Month: June 2009

  • Revenge

    Let me give you a hypothetical.  Imagine that someone said some mean and hurtful things about you on their blog.

    Now imagine that the same person sent naked photos of himself to another blogger and later made her mad.  Now imagine that she posted those naked photos on a blog.

    Now imagine you have over 14,000 subscribers so you can send a few extra over to that blog.

    Would you get revenge?
                                           

  • World’s Ugliest Dog Contest

    Several dogs competed in the 2008 World’s Ugliest Dog Contest.  Here is the link:  Link

    1.  Pabst

    2.  Miss Ellie

    Which dog is the ugliest?

                                                      

  • Boob Racism – A Journey of Hope

    I am concerned that boob racism has become a problem here on xanga.  I read the post by DearRicky that sparked a race debate.  Then I read a response blog by another individual about how he was leaving xanga because of all the racism.

    Boob racism can be so subtle that no one notices it.  Boob racism is defined as “the act of posting boobs of hot women on a blogging site without posting boobs of women of all races.”  Here is the link:  Link

    I want to share a little from my own heart so others can learn from my mistake. 

    I used to be a boob racist.

    How did it happen?  It is one of those areas in your life that you just slip through.  You go your whole life with one way of thinking.  I think it is probably my parent’s fault.  Looking back at it, I think I had also surrounded myself with other boob racist.

    I started posting boobs of attractive women on my site.  But one day my whole World came crashing in when one woman pointed out to me that during my first Save the Boobs campaign I was mainly posting boobs of white women and I didn’t have enough minorities represented.

    I sat there staring at the boobs and tears almost came to my eyes.  She was right.  I was a boob racist.  I couldn’t believe I had gone through my blogging years without noticing.  I had to admit that when I was asking women for boobs, I was mainly asking white women.  I had only a few Asian, African American and Hispanics.

    It was easy for me to rationalize the issue.  I thought I just didn’t want Asian boobs because Asians were flat.  But as I looked deep inside, I knew something greater was in play.  I was a boob racist. 

    After a period of deep contemplation, I realized I must change.  I had to be something different.  So I approached an Asian friend on xanga and asked her, “Can you take off your clothes and take a topless photo for me?”  She of course said, “yes.”  I treasure her understanding and her help in my healing.

    Now, I try to take it “one set of boobs at a time.”  But I look back some days and I am so proud of how far I have come.

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    (The top three are google photos.  The bottom photo is Bekka).

    I am pledging to you today to give boobs of all races equal time on my blog.

    If I can change, anyone can.  I hope my story helps to inspire others.

                                              

  • Michael Vs. Farrah

    If you were God and you had to send one of them to hell and the other to heaven, would you let Michael or Farrah into heaven?

                                                                              

  • Michael Jackson and the Boys

    Do you think he really molested those boys?

                                      

  • Michael Jackson and Surgery

    Do you think he really had plastic surgery?

                                                        

  • Michael Jackson Died

    Michael Jackson died.

    Here is the link:  Link

                                     

  • Is Gender Learned?

    A Swedish couple are raising their child while trying to hide the sex of their child.

    (This is not the child).

    Their child is two-and-a-half-years-old and the parents will not let anyone know if the child is a boy or a girl.

    The parents believe that “gender is a social construction.”    The mother said, “It’s cruel to bring a child into the world with a blue or pink stamp on their forehead.”   Here is the link:  Link

    Do you think gender is learned?

                                                                  

  • Gays In the Church Directory

    The messengers of the Southern Baptist Convention voted a church out of the convention because of its tolerance of gay members.

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    The church, Broadway Baptist Church, had attempted to post photos of same-sex couples in the church directory next to photos of other families.  A controversy broke out in the church over the issue.  Here is the link:  Link

    Do you think God would want photos of same-sex couples in the church directory?

                                                                

  • Flirting

    Is it flirting to tell a woman she has a nice body?