December 28, 2009
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Xanga Profile Pics and Flirting
My friend lil-squirrel4ever recently changed her profile pic. Her old profile pic suggested that she was a serious person. I told her I wanted to ask everyone what they thought but I told her I thought her new profile pic suggested she was more open to flirting.
Do you think this profile pic
suggest she is more open to flirting than this profile pic?
Comments (101)
she’s cute either way!
seems like an obvious yes to me.
I actually have to agree with you on that one.
Nope.
nah.
Yes.
yes
hahahahaha, what??? She is cute in that picture (snapeful agrees)
i don’t talk to her any differently than before. the new pic just shows more of her face, but doesn’t make her seem more likely to flirt.
but her writing might, if that changed.
I have no idea what is going on here.
yeah, the first one is happy and the second is slightly depressing
I dont know about flirting but she does go from in-her-room-asian-girl to smart-asian-but-still-has-fun-girl.
yeah i suppose it could be looked at/ taken that way.
More approachable in more ways then one I presume? But I’m sure she has her boundaries, she still looks sweet and conservative to some extent.
But seriously, the first is more revealing in the sense that it shows more skin, she embraces the camera, and there is an expression that is of a more engaging demeanor. So, those qualities would suggest that they are flirtatious.
i don’t know. maybe
Pretty much, yeah.
She seems more approachable in general in the new profile pic than in the old.
I see boobs, so yes. =P
@Rob_of_the_Sky - But seriously, I agree.
a 40 some year old man “friends” with what can only be a 20 some year old girl…a weetle creepy, not gonna lie.
Obviously.
yes, because I can see her cleavage!
Not really. I like both of them…. the second one seems to look like she’s maybe a little more serious/sad, though.
i wouldn’t say the new photo is more open to flirting, but she does look alot more ‘outgoing’.
My profile picture implies I’m a dead musician
@GiantUnicorn - omg. My exact thought! Cleavage says a lot. lol
I guess so.. but what is the deal with peace signs and Asian’s, seriously? I mean, I guess it goes hand in hand with Mexicans squatting down and not smiling but still…
I don’t think so, but I’m not sure really. She’s super cute tho in both pics
I don’t think one is any more flirty than the other. Just different moods being expressed.
Cute Asian girl!!!!
yes
she looks happier and maybe a little more outgoing.. i dont know about flirty though..
She is so cute, but yeah the second one is more serious.
Sure.
My profile picture implies I’m a black guy who likes hitting on Asians.
Wow, its spot on.
Nevermind, as you were…. ^_^;
But just so you know, I flirt with some girls regardless of profile pics.
Yes. Your profile pic makes you look like a wise old man.I feel like answering all your questions, even when they seem senseless..
the first one is soooo good!
Possibly but not necessarily. She looks friendlier, surely.
lol maybe. She looks happier, more approachable. I think mine says “I’m down to fuck” But then again I have always been paranoid -_-
I think it just makes her more open to talk to not in a flirtatious way lol then the the other one…the last one looks depressing.
Yes it is definitely more flirty.
yes.
@TheBigShowAtUD - Sorry, I’ve just been too busy lately to flirt =) You know it’s ME! The same old!!
@lil_squirrel4ever - ha, well i have noticed your busy-ness. at first, i thought it was me, but then i realized IT’S NOT. psh.
@TheBigShowAtUD - I am glad you haven’t taken it to heart. But now that I am on Dan’s page, and under possible scrutiny I think I should stop now. Love that profile pic btw–always will
she’s a pretty girl, but flirting is about interaction. i would have to go with “none of the above” and read her blog.
Yes.
It doesn’t seem to me that any specific profile picture invites or discourages flirting. It’s mostly in the comments you leave.
And in whether anyone knows whether or not you’re female.
It just shows what I already knew. She is friendly and very pretty. But then I have read her site for long time.
I think to a new reader this new profile picture does not come across as not so much open to flirting. No, more as being someone that you would really want to flirt with.
I wouldn’t say more flirtatious, but more approachable and friendly for sure. I like the new profile picture — what a nice smile. :]
Nah, I don’t get flirtatious. I get chill, self confidence, wysiwyg, real, down-to-earth …
did SHE asks you do this entry? wow.
Yep. But of course, they are completely different pictures.
It’s all in the eyes.
Noo
she just looks more confident
The first one seems innocent, but when compared with the second one, it’s a clear yes.
Not really. the bottom one looks like she’s sad or emo, and the other one shows her from a nice shot, not suggestive or flirty, but open and happy.
–Kett
@curious_maya - agreed! =]]
Yes, definitely.
not necessarily flirting, i guess just happier haha
guys drooling over profile pics is really sad, unless you’re on a dating site.
@relaxolgy - haha that’s funny – but sadly they do!!!
maybe.
shes cute either way though.
Profile pictures don’t represent your true personality. If I judge you by your own profile picture, then you look like my grandpa.
She certainly looks more open and approachable in the new pic.
yup
i like the first one better. flirt or on flirt who cares! i like when people show their own face in there profile pics!
good call
Yes
a little bit *shrug*
but who really knows a person just from a profile pic? XD
Perhaps. No big deal! She’s a beautiful young lady!
sure, i want her straight hair in the new pic lol
no she just looks like an average every day girl trying to get some attention.
nothing new.
Yes, the first shot is more open/friendly than the second.
I like both pictures.. they show different moods! Her new one she seems happy, not intentionally trying to “flirt” — I think its cute!
Definitely
She definitely appears more open to conversation, regardless of whether it’s flirting or not.
@falconfraudless - seriously it was NOT my idea!!
I would say so…but one photo wouldn’t cause me to flirt with her more than the other…
The first one looks more out going and cheerful, the second looks more introverted, perhaps even sad or upset about something. The first one also shows more skin.
I would say Yes, but wonder why you care?
Not really, but she’s quite adorable either way.
@lil_squirrel4ever - LOL. no worries.
i see a few comments here suggesting that the “morality police” are out and about…. whatever. god, can’t a person make an innocent post anymore without the hypocritical closed-minded people jumping on it? yes, a profile pic sends out a statement, her first one says she is perhaps going through rough times. the second one says she is happy and ready to mingle again. flirting? i doubt it. she looks good and isn’t afraid to show it.
open to what?
yup
maybe more outgoing?
She seems inviting and friendly as the other looks more serious.
Yes.
No. To me a profile picture is all there is to it.
She looks a lot more approachable, that’s for sure.
her boobs are showing. so yes.
she looks depressed in the second one to me. She is pretty either way
Yes, because she’s smiling in the new one and she has her tatas exposed.
No, but I do think it is more friendly.
Yes.
@another_rebel_without_a_cause - an AWESOME dead musician.
No, I don’t think a picture could accurately depict something like that 100%
uhh yeah i guess. it’s less serious. but i think the profile pic should reflect the general mood of the blog. mine does.
just another side or layer she is choosing to expose to the world…of who she is. that’s a good thing.
She looks more outgoing. Very pretty!