Month: March 2008

  • Pregnancy and Handicapped Parking

    A new bill has been presented in California that would allow pregnant women in their “final three months of pregnancy and the
    first two months after birth” to use handicapped parking spots.

    There are those who oppose the bill saying women need the exercise during that time of their life.  Here is the link:  Link

    I have seen a few “handicapped” people that look like they need the exercise more than the pregnant.

    Do you think pregnant women should be able to use the handicapped parking spots?

                                                                                    

  • How Xanga can assist sites in gaining traffic

    About a year ago, xanga moved away from using a link that was
    called “Featured Content.”  The “Featured Content” was a link that
    showed all the most epropped sites for the day.  To make “Featured
    Content” was a status symbol for some bloggers.  It was a way to
    generate traffic for others.
     
    I think Xanga
    needs to use a new system that uses the best of what “Featured Content”
    provided while removing some of the flaws of the old “Featured Content”
    system.
     
    Why would xanga want to use an improved “Featured Content” system?
     
    The first reason is it would help the most popular sites on xanga.
     
    Have
    you noticed how so many of the sites that used to be on the old
    “Featured Content” system are either gone or significantly smaller? 
    There is a reason for that.  Under the old “Featured Content” system, Xanga fed more traffic to the sites that were performing the best by a measure of eprops.  Xanga was rewarding the sites that worked the hardest for the traffic.
     
    If you think about
    this for a minute, that was smart.  It only makes sense that Xanga would reward those who worked hardest on xanga.  Xanga would want to assist those sites in doing well. 
     
    Let
    me point out other sites that do the same basic thing.  I noticed that
    myspace has a system in place for bloggers.  The system looks oddly
    like xanga’s old featured content.  In fact, for all I know myspace
    stole the idea from xanga.  Their system is based on “Kudos” but it
    operates just like the old “Featured Content” system.
     
    The
    sites that get the most “kudos” get more traffic.  I have actually ran
    a side site over on myspace and I was able to get to the top of their
    “Featured Content” on my first try.  (That would not be possible now
    sense it has grown).  I noticed that I received over a hundred friend
    request for my efforts.  With a little time spent over there, I could
    have easily been at the top right from the time I posted which I
    believe would have gotten over 200 friend request in a rotation.  (Now
    that would even be bigger because myspace has more traffic on their
    blog link now).
     
    One
    small difference in the Myspace system is some sort of bias to the most
    popular sites.  In other words, even if a site doesn’t have the most
    “kudos” (eprops) they can get to the top quickly.  I noticed that bands
    with hundreds of thousands of friends or really popular bloggers like
    Pink or others can go to the top group very fast even if they don’t
    have the top “kudos.”  The best I can tell is that this is based on the
    amount of traffic that goes to their site when they send out a mass
    message or it is based on the amount of friends they have.  I would
    guess it is the traffic issue.
     
    In other words, myspace rewards a site based on how much (kudos) they get with some sort of
    traffic bias.
     
    But
    Myspace doesn’t just provide the blog link on the front of their page. 
    Myspace actually has that link on every page of their site.  That link
    at the top marked “blog” is on every page no matter where a person goes
    on that page.  On xanga you will actually only see that link on the
    front page of xanga.  That gives a blogger on myspace an advantage that
    is huge.  It shows a huge commitment by myspace to assisting the growth
    of their blogs with the most “kudos.”
     
    What
    happens if a person hits on that “Blog” link at the top of the page? 
    If they are not signed in, it takes the person to the most popular
    blogs of the day.  So a link at the top of every page links to the most
    popular blogs of the day that is determined by “Kudos” (eprops).
     
    If
    they are signed in, it takes the person to their blog.  But if you are
    signed in and you hit “blog” what do you see at the top of your page? 
    You see a link to the most popular blogs of the day.  So every single
    site on the front page of their blog has a link to the most popular
    blogs of the day.
     
    So
    we will recap what myspace does to assist its most popular blogs.  They
    have a link from the front page.  But more importantly, they have that
    same blog link on every page of myspace.  In addition to that myspace
    links the most popular blogs from every person’s blog page.  Myspace is
    helping their top blogs that are putting in the most effort get even
    more popular.
     
    Now the thought going through
    your mind is probably “Yeah, that is myspace but they just post photos
    and write dumb blogs anyway.”  I don’t know what day anyone may be
    reading this but I am going to take a risk.  I am going to make a
    prediction.  Read the 50 top starred sites on xanga.  Go ahead and do
    it.  You back?  Now go read the top 50 “kudos” sites on myspace.  What
    did you find?  I have checked this a few times but myspace has at least
    the same quality of posts in their most popular section than xanga does
    with its most “starred” section.  In fact, I bet myspace has a higher
    quality of content.  Go and look.
     
    So
    the kudos (eprop) system does not produce a lower quality of content. 
    But myspace is doing something that is smart.  They are feeding those
    who are already getting the most traffic.  It only makes sense that a
    site would feed its most popular blogs and reward them with more
    traffic.  It motivates the blogger to get more traffic, more comments
    and more kudos (eprops).
     
    Do you see the
    problem with stars?  It actually gives traffic to people that have
    gained not one comment.  That is like giving a raise to the lowest
    performing employee in the business and stiffing the guy who is
    performing better than anyone.  It doesn’t make sense to drive more
    traffic to people who have shown no ability to retain it.
     
    Something
    funny happens when you reward sites that are driving the traffic. 
    Everyone learns from them.  They realize the name of the game is to
    gain traffic, comments and eprops.  It will get them more traffic,
    comments and eprops.  They watch the sites that are performing and they
    try to do what they are doing.  They try to get more traffic and
    comments.  But if a person sees that xanga is rewarding the person with
    the most stars, they will learn that the name of the game is to get
    more stars.
     
    Another thought, what is easier
    to manipulate?  Is it easier to manipulate eprops or stars?  It is
    easier to manipulate stars.  Why?  Because eprops are what the whole
    xanga community uses and stars are what a small portion of the
    community uses.  Eprops represent the will of the xanga community more
    clearly than stars does.  Stars represents the will of a few.
     
    Here
    is the problem with stars and boost.  The elitist and those who
    manipulate control it.  How many people were participating in stars? 
    Actually a small group.  Most of the top starred people were getting
    fewer than 5 stars without manipulation.  So five people were
    controlling the content.  While 100 people may be saying something
    different five people were able to control the content.
     
    Now
    the same problem existed with boost.  Boost was controlled by a small
    number of people.  The smaller number of people controlling it will
    lead to weaker content and more manipulation.  I am sure at this point
    xanga may be thinking about boost and stars and thinking that another
    system should be put in place.  The thinking will be that this system
    will be easier to use and will have more people rating other blogs. 
    The question I have for you is “What can be easier than starring
    someone?”  Nothing.  It is the easiest thing to do.  But yet only a few
    people participated leaving it up to manipulation.
     
    So
    xanga can put a stop to this and say they will ban the people who are
    manipulating the system.  That will not work either.  Then the top
    sites will stop manipulating for fear of being banned and the smaller
    sites will gain even more control of the system.
     
    Another
    rating system will not work when no one is using it.  No matter what
    system xanga puts into place, they will not have more participation
    than what they have with the eprop.  The eprop system had its flaws but
    those flaws should have been fixed intead of pitching the system.  We
    don’t need a system that a few decide but instead need a system that
    the whole community decides.

     

    Youtube
    also supports its most popular sites.  They let the community pick the
    content.  They control their front page just like myspace and xanga. 
    But their main default video page is set to most viewed.  The name of
    the game is that the community decides what should be viewed.  If you
    look at the most starred section of youtube, you will find it is the
    most spammed.  Stars does not work there either.  People are willing to
    create a few hundred sites in order to get into the most starred
    section.
     
    So instead, youtube drives traffic and has its default for the video link set to most viewed.  In other words,
    the community gets to decide what is most popular.  Youtube
    does very little manipulation of that link.  They only remove videos
    that are copyrighted when someone complains and only remove videos that
    are manipulated to the top when it is pointed out to them and it is
    obvious.  Besides that, the community gets to decide.
     
    In
    addition, youtube drives more traffic to the most viewed section.  No
    matter where you go on youtube, that video link is typically on the top
    of the page.  The default for that video link is set to the most viewed
    videos of the day.  What is youtube doing?  They are sending traffic to
    the most viewed sites.  Youtube is letting the community pick traffic.  The community gets to decide who gets the most traffic.  Once again, Youtube has that link on every page through their site.  That is a huge advantage.  Xanga actually only has that link on their front
    page.
     
    But Youtube
    does something else to support the most viewed sites.  Go to the front
    page of youtube.  Look at the top.  Do you see what youtube does?  They
    play videos on the top of their page that are some of the favorite
    videos of the day.  You know where that list comes from?  Most of those
    videos come from the most viewed section.  I have been or assisted
    someone who has been on the front page three times now.  It is a lot of
    work to get there.  One of those was a lady that I told what she should
    do and she ended up being featured by Youtube
    She just got to the most viewed section and youtube featured her.  How
    many views did she get?  600,000.  I then worked with someone else and
    we got to the most viewed section of youtube on the forth and fifth
    page.  Youtube put both videos on the top rotation of videos.  How many views did we get for our efforts? 
    We got over 200,000 views on each video. 
     
    Youtube feeds more traffic to its most popular videos. 
     
    Xanga
    should be feeding traffic to its most popular sites.  I appreciated the
    thought that went into boost.  I appreciated the thought that went into
    stars.  I appreciated the effort that went into “recommend.”  But the
    problem with each of these systems is that they can be manipulated. 
    Recommend is a good feature and xanga should keep it.  But it will not
    give us the best content.  Instead it will be manipulated if xanga puts
    the top “recommended” on its default weblog link at the top of the
    front page.  Don’t take my word for it.  Give it a few months.  As soon
    as the xanga leadership ignores it, it will get spammed. 
     
    Plus
    there is a fundamental problem with stars, boost and recommend.  The
    average recommend post will only get about 5 recommends.  Even if xanga
    can get that number up to 10 recommends, it still reflects what a small
    portion of the xanga community wants.
     
    What should xanga do?
     
    They should create a system like the old featured content with a few adjustments.
     
    1. 
    There should be 50 sites on the front page of the video link like the
    old featured content.  It should not be like the front page of the star
    system and have only 10 sites on it.  The more clicks, the less traffic
    goes to the other pages.
     
    2.  Xanga
    should have multiple pages on that link and list everyone like myspace
    does.  Myspace actually allows thousands of blogs in order and people
    can click through and see all of them.  By the way, this would make it
    easier for xanga to find good content for their front page.
     
    3.  Xanga
    should make it so a site only appears once on that link.  I think we
    all know the problem of one person being able to dominate stars or the
    old featured content.
     
    4.  Xanga
    should separate the traffic of the chinese sites and give them their
    own link from the front page.  The chinese people will appreciate this
    and we will also.  (By the way, xanga had a few stars on xanga and
    their sites have actually went down in traffic since xanga did away
    with featured content.  Mandystarz has gotten less comments since xanga
    did away with it.  Xanga would do well for themselves to feed these Chinese sites with a link to the front page).
     
    5.  Xanga should allow this link to update more than the old featured content did.  It should update every hour.
     
    6.  Xanga should make the rotation time shorter than the old
    featured content.  In other words, xanga should make the rotation time 24-26 hours.  (Youtube
    has a 49 hour rotation.  A longer rotation works for videos.  Just like
    a photo rotation could be as long as a month or two).  *Hint, hint
    xanga should extend the rotation of the photos and rotate them*
     
    7.  Xanga needs to do more than just create a link off of the front page of xanga.  Xanga
    should drive traffic to those links just like they do with the featured
    posts on everyone’s private page.  In other words, the link really does
    very little.  Xanga
    needs to commit itself to driving with force traffic to those most
    popular sites.  This will cause everyone on the page to get traffic.
     
    8.  Xanga
    should program the system so that as soon as a person updates, the old
    posts falls off that link in two hours.  This is better for all of us. 
    But if a person updates then their most current post is the one that
    shows up.  This is good on a few fronts. 
     
    9. 
    There is a reason I mentioned a 26 hour rotation.  Lets use Cakalusa
    and DMV for a few minutes.  Say Cakalusa updates his blog every day at
    the same time.  He updates every 24 hours.  If the rotation lasts 26
    hours, his old post has a two hour overlap to get comments before his
    new posts gets to the top.  I actually like the 24 hour system better
    but the 26 hour rotation actually leaves it open for those who update
    every 24 hours so that they still have a link to the front page.  This
    may not be possible but it is ideal.
     
    10. Xanga
    should put a link on everyone’s private home page to the most popular
    link of the day.  In other words, I am asking that xanga doesn’t just
    make the weblog a default for most eprops.  I am asking that they drive
    traffic to it.
     
    11.  I think the page should be
    unedited.  But if xanga will not allow for that, xanga should put an
    18+ next to those blogs.  This would actually drive more traffic to
    those sites and not hurt them.  If xanga can’t add the 18+ label, they
    should add a link that they drive traffic to that is labeled as 18+.


    Take a look at a site like Drakonskyr.  Xanga does not currently have a system that drives traffic to his site.  Take a look at Cakalusa.  Xanga does not have a system that currently drives traffic to his site.  Let bloggers get away from boosting, starring and recommending and get back in the business of focusing on their sites and commenting.

    This would put the selection back in the hands of the xanga community.

    By the way, recommend this post since it is the current system.  Just hit that heart at the top of the comment section.

                                                                        

  • Call Time

    What is the latest someone should call your house at night with a nonemergency?

                                                                                

  • Spring Break and Self-Esteem

    I was watching Bill O’Reilly on the O’Reilly Report tonight.

    He has a segment with video of Spring Break.  He was talking about how women and young people in general go on Spring Break and make videos of themselves in compromising positions.


    He was talking about how these young people were doing things on camera with limited or no clothing that would cause them problems later in life when looking for a job.

    Bill O’Reilly said that women dance and get naked in front of crowds because they have a low self-esteem.  One of his guest said just the opposite.  He said that the women did this because they had hyper self-esteem.

    Do you think the exhibitionist behavior on Spring Break is a sign of a high self-esteem or a low self-esteem?

                                                                                                    

  • Commenting and Posting

    I have noticed blogs that update regularly and yet no one comments on their blogs.  And yet, they keep updating.  They post regularly without fail.  In fact, I have this one lady that I subscribe to and she doesn’t even have her comments enabled.

    If everyone stopped commenting on your posts, would you still post to xanga?

                                 

  • Right To Die

    A woman from France died after suffering from a facial tumor.

    She was in national news in France when she requested a doctor-assisted suicide.  She was a school teacher and a mother.  She had a rare form of cancer.  The illness “left her blind, and with no sense of smell or taste.”  She could not use morphine because she had side effects.

    She wanted to receive a lethal dose of barbiturates under a doctor’s supervision.  According to the article, euthanasia is allowed in Belgium and the Netherlands.  Here is the link:  Link

    Do you think a person has a right to a doctor-assisted suicide?

                                                                        

  • Nice Guys Finish Last

    I posted an article in my photoblog that was titled “Harvard Study:  Nice Guys Finish First.”




    The article was based on the idea that coaches that punish the athletes constantly tend to do poorly in the long run.  Here is the link:  Link

    In the comment section, I received this comment:

    “When it comes to dating, nice guys finish last. GOOD guys, thoughfinish first, even if they act cocky and play the occasional jerk.”  QuantumStorm

    When it comes to dating, do nice guys finish last?

                                                                       
                                                                                             

  • Trashy Blog

    I received this message tonight:

    “Dear Mr. Cafe,

    Does anyone else notice? Your posts have been full of trash lately.
    Since you don’t blog about personal things here, I realize you are
    somewhat limited, but hmmm. Maybe the person who took over while you
    were on vacation *clears throat* didn’t understand your standards?

    I
    don’t mean to be offensive to you, but since you are so widely
    plastered (all over xanga I mean), maybe you could consider blogging on
    something besides: prostitutes, penises (how do you pluralize that
    one?), and sexual assault. Maybe you’re in a bad mood lately, I could
    sure understand that!

    Your friend,

    Sheri”

    I think Sheri has raised an important issue that is worthy of our discussion.

    Without looking, what is the plural of penis?

                                                             

  • Are Humans Meant to be Monogamous?

    I was just reading an article that asked the question “Are Humans Meant to be Monogamous?”

    The article pointed out the recent trend of politicians and their extramarital affairs.  The article also pointed out that “only 3 percent to 5 percent of the roughly 5,000 species of mammals
    (including humans) are known to form lifelong, monogamous bonds.”  Here is the link:  Link

    Are humans meant to be monogamous?

                                                               

  • A Dying Wish

    10-year-old Jayci Yaeger is dying.

    She has multiple brain tumors.  She has one dying wish.  Her final wish is for her father to spend what time left she has with her.  He is in federal prison on drug charges.  The federal prison officials have denied request to give him a 30-day release to spend with his daughter.  Here is the link:  Link

    Do you think the prison officials should release the father from prison for 30 days to spend with his dying daughter?