neither. but if I have to choose, I’d rather not be told i’m doing well if in fact I’m not.
undeserved criticism
undeserved criticism. i feel so bad when i get false praise. then when poeple criticize me i can just be like fuck you man i’m right.
Undeserved Criticism, because that would be easier to shrug off that the praise if I found out.
undeserved criticism
False praise. I cant handle criticism.
undeserved criticism hands down… I would be crushed if I ever found out that some of the praise I have gotten was a lie. It would be quite the slap in the face.
Undeserved criticism.
silence
The underdeserved criticism
undeserved criticism…
criticism.
criticism.
Undeserved criticism
how about the truth?? but if that is the options then undeserved criticism because u should know that ur doing well on anything and no matter what others say even if it is bad it won’t change and if it does it’ll make u stronger
That’s hard. If I had to pick, undeserved criticism.
Undeserved sex
Undeserved criticism, so I can tell whoever gave it to fuck off.
Wow – a real question – and that’s not false praise – that it seems to have been a while – ….
I’m going w/ false critisism
I think most people are going to choose Criticism. Being lied to is pretty shitty.
Criticism, imo.
If I couldn’t have the truth, I’d rather have false praise. Undeserved criticism does me no good. At least false praise won’t make me depressed (I’d know it wasn’t real, but I’d rather have a fake positive than a fake negative).
undeserved criticism. Probably if you’re being criticized, you at least did SOMETHING to deserve it (even if it wasn’t necessarily related to what just happened.) Besides, most people aren’t going to give you undeserved criticism unless they don’t like you, so at least you know whether they like you or not. Being lied to sucks.
undeserved citisism
false praise
Does this dress make me look fat?
false praise. i can’t stand critics.
undeserved criticism, because there’s always some truth in it. criticism doesn’t just come out of nowhere
Definitely undeserved criticism.
-Guru on the Hill
Undeserved criticism. But I usually deserve it.
Neither.
Fine. Hate going with the majority, but criticism.
Undeserved criticism; I’d rather be mad and get over it eventually rather than thinking I was awesome when really I just suck.
Neither. Please.
undeserved criticism, but I’ve already had my share of that so I’ll pick neither
false praise
False praise is good, yet it’s false. Underserved critism isn’t. Though give me the truth and I’ll be a happy lil nugget.
False praise.
undeserved criticism, I get that all the time
Both piss me off
I work for the government-I’m used to both. Welcome to my world.
I’d just as soon have a swift kick in the ass.
false praise
er whoops. not that. sorry… iwasnt paying attention. hehe…
undeserved criticism
undeserved criticism
I don’t take criticism well. I’ll take the praise and blow it off.
Criticism.
I guess neither one has any merit, but undeserved criticism has the potential to damage a person, or in my case make me examine or question something, that may not have been a problem in the first place. So I’m gonna go with the first.
On my blog? I really don’t care…just as long as they take the time to read.
undeserved criticism… there might be something to it, even if it’s undeserved; it inspires introspection. false praise serves no purpose whatsoever
undeserved falseness
whats in the box?
false praise. whats the point of choosing undeserved criticism if its not going to help you? false praise won’t help either, but at least you’ll be happier after.
I’d actually just prefer the truth, but between the two….if I had to choose, I’d go with criticism.
undeserved punishment…to experience what our Savior went through
neither
Undeserved criticism.
neither
Fake praise. Critisicm is something I can’t handle.
undeserved criticism… because the I don’t have to feel bad about stealing someone else’s glory, and then I can yell at whoever was criticising me… lol
False praise.
I get both all the time, I have kids. For example, if their behavior is bad & I have to correct them, I hear…..”that’s not fair, you’re mean, you like my sister/brother better than me” (undeserved criticism) But when they get their way or IF they want something I hear…”Mommy, you’re the best, you’re the prettiest mommy ever,” or (personal fav)”have you lost weight?” (false praise)
criticism…
I would have to say – Undeserved criticism unless of course a raise came with the false praise.
Undeserved criticism. I may not be able to handle the truth, but if you think I look fat in these pants, you’d better tell me. I’d rather be criticised and given the chance to improve than be told I’m good when I’m really not.
I’d rather take the undeserved criticism because if it was from somebody on xanga, I could ignore them pretty easily. And if in person, I’d still take it because I think I’ve examined myself enough to know when someone criticizes something I’m NOT bad at doing. If that makes sense. Which it might not. Yeah.
~Victoria
Undeserved criticism, ’cause then you get the right to rant about it on Xanga. If you’re given false praise, people tend to think you’re arrogant, even though you’re not the one who claimed to be so great.
False praise. I can at least pretend it’s real…
Then again with undeserved criticism I could just say they were wing nuts…
i don’t know….in the long run undeserved criticism, as i wouldn’t want to get a big head…i don’t know which i’d chose
undeseraved criticism.
false praise!
i would definitely have to go with false praise, because i can usually see through people’s shallowness pretty easily, but undeserved criticism i usually can’t see through, so i go around obsessing over this problem that i don’t even really have.
Undeserved criticism… I’m use to that.
false praise
death
i’m too used to false criticism stinkin’ baptists!
I don’t understand why so many people think undeserved criticism has truth to it. The way I interpret it, undeserved criticism is criticism that doesn’t apply to anything you did (“undeserved”), and perhaps is a result of jealousy on the part of the critic. How is that a good thing?
undeserved criticism
Undeserved criticism
Hmm…false praise does seem better than undeserved/false criticism. I wonder what the majority vote is. Interesting. Yet neither are so great…I’d go with the more positive one if I really must choose. False praise, you have my vote.
Undeserved criticism.
false praise. I always found some odd enjoyment of taking credit for others great acts.
i’d prefer being criticised for doing something good, then praised for doing something wrong…
cuz at least i know what ive done is worthwhile… regardless of what others think…
False praise or undeserved critisizim. That sounds like being a movie star. Sure, I’d like to be a movie star. Larry Bond. 007&1/2. Brother of James.
Steak… but sometimes chicken… mostly steak…
Criticism.
well if i had to pick one i guess i’d go with false praise. undeserved criticism just makes me angry and upset. if i can’t get the truth, i might as well feel good about it …
Honestly, false praise. It doesn’t hurt so bad. But then, undeserved criticism probably builds more character than the other.
Neither
Neither
LIE TO ME!!! False Praise…
Hehehe! XoxoxoX
Undeserved criticism. I don’t want false praise…I’ve seen false praise turn decent children into egotistical little monsters who think too highly of themselves.
false praise, it’ll make ya feel good, even if it’s just for a while… but.. then again.. don’t let yer head explode with ego….
undeserved criticism
Undeserved criticism.
undeserved criticism.
neither.
I’d rather not be noticed.
neither.
Criticism
neither…
undeserved criticism is so sad…
well, i think lying really just sucks because obviously it’s just a way of being nice.
but undeserved criticism………isn’t nice at all lol.
neither. but probably undeserved criticism as false praise will only make u feel really down once u know that it’s all lies..if u get undeserved criticism then u know that u didnt actually deserve it..hehe
I wonder why some people would want neither?
Underserved criticism doesn’t do anybody any good. The praise can at least help a little.
Undeserved Criticism…Would piss me off, but false praise would be worse.
Undeserved criticism, definitely.
undeserved critism
undeserved critisism. cause they look like loosers. :-p
Undeserved criticism because there is always room for improvement.
same thing
Undeserved criticism.
[ariana]
false praise…i don’t like being criticized…i get pretty upset about it…
That’s a really interesting question. Of course, like everyone else, I’d much rather have the truth over both. But, if I had to choose one, I guess I’d say undeserved criticism. If it were false praise, it would be something I also don’t deserve. And it would also give me the wrong idea. But, with undeserved criticism, there’d at least be the knowledge that God knows and I know that it wasn’t true. If that makes any sense at all? It’s pretty hard to explain my stance…
But definitely, I’d prefer the truth.
False praise
the critisim…I can’t stand being lied to…I would hurt someone…bad
False Praise. I believe false praise can have a small element of truth in it but undeserved criticism is just someone having a bad day taking a bat to you.
undeserved criticism
criticism
Hands down undeserved criticism.
False praise…I could just deny it and say “no I didn’t do that” but criticism I would take more literally even if it weren’t true.
undeserve critism
False praise!
I think undeserved criticism would be better.
…..no comment…..
False Praise. Undeserved Criticism would just make me depressed, lol.
-KrIsTiN-
Neither, just the truth.
Eh, I’d much rather have the truth. I’d probably feel equally deflated otherwise So it doesn’t matter
that’s so hard…. I only want actual truth that is useful… so as long as the undeserved criticism is truthful… or else, give me the false praise, and I can go with that.
UNDESERVED CRITICISM FOR SURE…
criticism. when people critisise me, it makes me stronger and that much more of a person.
being one who cares an inordinate amount about what other people think, i think i’d almost rather have false praise instead of someone making up something bad about me and spreading rumors, or telling others stuff that sounds bad only cuz it’s not the full story. (coming from someone who’s been burned several times by things like that, in a world where reputation is everything. never been burned by false praise.)
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undeserved criticism
Neither, only the truth
If I had to pick… undeserved criticism.
neither. but if I have to choose, I’d rather not be told i’m doing well if in fact I’m not.
undeserved criticism
undeserved criticism. i feel so bad when i get false praise. then when poeple criticize me i can just be like fuck you man i’m right.
Undeserved Criticism, because that would be easier to shrug off that the praise if I found out.
undeserved criticism
False praise. I cant handle criticism.
undeserved criticism hands down… I would be crushed if I ever found out that some of the praise I have gotten was a lie. It would be quite the slap in the face.
Undeserved criticism.
silence
The underdeserved criticism
undeserved criticism…
criticism.
criticism.
Undeserved criticism
how about the truth??
but if that is the options then undeserved criticism because u should know that ur doing well on anything and no matter what others say even if it is bad it won’t change and if it does it’ll make u stronger
That’s hard. If I had to pick, undeserved criticism.
Undeserved sex
Undeserved criticism, so I can tell whoever gave it to fuck off.
Wow – a real question – and that’s not false praise – that it seems to have been a while – ….
I’m going w/ false critisism
I think most people are going to choose Criticism. Being lied to is pretty shitty.
Criticism, imo.
If I couldn’t have the truth, I’d rather have false praise. Undeserved criticism does me no good. At least false praise won’t make me depressed (I’d know it wasn’t real, but I’d rather have a fake positive than a fake negative).
undeserved criticism. Probably if you’re being criticized, you at least did SOMETHING to deserve it (even if it wasn’t necessarily related to what just happened.) Besides, most people aren’t going to give you undeserved criticism unless they don’t like you, so at least you know whether they like you or not. Being lied to sucks.
undeserved citisism
false praise
Does this dress make me look fat?
false praise. i can’t stand critics.
undeserved criticism, because there’s always some truth in it. criticism doesn’t just come out of nowhere
Definitely undeserved criticism.
-Guru on the Hill
Undeserved criticism. But I usually deserve it.
Neither.
Fine. Hate going with the majority, but criticism.
Undeserved criticism; I’d rather be mad and get over it eventually rather than thinking I was awesome when really I just suck.
Neither. Please.
undeserved criticism, but I’ve already had my share of that so I’ll pick neither
false praise
False praise is good, yet it’s false. Underserved critism isn’t. Though give me the truth and I’ll be a happy lil nugget.
False praise.
undeserved criticism, I get that all the time
Both piss me off
I work for the government-I’m used to both. Welcome to my world.
I’d just as soon have a swift kick in the ass.
false praise
er whoops. not that. sorry… iwasnt paying attention. hehe…
undeserved criticism
undeserved criticism
I don’t take criticism well. I’ll take the praise and blow it off.
Criticism.
I guess neither one has any merit, but undeserved criticism has the potential to damage a person, or in my case make me examine or question something, that may not have been a problem in the first place. So I’m gonna go with the first.
On my blog? I really don’t care…just as long as they take the time to read.
undeserved criticism… there might be something to it, even if it’s undeserved; it inspires introspection. false praise serves no purpose whatsoever
undeserved falseness
whats in the box?
false praise. whats the point of choosing undeserved criticism if its not going to help you? false praise won’t help either, but at least you’ll be happier after.
I’d actually just prefer the truth, but between the two….if I had to choose, I’d go with criticism.
undeserved punishment…to experience what our Savior went through
neither
Undeserved criticism.
neither
Fake praise. Critisicm is something I can’t handle.
undeserved criticism… because the I don’t have to feel bad about stealing someone else’s glory, and then I can yell at whoever was criticising me… lol
False praise.
I get both all the time, I have kids. For example, if their behavior is bad & I have to correct them, I hear…..”that’s not fair, you’re mean, you like my sister/brother better than me” (undeserved criticism) But when they get their way or IF they want something I hear…”Mommy, you’re the best, you’re the prettiest mommy ever,” or (personal fav)”have you lost weight?” (false praise)
criticism…
I would have to say – Undeserved criticism unless of course a raise came with the false praise.
Undeserved criticism. I may not be able to handle the truth, but if you think I look fat in these pants, you’d better tell me. I’d rather be criticised and given the chance to improve than be told I’m good when I’m really not.
I’d rather take the undeserved criticism because if it was from somebody on xanga, I could ignore them pretty easily. And if in person, I’d still take it because I think I’ve examined myself enough to know when someone criticizes something I’m NOT bad at doing. If that makes sense. Which it might not. Yeah.
~Victoria
Undeserved criticism, ’cause then you get the right to rant about it on Xanga. If you’re given false praise, people tend to think you’re arrogant, even though you’re not the one who claimed to be so great.
False praise. I can at least pretend it’s real…
Then again with undeserved criticism I could just say they were wing nuts…
i don’t know….in the long run undeserved criticism, as i wouldn’t want to get a big head…i don’t know which i’d chose
undeseraved criticism.
false praise!
i would definitely have to go with false praise, because i can usually see through people’s shallowness pretty easily, but undeserved criticism i usually can’t see through, so i go around obsessing over this problem that i don’t even really have.
Undeserved criticism… I’m use to that.
false praise
death
i’m too used to false criticism
stinkin’ baptists!
I don’t understand why so many people think undeserved criticism has truth to it. The way I interpret it, undeserved criticism is criticism that doesn’t apply to anything you did (“undeserved”), and perhaps is a result of jealousy on the part of the critic. How is that a good thing?
undeserved criticism
Undeserved criticism
Hmm…false praise does seem better than undeserved/false criticism. I wonder what the majority vote is. Interesting. Yet neither are so great…I’d go with the more positive one if I really must choose. False praise, you have my vote.
Undeserved criticism.
false praise. I always found some odd enjoyment of taking credit for others great acts.
i’d prefer being criticised for doing something good, then praised for doing something wrong…
cuz at least i know what ive done is worthwhile… regardless of what others think…
False praise or undeserved critisizim. That sounds like being a movie star. Sure, I’d like to be a movie star. Larry Bond. 007&1/2. Brother of James.
Steak… but sometimes chicken… mostly steak…
Criticism.
well if i had to pick one i guess i’d go with false praise. undeserved criticism just makes me angry and upset. if i can’t get the truth, i might as well feel good about it …
Honestly, false praise. It doesn’t hurt so bad. But then, undeserved criticism probably builds more character than the other.
Neither
Neither
LIE TO ME!!!
False Praise…
Hehehe!
XoxoxoX
Undeserved criticism. I don’t want false praise…I’ve seen false praise turn decent children into egotistical little monsters who think too highly of themselves.
false praise, it’ll make ya feel good, even if it’s just for a while… but.. then again.. don’t let yer head explode with ego….
undeserved criticism
Undeserved criticism.
undeserved criticism.
neither.
I’d rather not be noticed.
neither.
Criticism
neither…
undeserved criticism is so sad…
well, i think lying really just sucks because obviously it’s just a way of being nice.
but undeserved criticism………isn’t nice at all lol.
neither. but probably undeserved criticism as false praise will only make u feel really down once u know that it’s all lies..if u get undeserved criticism then u know that u didnt actually deserve it..hehe
I wonder why some people would want neither?
Underserved criticism doesn’t do anybody any good. The praise can at least help a little.
Undeserved Criticism…Would piss me off, but false praise would be worse.
Undeserved criticism, definitely.
undeserved critism
undeserved critisism. cause they look like loosers. :-p
Undeserved criticism because there is always room for improvement.
same thing
Undeserved criticism.
[ariana]
false praise…i don’t like being criticized…i get pretty upset about it…
That’s a really interesting question. Of course, like everyone else, I’d much rather have the truth over both. But, if I had to choose one, I guess I’d say undeserved criticism. If it were false praise, it would be something I also don’t deserve. And it would also give me the wrong idea. But, with undeserved criticism, there’d at least be the knowledge that God knows and I know that it wasn’t true. If that makes any sense at all? It’s pretty hard to explain my stance…
But definitely, I’d prefer the truth.
False praise
the critisim…I can’t stand being lied to…I would hurt someone…bad
False Praise. I believe false praise can have a small element of truth in it but undeserved criticism is just someone having a bad day taking a bat to you.
undeserved criticism
criticism
Hands down undeserved criticism.
False praise…I could just deny it and say “no I didn’t do that” but criticism I would take more literally even if it weren’t true.
undeserve critism
False praise!
I think undeserved criticism would be better.
…..no comment…..
False Praise. Undeserved Criticism would just make me depressed, lol.
-KrIsTiN-
Neither, just the truth.
Eh, I’d much rather have the truth.
I’d probably feel equally deflated otherwise
So it doesn’t matter
that’s so hard…. I only want actual truth that is useful… so as long as the undeserved criticism is truthful… or else, give me the false praise, and I can go with that.
UNDESERVED CRITICISM FOR SURE…
criticism. when people critisise me, it makes me stronger and that much more of a person.
being one who cares an inordinate amount about what other people think, i think i’d almost rather have false praise instead of someone making up something bad about me and spreading rumors, or telling others stuff that sounds bad only cuz it’s not the full story.
(coming from someone who’s been burned several times by things like that, in a world where reputation is everything. never been burned by false praise.)