May 1, 2008
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Sex Change
Just before I went on break, I went to a site where the person was filling out one of those question and answer surveys. One of the questions was “if you woke up the next morning and you were suddenly the opposite sex, what would you do?” The lady answered the question “I would go have sex.”
I don’t think I could ever adjust to the idea of having sex with a guy even if I was suddenly a woman. I could understand masturbating all day but not having sex with a man.
If you suddenly changed your sex, would you ever be able to adjust to the idea of having sex with your current sex?
Comments (160)
I have to be first!!
no
Yeah, absolutely. If I had a penis, I’d much rather have sex with a woman than with a man.
i think it might be interesting…but wierd!
LONGEST MONTH OF MY LIFE!!!!!!!
I would do it once. For the money.
WELCOME BACK!! I was a little worried about your 2 minute picture.
I’d have to play with myself first to get used to it, then take it from there.
Nope, I would be too freaked out by the new appendage that I wouldn’t be able to think about actually using it.
Welcome back!!!!
I do not know ,but I think I would have to give it a whirl.
Someone actually cared that fucking much about first? Christ in hell, people are pathetic.
And I think it’d take me a long time to cope with the concept of being penetrated. It just doesn’t push my buttons, man.
Sure.. no problem.
I don’t think I could, yet the idea of what it’s like would be curious…
That would be so weird. I probably wouldn’t get used to it.
I’d have to work myself up to having something inside of me in the first place.
Not exactly my cup of tea
@Drakonskyr - I sure as hell fucking did. You’re right. People are pathetic. Welcome to the race.
I’ll sway however my brain directs me. It’s not as if I’ve chosen my straight-ness…
Number 5. It could have been worse. Stupid dial-up.
Welcome back, Dan. So many of us missed you. Hope you had a good Xangacation.
In answer… no, I really don’t think so.
Nobody masturbates all day. My goodness. That’d send any mortal to the ER.
If I woke up and discovered I’d turned into a man, the first thing I’d do was wonder what on earth I was supposed to wear. Like, my girlie clothes would look silly on me and would no longer fit.
@fullmetalbunny - Ha, that makes the both of us.
depends on whether the guy I was hot!
but then, btw, you do realize that transsexuals don’t usually change their sexual orientation after sexual reassignment surgery, right?
so basically if you were a guy attracted to girls, then you’d now be a girl attracted to girls (a lesbian girl)
or
if you were a girl that was attracted to guys, then you’d now be a guy attracted to guys (gay guy)
truth is, I’m not quite sure why sexual orientation really has anything to do with the sex change and why you are asking this question.
thanks God you’re back!
@la_faerie_joyeuse - Good point.
I’m fine with either, so it wouldn’t bother me none. :]
I think I’m gonna take a pass on this one…I’m gonna have weird dreams now. thanks dan
well, actually…
I’m bi.
.
No problems for me. also, sgmeridian is right.
most transsexuals don’t change their orientation when they change their sex.
however, yeah, if I was suddenly a man, I’d want to see what was so great about a penis.
I’d pee standing up, shake it off, and go find someone with whom to try out my new toy.
I think …hmmm. I really don’t know. Probably not, because my brain will still be a girl.
It is so good to have you back,all is right with the Xanga world again!
No probably not. Nothing is going in me.
Hells yeah
Well.. I’m bi, so I adore women, so I wouldn’t have as hard of a time – but it would be disturbing, especially since I have a guy in my life right now!
I think it would be harder for a guy than for a girl, though, honestly.
Oh, Welcome back! ^_^
~Misa
I’d have to figure out how it all worked first, then maybe.
and WELCOME BACK! And Welcome to Texas!
@quodmenutriut - Actually, I wouldn’t consider my instance of this hypothetical as “changing orientation”. I realize this is a personal definition and would be different for everyone, but to me, my “orientation” is preferring male-female sex, no matter which half I am.
Never. Im scared of rug burn.
Okay that was nasty, but No. I couldnt have sex with the same sex. Although If I was made a man, I would totally play with my penis all. day. long. Oh and I would see how far I could pee. Maybe even draw a picture. when I started nursing, I thought it was the coolest thing. I drew pictures on the mirror, chased my husband around the house trying to squirt him and I tried to see how far I could reach with my milk.
Wait, Did I really just tell you that? A little too much information, no?
Sorry.
To answer your question.
No.
would the sex still be all sacred?
Ah.. you’re finally back!
And I just think this question is weird.
I dont think I could.
Why would you have to have a sex change to be attracted to the same sex? I’d venture to guess that more women would be okay with it than men … I think probably 90% of women are bi, if they’re willing to admit it. Sure would be a trip, though. I’d probably want to try peeing standing up first, too @quodmenutriut. LOL
I don’t think it would be an easy adjustment…
No I would be too busy buying shoes
@Consenttotreatment - Well, you did get Xanga to discuss toilet paper, and how we fold or stack or wad (or wad and tear- ‘member me?)…
It’s Toomuchinformation Woman! And her superpowers are catching! ^_^
Well I’m bisexual so the idea to me is more that appealing.
I have always wondered what it would be like to have a penis. Especially for sex. I’d have to play with my new toy a bit before I could amaze a female with my skills.
But, I’d have no problem getting groiny with the same sex.Then again, I don’t really have a problem with it now.
i would be so gay. But i doubt Dan could handle that. This is just to much of a problem
i go both ways as a male
i guess i’d try it if i were female
I think my “No one sticks shit in me” rule would still hold true.
i asked a similar question like this…
and yes, i would have sex. only cuz there are times i fantasize about women. xD maybe cuz i’m bi? ish…..?
:]
Since you’re just randomly waking up as the opposite sex, I’m assuming your brain would be the opposite sex’s aswell. If that’s the case, the brain would already be adjusted to liking your new opposite sex. This factor would make it less of a challenge to like that sex.
wow.. that was confusing XD
I’d be freaking out. This reminds me a manga where this dude gets into a horrible accident and a mad scientist turns him into the wrong sex because there was no identification on him except a picture of the girl he secretly likes. So the mad scientist made him look just like her!
if i had a penis
i would be the biggest man whore (with women) ever
gay man sex is just gross to me… but I’m a straight girl
Uhhh, no! I would not have sex with a girl. No way.
I’d go ghay and bang some hot guys with my new penis!!
Lmfao. Gotta break it in somehow.
Xo
oh yeah… I’d want to know what guys feel when they do it!
plus, i’d know what to do to a girl.. if you catch my drift..
@fullmetalbunny - AH HA HA HA HA! Im pretty gangsta! I say what people only think. Eff that, I freakin rock. Aint no shame in my game! I wad AND I SPRAY BREAST MILK EVERYWHERE! (well, I did)
How could I ever forget you, dear. You should be embarrassed, who tears? Seriously, TEAR???? FREAK
If we’re gonna go along with the logic of emberfly where I have the brain of the opposite sex too (thus making it quite easy to adjust), then I’m pretty sure we’ll go along with the stereotypes and assume that if I magically turned into a man tomorrow morning the only thing on my mind would be sex. So of course that’d be the first thing I’d do…and I’m quite okay with that.
But I gotta agree with most everyone who commented so far…girls can imagine doing it with another girl much easier than most guys doing it with another guy. Interesting.
Welcome back.
LOL I think you know this but I did have a dream like that some weeks ago. Although, I wasn’t a man in the dream, I just had a penis. And if I remember correctly, I did want to have sex. With men. So if I changed genders, I suppose I’d just be a gay man.
Well first, I think I’d take a pass at the refrigerator and see what all this fuss about it “being cold” is about.
if i turned into a woman, i don’t think i would leave the house, i’d be having too much fun. if i had to have sex with someone, i’d have to be a lesbian.
maybe she’s secretly lesbian…
sides.. guys get more pleasure out of sex anyways, might as well take advantage of being a guy…
Yes totally i would have sex with my same gender. This is totally not affected by the fact that i have some sexual interest in females too. Maybe i will be like your typical assholes who would woo after a female (Thrill of skirt chase!).
But nah, i think i want that extra thing that replaces the brain subsequently.
In a heartbeat.
@LetMeGoToo - I find some women aesthetically appealing, but not sexually appealing, precisely because I enjoy the concept of penetrative sex. I have never seen a woman I wanted to have sex with. Simply by being a girl, and having a female body, I want to have sex with a man, because it just fits (no pun intended). A dildo isn’t the same, particularly in partner play: I want the real thing.
However, ironically, I would totally be attracted to women if I had a penis. If I had a penis, I would want to be doing the penetrating, preferably into a female partner, but I wouldn’t be opposed to having a male partner (not for anal sex, though, for either of us).
Does this distinction make sense? So, I don’t consider myself bisexual whatsoever. But if my gender changed, I’d prefer sex with a woman.
@azn_chick26 - ”guys get more pleasure out of sex”?
Maybe you should find a new boyfriend. No offense to your current/past one(s).
hell yeah…i have always wanted to be a guy for a day so i could jerk it and have sex with a girl..see what the hype for guys is all about
I wouldn’t even want to! It’d just be gross and weird. I would hate to be a man.
NEVER!
it’s easy, be a lesbian. I know i’m a lesbian trapped in a man’s body.
i’d rather be a man then a women.. i mean on the sex part that is. so i would probably adjust. no homo!
ryc: I’ve never had an incorrect answer if I do a reading for myself. For others it’s harder, because my cards have to attune to the other person… which can be extremely difficult if it’s for a friend online. Normally, if I have a picture of the person I’m doing the reading for, it’s more accurate. There are a couple of people in my life though that, if I just think about them and a question, I get my answer without the cards.
Yay!! You’re back!! You’re back!! :] uhm, well, for the question.. probably not. :] but i have to check out my, new temporary, uh–features.
I’d stick to what I do now, which is having sex with robots.
I also got the 69th question on a sex post. Beat that, suckers.
I’m pretty sure I’d be a lesbian.
@what_i_watch -
totally on the same page with you on that one. suddenly having a penis??? i don’t think i could deal. i would have to relearn how to pee first. hahaha.
only if i had a penis. girls are fun to look at and stuff, but i don’t really get how two girls can have sex without a penis.
just because my sex would change, wouldn’t mean my sexual preference would change. i’d just become a gay man.
although, i’m attracted to a very specific type and it’s really rare to find one of the gay variety, so i’d probably just wish i could have sex, but end up just you know, killing myself or something because i wouldn’t be able to find anybody i liked
…man, this question reminds me of how i love being female so much.
would do it in a heart beat.
…and the storm outside reminds me of how much i hate being single. boo!
Interesting,
If I still retained my lust for ladies, but then found I was a lady…I’d probably be a lesbian. However, it’s possible my curiosity may get the better of me, and I’d end up at least trying to play with another mans…you know…and see if I want to go further.
Anyway I’d rather not think about this anymore. Just my two cents.
yeah! i want to know what it feels like for a guy..
guess not. first thing i would do.. maybe play a prank on my girl-friends hehe.
Yeah.
I am so glad you’re back! Xanga was a little emptier without you. This occasion calls for a Mini!
And to answer your question, if I woke up as a man, I would stay inside all day. I’m not a great looking girl, and I’m sure I’d make an ugly man.
@apennieformythoughts - Man, one time I yelled first, and it started a huge fucking debate amongst some of the readers here. If you want to talk “pathetic”… yeesh. I wonder how anyone could possibly take it so seriously.
Man, I have no idea.
@huginn - But hey man, didn’t you know? People choose their sexuality.
No, seriously, that really makes a hell of a lot of sense.
i would, but i have had sex with women before. having gay sex with a man would be nasty. anything anal isnt for me.
Yes.
Hell, I’d have sex with another girl without changing my sex in the first place. I just prefer if they weren’t into the S&M or some form of fetishism.
if i found out i was a woman one morning, i’d quit my job and masturbate for a year.
intriguing….
WELCOME BACK!!!!
Woohoo, you are back!
I’d do it.
My comment is….no comment
Who needs a sudden sex change? I’m adjusted to it now!
Ummm, speaking from observation, the dynamics of intergender sex kinda sucks for women (because men suck, sorry, we do). I’m not sure I could live as the Other sex and be heterosexual. Not so much because of the “penetration” complaint that every other male has–because, to be honest, I would kinda kill for a “g spot” that wasn’t in my anus–but more because of the power dynamics. I don’t think I could settle into gender modes after being a man for as long as I have been.
However, I imagine that I would feel compelled to experience it before too long. I mean, what’s the use of being a woman if you never experience a triple orgasm? The most i can experience as a man is some roping or a double. But perhaps no one knows what I’m talking about. If so, sorry for you.
Learn your body, you’ll thank yourself for it.
Yes, yes, yes!
Uh, no.
Ahh, WELCOME BACK!! It is so good hearing from you again. Hope the move was well and smoothly. Like mine, I guess… [moved from Missouri to Arkansas. Big changes] As for your question of the day, probably. I have always wondered what it is like being a man, and to experince them at least for a day so maybe for a change, I can understand them NOT understanding women. HA!! ^_^
Yes. Absolutely.
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Does this mean you’re back?
It would be odd, but maybe being bisexual wouldn’t make it so odd to do…?
Who cares? I’m just glad you’re back!
Sure, why not.
Missed ya. Enjoying Texas?
I’d give it a whirl, oh yes I would. My boyfriend and I always wonder what the other feels during sex.. cept.. I wouldn’t have sex because I’d have to find a girl and that’d make it lesbian sex and I dont swing that way…
Glad to see you back, Dan. I was afraid you had decided to be lazy and only post the picture questions instead of real discussions.
I’m only sexually attracted to the opposite sex. So I don’t think I’d get used to the idea.
But really, if I woke up and found a penis where a vagina was supposed to be…you can bet going out and having sex would be the least of my worries.
No, I don’t think I could.
sorry, but uh, no. I don’t think I could handle that much.
YES!
lesbianism here i come!
that’s what i would say…
Uh. I don’t spend my days thinking of these things, you need to be a special form of weird to come up with a “what if” question like that.
I would play with my breasts all day.
Oooh, and I would track down Patrick Stewart and throw myself at him.
thats a tough call! the human mind isn’t capable of understanding something that sudden.
But the whole point of having a sex change operation is that you’re the opposite sex trapped in the body you have. So, you’d already be attracted to your sexual preference. If I were to have a sex change operation, it would mean that a–I find myself as a man trapped in a woman’s body, and b–I’m already attracted to women.
I’d definitely want to give my newfound penis a try. LOL!
@quodmenutriut - I’m w/ you on this one…
No, if I were a man I’d probably be gay. Definitely gay, yes.
@JimiRy - I’m not trying to debate or start a fight. WIth Drakonskyr?! Don’t you know who he is?! He’s big and mean and scary. I’d lose in a heartbeat. I’m sensitive. He’d make me cry, lmao (I’m joking. But serious)! I just had to do it. Everyone always makes such a huge deal about being first on Dan’s site. It’s his first post with comments in a little over a month… I couldn’t resist. In fact, when Dan posts regularly, I don’t usually comment unless I really care about his question.
In a heartbeat. … I guess that’s an advantage of being bisexual?
@sgmeridian - they’re not related.
clearly you mistook Dan’s clever title for what the post was about, instead of actually reading it. Because the real post doesn’t say “sex change” or “transsexual” in it anywhere
@Consenttotreatment - that is hilarious! sounds like fun.
@DrugInducedDuck - such a bright-line rule? so sad… you’re really missing out
Being bisexual, I think that decision isn’t very difficult. I can’t imagine a strictly straight person transitioning so quickly though.
Hypothetically, if a straight girl changes into a guy, I think she’d still be attracted to guys, and same for a straight guy… I don’t think a gender change would necessitate a sexual orientation change.
To answer your question, yeah, I’d be able to adjust.
I probably wouldn’t have a problem with it. Sounds exciting =)
That is the most complicated question I’ve ever heard.
eh
I’d be too busy peeing on burning buildings or people on fire.
You can’t get mad at someone if they pee on you to put out a fire that they didn’t start.
If I woke up with a penis I’d immediately head to the bathroom, pee standing up, then giggle the rest of the day. I probably wouldn’t even think about sex. Brilliant, eh?
Though I try to think about this question and how to answer; it keeps turning my stomach so, I guess I would say no…
I am sure I would have to be changed back.
Welcome BACK!!!!
My answer:
It would depend on if i woke up knowing that yesterday I was a woman and today I am a man..
I do not think I could adjust if i knew but if i didn’t know I guess I wouldn’t care and live on as i had before… (only as a man of course LOL)
But then again I am often heard (usually once a month) saying “I hate being a woman”….
that usually passes and obviously I have no plans to change that fact lol…
That’d be weird, but I’d be a one hell of a lesbian.
Butch in army wear kind that gets all the lipstick chicks.
I think I agree with whoever it was who said finding the right
That and I’d probably be a little more willing to play hard
clothes haha that’d be tough. Then…well I’m not a one-night stander
so I wouldn’t go out and have sex, but I probably would go to the bars
and see how good I am at picking up on women…it’d be funny. I’d
definitely enjoy the whole pee-standing up bonus, how quick and easy is
that!?
hitting sports and what not…don’t know why, but being a man would
probably make me a little more willing to take risks…dangerous or
potentially harmful one’s that is.
I fI woke up one morning as the opposite sex, the first thing I’d do is brush my teeth.
No way
no.. it’s nasty
I think I’d have to try it out.
I think it is a bigger jump for a man to turn into a woman than a woman to turn into a man. I don’t think I would have a problem with it except learning how to deal with “uprisings” in public. A woman can hide, but a man can’t. Hmmm? Maybe it would be more difficult than I think.
Glad to have you back, Dan. You know we all missed you.
The only reason you think that way is because you’re still thinking as a male.
If I were a male, I would have sex with a woman because I’ll always be heterosexual no matter what gender HAH!
@loveandpolitics -
“Oooh, and I would track down Patrick Stewart and throw myself at him.”
That’s already my life’s mission.
@xgutterxflowerx - I so envy you.
I don’t think i can do that…
no problem. just to try it out though, i’d miss my lovely vagina. dick and balls are really ugly. it would be weird to have such an obvious vulnerability(you can punch a girl in the tits, but i doubt it hurts as much as a punch to the balls) aaaand uhh i don’t think i could get use to all those dangly bits. especially in summer. sweaty droopy balls=DISGUSTING.
geez, people keep saying all this crap about it being harder(heh) for a guy to do this than a girl, like we’ve all got penis envy or something.
if it’s more difficult for any guy, it’s probably because they have some homophobic tendencies, or because guys think their dicks are so freaking great. boys, you do know that a clitorous has twice as many nerve endings in it than your stupid dick, right? and that anal sex feels better for guys? guess not.
i couldn’t have sex with a woman. i might scratch myself or go to the urinal just because i could…but i couldn’t look into another woman’s eyes and have sex with her. even thinking about it gives me the jeebees.
I don’t think so. As much as that would spark an interest in me if I suddenly became a man, I still wouldn’t be able to do it. If I was suddenly a man, I’d like to see what it’s like to pee standing up and stuff, not have sex with a woman.
If I spontaneously became a man, besides being deeply confused and disturbed, I would not only would I have sex with women, but men, too. If the opportunity presents itself, why not do it just for, ah, research’s sake? Hah.
“Yeah, absolutely. If I had a penis, I’d much rather have sex with a woman than with a man.” -lafaeriejoyeuse
My thoughts exactly. But I’d have sex with the same sex anyway.
Oh, and I remember a year ago or so I had a dream that I was a guy. As in, I had a penis.
But the freaky thing was that I was fucking my mom. =(
It creeped me out. But now I can imagine what it’s like to have a penis, though.
Yes, of course. I’m pansexual, so it doesn’t really matter to me. I’d be more concerned about how my boyfriend would take me suddenly being a man though. He’s straight… And I wouldn’t want that to be permanent…Ick.
eeh i like women already…so i guess it’d be easy for me
no
@apennieformythoughts - Ja ja, I was just taking a moment to acknowledge that people make it into a bigger thing than it really is.
@MCTCanadian - HA! I thought the same thing. Then I thought, “no change there then…”
Yes.
It would be simple for me. I already have sex with girls, so what would be any different?
Different type of girls maybe
maybe not automatically, but i think i’d try it reguardless of attraction.
It would suck, but yeah I think I could get used to it.
I can’t deny I would be curious…. O.O
But it would be… er… awkward….
Then again, I have to find out, what IS it with men?
Dear Dan:
Now there’s an interesting “what if”! Since it would take an act of direct Divine Intervention to pull off something like that, I don’t think my first inclination would be to go out and, as with a new car, “break it in”! Miracles tend to happen for reasons beyond carnality. If I, a middle aged man, woke up one day in the body of a (young?) woman, I’d turn to God for the reason and purpose for which this had occured.
Then, of course, I’d hire a lawyer. There’d be a lot of paperwork to handle! Then I’d get a new wardrobe!!
I guess for a lot of people contemplating a sex change, they are already having sex with someone of their original sex.
my answer would be to write my name in the snow, or at least on the floor.
I’d probably stick with guys, but I’d also probably draw the line at oral, cause I dont want anything up my ass or to be in anyone else’s ass
Talk about me being late to your return party…well…..crap.
yah accha hai.
I’d eventually get used to it.
It would be kinda neat to wake up as a dude. ^-^
yeah i suppose so. (is that weird? haha)
but then again i’m a virgin soo maybe my viewpoint will change eventually.