August 25, 2010
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Online Crush
I was watching Taycif’s video about how to break a crush and she mentioned the type of crushes. One of them was the “online crush.”
Have you ever had an online crush?
I was watching Taycif’s video about how to break a crush and she mentioned the type of crushes. One of them was the “online crush.”
Have you ever had an online crush?
Comments (113)
Yeahh, but they’ve all faded.
YES. Several.
Isn’t that like a Xanga crush? I think many of us have them, myself included.
yea :/
Yeah, but they make me nervous…..
yes!
I have one at the moment =]
Nope.
Does it count if I know them IRL, but most of our interaction is online because of the long distance between us?
Yes.
No. I have left the house.
Heeey. I have one of those things.
Guilty
of course! sheesh.
Yeah, but it turned out he wasn’t really a drawing of C.S. Lewis. I was crushed.
no, Rosalyn Sanchez was my tv/movie crush long before i found her fan site.
No.
I currently have an online crush. Big time.
Mhmmm
I have had one… on here actually (at one time)
I have. It ended with offline sex. Since then there’s been awkward online talk. For five years.
I have never had an online crush… ever.
My friend however took the crush to another level several times. The guys didn’t even live in the same country as her, but she was convinced they were gonna meet and be together forever.
Several.
Having a little fun with someone, or as I like to put it, sadistically playing with female emotions for the sheer fun of it, isn’t a crush by any means.
Guilty on multiple occasions
My last Online crush was started by me inadvertently confusing him for someone else and then the conversation turning to his passion for cooking and stuff, which I share. Eventually that conversation led to his occupation (EBM/ Electronica/ Industrial DJ in the Tulsa circuit and a lighting technician for hire) which ironically went with my profession (running an underground magazine full of band/ dj/ event reviews). THAT conversation led to us arranging a meeting at a concert scheduled to happen latter that week in order for him to give me a couple demos he’d recorded, which ended up with us hanging out IRL on multiple occasions after that and eventually falling in love.
I can’t be happier, but most people aren’t that lucky and theirs usually turn out to be creepy internet stalkers and the like.
i had, have, and will have an online crush
i dated my online crush. we dated for a year. he visited me twice. then he cheated. bastard.
but yeah it happens
I used to have them when I was younger. ^^;;
No crushes, but some very good RL friendships that started out online.
No
No, I can’t think of anyone I’ve only met online that I’ve had a crush on.
yep.
Woot woot! Thanks for the mention.
And, yes, actually. I have.(:
I have one at the moment
Oh yes, it lasted for awhile too, we got pretty close, but ya know, I’m over all that.
Not really, No.
You bet!
Dear Dan,
It just so happens I have one right now. Her name is Sean. (hilaw) She knows it too. I’m completely transparent on the internet.
Although not a “crush” per se, I and my ex girlfriend Liz got together after “meeting” each other here on Xanga.
Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool
A little.
Yup, but it moved to offline though an ldr.
Sometimes I fantasize about urinating on Dear Rickens, does that count?
@baldmike2004 - Put some clothes on! Or..at least oil yourself up for a gleaming glisten.
Yeah. Not that anyone really cares though. Myself included.
@Jacques_Duclo - It’s summertime. I’ve got my trunks on.
@baldmike2004 - You mean what you Americans refer to as “nut huggers?”
Yes, there are a few men here on Xanga who would love to see me crushed.
Internet crushes are easier to get, but the challenge in real life is more fun.
Yea. But considering I don’t believe in online relationships I don’t bother going further with it.
sure have! they are so charming. hahaa.
Meh. I outgrew that sort of thing weeks ago.
There’s been a couple people where it might have been nice to meet them in person, but I wouldn’t call them crushes. I have to spend time in person, or at least on the phone hearing their voice, to really become interested in someone.
Yes.
YESSSSS.
not really – too old for that shit! peace, Al
No, I haven’t.
Actually nope
I’ve had a few….not sure if it was mutual or not.
of course.
guess so.
Yep. Very nice until you decide to try to meet them. Not a good choice many times.
Not ashame to admit, yes I have had online crushes. I also have had several falling for me. It was scary. But glady, it eventually fades. IRL is so much better than online.
Unfortunatley yes.
Maybe a couple small ones . . .
oh yes
Aww yeah, it’s nice to dream, but I wouldn’t bet anything on it, lol
@SodomyClown - Good one. More sensible unless you live in this hick-a-billy town that I live in..You would NEVER want to leave the house then! haha
Unfortunately I have to say yes.
no.
I have never had one as of yet…. am I missing out on something? nope don’t think so I mean I have Jeff and real life is much more fun
back when i was a teenybopper
@OMG_amIstill_breathing - good for you. You 2 still an item? (not that I need to know–I’m just a sucker for romance.)
Yupyap!
I have no feelings; I’m a psychologist.
yes.
big tiiiiiiiiiiime
Sure why not, it’s the way of the world. Nothing ever more then a crush though
Nope.
Not really.
I’ve had crushes on people in books though.
yep
Yep!
Several times. The last one turned out to be my ex boyfriend.
Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right.
– Henry Ford
I am in the middle of one right now
Hahaha
i once had hahahaha that was funny… admitting I had an online crush ahahahahahah!!!!
I did. He’s now my fiance.
I have two on xanga!
..shy facie..
I like strangers better sometimes. Haha.
Once a upon a time..though I do still talk to him and we’re awesome best friends as well =)
I had a xanga crush! She was kind of a “celeb” on here….”a beautiful disaster”. Wow was she a damn beauty in real life. *swoons* Did you know her?
yeah when i was in high school.
Deception…
Yeahhh..a good few, haha
yeah… sucks.
Nope… I didn’t realise that an online crush was possible? :/
My second husband and I met online and were together for 18 years.
Eh yeah it lasted about 16 hours bahaha
@SodomyClown - I guess that means that because I have had an online crush, that I haven’t left the house.
Yup.
And I met the person in real life, we’ve been dating for almost 2 years.
Many.
I joke about these with some people, but they aren’t really crushes, just flirty chat that most likely will go nowhere.
I think that you cannt fall in love with a person 100% before knowing them IRL
I currently have one and lucky for me it’s mutual.
Yeah….I’ve had a fairly long tentative one, and he reciprocates, but I don’t know if we’ll ever meet :/ We’re far apart and poor college students.
Ah well.
Sure have! Most of the time the online crush bit doesn’t work out, but then one online crush became a RL crush…and well.. it still didn’t work out, but we are friends and talk every once in a great while
Yes, but I know him in real life as well.
no…
@Da__Vinci - lol
I have an online crush, but gosh, you know that!
thet shit’s fer effin’ nerds, brah
Yup. I married him.
Yup, and since then I visited him and we’ve now been dating two months
No.
@tjordanm - lol I seriously hope there will be a happy end for the both of you!