March 18, 2007
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Men
The last post made me think of this question. . .
Should a woman who sends a naked picture to her boyfriend just sort of expect that he will show it to his friends?
The last post made me think of this question. . .
Should a woman who sends a naked picture to her boyfriend just sort of expect that he will show it to his friends?
Comments (112)
Sure.
no!
I know he probably shouldn’t… but yes. I mean, I would do the same. And, again, I know you shouldn’t, but it’s kind of something to be proud of that someone is so passionate about you as to even want to send you that stuff. I’d be proud anyway.
(however, I’d be creeped out if it was my boyfriend, i would prefer the relationship to be fiancé/husband for that sort of thing–but that’s just me).
Cheers,
m
people should really be more careful about what they share with other people before they know if they are trustworthy or not
Yeah, duh.
either, that is true, and thus women dont do it… or, it isnt true, and we dont know, because guys are so respectful of their women’s privacy thast they wont dare show her body to anyone…
second..
shoulda seen that coming…
No way!
no
yeah
Uhh no. That’s a pretty fucking wrong thing to do, even if it is easily understood.
That’s sick. What the hell kind of boyfriend would send something so confidential to his friends? That’s a violation of trust and is a HUGE sign of a basic lack of respect in women.
Unless the couple discusses it beforehand and comes to an agreement about it, then no, it is never right for a boyfriend to spread that kind of thing around.
Cris
of course its wrong to do……but i can totally see it happening very easily. don’t do things that can come back and bite you in the ass. esp. if and when said boyfriend and you break up
Well, what if he loses his phone and it ends up on the interweb, paris hilton kinda taught us among other things don’t put too much personal shit on yo’ phone, and wear panties.
Yeah, it’s kind of stupid of her to do it in the first place…then again he shouldn’t have shown his friends. I don’t like either of those two very much (judging them from this situation).
Yeah, he’s a guy. Most likely he’s going to show it off to people.
Ya probably. They’ll be like “Look at my girlfriend. Her boobs are the shit!”
NO! lol.. i dont think one should send naked pics to ones bf at all… but w/e
We are generally bastards, so a little suspicion from women is to be expected.
Nah. It depends on the guy.
Technicolor.
Depends on the people. I think it’s fucked, but that’s me.
no
no. i’d hog the picture to myself.
depends on the kind of boyfriend she has….if he loves and respects her….than no i would not think she should expect that from him. if he’s lowsy and treats her just so so, then i wouldn’t be surprised…
She shouldnt send something like that in the first place, in my opinion…
But no, if he is a good guy, then you shouldnt expect him to do something like that.
i wouldnt
Yes. Don’t Do It.
yea
I know my boyfriend wouldn’t do that. Let’s not make sweeping generalizations here. Clearly, some people will. I like to think that other people are better than that.
Uh oh for me. =/
pretty much
No, that’s rude.
sure, if he’s an idiot and wants to put his relationship on a fast track toward OVER. ha.
uh, no
Well if she has a brain and its only a boyfriend. What do you think a guy will do with those pictures? If not now after you break up.
People are so stupid, than they act shocked at the results of their stupidity.
NO >_>
He may show it to people, but he definitely shouldn’t give them copies, which is what I assume oyu meant by it spreading around the office.
trunthepaige
very true i agree with what she said its only a boyfriend and thats expected if someone did something of the same sort to me I suppose i wouldn’t find it hard not to share and thats coming from a woman
but if your married then NO what kind of a husband does that
Not every single guy would do it, but it’s an accurate assumption to make generally.
Depends on the guy, I suppose, but if he was the type of guy to have a girlfriend that would send him a naked picture of herself, then he’s probably the kind of guy to show his friends.
uh. yeah. because i think in every single instance that a girl sends her boyfriend a racy picture, it gets sent around.
Depends on how good the picture is
It wouldn’t be very generous of the man if he didn’t share.
I guess that depends on your boyfriend. But, if in doubt expect a yes answer and be ready to accept it when it happens.
it depends. if i was a guy and received a naked pic of my woman, id keep it all for myself!! But then again…
Not all of us guys are pigs, just most.
I probably wouldn’t…unless she is amazingly perfect.
No! But I also wouldn’t expect a woman to be so stupid as to send naked pictures of herself via cell phone, something that isn’t exactly secure.
No that’s just weird.
yeah, a lot of guys are assholes… But I don’t think it should be EXPECTED of them… and I would never date someone who would do that! My current bf and I like a certain degree of privacy in our relationship–neither of us even talk about stuff like that with our friends, let alone showing private pictures if there ever happened to be any.
yes.
my boyfrined would.
no. that’s awful.
that is why the girl is called a tease
that is why the guy is called a sleaze
and that’s why god made escort agencies, one life to live, mace, and GHB.
Yes. I always pretty much figured that every guy I have ever been involved with would show their friends so I never did it even if they asked. My hubby is the only guy that got nude/semi-nude pictures.
I wouldn’t show a picture like that off.
Yep.
yes, just like if a man sends a half naked picture of himself to his girlfriend he should expect her to show her friends…
You never responded to my message Dan.
Of course.
hahaha i hope not.
Absolutely not. Women deserve better than that.
yup
Only if she herself has pretty low standards for the men she’s attracted to.
no
yes. boys are boys and they just can’t keep things like that to themselves and who can blame them?
no boyfriend of mine should ever do that. (not that i’d be sending the pics to him in the first place)
Depending on the guy. She should know her man well enough to know if he’s a private type or if he’s a bragging type, and then choose whether or not to send pictures. I dont see anything wrong with sending her man pics though, I mean would you rather he look @ pics of you or pics of random women in porn? and why not do it to spice up the sex life a lil, eh?
Back to the original q, lol, I think she should know her guy well enough to be able to judge what he does with them.
no
Hopefully not.. but id say most guys would so they could feel manly or something.
I would never ever do that.. well, a pic of my wife (not g/f) – i would prob delete it soon after i got it so something liek that wouldnt happen, even by accident
- Daniel (doubledb)
Yes. She shouldn’t be unwise and send nude pictures in the first place. A boyfriend who loves her wouldn’t be expecting nude pictures, and would definitely not show them to friends.. but who do you trust?
YUP!
Yes. Only a slime ball would do so, but yes the woman can expect it. Especially once they break up.
It depends.
But yeah. Guys are like that. Wouldn’t a woman do the same thing? If I got a nice picture of a guy without his shirt, I would show it off.
My boyfriend would never do that. He’d be furious if one of his friends saw me naked because he wants me all for himself, so he definitely wouldn’t willingly show them.
Maybe an insecure boyfriend who wanted to show off would show the pictures.
Ummmm….yeah.
No!
I don’t think she should “expect” him to do that. If there really is trust in the relationship and he understands that she doesn’t want it shown around, I don’t think that he should.
I have never had an immature ex boyfriend do that. It’s called not wanting to share.
I never have, but some of my friends have shown me some pictures of their girlfriends. I’m not sure why they did really, and I always find it awkward. Usually, (if I think she’s ugly), I do my best to lie and say, “wow, you’re a lucky man.” If she’s hot, and I’m really good friends with dude, then I grab the picture, leer at it, and pretend like I’m about to make a break for the latrine.
But I think it’s a tasteless thing to do, at least if dude actually cares about her. If not, well, that’s what she gets for dating a piece o’ shit I guess. Live and learn.
I’m still waiting for the link of the Australian cop’s tittays! Aussie chicks are smokin’!
Anyone who is worth a lick of salt doesn’t do something like that without contemplating that such a thing will happen.
I love my man but I know in the grown-up department I have him beat hands down. He has retained his childlike innocence (to be nice).
no, it shouldn’t be expected. I wouldn’t do it. But most men would
…Eeew.
Actually, I do think it depends on the kind of guy the boyfriend is. I’ve known people to show the picture to his other friends, but I also know of guys who keep them to themselves.
I wouldn’t.. Of course I wouldn’t do that sort of stupid thing anyway..
If he’s a total moron he would show it to his friends
No.
Yeah, especially if she’s fat. Cause fat people are funny. And by fat, I mean anything over a size 4.
maybe she should expect it, but i still dont think he should do it.
yeah that seems rather likely
sadly, maybe so. but pictures are tricky…as so many “start” find out – later!
If she didn’t then she’s not very smart
Whatever a couple does it between them two, unless both of them are fine telling or showing people what they are doing -_____-
I don’t think it’s right of men to just show the pictures to all of their friends. However, most women know that men are… slow, sometimes, when it comes to matters of privacy. So, I think if a woman sends a naked picture to her significant other, yes, she should expect that he would do it. It’s the way the world works, unfortunately. When men stop being pigs, then it will be safe.
She should know that that’s a risk, especially if they break up down the road.
NO!!!
Taking nudes, making videos while you have sex, nasty e-cards and loaded mms messages are created on TRUST. If you show people the nasty photos of your s.o. or ex wearing your love you make a complete mockery of the trust they had in your to shoot the pics!
Never ever EVER show off your homemade porn to freinds. It is for you, and you alone.
That cop was a dumbass idiot cracker fratboy.
Not expect, but not be surprised, either.
One would hope that out of respect to her, that he wouldnt do it. BUT…Because he is a MAN- She should tell him NOT to… But then again…the picture is technically PORN…so Is she right to take the picture in the first place?
Any time you take a picture of yourself nude, you’re taking a risk. You can’t rule out that others you don’t intend to see it will.
Obviously, it’d depend on the guy.
She should expect him to show his friends. He should not show his friends but very few people in the world seem act responsibly. It is human nature though to want to show someone else how much you significant other cares about you and to brag about how good looking they are which a picture of this sort would be very good for.
I would not show a picture like that if I received one.
I wouldn’t because I know my bf has 3 male roommates that he just wouldn’t be able NOT to share it with, lol. That and I don’t really feel like sending him naked pics of myself, I have better things to do with my time, and I hope he likes me more that just when I’m scantily clad
I wouldn’t because I know my bf has 3 male roommates that he just wouldn’t be able NOT to share it with, lol. That and I don’t really feel like sending him naked pics of myself, I have better things to do with my time, and I hope he likes me more than just when I’m scantily clad
I wouldn’t because I know my bf has 3 male roommates that he just wouldn’t be able NOT to share it with, lol. That and I don’t really feel like sending him naked pics of myself, I have better things to do with my time, and I hope he likes me more than just when I’m scantily clad
I wouldn’t because I know my bf has 3 male roommates that he just wouldn’t be able NOT to share it with, lol. That and I don’t really feel like sending him naked pics of myself, I have better things to do with my time, and I hope he likes me more than just when I’m scantily clad
If she’s your girlfriend, or even just a friend, I think there’s a bit of a trust set up. I would never share a picture sent to me by a girl with anyone else. She will send it to them if she wants them to have it. She sent it to me, so it stays safe in my posession.
I would expect it to get around. *shrug* when it comes to nekkid pictures most people of either gender cannot be trusted.
aha…WHY? lol, and when the relationship ends would he ‘return’ or get rid of them? thats just stupid.
Hope not.
Probably, but I’d still kick his ass.
yes. are u kidding me? he shouldnt, but most guys will
I would never give a nude pic of myself to anyone…you really don’t know who might end up with it0_0
Don’t take naked pictures, it’ll get out. Anything done in secret can come out.
no
yeah i think she should pretty much expect it -_- either that or that he’ll pleasure himself to them.