It appears to me that women have an advantage on xanga when it comes to posting and gaining traffic.
Women can post about emotionally charged issues that men have no reference too. For example, women can post about their abortion. They can talk about whether they went through with it or not. They can get praise for either decision. Men have nothing to balance that out. The only thing they can say about an abortion is that they dropped the woman off but that just makes them look like crap.
Women can talk about being molested as a child. There may be men that were molested as a child but you haven’t read about it on xanga.
Women can talk about their pregnancy. Then they can post photos of their belly growing. If a man post a photo of his growing belly, the only response is “eww.”
Women have all of these emotionally charged issues that men are left without.
A woman can also offer to show herself in a bikini. The guys will go nuts. They will be all over the site and even the women will stop by. But a man cannot generate that kind of interest.
Women can even offer to go completely nude. If a man does that, his footprints would cut in half.
So women have a physical and emotional advantage in posting.
Women have the advantage of guys that come by their site just because they have a secret desire to have sex with them. Now I know what you are thinking. You are thinking all of those guys come by your site because they love hearing about your feelings. Think about this for just a second. When has a man you have met in real life ever cared about your feelings without eventually trying to have sex with you? Exactly. All women have to do is sit back and be pretty and they will get comments.
Do women have an advantage on xanga?
