I was talking to a girl years ago while sitting in the computer lab at school. She was a pretty young lady. She was really smart. She had this way about looking you right in the eyes and drawing you in. She was in one of my classes and we had talked from time to time. We were having such a good conversation while she was helping me with my assignment.
One of the ways I would get help back in high school was to pretend to be incompetent in order to get people to do things for me. I was letting this girl feel like the smartest girl in the school. I remember thinking to myself, “I wonder why I have never noticed this girl before.” She was a foreign exchange student.
Then at one moment she lifted up her arm and I could see she had hair on her armpits. She did not shave them.
What is the biggest turn off to you?