July 15, 2007
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Reasons To Have Sex
Researchers discovered 237 reasons why people want to have sex.
Included in the reasons was to cure boredom, revenge and to feel closer to God. Here is the link: Link
What do you think is the best reason to have sex?
Comments (128)
They get to be closer to me………..
And Me Too
Oh, everyone wants to sleep with me, that’s one of the laws of the universe.
If I could have sex with God, though…that might be interesting.
Maybe.
Get closer to God? Whaaaat?
er…being in love? hahaha. cliche, much?
To conceive a child…. I’m guess that wasn’t on the list!
good exercise, or for boredom.
Well, I like to kill them afterwards.
to have children
Because your in love. To TTC?
For love….
For the love of orgasms…
=)
well i could say god creating us as we are (a male and a female in sex) in the bond of marriage can only have sex’s purpose be for love and to love our children, but that answer’s a bit bland, yeah?
eh.
i wanted to keep on track with paris hilton.
*insert sarcastic comment about immoral sex*
*insert overly wholesome comment about the bible*
yeah, that’s basically all anyone ever says in their comments
cause you’re in the mood!
the cliche reason. because im in love.
or to have a kid, i guess.
To make bonds, babies, and boredom flee.
Feels good.
hahaha are you giving out points for creativity on this one?
Sex is such a tool these days. I think I’ve used it for all those reasons. Except maybe the God one… of course I could have wanted that at the time while in a drunken haze… They forgot the most obvious though, “I was horny”.
To not deny one of the things your anatomy was built to do. We’re organisms for crying out loud.
Because it feels good and it’s a way to connect with your spouse
to feel close to the person/make them feel good/have kids
face it is anyone really thinking about having sex before hand… it’s because they got that itch the reasons come afterwards.
To stop the nagging.
This is what the world needs…. more reasons to have sex. I’m so tired of hearing reasons not to have sex. I hear one almost every night.
What about.. just cause you NEED it.
its a way to literally connect with each other…anddddddddddd of course the obvious “it feels good.”
Because it is a lot of fun. To say it feels good is a major understatement.
To make my vagina shut up.
that is something between a husband and a wife…and to make more children…I believe it is a personal mater between husband and wife…Smile
To put an arguement behind you. And what can be better than make up sex, Dan?
revenge
To get away from you….yes you.
Love? Boredom? To feel closer?
When people get horny they want pleasure aka sex
relieve boredom, have fun? gosh…I don’t know.
Best reason to have sex?
B/c my partner & I want to!!!
You really don’t need a reason.
I actually would go with “To keep warm”. Same reason that I like my whiskey.
I don’t need a reason.
The ONLY reason people should have sex is to MAKE BABIES.
It’s overrated.
Because I’m a Psychic (or Psi) Vampire and the energy raised through Tantric sex is most yummy.
To feel good/make him feel good. Express my love for him.
This blog entry reminds me of the NIN song “Closer.” I love that song. I love that video.
It’s cheaper than doing coke.
wow.
To populate the earth?
BenIsDead, I hope you mean coccaine and not Coke as in Coca-Cola. LOL
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It used to be to have babies….but hubby is fixed so now it is to release tension (we have four kids so their is lots of tension)….oh and it feels great!
I wanted the article to give the entire list…I’m sad. Maybe I should go have sex to cheer me up
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Because you both want to
to share an experience?
sounds like a good one to me…cuz true love doesnt seem to cut it…ever.
Because if I don’t then she will assume I’m cheating on her!
to make a baby.
or..if you’ve never had it before..
to see what it feels like.
MMHMM!
To be closer to my lover.
Fulfill of craving to satisfied… Other reason would be love.. I know it’s boring but it is what it is..
stress relief, or so i hear.
Because I want to.
Depends, their’s fucking, and making love, and sex.
Sex is fooling around, anything that gets you excited. That’s sex.
Fucking is the rough, ranchy-throw-you-on-the-couch kinda thing.
Then making love, you feel close to the person, you want to have a ‘deeper’ relationship, you love them, blah blah blah.
Sex (I.E. Blow jobs, hand jobs, fondling.) You do because you’re bored.
Fucking is what you do when you’re angry or when you need a stress reliever, or because you haven’t ‘had’ anyone except your own hand in awhile.
Making love I’ve already explained.
There’s my definition, interpret how you want.
The only reason will be people are horny, why think so much into it? Lol.
I was bored is NOT an odd reason. It might not be a good reason, but it isn’t odd.
It feels good is the best reason.
I think I have used most of these at one time or another.
The best reason to have SEX – Easy ***TO PLEASURE ME***
love you sentimental fool you
RYC:
Thanks for the sweet comment. :]
Well, it’s fun, it feels good, it makes a couple in love feel closer, it relieves tension….
The best reason?
Feels good on many levels. And the reasons are likely different for men than women.
Oh yeah, the exercise thing is definitely a plus.
TO MAKE BABIES!
Or to get rid of all that sexual frustration.
This deserves a very long answer. I have not the typing skills nor the stamina for that. I will do as much as I can.
Has any body studied Theology of the Body? It’s very interesting and is all about this stuff. (intercourse) Theology of the Body for Beginners, By Christopher West, is a good book on the subject.
I think the question I’m gonna answer (which wasn’t even asked) is why should I not have sex? One, Safety. I don’t want cervical cancer and those medications for it aren’t safe or trustworthy. Better to abstain from unsafe sex in the first place. Second, I want to give myself (my whole self every thing) to that one man who’s gonna do the same for me. Now that’s love. Third, I don’t want to get pregnant. Face it, sex makes babies. If I’m not going to Boston, why get on the Bus?
Why would I have sex? Becuase I’ve met the man I want, we’re commited, and- Yes, cliche- totaly in love.
And it would only be with that one man, too.
Can I say one more thing? The revenge answer is so stupid. Revenge is a dish best served up cold. Why not slip something into his/her morning coffee to take the cheater’s drive away? Don’t stoop to his/her level. Just make so they never can agian. (Or wreck his car. Which is soooo much fun.)
mmmmmmm……sex
ahahah and i’m the 69th commenter too.
69!
To invest your life into your spouse’s. To follow scripture (many references to husband and wife relationship). To conceive a child was always high on my list. Pure fun of it.
Love.
I’m going to try that whole “Feeling-closer-to-God-thing.” It might change my life!
It makes me feel like a god.
The “best” reason to have sex is reproduction. Though I have my own reasons.
Because it feels great!
they spelled realized wrong
“To Stop the Nagging” ~Latte_grande
Genius.
To become one with someone I love.
Not being married is always a good reason.
YOU BRING ME CLOSER TO GOD!
The best reason: Because I can.
Well…when I can.
to save a life!
because you want to express your love…
As an action and expression of true love. And to make babies?
You let me violate you. You let me desecrate you. You let me penetrate you. You let me complicate you. Help me; I broke apart my insides. Help me; I’ve got no soul to sell. Help me; the only thing that works for me Help me get away from myself. I want to fuck you like an animal! I want to feel you from the inside! I want to fuck you like an animal! My whole existence is flawed. You get me closer to God. You can have my isolation. You can have the hate that it brings. You can have my absence of faith. You can have my everything. Help me; tear down my reason. Help me; it’s your sex I can smell. Help me; you make me perfect. Help me become somebody else. I want to fuck you like an animal! I want to feel you from the inside! I want to fuck you like an animal! My whole existence is flawed. You get me closer to God. Through every forest, above the trees. Within my stomach, scraped off my knees. I drink the honey inside your hive. You are the reason I stay alive.
To express my love for my partner in the most intimate way possible. [my choice]
Or to get laid.
Depends on the mood.
to Make babies!
To reproduce???
Er…to create friction.
It’s a way for 2 people in love to connect intimately, and you know what, it feels great for all parties involved! (if it’s done right, haha)
The BEST reasons are b/c you love the person, and you want to make babies.
But those aren’t necessarily the only reasons.
Because I am in love and committed to my partner, and want to grow closer and satisfy their sexual desires
Quite a list…
Best reason for sex? Cures boredom ^^.
I can’t believe not a single person said it would help them fall asleep. :)
Because it is FUN
To show my man that I love him and that we have a relationship committed fully to one another…and because it feels good!!
what about b/c it feels good…
My virginity became over rated.
MORE BABIES
BECAUSE GOD TOLD ME TO
BECAUSE GOD TOLD ME TO………… and BECAUSE U GOT NEW CLOTHES!!!!!!!
these reasons are not surprising at all.
more love less war!!
Reproduction.
BABIES!!?
When (or if? haha) I find out.. I might tell you
cliche: It feels good to feel another’s love if that’s why you’re having it. The rush.
because you love the other person.
Hahahaha that’s a funny study.
Lol – “the person was a good dancer”? and “I wanted to get a job” is just sad… I’d go with something slightly cliche, like you and the other person love and respect each other and are in the mood.
The best reason is to make babies with the one you love… but I can’t say I haven’t had sex for other reasons…
Guess I should add that the other person should also love you and want to make a baby with you…
i dont believe in sloppy seconds! i’d do it to…consumate my marriage? hahah seriously!
wait, this has already been said, but idk, how about to procreate?!
I think the best summary was “Because it feels good and it’s a way to connect with your spouse” though it includes all those things from fun, intimacy, love, havin babies, cos we want it, to express your love, to become one, to satisfy each other, to show our committment, cos it pleases us, and mayb indirectly to release frustration, etc etc
as for the God thing… i think it does make my husband and i feel closer to God cos this pleasure is a God-given gift for us to share in marriage… it makes us wana praise God for how beautiful it is!
P.S Babygirl1432, that is how we spell “realised” in Australia
Bored. For sure. Hahahaha.
this may b graphic im jus warning u… but grls out there that find a guy that doesnt mind… it works better than any menstrual medicine… it releaves all of the pressure and pain… n even gets ur mind off of it…
also grls that worry about that inner thigh jiggle… get on top once in a while… do it enough n work those muscles enough it goes away… completely flat…
love, babies, and revenge all seem like really great reasons to me.
The best reason for havign sex outside of marriage is my reason: I realized I was in love, and could not avoid the encounter, the way he loved me so much at that time. In our case, we needed to talk about it, because up ahead was the thing: that it was not going to happen again, unless he married me first.
Because you and your partner have come to a point in your relationship where you really know each other and trust each other and the other relationship issues have been figured out and you love each other.
As an expression of love!
And ’cause it’s fun.
my favorite on that list is “I wanted to see what all the fuss was about”.
I wonder why no one says… “because I was horny”
Let me tell you, if it were me, I think God would pretty much be the furthest thing from my mind during sex, so “closer to God” is weird (unless you are talking about that nine inch nails song, which is not a bad sex song now that I think about it)
b/c you’re married to the person. how about that?
the bubble that dragon skewer lives in is truly sad. the reality of what he says not being true must surely be an ego buster.
The best reason would probably be because you loved a person right? That or because it’d feel good maybe?
You are married to someone and love them. That’s the best reason to have sex.
After being married for a few years, I think it is a good reason to have sex so I can get the big “O”!!!
I got lucky in that there department…. Time to get the hubby….
because every part of the body needs exercise.