Absolutely. Especially if I don’t know them – I’ll likely never see them again and they won’t have to be self conscious!
Not likely.
if i’m close enough to him. if i’m a distance from him i wouldn’t want to shout
It depends on how comfortable I feel with him (you don’t have to know someone that well to feel comfortable). I’d probably just tell him and not make a big scene out of it.
But if not, I’d find a guy to do it.
yep. i don’t wanna see his hangly-dangly.
if he’s a stranger, no way. if i’ve met you at least once, yeah. don’t want you to be cold down there and wonder why.
No, he’ll figure it out eventually.
Nope, because I don’t look at guys’ crotches, I usually don’t ever directly look at everyone I pass – unless they start talking to me or I happen to catch them staring at me. :] So I don’t ever know either.
If I was near him I probably would. Don’t want the poor guy to be any more embarrassed than he has to be.
Certainly
No.
Only if I knew him well.
If I don’t know him but we have mutual friends I would. If they are a total stranger..no way.
yeah. cuz otherwise he’ll notice later and be like “all those hundreds of people saw and didn’t say anything — those jerks.”
Yeah but I’ll take him away from the crowd first before I tell him to save him from embarrassment. =)
Yes.
Depends. If I was on my own, probably. With people, I’d be more likely to mock the guy than tell him. Mocking is only fun when you’ve got an audience; otherwise, you may as well let the poor sucker know.
laugh first.
tell him after.
depends. probably not though, if he seems cool then yeah i would. what a weird question -_-
Now why on earth would I be looking down there in the first place??
I hardly ever notice when someone’s zipper is down, so I probably wouldn’t tell him.
Yes.. but I would tell him quickly and try not to laugh.. but if its one of my friends I would tell them and then joke about it some.. ha ha. I mean, what are friends for?
Daniel (doubledb)
Heck yeah. I would tell him indiscretely, making as much effort to not embarass him and let him know I wasn’t looking inappropriately but merely by off chance.
It’d only be polite.
Sure, why not? I also tell bad drivers when they need a correction too. I’m usually much more vocal with the bad drivers because of the distance between vehicles. I also cuss to get their attention. But, just saying XYZ works in this case.
no
Of course. It’s an unspoken code of ethics. If you see it, it is your responsibility to tell them as privately as possible, and expect that someone will do the same for you. It’s really quite embarrassing otherwise.
Probably.
haha well if hes im my circle of people im with ill prolly make fun of him… and he’ll get the idea… if i dont know him at all… well ill just point and laugh.
I actually was in that exact scenario, the other day, and I did not say a thing.
And let him know you had been looking at his crotch?!
No, but I would tell one of my guy friends to tell him!
In a heartbeat.
I’m always way too embarrassed to say anything – which is weird, because it’s not my fly – but that’s just the way it is I guess. I’m a horrible person.
I don’t just tell them, I make a scene.
Depends on how funny it looks, naw I would tell for sure.
depends if i know him
If I wasn’t with a guy I knew I’d probably try to subtly indicate to him that it was down.
Depends on the guy.
Weird guy: No. Co-worker: Yes. Friend of a friend: maybe.
No…I will never known about it because I dont look down there. I got a uncle that always seem to see things like that.
This is PROOF that women look down there! If they never look, they wouldn’t know about it. HAHAHA
just tell him his barns open and you don’t wan to see his little chicken get lost.
Yes, because apparently leaving your fly open can get you registered on the sex offender list these days. Bullshit, I know, but a true story.
yep. I’ll ask him if he has a license to sell hotdogs XD
I would not feel confident to go up to a bloke and tell him if I did not know him.
I think I’d have some questions for myself before I talked to him. First things first, why am I looking at some stranger’s crotch?
Of course
thats usually not something i even notice but if i happen to i generally just laugh and walk away
mayb. if not i would get my hubby to tell them.
If its open all the way than NO…..Let them find out on there own and say the same thing all of us guys do when we find it later “Yep Im a jackass……….”
Yes.
hahah, I’m glad I don’t tuck my shirt’s in because I have forgot at times. I would want someone to tell me discretely.
no…should I? lol
honestly, probably not. i’d think it would be more embarassing for me to point it out than for him to walk around with it down.
I wouldn’t. Unless I wanted to see their reaction, then I’d shout it loudly from across the room.
Sure, very quietly and tactfully, unless when I approach, he pulls something out, then I report him to the police!
Yeah. I’d hope someone would do the same for me if the same thing happened to me. How can we expect to get assistance if we refuse to give it?
yep.
I don’t know..probably not. But if his junk was hanging out then I’d probably say something like “your barn door is open…” and leave it at that.
depends
“XYZ,” I don’t think I’d say anything else if he doesn’t get it though.
Definitely! hey it happens, it would be my pleasure to tell him, specially if he is hot!! nothing better then seeing a hot guy blushing
Yes-
nope.
why bother? is it really a big deal?
I only tell guys I know well.
Yeah.
“Hey mister, your schlong is hanging out! Zip that fly up!” I have no problem saying that!
I have a young son, so I’m used to it now.
of course….i love loking at guys down there….
Yes….and I have….multiple times. Apparently this is a problem a lot of guys have. How do you forget to pack in your junk and zip up your fly???
Personally I think some do it on purpose.
Absolutely- I would want someone else to do the same for me.
No. I look away and never say anything, ever-because that is what I would want in the reverse situation.
Yea, after i laughed quite obviously at him.
discreetly so
If I’m close enough I whistle and point down.
@Curlyquilter - Very good – irony usually doesn’t get recognised around here!
If I could do so discreetly, then sure.
depends. if he looks like a nice guy, I’d tell him to save him embarrassment. if he looks[and, most likely, acts] like an asshole, I could care less.
its harder for me because im a girl
i would only tell my friends, but not really strangers
First i take into effect the situation. Then i tell him in a way that wont draw attention. For me its just like offering a piece of gum if someone has bad breath or straight up telling someone that they need a shower. It shouldnt be offensive but if it needs to be said then why not?
maybe…im not sure i really stare at peoples fly’s
I wouldn’t. I’d be too shy. Ha.
i know i should, but i’d be worry that he might think, “why did she look there?!” soo.. maybe.
Oh yeah! I raised my hand and told the “substitute” economics professor from Oxford (young) that his zipper was down, way down! He quitely went to his desk, sat down, put both hands under the desk, and applied the invisible hand method!
It’s the truth!
I wouldn’t even notice, probably.
Sure. Why not?
In most circumstances, no.
Nope, I’d be too embarrassed. The only person I’d mention that to would be my boyfriend.
Nope….if I was in a coffee shop, I may grab a napkin and write on it..”Check you fly b/c it’s open ” and then drop it on his table.
If I don’t know him at all: no. I’d be too shy.
If I’ve met them before, close or not: yes.
you might seem rude, but hey.. you’re saving him embarrassment…
It’s interesting that a few females say that they don’t look down there. Baloney!
As a woman, NO. I shouldn’t even be noticing.
Yes, and then you lock the car doors. We’ve done it before. The guy didn’t think anyone was looking and zipped his fly up at a gas station. My sister leaned out the door and shouted, “Check your fly before you leave the house!” It was great.
A quietly uttered “zipper”in passing should do the trick…
Without hesitation.
XYZ is all you need to say.
yes
Yeah, I’d wait to say it really loudly within a large crowded area.
LOL yeah. i don’t want to be scarred with anymore uncoverings
nope, i’d just laugh. haha
if I know his name, yes. If not… well, he’ll figure it out eventually.
If he is nice and I feel comfortable enough then yeah. I usually do but for guys it’s a little harder because I’m a girl and it could be a little bit embarrassed for him to hear it from a girl.
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Absolutely. Especially if I don’t know them – I’ll likely never see them again and they won’t have to be self conscious!
Not likely.
if i’m close enough to him. if i’m a distance from him i wouldn’t want to shout
It depends on how comfortable I feel with him (you don’t have to know someone that well to feel comfortable). I’d probably just tell him and not make a big scene out of it.
But if not, I’d find a guy to do it.
yep. i don’t wanna see his hangly-dangly.
if he’s a stranger, no way. if i’ve met you at least once, yeah. don’t want you to be cold down there and wonder why.
No, he’ll figure it out eventually.
Nope, because I don’t look at guys’ crotches, I usually don’t ever directly look at everyone I pass – unless they start talking to me or I happen to catch them staring at me. :] So I don’t ever know either.
If I was near him I probably would. Don’t want the poor guy to be any more embarrassed than he has to be.
Certainly
No.
Only if I knew him well.
If I don’t know him but we have mutual friends I would. If they are a total stranger..no way.
yeah. cuz otherwise he’ll notice later and be like “all those hundreds of people saw and didn’t say anything — those jerks.”
Yeah but I’ll take him away from the crowd first before I tell him to save him from embarrassment. =)
Yes.
Depends. If I was on my own, probably. With people, I’d be more likely to mock the guy than tell him. Mocking is only fun when you’ve got an audience; otherwise, you may as well let the poor sucker know.
laugh first.
tell him after.
depends. probably not though, if he seems cool then yeah i would. what a weird question -_-
Now why on earth would I be looking down there in the first place??
I hardly ever notice when someone’s zipper is down, so I probably wouldn’t tell him.
Yes.. but I would tell him quickly and try not to laugh.. but if its one of my friends I would tell them and then joke about it some.. ha ha. I mean, what are friends for?
Daniel (doubledb)
Heck yeah. I would tell him indiscretely, making as much effort to not embarass him and let him know I wasn’t looking inappropriately but merely by off chance.
It’d only be polite.
Sure, why not? I also tell bad drivers when they need a correction too. I’m usually much more vocal with the bad drivers because of the distance between vehicles. I also cuss to get their attention. But, just saying XYZ works in this case.
no
Of course. It’s an unspoken code of ethics. If you see it, it is your responsibility to tell them as privately as possible, and expect that someone will do the same for you. It’s really quite embarrassing otherwise.
Probably.
haha well if hes im my circle of people im with ill prolly make fun of him… and he’ll get the idea… if i dont know him at all… well ill just point and laugh.
I actually was in that exact scenario, the other day, and I did not say a thing.
And let him know you had been looking at his crotch?!
No, but I would tell one of my guy friends to tell him!
In a heartbeat.
I’m always way too embarrassed to say anything – which is weird, because it’s not my fly – but that’s just the way it is I guess. I’m a horrible person.
I don’t just tell them, I make a scene.
Depends on how funny it looks, naw I would tell for sure.
depends if i know him
If I wasn’t with a guy I knew I’d probably try to subtly indicate to him that it was down.
Depends on the guy.
Weird guy: No.
Co-worker: Yes.
Friend of a friend: maybe.
No…I will never known about it because I dont look down there. I got a uncle that always seem to see things like that.
This is PROOF that women look down there! If they never look, they wouldn’t know about it. HAHAHA
just tell him his barns open and you don’t wan to see his little chicken get lost.
Yes, because apparently leaving your fly open can get you registered on the sex offender list these days. Bullshit, I know, but a true story.
yep. I’ll ask him if he has a license to sell hotdogs XD
I would not feel confident to go up to a bloke and tell him if I did not know him.
I think I’d have some questions for myself before I talked to him. First things first, why am I looking at some stranger’s crotch?
Of course
thats usually not something i even notice but if i happen to i generally just laugh and walk away
mayb. if not i would get my hubby to tell them.
If its open all the way than NO…..Let them find out on there own and say the same thing all of us guys do when we find it later “Yep Im a jackass……….”
Yes.
hahah, I’m glad I don’t tuck my shirt’s in because I have forgot at times. I would want someone to tell me discretely.
no…should I? lol
honestly, probably not. i’d think it would be more embarassing for me to point it out than for him to walk around with it down.
I wouldn’t. Unless I wanted to see their reaction, then I’d shout it loudly from across the room.
Sure, very quietly and tactfully, unless when I approach, he pulls something out, then I report him to the police!
Yeah. I’d hope someone would do the same for me if the same thing happened to me. How can we expect to get assistance if we refuse to give it?
yep.
I don’t know..probably not. But if his junk was hanging out then I’d probably say something like “your barn door is open…” and leave it at that.
depends
“XYZ,” I don’t think I’d say anything else if he doesn’t get it though.
Definitely! hey it happens, it would be my pleasure to tell him, specially if he is hot!! nothing better then seeing a hot guy blushing
Yes-
nope.
why bother? is it really a big deal?
I only tell guys I know well.
Yeah.
“Hey mister, your schlong is hanging out! Zip that fly up!” I have no problem saying that!
I have a young son, so I’m used to it now.
of course….i love loking at guys down there….
Yes….and I have….multiple times. Apparently this is a problem a lot of guys have. How do you forget to pack in your junk and zip up your fly???
Personally I think some do it on purpose.
Absolutely- I would want someone else to do the same for me.
No. I look away and never say anything, ever-because that is what I would want in the reverse situation.
Yea, after i laughed quite obviously at him.
discreetly so
If I’m close enough I whistle and point down.
@Curlyquilter - Very good – irony usually doesn’t get recognised around here!
If I could do so discreetly, then sure.
depends. if he looks like a nice guy, I’d tell him to save him embarrassment. if he looks[and, most likely, acts] like an asshole, I could care less.
its harder for me because im a girl
i would only tell my friends, but not really strangers
First i take into effect the situation. Then i tell him in a way that wont draw attention. For me its just like offering a piece of gum if someone has bad breath or straight up telling someone that they need a shower. It shouldnt be offensive but if it needs to be said then why not?
maybe…im not sure i really stare at peoples fly’s
I wouldn’t. I’d be too shy. Ha.
i know i should, but i’d be worry that he might think, “why did she look there?!” soo.. maybe.
Oh yeah! I raised my hand and told the “substitute” economics professor from Oxford (young) that his zipper was down, way down! He quitely went to his desk, sat down, put both hands under the desk, and applied the invisible hand method!
It’s the truth!
I wouldn’t even notice, probably.
Sure. Why not?
In most circumstances, no.
Nope, I’d be too embarrassed. The only person I’d mention that to would be my boyfriend.
Nope….if I was in a coffee shop, I may grab a napkin and write on it..”Check you fly b/c it’s open
” and then drop it on his table.
If I don’t know him at all: no. I’d be too shy.
If I’ve met them before, close or not: yes.
you might seem rude, but hey.. you’re saving him embarrassment…
It’s interesting that a few females say that they don’t look down there. Baloney!
As a woman, NO. I shouldn’t even be noticing.
Yes, and then you lock the car doors. We’ve done it before. The guy didn’t think anyone was looking and zipped his fly up at a gas station. My sister leaned out the door and shouted, “Check your fly before you leave the house!” It was great.
A quietly uttered “zipper”in passing should do the trick…
Without hesitation.
XYZ is all you need to say.
yes
Yeah, I’d wait to say it really loudly within a large crowded area.
LOL yeah. i don’t want to be scarred with anymore uncoverings
nope, i’d just laugh. haha
if I know his name, yes. If not… well, he’ll figure it out eventually.
If he is nice and I feel comfortable enough then yeah. I usually do but for guys it’s a little harder because I’m a girl and it could be a little bit embarrassed for him to hear it from a girl.
With my eyes.