November 17, 2008
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Sending Raunchy Photos on Your iPhone
A woman posted the following message on an Apple discussion forum:
“Please help! I took my husband’s i-phone and found a raunchy picture of him attached to an e-mail to a woman in his sent e-mail file (a Yahoo account). When I approached him about this (I think that he is cheating on me) he admitted that he took the picture but says that he never sent it to anyone. He claims that he went to the Genius Bar at the local Apple store and they told him that it is an i-phone glitch: that photos sometimes automatically attach themselves to an e-mail address and appear in the sent folder, even though no e-mail was ever sent. Has anyone ever heard of this happening? The future of my marriage depends on this answer!” Here is the link: Link
Would you divorce your spouse if you caught him/her sending raunchy photos of himself/herself to a person of the opposite sex?
Comments (81)
…damn.
Nope. Then again, I’m a guy. Divorce is expensive as hell.
How stupid does that man think his wife is?…then again, she did doubt herself enough to post that.
i wouldn’t jump from here straight to divorce but there would have to be some explainage…and we’d go from there…
Every time I see “raunchy” I read “ranchy” which sounds delicious.
Um, no but I sure would be a bit more cautious! Then again, I’m the girl who asked her spouse in church if he was cheating…figured he couldn’t lie to me there as easily. AND he was.
Haha. That guy’s a liar.
Although, I have no iPhone, so this could very well be true for all I know.
@DrugInducedDuck - ME TOO!
Also, for the wife to even ask that indicates she’s completely retarded, and she deserves to be cheated on.
@DrugInducedDuck - Ha, me too. ^^
thats crazy talk. I never heard of that and what the hell was that naked picture on his phone in the first place? If she never got the picture, then it was for someone else.
I would talk to his ass about it.
Xo
@DrugInducedDuck - ROFL my favorite response in the thread linked is “Its a glitch, but only happens if the pic is sufficiently raunchy.”
I would question why would he be taking those kinds of pictures in the first place
For me, infidelity is immediate grounds for separation, even if it was in merely a virtual form. This individual is pursuing an ‘act’ with another, even if it is in a mere textual or digital format. I’d boot them to the curb immediately.
Maybe I’m harsh. But I’d like to think I’m comfortable enough and independent enough to be able to walk away from someone who obviously does not want to be with me in the first place. It would hurt, as most emotional investments do, but you’re better off without.
If you get caught, own up and shoot straight. Once you start lying even more you destroy what last shred of credibility you have.
Dumbasses don’t realize that. She should divorce her husband just for being a complete douche.
i’m not sure i would even miss a guy that would do that on his iphone. ewwwww…..
@DrugInducedDuck - Everybody knows that Steve Jobs put the glitch in there for fapping.
Divorced as fast as possible, that’s a promise.
Yes, Thats like cheating! And chances are she is sending him pics as well… ew!
I’d go to marriage counseling. Like someone else said, divorce is expensive.
she shouldn’t have touched his phone.
see what happens when you touch things that aren’t yours?
you get cheated on.
OMG she bought that idiotic excuse?! I’d like to have sympathy for her but there’s a limit to how gullible one can be. And basing divorce over pictures is a little risky. For one, the offending party could have been drunk or meant it as a joke (as odd as that seems). This is something that should be discussed by the couple before anything as severe as divorce — communication is vital — if you don’t like what he’s doing then tell him, if he honestly doesn’t want to make an attempt change then perhaps divorce should be considered.
It would seriously undermine my trust, but I wouldn’t leap straight from there to divorce. Marriage is worth working to save.
Maybe.
It would require some explanation, for sure. Some serious explanation, and probably some counseling. What I don’t get is how she can be so naive! I guess we as women try to believe the best about or significant others, but yeah…at some point common sense has to be allowed to reign.
Liar Liar pants on fire. Dude, seriously? I mean, I appreciate that she wants to give him the benefit of the doubt, but that lie is ludicrous.
LOL Are you serious?
That’s just idiotic. Its obvious what he’s doing. But if your “marriage” depends on a raunchy photo then it should have ended long ago.
@DrugInducedDuck – LOL same here. XD
JESUS IS THE ONLY GOD
possibly. the relationship would definately need some looking at, probly counseling.
or maybe sex every day for a week/month/year would fix it.
no; l would not; unless the person they was sending them to was under age.
that’s a forgivable offense I think
The funny thing is she really thought about it long enough to ASK the question on a forum.
Ditch the bum. He’s not only a cheater, he’s a awful liar… which usually signifies dumber than dirt.
Just a couple of quick thoughts – aside from the “goodness is she that easy to fool” thought. Ok – first, why is there any raunchy photo at all? Next . who is the person he was or was not sending it too? The whole things sounds very very odd.
@DrugInducedDuck - you wierdo..
but i would totally divorce his sorry ass
I would find out who they were sending pictures to and then rape them, it’s a good lesson for them to learn
The most incredulous claim in that story is “going to the genius bar at the local Apple Store” and getting any kind of customer service at all. That should have tipped her off straight away….
i agree with wendydarling128
that’s messed up…
may depend on who he sent it to. my partner and i have mutual female and male friends that if he or i sent ranchy (lol, me too! yum.) picts to, it would just be funny.
@California_Gal - couldnt agree moree
it just so happen to send to that 1 woman — and NOT a man — very funny
if hes just doing it for fun but still loves me, then whatever. i say we both go fuck other people and stay together.
Depends on the stability of the relationship. For her to post that, there’s obviously some trust issues.
Oh, I have that problem all the time. Yup yup, those darn nudie pics just self-emailing to random people of the opposite sex. Really, the folks at Apple MUST get on this, it’s an very embarrassing flaw, wouldn’t you say?
Honestly now… I would not break up with/divorce someone over this, but they would certainly be put on… probation, of sorts, and we would need to have a series of serious talks. And obviously whoever the pictures ‘sent themselves to’ would be swiftly and completely removed from the picture.
It is a pity that after cheating on his wife, this man was so cowardly, shameful, and pathetic that he could not own up to it.
I dont think I will divorce him just yet. A couple more and I will
I’d ditch the guy for lying about something so serious.
Cheating is already an offense I’d want a divorce over but if he came clean when confronted and there were kids involved, I might actually consider sticking around.
In short: cheating+lying about it=screw you, jackass.
No. I’d want to give counseling a try first. Unless she was involved in something illegal and destructive or was purposefully screwing up the rest of my life, I don’t think I would be the one to inititate divorce proceedings.
uhhm…. and she’s serious?
aw, i feel bad for the woman =( it seems like we live in a very lustful world now.
No, I would try to understand the pain and anguish they were suffering from that caused the behaviour. No one is perfect in this imperfect world we live.
That is so pathetic. She should take his phone and send the picture to everyone in his address book. Then, when he finds it and tries to blame her, she can just refer him to the Apple Genius Bar.
I like @urbanparadigm‘s response.
Not divorce but we would be in for some counselling.
Then again, I might divorce him for thinking I am so dumb I’d believe that pathetic lie, though. If you are caught cheating, at least have the balls to be honest about it when confronted.
I’d be pretty furious!
What if my spouse sent raunchy photos of himself to a person of the same sex?
Man, sometimes it’s the unasked questions that really make you think….
I guess I’m different on this, Dan..I would divorce him, but then again I give fair warning..I told both husbands cheat on me, including looking at pornography, etc.,, and you are out the door. There are no 3 strikes in this game, rofl,
I think that is the most emotional thing anyone can do to someone else because it leaves them with all kinds of bad feelings, mainly like they are not enough sexually or otherwise for that person, plus, at least in my experience, I knew I could never trust the first husband again, knew if he was five minutes late or what have you, I’d figure he was cheating, and that is NO way to live! I guess it’s a personal issue, but for me, the emotional damage far outweighs any love I could have for that person.
Cheryl
@DrugInducedDuck - that`s hilarious.
Oh, and someone would have to be really naive to think that their spouse/b/f, g/f, what have you, took a raunchy picture of themself and did NOT send it to anyone. I’m sure they just took it to stare at themselves, rofl,
I guess a case of severe conceitedness is not out of the question, but it is rather more unlikely, lol!
Cheryl
sounds like this woman is hanging onto a thread that she would REALLY like to believe. otherwise she would know how dumb it sounds.
her husband sounds really lame– i agree with the comment above– just tell the truth, then there would actually be facts to work with. i would be a lot (almost most) worried about the lying.
it`s pretty hard to have a relationship with someone when there is no truth. you can work to forgive an act; but it`s hard to deal with or trust a lier. (is that how you spell lier? it looks funny)
He must think his wife is really stupid for believing such a story. If she’s really trying to prove that theory, she should call the Apple store herself and ask. I’m sure once she hangs up the phone, they’ll all be laughing at her.
Obviously her gut is telling her he’s cheating, so he probably is. He better come clean so they can work on their marriage. If my husband tried to pull that stunt, i’d kick him in the balls…LOL
I wouldn’t divorce him over it, but he wouldn’t have a phone to do that again.
Depends on how much he lies.
I probably would. That is more or less cheating, which means this guy must have far less morals than I thought he did when we got married.
This is a sad story. I don’t know if I’d divorce him….but it would FOR SURE be a setback.
I work in IT. You wouldn’t BELIEVE the stupid shit I have to deal with. Don’t take pictures you wouldn’t want plastered out in public. Plain and simple.
It depends on his history. If he has been a wonderful (faithful, loving, etc) husband then I may treat this as a warning that if it happens again…we are over. I would also tell him to get a new phone – one that does not allow pictures.
It would also depend on if the couple had kids or not.
why doesn’t she just send an email to the email that the pictures were sent to? and idk about divorce, but i’d be extremely hurt.
If there was no other explanation, then yes.
ROFL!!!
Seriously, she actually believes that.
Give me a break.
Opps honey, My phone accidentally sent a naked pic of me to some random female.
My question is “Why the hell do you have a naked pic of yourself on your phone?”
Get real.
I wouldnt divorce him, I might send the pic to all his and my friends though.
Hey, if its already out there, and he obvioulsly hasnt a problem taking naked phone pics, its probably not the first time.
That guy is SO lying! I would divorce him just because he’s willfully stupid.
Considering my boyfriend is a 1.) A terrible liar 2.) Not one to get an iPhone and 3.) Wouldn’t know anything about it. I think first I’d go to the store and ask about. It sounds a little …stupid to be honest. If it really were a glitch then I’d be like why the heck didn’t you send me the picture ? Just kidding. But I’d wonder why in the world he was taking it in the first place.
Oh and I like what some people said, She shouldn’t be snooping in his phone anyways. I’d rather just trust my boyfriend weren’t doing anything behind my back.
that lady is obviously in denial, or just not thinking logically.
why would he have ra(u)nchy pictures of himself if he wasn’t going to send them to anyone?
Oh my goodness,well I would not get a divorce over that for sure but I would hold him accountable for what he is doing.Counseling might have to come into the picture.
That doesn’t happen. The internet is an entirely different thing than the camera in the phone.
And besides, Yahoo is refined enough to not have sent messages in the folder that didn’t go through. It’s a matter of the husband being too stupid to erase it.
That is so sad. Why do people do such stupid things?
Three strikes:
he lied about not sending the photo.
he took the photos and sent them to another woman.
He blamed Apple for his sin.
This is by fay, the lamest excuse I have ever heard. eeek! she better dnt believe her spouse. I won’t divorce him straight, i would ask him why he took those pictures.
That’s not good at all.
Poor woman.
I mean she so doesn’t want him to be cheating on her, she’s even willing to believe one of the worst lies I’ve ever heard.
I think that’s really heartbreaking.
If I were her, I would leave that idiot’s ass.
Seriously? I would kick him to the curve and go dancing all night! Who needs a pos like that in your life, just be glad he was caught and you aren’t wasting another second of your life on a loser.
yes. I frown upon and passionately disapprove unfaithfulness…period.
I would try to work it out…
But seriously? That does not sound like a real glitch.
i think he is not telling the truth…and i do not think i could forgive infidelity :/
a photo does not mean he is cheating…but it is a bad sign.
i also do not think she should have been looking at stuff on his phone.
I don’t know if I would divorce him after the raunchy photos, but if I found out he was actually cheating on me, YUP.