April 28, 2006
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Unattractive
I was talking to a girl years ago while sitting in the computer lab at school. She was a pretty young lady. She was really smart. She had this way about looking you right in the eyes and drawing you in. She was in one of my classes and we had talked from time to time. We were having such a good conversation while she was helping me with my assignment.
One of the ways I would get help back in high school was to pretend to be incompetent in order to get people to do things for me. I was letting this girl feel like the smartest girl in the school. I remember thinking to myself, “I wonder why I have never noticed this girl before.” She was a foreign exchange student.
Then at one moment she lifted up her arm and I could see she had hair on her armpits. She did not shave them.
What is the biggest turn off to you?
Comments (213)
Hmmm, hard to say.
Arm pit hair is definately a turn off.
Gross.
stupidity
BODY ODOR…..BLAH!!!
smoking… yuck
body odor
Well…..let me rephrase my comment…..body odor in the physical sense. ARROGANCE is a bad one personality-wise.
yeah, i’d have to go with stupidity
I agree with silvernicks, I hate arrogance. Cocky guys are the worst!
lol…thats a cool story
physically – definitely hairy guys
other traits – sarcasm!!
of course that has never stopped me from dating people like that… let alone I’m married to a hairy, sarcastic guy lol
(Facial) Hairy Girls.
I want to add to mine… when guys who don’t know you get too touchy-feely and flirty when it is clearly unwelcome. It makes me want to pour my drink on them or punch them.
girls who think it’s funny to act stupid
bad manners.
People who are always on 10. I like a little intensity, but when everything is always the funniest, the greatest and/or the most devastating thing you’ve ever experienced, it gets a bit annoying.
And of course, like others have mentioned already, arrogance and superficiality.
That would definitely be one of them. Cussing and smoking too.
Obesity, bad breath, and a negative attitude.
armpit hair and a small rack…well, maybe just the armpit hair…I once was going to ask this girl out, but she had more hair under her arms than I did…and I didn’t even shave my armpit hair…that’s so disgusting
I love the misleading story building up to the unexpected question. That’s great.
Let’s see . . . arrogance for a personality trait, bad breath for a physical trait.
Rudeness or a lack of intelligence. A phrase I use from time to time is, “She was pretty until she opened her mouth.”
LOL!!!!!!! HA HA HA! That’s hilarious! he he he. Ok, um… probably greasy hair in combination w/ stubble.
people who care enough about little things like that to call you unattractive
Probably people that try to be something they aren’t.
Hairy armpits and a penis. Those really turn me off!
Physically – bad teeth. Personality- arogant men
a guy scratching “himself”
about everything else I can look past
Smug, arrogant users…
indecisiveness.
B.O. and poor hygeine….teeth, fingernails etc….and guys who wear sandals!
B.O. and poor hygeine….teeth, fingernails etc….and guys who wear sandals!
Stupidity is one of the most unattractive traits in a girl, but wickedness is unquestionably worse. A slut or atheist is worse than a hirsute woman of average intelligence.
bad teeth…and stupidity (doesn’t matter how cute you are if you can’t hold a decent conversation).
do i have to pick just one?? there are plenty for me. let’s see . . . body odor, excessive sweating, back hair, shoulder hair, bad manners, no sense of chivalry, excessive machismo, stupidity, ignorance (there’s a difference), lack of a sense of humor, condescention, obnoxious behavior, um . . . bad breath, hands that are way too soft (too feminim), any sexual uptightness, arrogance, bad teeth . . . wow, I have quite a list. I could keep going. yeah, i’m not exactly a “fall over any guy who gives me attention” kind of girl. most people turn me off in general. lol (misantrhope strikes again)
Being cocky. bad b.o. poor hygiene.
I had so many things to say,but the biggest is BAD BREATH, so for all you little leaguers out there, smoking is evil, just like MySpace.com
I really dislike cockiness, rudeness, and any hint of dishonesty. Physically, I get turned off by bad, overly aggressive kissers and guys with long toenails… eww…
people with a bad attitude. there’s a guy that liked me, but i was turned off just because he had a really bad attitude and glares at people all the time. he also treats people like they are really stupid.
Lack of intelligence.
And a lack of self-esteem.
From these comments, it seems like stupid girls and cocky guys with bad breath are going to have some trouble.
poor hygeine!
Stupidity….bad teeth…bad hygiene….
Bad teeth, body odor, smoking, an excessive amount of body hair, and I have a thing about voices…needs to be a nice one.
liars and stupidity for personality, unclean hair and gross teeth for physically.
It’s a tie between arrogance and lack of compassion. They both beat stupidity as a turn-off by a factor of 10,000.
Bad breath or body odor AKKK
wow, thats really funny!! im not sure… i’d say probably body odor, as long as we’re talking physical traits. and distracting acne. a few zits arent a big deal but when you start to notice their acne more than their features, its a problem
LIARS!!!!!!
HAHAHAHAHA
I’m not sure what body issues would be turn-offs to me. I’d rather date someone will little body hair and who is fit (um, mlike my husband) but I’ve had boyfriends that were totally hairy and a big pudgy, and neither was an issue.
I think for me the turn-off’s are more with their personality. I don’t like guys who are overly cocky, who think they’re God’s Gift to Women, who assume they know everything about me when they don’t. I once dated this guy who’d assume he knew just what I was thinking and the hidden motives why I did x or y, and it pissed me off beyond anything.
oh man, personality wise – dishonesty. physically-bad hygiene. Yuck! Also, lots of slobber when kissing is bad too.
bad grooming!
I’m with steph843 Stupidity
Hmmmm
Smoking/bad smoker teeth.
hahahaha… all depends on your culture. i’m sure there was a time in the US when women didn’t shave armpit hair or legs, and guys didn’t have a problem with it.
of course, then, there was also B.O. that definitely bothers me
I have a few.
Bitten fingernails. Dirty Finger nails.
Bad manners at the table.
Posture. Slouchy walk. Overweight. Willful ignorance. “liberals”.
Yes, it’s a cultural thing, but I’m with you. Hairy armpits on women are yucky!
Guys who expect me to be clean-shaven, while walking around grimy and looking like they put on whatever they found lying on the floor next to their bed.
I like my fuzzy parts, and so do the men I’ve loved.
stupidity. you can fix your hair, change your looks, get a lift or a tuck, but there is no fixing stupid.
it’s a tie between a lack of intelligence and body odor.
I CANT PICK JUST ONE, I HAVE A LOT OF PET-PEEVS. MAYBE IM TOO PICKY BUT,
PHYSICALLY-IF SHE HAS MORE HAIR THEN MYSELF, PICK AND AREA, IT DOESNT REALLY MATTER. BAD BREATH IS THE WORSE, I DATED A GIRL WHO WAS VERY PRETTY, BUT I COULDNT BRING MYSELF TO KISS HER.
MENTALLY- I CANT STAND THE ULTRA FEMM NAZIS. I UNDERSTAND WOMEN HAVE COME A LONG WAY AS FAR AS CIVIL RIGHTS AND YOU ALL STILL HAVE A LONG FIGHT AHEAD, BUT I HAVE RUN INTO MORE THEN ONE GIRL WHO ARE COMPETAITVE ABOUT EVERYTHING. EVERY CONVERSATION OR EVENT IS A CHANCE TO OUT DO A GUY. ITS A HUGE TURNOFF. ALSO CONCEATED WOMEN PISS ME OFF. ESSPECIALLY ONES WHO ARENT THAT ATTRACTIVE WHO TALK THEMSELVES UP LIKE THEY ARE GODS GIFT TO MEN. AND CONVERSLY PRETTY GIRLS WHO ARE ALWAYS NEGATIVE ABOUT ONE THING OR ANOTHER ABOUT THEMSELVES.
I don’t like people who are really loud and/or obnoxious in inappropriate public places. If you want to be a jerk at home fine, but don’t ruin the movie I paid to see or the restaurant I paid to eat in. I don’t want to have to hear your fight with your spouse on your cell while I’m trying to browse in a bookstore.
Oh and don’t put MY life in danger by driving too fast and aggressively because you were offended by the way someone passed you on the highway.
Chauvanistic pigs and guys with more muscle cells than brain cells.
Rudeness………and not to be intentionally rude……. but sometimes ur blog is a trainwreck!!!!!!!! (but never dull or boring) lol.
Lies followed in a close second by intentional stupidity. Lack of personal hygine is also a turn off.
Intellect is a big turn on for me
People that base their worth on being better than others.
Also vaginal odor is pretty scary, but sometimes you just gotta hit it and quit it…
That’s hilarious! Um, I’d have to say a guy with no ambition in life isn’t acceptable to me…physically it’d have to be ugly eyebrows…that may sound dumb but I always notice eyebrows for some reason and it bothers me when someone has ugly one’s.
the HAIRY ARMPITS
i would say…
Long dirty nails
Body odour or a guy with a hairy back *ew*
I mean like a mat on his back.
I can’t IM you, I don’t know how to because I don’t know your sign in names. *sobs*
Mine are devilishang3lic on yahoo and jules@axenet.org on msn
body hair and stupidity.
Foul odor [bad breath, B.O., etc.].
A close second is rudeness. Someone can be a god/goddess, but if they are jerks, I’m done.
arrogance, brashness, body odor… insincerity (sp), infidelity(sp),idiocy, boring… someone who isn’t passionate for what they believe in, now THAT is horrible…
Smoking. The most beautiful girl in the world is instantly not attractive if she smokes. Getting drunk, fornication, and rudeness are also major turnoffs
definitely smoking.
Bad grammar.
Smoking and sailor mouths.
Lack of confidence in a guy is a huge turn-off. A man needs to know whohe is and be comfortable in his own skin… and I don’t mean a arrogant confidence that is masking insecurities… because I’ve seen plenty of that!
I mean an inner strength… without that, a guy is not attractive to me.
I thought your question was in total regard to physical atributes only?
aw.. i knew a few girls like that in high school. they’re usually the foreign exchange students from asia. there’s plenty of reasons for that tho. i’m sure she shaved them by now :p it’s such a turn off bcuz you were so used to girls not having hair there.
i dislike gross teeth.
Hmm….Personality wise, I don’t like guys who get really clingy because they think I’m interested in them. I mean, it’s okay to call or IM or whatever, but don’t pursue me every second of the day or I’m going to freak out and not want to see you anymore. If I don’t get back to you for a long, long, long, long, long time, it’s a hint. Take it.
Physically, I have to admit, men with beady little eyes that dart around like he’s looking for some foot to come through the ceiling and squash ’im turn me off. Probably sounds superficial, but for pity’s sake, look me in the face when you’re talking to me! B.O. is also pretty bad, but that’s fixable, as some have said.
A girl with a Mustache.
girls on here say they hate cocky guys…yet they go out with them
A GUY WHO ACTS LIKE A JACKASS JUST TO “GET YOUR ATTENTION”…
stupidity, smoking, and extremely emotional. in that order
guys who are full of themselves!! way too cocky… and bad breath and bad B.O.
yea, girls always complain and get hurt by “cocky guys” yet the pass up the nice guys and go out with the cocky guys over and over again. what’s the deal there ladies?
oh, and also if they aren’t a Christian and aren’t striving to be more like Christ
oh, and also if they aren’t a Christian and aren’t striving to be more like Christ
Pettiness is unattractive.
Insincerity
Idiots that don’t wear deodorant and don’t notice that they REEK! SICK!
Ewwww!!!! I hate it when guys have excess hair-face, back, chest, even if their hair is too long. My hubby is ex military and he still wears it in a buzz, which I really like. Smoking is definitely a turn off. On women, too much makeup or 80s hair is nasty. That’s just physical though-I could go on and on about personality stuff.
this entry made me laugh.
i liked it.
people that try too hard.
piercings on the face.
Honestly, the biggest turn off for me is stupidity/ignorance. I dont mean to say that if someone isnt a genius they arent attractive, I mean that when someone chooses not to learn new things or chooses to keep their eyes closed to certain subjects, I find that highly unattractive.
Girls that constantly, nonstop, talk about only themselves.
some one who snorts and sucks up phlem! ewww
In no particular order -
Arrogance, indecisiveness, lack of ambition, the inability to understand the words “no” “stop” “enough” “quit it” & “leave me alone”, selective hearing, stupidity, drunkenness, doing drugs, being perverted, nose picking, burping & farting with no apology, the inability to admit when you’re wrong, bad manners, chauvanism, lack of sensativity, being an emotional brick wall, playing video games 24/7, using the phrase “tap that” “hit that” or “totally boneable”, fake laughter, body oder, grubby nasty ripped clothing, ungroomed facial & body hair including unibrows, ear hair, nose hair & combovers, fear of getting serious, inability to communicate on more than just an ESPN sports stats level, having a poor memory, uncontrollable anger, lack of creativity, joking about the size of your penis (and yes, I do mean joking), inability to be spontaneous, not having an imagination, lack of intelligence, over use of the phrase “I can’t”, being a stalker, having weird/crazy/icky fetishes, not being able to take a joke, depression, being hard core conservative, traditional, & dominiring, being a wimp, lacking confidence, lacking passion, lacking romance, being willingly ignorant, being voluntarily uncultured, not wanting to learn new things, not being adventerous, not appreciating fantasy, wearing too much cologne, smoking, being a racist/biggot/bigamist/ or just genrally being a prick, being a two-faced back stabber, not keeping your promises, not loving who you are, hating others, unrelenting stubborness, unwillingness to compromise, lack of integrity, lack of moral and ethical values, wearing your pants down around your knees, showing off your thong hanging out of your jeans which, while you’re a size zero, make it look like you have fat rolls because your kidneys on either side are popping out because they’re too tight, wearing your tops cut so low taht one wrong move could result in janet jackson clothing malfunction at the superbowl style humiliation, saying “like” or “um” with every other breath, playing tonsil hockey in public, bad breath, not being weight concious and healthy, being narrow-minded, being excessively judgemental, and there are probably more, but that’s what easily comes to mind.
Being arrogant and not being able to listen to what the other person has to say at all. Like everything has to be their way.
Armpit hair is a pretty big turn off. A nice, toned stomache makes up for a lot tho. HA! A bloated head that is too big for her own good is a major no no, for me. They are usually rude, obnoxious and overly conceited. I hate that. Nothing wrong with confidence, but one can be confident while being a pleasant person.
my biggest turnoff with a guy is sloppy eating.
and immaturity.
oh, and I hate it when they have really bad teeth with bad breath…
Girls with mustaches.
oh yeah, and people who intentionally try to make other people look stupid.
Bad breath!
physical- body odor
there are deeper turnoffs that are not physical, though.
physical- body odor
there are deeper turnoffs that are not physical, though.
drunk. think they’re full of themselves. being a different person depending on who they’re with.
sorry about that double post^
didn’t mean to. oops!
as a personality trait? seriously hitting on me when you know i am married (joking around is another thing) which i guess is really bad manners (yes! bad manners it is)
as a physical thing? bad personal hygiene, whether it is body odor or bad breath or unwashed hair… doesn’t matter… all grosses me out
Interesting. I think this has really become a post about the importance of hygeine! Physical turn-offs: I will defer to my last statement.
Other turn-offs: His intellect should meet or exceed mine, and he needs to be able to stand his ground against me in an argument. My husband meets both of those requirements. Whew!
OMIGOSH ya live in Springfield?!…oh, Springfield Illinois. I live in Springfield Ohio…………………btw, another big turnoff is when the girl keeps insulting you like its the most hilarious thing in the world……I hate that, mainly because I have a lot of stuff you can make fun of…very easily.
Let me clarify: if he does not meet or exceed my intellect, or if he is wimpy, then I am turned off!
Women with gross and ugly feet
Looks like Izly ain’t going on any dates anytime soon, hahaha,
:)
I missed these Dan…
Let’s see…. extreme cockiness, ignorance, laziness, hair in unwanted places… you know, the gross/annoying stuff!
Turn offs: Smoking. Excessive drinking/drunkenness. Prejudice. Arrogance. Rudeness. Superficiality. Short men.
super, sugary sweetness. gag.
btw, i think i’d be gagging if i was you reading through all of these unattractive traits.
In some European countries, women do not save their armpits-in fact-by men in that country I believe it is considered sexy. I shave mine, as I feel more comfortable that way. Biggest turn off? Bad b.o. and very poor grammar
Facial Hair on men. It makes them look deceptive as if the are hiding something. Ugh.
Ugh that would be a pretty big one if I were you… but I think as far as physical traits go… guys with excessive facial hair. Just don’t like that. Also if a guy is shorter than me, not too crazy about that.
Oh and since so many people are mentioning personality traits…I agree with repatrick. I hate fake sugary sweetness. I hate guys that call their girlfriends “darling” ALL the time and treat them as if they are too weak and naive to contemplate anything. I don’t mind a guy taking the lead as long as he recognizes I have some intelligence too.
I feel that I should not be turned off by hairy pits or legs or bush gone wild on women, but – alas – I am.
I blame women for conditioning me to expect strict follicular discipline in females. I would prefer hair on the head only – the rest shaved.
Moustaches also make me cringe.
I think I have said enough.
L,r
negative winny attitude, being just plain stupid, yea and hair thing
You are probably right. I’m really not worried about it, I am happy with where we are its just trying to explain that to people is kinda hard. Especially my girl friends who think the whole thing should happen a certain way.
Unattractive uh? If they stink. I have a problem with smells. I notice I tend to treat my smelly students differently than my non-smelly ones even.
Guys shorter than me. I know it sounds discriminatory but I don’t think I could ever date a guy shorter than me.
lol armpit hair and ditsyness…weird smells are bad too.
liars and people who arn’t dependable.
Personal hygiene!
Gross teeth or a real bad sense of humor.
HAHAHAHAH. That’s HILARIOUS.
Anyway, I think one of my biggest turn offs is bad breath. Ugh.
pit hair, smoking, foul mouth, drunks, sluts
hairy armpits on a gal would do it. For a guy it would be bad breathe or nose picking
Physically: A lot of body hair.
Other than that: Arrogance and a superiority complex.
It’s interesting how perverted our society has become, that altering our bodies is so “the norm” that leaving things natural has become disgusting…sad. It would definitely take some getting used to. I have a few friends who live naturally and do not shave. Now, if we all left it be from infancy it wouldn’t be so bad, but when you have shaved and then you stop, from any area, more grows in than what you started with
Turn offs for me are poor hygeine and expressing body noises frequently and in public.
big hairy feet ew
Too much Make Up…
Um, ugliness. That’s…not good.
People using perfume or cologne to smell better since they wont bathe their body!
Analovesmeeee
I don’t have to go on any dates – I’m married!
People who constantly try to put others down to make themselves feel dominate,
EWW!
On a purely physical level, I’m not fond of sideburns.
Going deeper than that, I’d say arrogance.
I love your stories!
Predjudice.
or maybe ignorance.
Physically?
Guys who are really muscular. Eh.
Personality?
An arrogant sexist jerk who degrades females.
[ariana]
Did this question come from watching Survior last night? Give that poor girl a razor. Ick.
IZLY
Who’s the unlucky guy, haha
Smoking…drinking…nasty things that gross people out. Another big thing: acne…ugh just imagine kissing someone with a bunch of acne on their face. It would be like sucking puss…nasty!!
probably same as you. or body odor.
Smoking
really really obnoxious guys who call girls and other people derogatory names.
Ew, arm hair. D:
racism
“IZLY
Who’s the unlucky guy, haha”
LoL very funny. Not to sound arrogant, but he’s not unlucky – we’re really happy together. He’s a fun loving laid back USN sailor and he doesn’t have any of the problems on the list – well, not all the time.
Rudeness in general.
Oh yeah…
SMOKING.
Toothpick legs. Unfluffy hair.
-Shudder.-
It’s kind of a 3-way tie between deliberate ignorance, intolerance, and blind devotion to an idiotic and evil regime.
You know, God put hair on armpits for a reason. Who are we to insist that people shave it off?
Think about it.
Perpetual complainers; people who have to launch into a sermon every time they run across something they don’t like.
Know it alls.
people who judge others by their size.
a smoker.
people who blab-blab-blab loudly
people who think they’re too good/proper/old for something, not being able to be silly.
Arm pit hair and other body hair like leg hair and facial hair, hair that girls should shave off.
I can’t stand a man with a messed up grill .. (teeth that is)!
girls who think theyre all that
BO, Smoking… I could go on
basically any guy that acts like an asshole, or puts people down. jerks.
You guys should all listen to Dane Cook’s Standup Portion titled “Turn On’s/Turn Off’s”. Heh, anyways to me… if i find a girl who i think is ‘my type’ i doubt that anything physical can be over come, of couse she has to be the perfect girl. Bad breath heck guys, buy her some gum u dont have to shove it in her mouth, just offer it to her. Girls just give the man the gum (flavor he likes) and he won’t refuse. Physical stuff like a ‘smalll rack’ as previously mentioned or a little ass really don’t matter to me and stuff like armpit hair can be shaved off and bad body odor can be treated with a nice gift of cologne/perfume. Theres nothing a little lust and love can’t over come… besides death that is… well if you have read ‘Like Water For Chocolate’… then uyou might beg to differ….
-@};-
Fucked up teeth.
Arrogance and egocentricity over anything else. Mostly personality traits that I can’t stand. But physically…long hair and facial hair. I find it soo unappealing.
Arrogence, lack of honesty, “ghetto” look with pants hanging off their butt, and a general disrespect of women. Oh and smoking, bad breath, and smelly-ness.
That’s it lol
Pessimism or Arrogance.
Either is pretty replusive.
extreme ignorance or hate
u letting the girl feel smart just cuz u thought she was pretty
Guys who don’t understand you are not into them
especially when you say “You know I’m not going to date you, You don’t need to pick up my check”
Mean guys who pick out your flaws.
~*~Paige~*~A.K.A.Twinkie!!! Boomboxx!!!
Being a shallow self centered pig of a human being, being insincere and being vindictive. Uncompassionate acts and being shallow. Living life on the dark side
Boring writing.
stinky pussy. lol. and for those people who said superficiality, i hate to break it to you, but the world bends over backward for attractive people. in the end, it always helps to be hot.
stupid stuff, like smoking, drinking, being full of yourself, but then again have extremely low self esteem and putting themselves down all the time annoys me too…
Biggest turn off?? Extreme fat–pot bellies hanging over belts. Waddling because of extreme weight.
Also, extreme body odor is a big turn off.
Also, female moustaches, even if they are sparce…
smoking.
I may be wierd but..when my husband comes home from work.. there is a slight under arm ordor ( not strong at all) And it makes me want to sit on his lap and kiss him. H’es work so hard for his family and this is a turn on for me. Wait this is suppose to be about turn offs.. umm… shaved under arm pits in men, thats just sick. Bad breath, food in teeth, scrawny, and believe it or not.. if a man can not put up a tent.. I could never be with him. I have broken up with a guy because he couldn’t put up a tent. Ohhh.. and very needy men.
Christina
I would have to say guys that are really vain.
hello
I have LOTS.
1. Cocky, loud people 2. Jerks 3. People that act ditzy and pretend to be dumb 4. Facist, bigot type people 5. People that refuse to change their opinion 6. People with bad hygiene 7. People who do nothing but sit and watch TV 8. People who don’t exercise and sit around wondering why their fat 9. Know it alls 10. Teacher’s pets, goody two shoes 11. Sanctimonious / pompous people
That’s about all, unless I can think of more.
ewwww that prolly cant be topped
People who have a difficult time making up their minds on doing something. People need to be confident at who they are and what they are about. If a woman doesn’t have that level of confidence…than its a huge turn off for me.
Hypocracy and the misapplication of the term “tolerance”
bad breath
Selfish, arrogant guys.
i’ve heard that in some countries, men actually like that in a woman
smoking stupidness jerkish lazyness drinking being dumb to proctactive alot more…..Im so picky
Bad hygiene and close-minded beings.
SMOKING or Drugs
Cussing
Alcohol
Alcohol
turn off yes
but does it realy rune the fact that shes a good person
not really
beer bellies, yea thats not gonna work. Also if we’re out in public, have at least some manners, especially if at dinner.
People who act liek their incompetent in order to gain stuff from me.
Over confidence-ness. And rudeness.
guys that want me for all the wrong reasons
bad habits-smoking and drinking
if they really fat or really skinny
arent strong
turn off…probably being a sex-addict, and or a whore. one that has sex way to much.
I’m a girl, but I think the biggest turn-off ever, is a girl who wears revealing tops, with her aureole, out of her bra. Sick!
It seems like there are more physical things that turn guys off about girls. Has anyone else noticed that. I mean a guy can have a pitted face, or B.O., or be all greasy, or have too big of a nose, or have skinny legs, or be overweight or whatever, and if he’s cool, he can still get the girls. But a GIRL, if a girl has any of the above qualities, she is pretty much DOOMED for life! LOL.
So in my case, being a girl, obviously, hairy armpits wouldn’t turn me off, but there are a couple of physical things that do. If a girl can’t be ugly, but a guy can, then the same is true in reverse. Guys that are really “pretty” or that pose when they stand, or that go work out at the gym in spandex, or that shave ANY part of their body besides their face, or that overstyle their hair are a total turn off. I guess you could say that any man that is metrosexual is not for me. I don’t want a guy that knows what mauve is, much less wears it!
hehe I’ve seen some women on the train with their legs or armpits not shaved..European I guess..but it doesn’t bother me much..
a turn off? liers
Selfishness, a lack of curiosity about life, and a lack of empathy for others.