around the house.
Second to my parents would be my best friends; the best of the best, who have been with me the longest. While I have more wonderful people in my life than these three, my neighbor, Timothy — “TJ” — and my friends Manesah, and David are so special that life just wouldn’t be complete without them. Even when we aren’t together, there is a special feeling that swells inside me when I think of them. That’s just what friendship truly means to me; I’ve been through thick and thin with each of them, countless times.
Stephen
My husband’s or children’s
Close family, & close friends.
my grandma, she is my rock. without her, i would be a bumb with nothing. my twin, i can’t live a second without him, let alone my life. all my siblings and parents as well. life would be unimaginable.
my grandpa.
My son’s. Is that mean to pick only one?
My children…
Husband, children, and my grandmother.
well since i actually somehow survived the death of my best friend last year, i’m going to go and say that either of my parents or another of my friends would for sure do me in.
dad.
Any immediate family member or close friend dying would tear me apart.
-Jared
if in the future i think it would be my husband’s even though i’m not married yet, but i think the death of a spouse would be unbearable.. right now, it would be the death of my mom.
my best friend, kaitlyn louise adams.
My soon-to-be fiance’s.
Probably my dad or my close friends.
i don’t know…
My mother, my sister, or my boyfriend. I couldn’t pick just one… I’ve already known grief (my dad died when I was younger). & all three would have magnitudes I don’t dare imagine.
mom or dad cuz they my heroes and do anything for me
Oh, and (dare I leave her out) – my dearest & closest friend. She has a brilliant mind… I’d be miserable without her conversation.
any one of my family members.
A best friend or a parent.
My cousin..
a friend
My dad. He’s my absolute best friend in the world. I don’t know what I’d ever do without him.
my husband
Bryan. My dad. My siblings or their kids.
a lot of ppl i used to know hav already died,plus i would take into account how the person died. i think no matter wat i would feel horrible if my mom died. and really if my frend died, she noes my deepest feelings and secrets, if she died it wood feel lik a half of me died. the half that loves the world and all its beauty. the half that is a kid.
*lynnz*
Someone with the initials of B.L.
yours of course!
My parent’s or my twin brother’s.
my kid..
On eof my kids. Closely follow by my wifes.
My mother or my sweetie Nick.
mom
=[
but i dont want to think about it.
cant you talk about something upbeat??
my son’s
i’ve experienced this one already – my baby’s.
That all depends on the circumstances leading up to the death, really
either one of my children
my mommy
Any one of my family members, or friends for that matter.
my closest friends or my mom.
family.
my children and my husband
aye…either a family member or my boyfriends…
Kelly
either parents or my girlfriend
My parents or this girl that I’ve loved for almost a year now.
Well, I love her as a friend… but I truly care for her.
my husband or daughters
my boyfriend.
My death …. ouch …. hahaha
my mother.. no doubt about it!
mom.
uhh…you should put some music on here.lol
My twin brother.
My older sister.
My parents or my best friends.
My children and my father.
bevin, leah, kace
my best friend or my parents
My husband. He’s the one I lean on for everything, and the one person I’m really close to that is also a part of my every day life. His death would also certainly be the one that would impact my life the most, everything would have to change, and my whole view of my future “plan” would be completely shaken.
He’s closely followed by my younger sister and my best friend.
JONATHAN
My father.
I have to admit that I instantly thought (comically), “my own.” In all seriousness, my parents or my pastor.
Mine. Is that selfish?
My best friend, Mandy.
If she were to die, I would probably commit suicide so that I could be with her in death and not need to live on without her. She is the one reason I continue to live. That she can suffer through so much and still keep a smile on never ceases to amaze me.
my six year old sister.
i can’t even imagine…
My dad, cause he’s supporting me it would be the msot difficult but as far as sadness, I’d lose myself if my boyfriend died.
I think my son’s
Anyone in my immediate family or any of my best friends. I really don’t know how I could live without them.
my husband or my baby
close family, my boyfriend, my future kids and my close friends would really upset me..i try to look at the brighter side of things when there is a death like there in a better place and not suffering in anyway any more…well n e ways have a good day dan
My best friend, followed by my boyfriend.
my best best friends and my girlfriend
my husband!
my best friend or my love.
~ErYn~
ewww- I don wanna think about it- but my children AAAK- that hurts to even think about!
my best friend’s.
Im going to think long and hard about this one
and the most pain causing death for me to bear would have to see my brothers, mothers, or any immediate family soul and personality being crushed. To know that they are in heaven.. wonderful. But to see them dead yet suffering on earth, tragedy.
Probably my little brother’s, although that’s a really, really tough question!
Out of the people who are still left, my wife or my children. I expect all of them to outlive me. The only solace in losing my wife would be that she’d be spared the grief of losing me.
My dad’s.Or my mom’s.Or my best friend’s.I can’t choose.
I think a parent losing a child! The saying is a parent should never have to bury a child!
my sister’s.
My parents
M’s
Either my husband’s or one of my children’s
anyone i’d address by name.
I’m sensitive like that.
mom, dad, or brother
When was in the 9th grade my best friend Kyle (who was in the 8th grade) passed away from cancer that was the worst time of my life. There isn’t a day that I don’t think of him.
Other than that my family or my best friend Simon.
Amanda
Bob’s
oh I plan on having a great time this weekend! probably the most pain would be the death of a close family member, or my girlfriend.
My mom.
My niece who died last summer
I’m sad… please cheer me up!
any member of my immediate family
Right now, probably Kalissa. She is my 7 month old niece. She has the most life ahead of her, though my sister would be right behind her, she is only 18.
My parents, for they are my creators. Then my close friends, because it is them who keep me sane.
My dad or my kids. I came close to losing dad last summer, my emotional state was not pretty. I have had some bad things happen to my oldest and it was scary.
My twin brother…
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probably my husband’s if i ever get married or my kids’.
When I was younger, it was the fact that I was going to miss them.
I still miss people when they die, but I focus on the part of my life that I was able to spend with them, and I focus on happy I was while they were living instead of them being dead and not there.
… there are three people. My best friends Elaine and Chelsea, and latter’s mom, Paula.
my mother
my little sister
My Mom’s
Damn I can’t read today.
I think either my mom or my husand.
I think my brother’s death will affect me most.
My best friend. What would I do without him?
Either my Mom or my Brother.
Eva.
My father’s. He is the only one I’m really close to that I’m not sure about his salvation. My mom and my best friends I would see again in heaven…
My mother.
actually… if my daughter or my son died, that would probably haunt me more… the pain could possibly kill me.
Most definitely my son’s. I hate to even think about it. A parent should not ever have to bury their child.
any of my immediate family or my best friend
I don’t know if I should answer. I shouldn’t be superstitious though.
My grandbaby. I would miss her terribly.
L,r
Mom, Dad, Henry, close friends
my husband and probably my child when he’s older
My beloved Air Force Jon…=)
Definitely my mom’s
All who are very dear to me would cause me great pain if thet died.
Any one of my kids would break my heart.
The Death of my worst enemy.
my baby.
Rk, because i would probably not find out about it for a while… or maybe Guido for the same reason… either would be devastating.
either of my daughters
mom or bros or dad
Best friends.
My sister.
Probably my own…
oddly enough, the death of the girl i thought i was gonna marry and who broke up with me a couple weeks ago
Any of the kids, my spouse, my parents, my brother, or any of my brother’s children
best friend or dad or brother…..
eh, i dont want to think about this…
the death of an astranged friend or family member would hurt the most. i hate when things end unresolved.
My son’s
My parents. I dont have children yet. But they will die, before me most likely. I want them to see me succeed before that so they can feel like they succeeded too.
It’s a draw between three people…
My dad, my mom, and a certain guy.
my family and my boyfriend..
i dont know .. my mums because she is my mother and everyone needs a mother. or my dads cause i know he feels incomplete, that hes not reached the stage of being needed like a mum does automatically.
My wife.
my son :*(
My grandparents and Miguels.
My parents, first of all, but then my dogs. I love them so much!!!
My husband, then my kids or grandkids. Horrible thought!!! Why did you bring it up!!!!
my grandmother.
My kids or my one friend.
a part from already burying my mother, i would have to say my daughter. just as i was a part of my mother, my daughter is a part of me.
I think the person’s death who would cause me the most pain would be the same person whose death I would mourn the most. Sister!
It’s hard to say though because no part of a death makes it easier for the mourner. If my dad died, I wouldn’t be any more comforted knowing he lived a fairly long life than if my three year old brother died. Each would hurt…a lot. I don’t think I could mourn one more than the other.
That’s a really hard one considering i could care less for the lifes of others. But, it would have to be the person I wish dead, because i use to be really close to him. And yeah, even if i do hate him now, i would cry my eyes out if he died…
~They took you away from me, but now i’m taking you home~
my family.
my mom’s would cause me the most pain.
My mom’s, for sure.
i am broken anytime anyone dies
the death of my birth parents actually. i was adopted. i’ve never met them. it would kill me if i never got the chance to.
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MY SON. I’VE ALREADY LOST ONE CHILD, SO I KNOW THE PAIN & IT’S ALMOST UNBEARABLE.
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There are so many people I couldn’t lose. I’ve lost so many people that I don’t know if I could handle losing any of my family or friends.
Anyone in my immediate family would really, REALLY hurt me… Probably especially my little sister, just because she is innocent. Also, we frequently fight, so if she died the chances are high that we would’ve died on bad terms. I really would have trouble living knowing that she died mad at me.
I’ve already been there…I went through 5 suicides in 18 monthe my father, favorite cousin, and 3 friends.IT ALL SUCKS and they all hurt. Loss is loss.
*She typo! I can’t stand them. >.<
the one i’m closest with at the time.
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too difficult to answer
i dont like these sad posts
My children equally.
My son’s. I don’t think I would survive if he didn’t.
My love ( whom I lost 3 years ago) my mom, my sister or brother
Even though he’s an asshole i’de probaly say my father.
love the old basterd ya know.
nephew
My parents’ and my best friend’s
My best friend Sarah. If she died…I would probably die too. That girl is like…my other half.
my best friend or my erm…special guy friend.
my parents. or my boyfriend.
My sister or brother.
my mom, my dad, my best freind
I agree with IdiosyncraticPoet. I don’t think anyone’s death really has an effect on me; I mean, we’ll see ‘em later on anyway, right? Riiight.
my mom or one of my brothers
my best friend/girlfriend
the boy i love. hes not my b/f but close enough. lol.
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death of the spirit not of the body is what frightens me
> Close friends ‘n my immediate family.
Peace
either one of my little sisters.
my own
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My best friend or my mom
my bro
My own, and my Monkey’s
my niece or my mom. Or maybe my closest cousin.
My cat..she is female in a cat’s body
The death of someone I had an unsuccessful relationship with previously. It would break my heart to know that our differences are not yet completely reconciled and we would no longer have a chance for it.
I have read this every once in a while, and I quite enjoy it. I would like to hear your opinions on some of your questions though.
definitely one of my best friends. the death of a child would probably be the worst, but alas, im only 14
my father.
its a tie between my uncle, jesse r.,will b, and ricky j.
my brother
Anyone in my family
Paul.
the best friend i’ve only known for a month and a half
my girlfriends
Not the death of a person, but the death of an ideal. The most painful loss I can imagine is that of my hope for humanity.
my boyfriend’s.
The Person who I know I won’t be seeing in heaven.
My best friend and my sister.
[ariana]
mom
death of anyone i know (or anyone period) upsets me, even more so if we were family or friends, or even if we just knew each other loosely. it’s weird to think that someone you spoke to once is now gone. just a strange concept
i think maybe andre. because we haven’t talked and we aren’t friends anymore…and i’d just die knowing about all the unfinished business. i’d feel so unresolved and i’d feel guilty the rest of my life
my hubby and my niece and her mommy of course
probably my best friend or anyone in her family, because they are more of a family to me than my own….other than them probably my grandma because i look up to her too much.
boyfriend or best friend
My boyfriend’s death. i have thought what would happen and even thinking of it i feel like crying.i dont know what would happen to me if it happened.i would probably need lots of help if i had to deal with it all
my best friend’s.