October 26, 2006
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Kissing
My friend happydeviant dealt with this issue before but my last post and the comments reminded me of the issue.
During my last post some people came by and mentioned that Bob Corker’s daughter was hot. In one of the photos on her facebook, she was kissing another woman.
It appears to me that people think lesbian kissing is hot. But if I put a photo of two gay guys kissing up, many people would say it was gross.
Why is lesbian kissing considered hot while gay kissing is considered icky?
Comments (200)
double standard.
i never understood men’s infatuation w/ 2 women anyway.
the same reason naked girls are hot and naked guys are not.
idk!
good question. i don’t get it.
^yeah i guess that’s true!
“the same reason naked girls are hot and naked guys are not.”
that’s what i meant what true.
Because women are attractive. Men are not.
some girls think gay guys kissing is hot.. if they’re attractive.
I don’t know.
Most women are attractive.
Men tend not to be.
I honestly am just rambling.
I have no clue.
What? I think two men kissing is HOT!!! Much hotter than two girls kissing!
personally i think gay kissing can be attractive..
men are devil’s creation. women are not. =D
Not true. Many girls I know think guys kissing = hotness.
I personally don’t. I mean, I’m all for lesbian/gay makeoutage, geez. But two girls kissing just to impress a guy is a little.. wacky. Geez girls. Come on.
Uhmmm, guys kissing guys is hot too. Its just because it is innately sexual, yet the lack of your gender gets rid of the subconcious jealousy of watching heterosexual kissing.
good question. idk.
And what’s with your underlying hostility towards gay men anyway, Mr. Lewis?
I don’t think either one is hot, honestly. Good grief.
guys kissing is hot .
My comment sounded a bit rude.
I meant..
I’m not a homophobe or anything.
But lots of girls make out with other girls to be cool.
That’s not cool.
…That’s what I meant.
Actually, both are nasty.
woo ! first page !!!
I dunno. Just cause the ones who decide “hot” are usually guys, I guess.
well, i think if society or the media promotes gay kissing as attractive, it’d probably be. our perspective will be shifted.
because the 2 women kissing appeals to the male sex drive… the male libido is the most apparents thing about us…
a woman would be appealed to a guy with emotional quality or fashion sense, but guys arent attracted to that in a girl…
I don’t know.
It all depends on who is doing the considering. A straight guy will find both of the girls attractive but neither of the men, therefore with the girls, heat embraces heat, and the result – to his emotions – is a very hot and therefore exciting situation, and he will excuse it’s unconventionality, but with the two guys he will do otherwise.
Reverse all this for a gay guy. Women I can’t speak for, not being one.
Some peole think gay guys kissing is hot… if the two guys are good-looking. In my opinion, I think both is okay, but not anything to show off in the public.
Who’s making the comments? My guess it’s the guys.
I think it is because most men fantasize themselves with the two lesbians…
while women just tend to hate the fact they would never have a chance with the hot gay guy.
Because you’re asking guys, duh. I think gay guys are hot.
thats it; more kissing; this time make it a differant picture please. oh yes seeing it twice back to back like that is sexy!! oh yes!! oh the question?? who gives a rats @ss right now; bring on the sexy KISSING lesbians baby!! men love to see girls make out with eachother and kiss one another and touch eachother and to their bodies grinding against eachother.
girls however dont normally like to see two guys kiss; nore do i. so i agree with girls. seeing men kiss is gross.
so lets get it on with the girl on girl Action. notice i spelled action with a captial “A” as in Awsome.
besides lesbians rights and support for lesbians has increased because there are more of them; good for them; and the men are not going to fight against girl power. are you kidding?? go against girl power; NO WAY i like living Thank you very much.
Plus females make up 59 percent of the world population as of right now.
bring on the girls kissing please!!!
i think it’s gross….
but that’s just me
Plus females make up 59 percent of the world population as of right now. is the biggest faction; sorry for the rantting.
i dont think its hot
lol i think both is hot
I HAVE ALWAYS WONDERED THIS. I ask all my guy friends and they don’t know why either- “it just is.” Though I think two guys kissing could be attractive too, and I’m not sure why. Aaah… human desire is a funny thing.
because girls are cuter. its cute when 2 girls kiss. its just wierd when 2 guys kiss cuz guys arnt supposed to be ‘cute’ like that.
I dunno, but I find both a little unsettling.
personally i find both untasteful……. but yes i am more grossed out by two gay guys than two girls, but maybe it has also to do with the fact that naturally girls seem more comfortable with their own gender even if they are not gay, and guys on the other hand are not……… but it also has to do with the fact that guys are perves allot of the time………….
I’ve never has an impulse to kiss another girl……It’s men only for me Dan.
I think it’s a male fantasy…..
Candy
I actually know a lot of people who think two guys kissing is REALLY hot. It’s funny, coz I have actually heard that tons more than I ever have girls…
But, both I don’t understand.
So I am not much of a help.
same thing goes with why it’s okay for girls to go to the restroom at the same time but it’s not okay for guys
Hm personally I don’t think guys kissing is too bad. It can be cute, both are weird to be around gay or not just because well.. nobody wants to be around people making out now do they? lmao.. Awwkwaardd.
I think the reason people see girls kissing is hot or something.. is kind of the same reason a lot of people draw/take pictures of women more than men? Girls just have more sex appeal, something about curves and flowing, being beautiful etc.
Whoohoo listen to the rambling! I should go find the article that somebody actually wrote about this.
I, personally, dont think either are, in any way, the least bit attractive.
I especially hate the Girls Gone Wild commercials on Comedy Central after midnight that last, what would seem to be, 15 minutes.
Sadly, in today’s sick world, people find both of those so “Hawt!”
Its gross.
I think that gay and lesbian kissing is gross…
Because people are hypocrites.
guys consider it “double the pleasure, double the fun”
I’ve always wondered that, so I asked a guy once. He replied that it’s sexy when girls kiss because it shows the potential that with TWO girls there would twice as many boobs to touch and twice as many hands to touch him…
gross.
I have nothing against gay/lesbians, I just don’t want to see it, even if you’re straight.
lesbian kissing is icky too.
I don’t know. I don’t get it. And I don’t get what men find appealing about watching girls do it with each other.
Well I don’t find guys hot, so generally two guys kissing is doubly not hot. I find women hot, and consequently two women kissing is doubly hot.
i dunnoo…you would have to ask a guy.
It’s a subliminal trigger that all males have. As soon as they see girls kissing, it’s all “OMGZ HAWTTT!!!1!”
i think both are hot….
But its not hot. Neither of them are in my opinion.
I dunno why that is. I happen to like gay and lesbian kissing/porn. I guess I’m just weird.
i want to know the exact same thing. i’ve been asking that question for a while now.
i don’t know…
Well, I’m a lesbian, so the answer is in the question on that one.
However I think 2 men kissing is beautiful. Not hot, b/c I find boys icky in general, but not gross at all.
because people are gay. it’s the same fuckin thing! =)q
It’s all personal presence… whats that word for it… Arbitrary.
a) b/c girls are pretty
b) b/c to most guys, the more girls and the less risk of commitment, the better; whereas, to girls (disclaimer: speaking generally and stereotypically, again), it’s all about commitment and having one guy love you.
I believe that’s the general consensus.
I think this picture is gross
who the heck knows? whenever guys “explain” to me where the attraction lies i always think (btw, i know i am cynical) that they are really just feeling that way because they are told that they are supposed too. personally i think both ways are Gross…note the the capital G.
Both are a perversion of the wonderful gift of sex that was given to us by God. God’s gift of sex was to be only between a man and a woman within marriage. God created woman to be a helper to man, to be able to complete Adam, as it were. The very nature of our separate anatomies teaches us that men and women were made for each other. Romans 1:26, 27 speak of this clearly where it says:
“Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.”
And please, don’t call me a homophobe or think I’m “intollerant” – I firmly believe that sin is sin, whether it be portrayed through a homosexual act, or a heterosexual one. Just like I don’t want to watch an unmarried straight couple making out, I don’t want to see a gay couple doing it either. Both are taking this wonderful gift of sex that God created (for both pleasure and procreation) to bring a husband and wife together and perverting it & twisting it out of place. Sex is wonderful. It’s a shame that we have distorted it so much.
I,ve never found either to be hot…
I ave no idea.
NO IDEA. My friends and I have asked our guy friends about this and they can never come up with a real reason.
i dont get it. i think gay guys kissing is cute like aww look at that couple! buti dont get turned on by that or say, “damn that guy is so hottt!!” so i dont get why guys feel that way about lesbians….
Its because as a society it is more socially acceptable for women to be physically affectionate with one another. I kiss my platonic girlfriends all the time.
However male friends rarely even hug. So it’s weird and makes people uncomfortable.
That is all
that is a question i’ve always wondered about… and I still don’t know the answer to it. My boyfriend even told me that he wouldn’t consider it cheating if I kissed a girl.. but if I kissed a guy it would be…. I’ve never understood it.
I don’t know what’s up with that double standard. Personally, I think both gay and lesbian kissing is hot.
nobody likes too much penis. i know i dont
cause two dicks, dont mix, bitch.
okay this will really sounds bad, but it depends on the guys…. okay shoot me now, I said it.
Both are preverted.
I have no idea.
Posting lewd pictures of barely post-pubescent girls?
I wasn’t aware you were a member of the clergy, Dan.
You should have told me sooner…I know a couple of
naive, innocent children who do anything they’re told.
Just give me a ring, Dan.
Because men a visual pigs and like to watch girl doing sexual things without having to see another guy in picture.
Nuf said
They’re both replusive
However, the reason guys think girls kissing is hott, is because guys are generally visually stimulated
while girls are generally emotionally or verbally stimulated, therefore don’t find pictures of men kissing as being “hott”
At one time, God nad all them en of the world agreed that two woman making out was hot. So, God created Lesbians. Some men decided it would be funny if some guys acted gay. It was kind of funny at first. Then they some how messed up their genetics. We all the know the rest
Call me a greak but I think gay kissing is hot, lesbian kissing is hot, hetrosexual kissing is hot… but I’m Bisexual so I guess my opinion doesn’t really matter then does it? I believe in many societies it’s just more widely accepted when women kiss or engage in sex with other women than it is when men do these things with other men. I believe it all goes way back to ancient times when men had many wives and concubines and even to more modern times before Mormons stopped practicing polygamy. Like it or not women have always been sex objects/possessions throughout time and seeing two women kiss is just more acceptable because of this.
Because people are prejudiced.
i don’t know! i’ve always wondered it though. i’ve even asked some of my guy friends and they couldn’t explain it either
Women are shapely and curvy and beautiful. Men are hairy lumps.
I think it depends on a single person. While yes, lesbian kissing is known that more people think it’s hot than not. However, there are also people (even some who have commented already) who think two guys kissing is hot. Personally I think, while all kinds of kissing can be pictured romantic… I prefer male/female kissing. Then again, it’s what I can relate to.
If I knew… I would really answer that question… but my girliez and me have always been puzzled by this male aspect.
‘Cause it’s girls
hahaha, wow! no comment! oh the irony in what i just said!
Some girls think two guys kissing is hot.
Um…what? Gay guys kissing is EXTREMELY attractive to me. My friends make fun of me for it, but it’s just appealing as all get out. I don’t think women kissing is sexually exciting AT ALL. call me crazy.
I’m not going to waste my life commenting on this kind of stuff. Life is to short. What if a person spent the rest of their life living as if right choices mattered? Instead of like cattle, steers in heat. Moo.
gay kissing is hot.
basically.
Girls are prettier!
I agree with the woman are hot men are not thing that all of the chicks have been saying. lol
I don’t get it either. But for me, kissing is just kissing whether it’s between male/female, male/male, or female/female. Kissing between two people who care very much for one another is really beautiful to me. That picture between the two girls doesn’t appeal to me, not because it features two females but because it is obvious they are only doing it for kicks. “Lyk, ommmg, I am a gurl and I just totally kissed another gurl. Look at me, I am soooo hawt!!”
I’m not a man, so I can’t really speak for them. But I think they mostly consider lesbian kissing hot rather than gay kissing simply because women are involved. But it’s only a turn-on if they’re “hot”, of course.
I think it’s cute when boys kiss. The idea of butt sex makes me cringe a little, but hey…
Aw c’mon. Almost every straight man is at least a little homophobic.
that being said, chyeah. two chicks kissing is gnarly. w00t.
Because men don’t think with their heads…at least, the heads above their belts.
I have to agree with the commenter who said, “Its because as a society it is more socially acceptable for women to be physically affectionate with one another.”
As far as I’m concerned, lips have no gender. If someone blindfolded you and then you felt a pair of lips on yours, you couldn’t tell if it was a male or a female. As far as I’m concerned, any kissing is hot because it leads you fantasize about what happens later.
Well, woman (not lesbians) kiss each other. I kiss my dear friends on the cheek, but not on the lips. Women are more into kissing each other…..I am talking about only friendship here not sexual and not lesbians. Men kissing men on the lips is GROSS and even on the cheek is gross, EXCEPT when it is a son kissing his dad. That is okay until a certain age that is. Men shake hands…..women kiss on the cheek.
Because the porn industry is dominated by male chauvinist pigs.
That is a double standard held by some people. I don’t find to guys kissing any grosser than a het couple kissing. Kissing should not be considered gross.
Shalom!
Not hot, that is just as gross
To all of the people who think that lesbian kissing is gross, thank you. I find it hilarious that people are so damn sexually insecure.
To answer the question, it’s just another double-standard our society has. Like if a guy gets laid often, it’s an admirable trait, but if a woman does it, she’s a slut.
Guys kissing is extremely hott.
“Men kissing men on the lips is GROSS and even on the cheek is gross, EXCEPT when it is a son kissing his dad. That is okay until a certain age that is. Men shake hands…..women kiss on the cheek.
Posted 10/26/2006 at 9:48 PM by lead_mare”
So Paul must’ve been like soooooo gay ’cause he exhorted the ‘brethren’ to greet one another with a holy kiss!
I wouldn’t call it icky at all!
It’s lovely.
I actually think gay guys kissing is a little hot. I shouldn’t think so, but there it is.
But I think most women understand 2 men kissing as a rejection of them, and that is something that men don’t understand about lesbians. They’d rather be kissing a girl than you, guys. It’s not really for you. Unless they’re silly enough to do so…
Two women kissing is attractive to some males, but two men kissing is attractive to some females. I’ve asked these questions to many people before, too. They all ask me the same thing. Stupid no-answering people.
i actually hate that but its true some girls do think guys kissing is hot but mostly its guys who think girls kissing is hot but the thing is they only like it if they can watch so they like a girl being bi and i guess they like it because they can sorta be with two girls at once
Omg in that picture of the girls they look like twin sisters. Their hair is alike and everything. Anyway, guys always seem to think that girls kissing is hot but I don’t really get why at all!
I know some of my friends think guys kissing guys is hot but I don’t really see that either… How about guys kissing girls? Yeah, that’s hot!
I think people are just turned on by kissing period.
I personally think kissing of the same sex is disgusting.
Um…I wouldn’t complain if you put up pics of two hot guys kissing… I think it’s more socially acceptable for women to be into each other, simply because men run the world, and they think it’s hot… Probably. Something like that.
a guy i know explained that the main reason is because when there are two girls kissing, males are attracted to both and so this looks sexy. girls are normally not so visually stimulated, so seeing two guys kiss isn’t something we really care for, and guys don’t care to see at all. i think that gay guys may think that two guys kissing is hot.
I think all PDA (public display of affection) is nasty. It doesn’t matter whether it’s two guys or two girls or a girl and a guy. Get a damn room. I don’t need to see anyone slobbering all over each other.
i think two guys kissing is hot. maybe that’s cuz i’m a woman.
it’s a strange double standard.
Women kissing is just… lovely and soft and easy. AND it is still very taboo… so it is even more intriguing.
So I hear! Heheheee!
XoxoxoxoX
I love guys kissing each other… that’s why I never missed an episode of queer as folk!
omg… *sigh*… this is a very 1970′s post… i thought we had moved beyond this…
men often find females kissing each other hot (i don’t want to use the term lesbian since the two women kissing might define their sexual orientation differently) because it does not threaten them in any way. most guys who are into that also have the corollary fantasy that somehow they could be involved in that scene with the two women (another reason it is silly to call that a ‘lesbian’ kiss since obviously that would leave you guys out)… men discount the seriousness of women’s sexuality, so they assume that the kissers are not lesbian and are really just performing for them.
however, males kissing each other is very threatening to the sexuality of most men, and so they describe it as gross.
regardless of the genders involved in a kiss, if the kiss is hot, i find myself responding, since i can identify with that kiss and want it for myself…
I think that lesbian kissing is gross and gay kissing is hot.
from seinfeld:
“The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It’s for gettin’ around, like a jeep.”
it is the way it is portrayed in the media. if men kissing men were potrayed the same as women kissing women, you wouldn’t be asking this question.
Not everyone thinks it’s “hot”, and only an idiot would think (as I suspect they do) that a lesbian couple are only a whisker away from a threesome.
I think girls in general are just more attractive than guys. It doesnt take a lesbian to tell you that. Anyone can look at the female form and compare it to the male form and see that guys just don’t match up. Women are curvy, and pretty whereas guys are just hairy bafoons.
I love my men, but I’m glad to be a woman.
I don’t think either way is appealing…girl/girl or guy/guy.
dont ask me cause i find it gross either way~
I have no idea why, I just know it is.
I think that women are considered to be more aesthetically pleasing by both sexes. So two women kissing is double the aesthetic pleasure, I suppose.
I guess that the visual of two guys kissing also leads people to think about what other things two guys could be doing – such as intercourse. And intercourse of that nature, I believe, is considered an unpleasant situation to many.
I don’t mind either. But I don’t think any couples ought to be full on kissing in public. When I was younger the public thing didn’t bother me but now (with a bit more wordly experiance behind me) I don’t think it is that appropriate.
both are hot.
i love emo guys kissing. lol.
I think kissing is kissing… I don’t care who does it, I’d rather not see it and I’d rather they not flaunt that they kiss people of the same sex. :3 I think kissing is icky.
uh, it just is. don’t question it.
It’s all down to sensuality. Men will always be considered Masculine while women will always seen Feminine. It’s all about which is more sensual visually.
’nuff said….
I like 2 chicks kissing, but two guys, no, I’d rather shoot myself.
my friends and I have pondered that.
so far no conclusions
I think both are equally gross.
I don’t think that either is attractive.
I don’t think either is hot, either.
Yeah, I think it’s all pretty gross.
I think guys like seeing 2 girls kiss because they imagine themselves between them. Guys aren’t attracted to true lesbians. They want to be with bisexual girls so they can have sex with 2 women at the same time.
I personally think 2 girls making out who are not lesbians is gross because they are are just doing it for male attention.
Note the guy watching the 2 girls. He’s pretending to kiss.
I don’t like to see either gender kissing someone of the same sex, but I am a female. Guys…I am not sure why they like that. That is a good question to ask my boyfriend.
I like to see two dogs kissing, thats always cute!
I think they’re both hot.
I’m not sure but this photo is funny! The guy wants into the action but she’s pushing him away! Poor guy! They should have let him join!
It’s one of those things that make me go “ewwww”, either way.
Women are soft and pretty, men are rough and prickly, which would you rather imagine kissing?
I asked my husband this one as well as took a poll of many other guy friends. My husband gave what I thought was the most sincere answer to describe this double standard among men. Two girls doing anything sexual registers in a mans brain as twice the p***y.
when it comes down to it, women are still commodified in our culture. sad but true. and, for the record, I used to watch Queer as Folk and thought Brian’s back/bathroom scenes were pretty damn hot!!!
…..well i think their both ant that pretty. both gross…lezbos r NOT HOT and gays r even worse…girls look hotter naked….and guys look hotter with atleast their pants on…
lol the thing is………if its true love then it HOT alright. not in vision of corce but mentally.
as women are beatiful creature in the world
I don’t know, I don’t dig either. I’m only turned on when a girl kisses ME.
However, I think part of it has to do with women are naturally more touchy-feely than men are, and are naturally more physically closer than each other. Men look at women as comforting, soft, and pleasant, whereas we hardly look at each other that way — so two soft comforts meeting each other is hardly “icky”. That would be my theory anyway, but I still don’t dig it personally.
I’m sorry to say this but there is absolutely nothing sexy about two males kissing, slobbing on their knobs and having anal intercourse.
It honestly depends on which culture you’re speaking to. If you talk to the so called”emo/scene kid” group, boys kissing is considered “hawt” lol.
I personally find no fault with either scenario.
I think that two guys kissing is not unattractive…
i guess the fact that women are more intimate than men anyway makes it hotter and that it just looks unnatural for guys i guess?
i dunno. if the two guys were hot i’d think them kissing would be hot too xD
Personally, I think two guys kissing is sexier.
is it just men that find 2 women kissing attractive or do women think that aswell?
and is it just women who find 2 men kissing attractive or do some men think it aswell?
It’s all disgusting.
Its purely chemical. The female form could be considered the more beautiful of the two genders in terms of artistic grace, therefore woman x woman = much more chemical reactions.
Girls like to see two attractive men kiss the way that guys like to see two attractive women kiss…women just don’t admit it.
Mmm, lesbian kissing. What was the question?
double standard.
Never heard of that.
I think guys kissing is just as hot.
Not a clue…never really found a weakness for either.
I don’t think it’s icky. Unless they’re ugly.
Ewww. Men have the two women fantasy thing. Women don’t usually enjoy seeing 2 men kiss…
Not all lesbian kissing is hot. Think Rosie or Ellen, or better yet, my neighbors. Yuck.
o___o Both are icky.
Not by me..
I think emo boy+emo boy+kissing=hot..
I think two guys kissing is hot, if the two guys are hot, of course.
-KrIsTiN-
Actually, a lot of girls love when guys kiss. We’re just s’posed to be all ‘well mannered’ and shit so guys are allowed to be as vulgar as they want and say crap about how they think lesbians kissing are sexy and we can’t really say much about 2 guys.
I think it’s hot.
I think both are pretty hot.
im not a lesbian n ive made out wth girls
I think they’re both super hot. And, besides, girls are more open about their sexuality, generally speaking, so lesbians kissing doesn’t gross them out, while most guys in this day and age with effeminite guys being considered a bad thing are insecure or feel the need to affirm their masculinity or whatever, and thus, “ew, gross.”
Uhm…I myself am a lesbian and I don’t find two guys kissing all THAT appealing but whatever. I’d rather see two guys kissing than a man and a woman.
let’s see some men kiss!! well that are not gay
There was a test done actually, to determine what people consider “sexy.” Straight and gay men were shown images of male-female and male-male action, while straight and lesbian women were shown images of male-female and female-female action. Straight men only liked the male-female, while gay men liked only the male-male. However, both sets of women were turned on by both sets of images. Interesting, no?
Men have always dreamed of having two women at the same time and this is the closest that some of them will ever come. Seeing two hairy legs rubbing up on each other just doesn’t kick it for women. This goes back to the statement that men are stimulated visually and women are stimulated mentally.
BAHHH DOUBLE STANDARD.
Anyway, I don’t find either of them icky. Just as I don’t find a man and a woman kissing icky.
Whatever, we’re all human beings, we’re the same species.
Perverts! They’re BOTH wrong, not to mention disgusting!
Because lesbian kissing doesn’t threaten male heterosexuality, two guys kissing does. Guys are just afraid they’ll become gay if they stop thinking it’s “gross.” It’ll change eventually, but I wouldn’t hold my breath.
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Because if two guys are kissing either homophobes are watching them so they thing it’s gross or girls who realize that if anyone is going to get it on tonight it’s the two guys and not them and so dont find it hot.
~Tabby
For me personally I can remember the first time I saw women kissing and of course it was in a porn and found myself stimulated in an odd way.
The only reason I do not find gay men kissing stimulating is because I instantly think anal sex.
These days there are far too many little kids running around claiming to be lesbians or bi as young as 10 and 11 and it brings this huge knot in my stomach and everywhere you go it is encouraged.
Nowadays with all the gay pride you see it everywhere and same sex intimacy is not just in porn anymore. Not just on cable but regular tv. I think it makes an impression on our youth.
I do not understand why so many think the man’s physique is unattactive. Perhaps aesthetically woman are easier on the eyes but men are equally as beautiful.
Lesbian kissing is hot because men find it hot, pretty much. Not to bring gender disparity into play too much, but men dictate a lot of social phenomena in this country (and others), and when they play something up as hot (which from a sociological standpoint, they find hot because men are more visually sexually aroused, and imagine themselves involved in the sexuality they see…and then there’s the “spread the seed” thing…the more women, the hotter, theoretically), it is widely accepted as hot. Women play into this by acting on it, and are thus deemed “hot.” Unfortunately, this is a major driving force of the Western world. Being hot, I mean, not lesbian kissing.
But yeah, men (unless they’re gay) don’t generally find men kissing men hot, as they are not visually/sexually aroused by it, and do not fantasize themselves into the situation. Women, who are less visual when it comes to sexuality, and don’t have the “spread the seed” mentality (theoretically speaking) do not place an emphasis on the hotness of men kissing. So, men find women kissing hot, and it becomes implanted in our culture. Women may or may not find men kissing hot, but don’t play it up much, and it is not implanted in our culture.
that’s because guys like girls, not other guys. So 2 girls kissing is hot to them. and to some girls, gay kissing is hot because it’s 2 guys and girls like guys. I personally don’t like either lol.
i have always wondered that as well.
i always thought two women kissing or two men kissing was equally gross.
i don’t know that’s just me.
“double standard.”
“the same reason naked girls are hot and naked guys are not.” (only works for guys though!)
yep. it’s all because sex is more important to guys than to girls. as you can tell from some girls’ comments, plenty of them like 2 guys together. that’s why…
when you hear about what’s hot and what’s not, it’s mostly from a guy’s point of view, cuz girls just don’t place as much emphasis on it. probably cuz it takes less to turn guys on – at least that’s what i hear.
i mean, think about it – guys see a hot girl, and they think (1) “man, i’d like to get in her pants”, and then (2) “wonder what she’s like, personality-wise.” girls think #2, and then days later, #1 might come to them.
and that’s just how it works.
i guess if i had to pick, i’d prefer the 2 girls (obviously), but i really hate both. what a perversion they are.
What’s with that other guy in the corner?
Hmmm, no idea. Both are as nasty as looking at other people kiss. *shudder*
in my eyes kissing is kissing wether it is straight gay or lesbian it is all the same and it is wrong of people to say anything like that. i believe that kissing same or opposite sex is just another way of showing ur affection and it is not wrong or gross in anyway possible it is just hotttttt!!!!!
good question. i don’t get it.
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