September 30, 2010
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Guy Commits Suicide
A guy committed suicide after his classmate streamed a video of him having sexual relations online.
His two classmates used a hidden camera to capture him on video having sexual relationships with another guy. He was so embarrassed that he jumped to his death.
The two classmates face up to five years in prison if convicted of the charges. Here is the link: Link
Is five years an appropriate amount of time in prison for streaming a video of someone naked online?
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No.
No.
Five years would be a slap on the writs….
nope…
If the room wasn’t solely his then there shouldn’t even be jt, let alone a case.
He committed suicide. The video humiliated him but that reaction of committing suicide was entirely his choice.
Rutgers is really close to my town T__T and this is disgusting. The two people who were taping the guy should be accused of indirect manslaughter. Homophobic monsters.
No…this is a horrible and sad situation.
no i dont think its enough
Ugh. That makes it sound so tame. He wasn’t just “naked online.” He was HAVING SEX. This is possibly the most private and personal experience humans can have with one another. And it was gay sex, when he hadn’t come out yet! What a fucking god-awful prank.
This kid lost his life just because of a asshole. Five years should do the trick, in my opinion. Maybe more. Jeez.
This is manslaughter, at the very least.
faggots are so jumpy anyway.
I don’t think so.
@seeker_nyc - what they did with the webcam was absolutely illegal.
that’s reckless. hope they spend their time in prison being someone’s bitch.
@TheLizarellaProject - yeah exactly and they should serve the allotted time of punishment on the books. No more.
Well it depends. Was he constantly bullied or was this a first offense?
I believe if it was a first offense then 5 years is good. If it was continued bullying then they deserve more and I’d consider it some form of manslaughter.
This story breaks my heart. I know the torture he must have gone through at school, because I went through some of it as well. I am so sad for his family. 5 years is not enough time. I wish it was 20.
The “classmate” tried pulling a prank. A stupid prank. By filming what he did, he pushed the boy off the bridge. It’s tough being a homosexual teen, it’s even more tough when your personal life is being streamed over the internet for everyone to see.
Why 5 years? Just let them out now. They’ll probably serve less than a 1/3 of that sentence because of good behavior. This was sick & malicious & they deserve to be brought up on manslaughter. They didnt physically kill Tyler but they started the derailing of the train by posting that video.
I think five years is pretty accurate. He might actually need more time. I mean, it would be different if he merely recorded it. That’s wrong, but not as wrong as streaming it online for others to see. He also tried to do it twice. He invited others to watch.
And didn’t a movie with a similar plot just come out? Damn.
I think 3 years is the regular no for taping someone have sex against their will? So in that regards, its more than the usual. But yes I guess they will get more if charged for indirect manslaughter.
@seeker_nyc - I don’t know how to respond to this because I agree logically, but viscerally I’m sad it had to happen.
@contrarians - Hm?
prank gone too far…now everybody is paying the price
@remiblanc0 - Believe me, I feel the same way! I really hate that this kid felt he had to kill himself. He was on the cusp of manhood and he had a lot to offer the world. So did these two suspects. But we’ll never know because their lives will be ruined by some really bad choices they made.
@RachelEliason - manslaughter? how so?
@phuck_diz_shiz - you summed it up best
@seeker_nyc - Yep. The choices we make and the subsequent tangents of our reality and future. Sigh.
You get in trouble for that these days?
It’s difficult. As a moral issue, the two who pulled the prank most certainly ought to be held accountable somehow. But legally, it’s definitely murky. The choice for the young man to take his life was clearly his own, and I absolutely hate to sound cold-hearted (I feel tremendous anger towards the punks who did this to him), but you have to be careful about precedents. Say someone breaks up with another person, and they kill themselves over it– how do you deal with that? I know it’s a ridiculous example, but Judges have to be extremely careful about precedent that way. It isn’t as though they were conspiring for the guy to commit suicide though.
If they’ve got a conscience of any kind though, this will torture them for the rest of their lives.
They may not get charged for his death but isn’t distributing that kind of stuff illegal anyway? It’s sexual harassment times a thousand. What an awful shame.
I don’t think there’s any way to make this situation fair at all.
omg so this is what happened, it’s so sad. his life had just begun….
we got an e-mail saying someone committed a suicide…but no more info was given out…
I clicked this thinking it was about UT and what happened yesterday in their library…
Sadly no.
Yes, given it wasn’t theirs to stream, they stole it, its practically slander if used in the wrong context (which I’m sure it was). Then for it to instigate such tragedy? 5 isn’t long enough.
One of my former “good” friends stole of video of my boyfriend and I and uploaded it to web and .zip files for people to download. I can’t tell you how many guys friends I’ve had call me and say “Uh, guess what I found?” What these boys did didn’t cross lines, the crossed gorges of wrong doing and ugliness. They deserve every year they get and more.
That’s so sad. People can be so cruel.
Considering they won’t actually serve 5 years for what amounts to someone’s life? It’s kind of light. But the article doesn’t say much of Molly Wei’s involvement. Was she just there? Can you be punished for not being a “voice of reason”/capable of taking someone out of doing something stupid? Ravi does sound like an asshat. A “sequel”? “Yay”? My first impression was that it was probably a stupid prank gone wrong, but…I dunno…that makes the intent seem a bit different and 5 years seem completely too light for him.
If 5 years is the typical punishment for the broken laws, then yes, that’s an appropriate punishment.
@seeker_nyc - they pushed him off the bridge. He would not have done if, if not for them. If you grab a person’s deepest hidden secret and expose it to the world, that’s killing his soul as it is. all he had to do was jump to finish what they started
No. I also don’t think that is a reason to kill yourself either. Such a shame.
5 years is far to much. He killed himself they did not kill him. A murderer on average serves 7 years, think about that before sending pranksters to jail.
Super depressing story.
Quick comment though: Didn’t the story just mention them making out? Where was “sexual relationships” mentioned?
@TheGildedCage - I agree, but the humiliate, esp someone who is of an orientation already SO hated for no good reason, its only compounded in that humiliation and feeling of losing control of your life, who you are, how people see you. Its such, such an awful thing.
I want to say no, and that I think they deserve more…but these are kids too, aren’t they? When you jump out and scare someone on Halloween, do you expect them to have a heart attack and die? If you punch someone in the face in a fit of rage, and they hit their head on the curb and die..does that make you a monster? They were kids doing a stupid thing…I find it hard to believe they intended for their actions to have such disastrous results. Knowing their actions led to suicide is torture enough. They should be charged for anything illegal they did, and nothing more.
Well, let’s not simplify what happened. His name is Tyler Clementi and he killed himself. His roommate and his friend violated his privacy and he was “outed” and his sexual encounter with another guy was streamed online. There’s two things going on here: 1) invasion of privacy 2) he was outed. Who is anyone to say that the experience isn’t enough to push someone to the edge? Who is accountable? What should be done? If a kid was being bullied at school for being gay to the point that he killed himself, what do we say then? It’s 2010 and we haven’t gotten over a lot of things like racism, sexism, homophobia, etc. People are still being killed for being who they are. We can’t minimize the severity of the humiliation. We can’t just say oh he shouldn’t have killed himself over that because we don’t know what he’s like or what went through his head or what he went through in his life. That’s aside from the point because people need to think before they act and there’s consequences to actions one takes. Ravi and Wei did something terrible that resulted in someone’s death. We’re talking about real lives here, not a game or a simple prank. Someone died. There is consequences and they are the parties responsible and I don’t think that’s an unreasonable punishment.
I knew Tyler since middle school.
This was shocking news to me.
What the two kids did was definitely wrong and not to mention STUPID.
I’m sure they did not mean for this to happen, but they do deserve punishment.
I don’t know how many years in jail are enough, but I’m sure they’re already going through hell.
They virtually have no futures, have to live with the guilt, and have to suffer from people constantly blaming them.
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People these days are so sick.
I was just looking at his memorial page on facebook, and a disgusting bunch of MONSTERS have posted and keep posting absolutely HORRID comments and pictures even.
The world is cruel. It’s getting worse everyday.
R.I.P. Tyler.
In real life I think 5 years is nothing for something that could be considered harrassment. Sadly pop culture and the movie world would have trivialized this whole thing as a stupid prank in the name of a few giggles.
@Babylons_Crowing - I agree with you. I had a family friend that committed suicide because his girlfriend broke up with him. Not actually the same thing but still..it’s almost the same thing. It really seemed like a prank though I’m glad I’m not the only one that thinks that way either. I’m sure that they didn’t want him to commit suicide..because seriously, who really actually does that? And I’ve had many close calls myself..but still..I just never thought about doing it. Just saying and doing it. It’s kind of odd. Though I do think they should be punished but I’m not sure..I think honestly, the victim’s actions should be held accountable as well. He is a person and his actions do affect people. If the intent wasn’t to harm and it ended up like that then..
but surely their conscious will torture them forever.
@filtered_sunlight@momaroo - I didn’t understand that either. Where does Molly Wei fit into all this, besides her room being used for the illegal web cam and what not?
From what I heard about this story (Phillip DeFranco anyone?) he hadn’t come out of the closet yet, and his friend let him use his dorm room and set up the webcam. apparently, he’d tweeted again after the incident that another friend was using his room and he had a webcam set up then too.
Lock him up.
@Uek - What this guy said, it may be heartless but tis the truth. You can’t let personal feelings get in the way when it comes to law and other peoples lives.
this disgusts me. that poor boy.
they should be anally raped and have it put on the internet. lets see how the feel after that. fuckers.
@Babylons_Crowing - I see your point. The boyfriend/girlfriend break-up is a bad example. A better example is when a kid is bullied to the point that the kid kills himself. How will the bully be held accountable? I’m not too keen on law, so I am actually asking the question. Like the bully, Ravi and Wei both intended harm on the victim, Clementi. By invading his privacy and streaming a video of him having sex with another man, it must have crossed their mind that it would have some impact on Clementi. While you may not have intended to have driven someone to suicide by your actions, you are still responsible for your own actions.
In addition, I think the crime is on invasion of privacy. From my understanding, it is a crime to 1) record and view and depictions of nudity or sexual content without the person’s consent and 2) distribute such content. The result of the crime lead to the victim’s suicide.
They shouldn’t be charged with anything. Suicide isn’t murder. =/
His own damn fault he got all emo and jumped.
No. Five years isn’t enough. TEN to FIFTEEN sounds right. Let them sit in jail with a few characters off ill repute. Because according to his deleted tweets (the guy who set this all up), this wasn’t a joke. This was somebody being a flat out malicious asshole, exposing a very private moment of someone’s life. There’s no forgiveness for that. I mean it’s fine if guy on guy isn’t his thing. But to make it a show, to broadcast it, and to humiliate someone who obviously wasn’t ready to bring that part of himself out into the world….That was low. Some people are just really, really rotten and take things way too far.
They brought him to the brink of this. He saw no way out, I guess. And a lot of people want to blame this young man’s suicide all on him. Well, we don’t know what was going on in his head. We can only guess why he took his own life. But calling him “emo” and a “fag” is pretty lowdown. Maybe he was afraid his colleagues would make him feel like an outcast. Maybe he was afraid people would torment him about this. Considering how nasty people get in comment boxes and how wild things get with the anonymous this-and-that online, he saw death as his only escape in a world that he felt would not understand and accept him. Some people just can’t handle things in a way that you or I may be able to.
Not their fault that he lacked the mental fortitude to not kill himself. I have no pity for those who commit suicide. Its the most selfish act a person can commit. Ya, its messed up what they did. Maybe if the kid was smart he could have sued them, took them for all their worth, and turned a negative into a positive.
No
Honestly, yeah. I know they didn’t mean for him to kill himself, but they obviously meant to cause him serious emotional troubles. That’s wrong. That’s invading his privacy on so many levels.
I personally don’t think 5 years enough. 10 maybe. I don’t know enough about the criminal justice system to know what charges could be brought. Considering the ages of the offenders, if they were to serve 10 yrs. all of 10 years..they would be around 28 yrs old. Maybe old enough not to play heavy practical jokes any more.
@SilentWolf86 - This is a really sad case, but this comment was just too amazing to not laugh at. Because it’s pretty true. He could’ve sued their asses off and could’ve reaped so many benefits.
In any case, my heart goes out to him and his family. And although I feel that what the two did was terrible, I think they’re already living through hell at the moment.
Yeah, 5 years seems appropriate. Even if that’s what they’re sentenced,
I doubt they’d actually spend 5 years locked up, though. But that’s a
pretty awful thing to do. You can’t say they didn’t know it would have
bad consequences, especially on his mental state. They’re adults and
should know better/have better morals. Plus I’m pretty sure that’s a
cut-and-dry involuntary manslaughter situation. Or it better be because
my Homicide exam is coming up in a few days and I need to know these
things!
but it’s an inappropriate r-rated video
@seeker_nyc - I feel the same way… I feel like it’s harsh, and I KNOW I would be embarrassed if something like that happened to me, but it was his choice to commit suicide…
@seeker_nyc - No, suicide isn’t just a choice. When people fall into spirals of depression they lose all rationality, which is why it’s considered an illness. Clearly the experience freaked him out so much he felt he didn’t HAVE a choice, so in his mind it wouldn’t have been “ah, I can either kill myself or hold my head high and get through this.” It literally was “this is so bad I have to die.” What they did was thoughtless and obnoxious, and although I doubt they meant to cause that, I think time in prison is appropriate since they caused loss of a life. I don’t know- I’d sentence somewhere between 3-5 years.
The people who are saying they should get 20 years…should never go into law.
I don’t think they should get any jail time. He should have settled it a different way. Killing himself was completely on him and that should be held against him and no one else. I do think that the classmates putting the video online was kinda wrong, but either way, they did nothing other then make sure he was laughed at. He should have been secure with his sexualty and delt with it in a whole different way. So the classmates deserve no jail time at all.
And for those of you who say depression makes suicide not a choice. YOU ARE FUCKING IDIOTS. Read a book, the read what you wrote and realize how dumb it is. You ALWAYS have a choice.
terrible..
a guy at my school committed suicide over the summer because he was gay and he was made fun of.
I dunno, but that’s a fucked up thing to do to anybody.
It’s horrible to see what people will do for the sake of a prank…
For that type of public humiliation, and lack of concern for someone elses feelings, I also feel that a manslughter charge would be right for these two assholes. If not for them, this young man would be alive today.
This country is way too easy the bully, with little sympathy for the poor person on the receiving end.
No. They deserve to be kept far longer. What they did caused the guy to kill himself.
this is horrible. i stole the link and put it on my FB! thanks!
There’s a difference between “streaming video of someone naked online” and “unknowingly streaming video of someone having sex online”. Especially since from what I heard he wasn’t out yet.
@Uek -
It is illegal to video record someone during a sexual act without their consent. The roommate intentionally turned his webcam on when he left the room and posted on his twitter page about what was going on.
nope its not enough.
The article doesn’t indicate if the 5 years is for the suicide or just
the invasion of privacy. I don’t know what typical sentences are for these cases in the US but those two deserve to be punished for their actions. What they did was stupid and cruel. How could they not have known that this would humiliate that kid?
i think its really sad he killed himself, and yes them doing this influenced this. but they didn’t kill him. does every person who posts someone’s naked or sexual images get punished? no. and the only reason anyone even thinks its appropriate now is because the kid killed himself. what about the people who posted paris hilton’s video? or kims? did the public criticize them as harshly?
p.s. God bless this guy’s family and his soul
@bryonyinsua - um, well there is mandated prison time already on the books for that length of time: 5 years. For invasion of privacy and cyber voyeurism, I think.
Suicide is a choice. Maybe it’s not a rational choice but it’s still a choice. Choices don’t need to be rational.
@piercedandbeautiful - wow, you’re poetic. But you’re wrong. They didn’t “push” him off a bridge. He did that to himself.
@typewriterss - Amen
No
You have to ask the question “What is the purpose of the incarceration?” If the purpose is just to punish, then it is easy to say it is not enough. If, however, the purpose is to protect society, I think it would be safe to say the more than five years would not make society any more at risk from these kids than five years would.
Again, the secret is in asking the right question. (Not just a question but the right question.)
I don’t know what prison will do to correct the problem. I would prefer so sentence like living the next five years constantly being filmed a broadcast on internet. Everyone watching when you do the most private activities. I am sure most of it would be solo because who would be willing to have a relationship if they knew everything they said and did would be available to anyone with internet access? It seems people no longer think about the consequences of their words and actions for others.
@seeker_nyc - they where what broke the camel’s back. they pushed him.
Of course they should get more than five years! What they did was utterly despicable and sick.
What the hell is wrong with people?
@seeker_nyc - Sorry, but your statement is beyond ignorant. I respect your right to share your opinion, and am glad that you are able to do so, but I am also appreciative of the fact that I can express to you just how ass backwards I think it is.
Whether or not it was “his choice” to kill himself is irrelevant. The clear cut, indisputable bottom line is that if Ravi had not invaded the privacy of his room mate and violated the law, this young man would still be alive today. He would have never been prompted to take his own life. Again, was it an extreme reaction, perhaps, and again I must say that this fact is irrelevant. How would you feel if it had been your brother, or your best friend who had killed himself over this? How would you view the situation then? Be honest. Be objective. Ask yourself that question and REALLY think about your answer. Do not respond impulsively, instead take a few minutes and really consider this question.
If you break the law and provide a minor with alcohol, and that minor decides to get behind a wheel while intoxicated and ends up hitting and killing a pedestrian, wouldn’t the person who provided that minor be responsible of facilitating that pedestrians death by proxy. Even though he was not the one who was driving, his irresponsible decision started a sequence of events that would have never been into motion had he not provided the minor with alcohol.
This decision, ultimately ended up having tragic consequences, and for that, the perpetrator should be held accountable and should be prosecuted accordingly. Otherwise, what is stopping others from doing the same thing, if there is nothing to dissuade them from doing so.
Again, I respect your right to articulate your opinion, unfortunately, I don’t feel as if that opinion was constructed using sound logic.
@amateurprose - You’re talking about sound logic, yet you’re using an argument that in Logic we call emotional reasoning. It’s different from practical reasoning. I can appreciate the fact that you’re able to express your opinion, but I’m appreciative of the fact that I can refute you on it. Because you are ass backwards. We judge people on the merits of the law, or we try to. And you ask me to imagine if what happened to Tyler Clementi had happened to my brother. Then you ask me to be objective. Those are two contradictory statements. Objectivity has nothing to do with empathy. It’s a common mistake. Objectivity is the level to which you adhere to external reality. Look it up.
And you give me this scenario about a minor…Tyler was 18 years old, I think. And he was a kid in the eyes of the world, but being 18 makes him not a minor. He said goodbye on facebook. He drove to a bridge, he left behind his possessions. He jumped off a bridge. If Tyler had killed someone with that level of planning, it would be called premeditation. He had a choice and he took his life.
If they serve any time for this horrible crime, I don’t think jail time will prove to be easy. That said, I honestly think that this is a sick prank that deserves examination of motives, and relation to the deceased prior to handing them a prison sentence. That the victim took his life is NOT lost on me.
@trunthepaige - I agree.
Video taping is invasion of privacy. For one. But the whole process of planning, following through, than posting the video-should contribute to their sentence. Coming out is very hard. So being that he was, “still in the closet” and than being humilated like that, pushed him to do a sad thing. And they are to blame. I hope they go to jail and become someone’s little bitch. (:
Not nearly long enough! Gay or straight, doesn’t matter. To invade someone’s privacy without their knowledge is reprehensible. They were the direct cause of this guy’s death.
Definitely not enough. They should have them jailed for 40 years and caned 10 times. But in spite of all the horrible punishments that people and the laws can think of, they will never be enough. They won’t bring back the dead boy, nor would they console the parents much for having lost their son,
I understand the charge against them. I am not sure jail will teach them anything. I am not sure how but I would look for some method of contrition and penance (to use religious phrase) so that they appreciate what pranks can do. I wonder if it is not, the prank that is, a type of gay bashing?
Five is good.
This is a very sad story, and I don’t think 5 years is enough punishment. They invaded his privacy and pretty much humiliated him in front of the whole world.
@seeker_nyc - Agreed, 110%!
Yes.
@cornyonacob - is there really a charge called “indirect manslaughter?”
5 years is not enough.
@RachelEliason - He didn’t kill anyone. How in the world could that be manslaughter?
@nattata - This is why we have laws. They stop the inflamed crowd from carrying out vengeance based purely on the moments emotions. If this guy got upset, but instead of killing himself he dropped out of school for a year. No one would think 5 years in prison was a just sentence, but the crime would have been the exact same crime.
And what if he had thought it was funny instead, as a lot of guys would? The same crime suddenly seems like the best joke you ever saw, the same people calling for life imprison here and now, would be posting links to it on youtube. “That was so cleaver. What do you mean the people who did this were arrested, fined and put on probation?’
Five years seems about right. It is illegal, but he didn’t kill anyone. It was wrong and the other person took it too far.
You’re a day late with this one, Dan.
You should probably mention that they’re only being charged with invasion of privacy, and how bullshit that is. Or about how the roommate and his friend streamed it online for everyone to watch via iChat, inviting people to see it via Twitter.
Stupid stuff. It was a prank, that he shouldn’t have killed himself for. If I was to kill myself for every embarrassing moment I had, I would die at least 5 times already. It is inevitable that people will find out he is gay. It just a matter of time. Life is tough, but killing yourself is not a solution to anything. It just leaves behind agonizing pain for people who cares and that my friend, is selfish thinking.
@trunthepaige - I wish I could rec this comment.
Sick fucks. People just suck. He definitely needs some harsh punishment – the most that the law allows.
whoa……this is …….sad..
@NightCometh - agreee
I think that’s about right.
@seeker_nyc - As you can see from the crowd here, reason does not come naturally to the masses. A man killed himself, tragedy, vengeance is required. Change one little detail that has nothing to do with the crime, like the guy not killing himself but laughing instead, as many men would, and you have something they would find amusing. Same crime no punishment with one, and life in a hole for the other. Thank God for laws
@trunthepaige - good laws save us from ourselves.
@trunthepaige - yeah this one guy told me that I should be objective and try to put myself in the same situation! LOL. Can you believe his idiocy? How can I be objective and imagine myself in the same situation?
They should be charged for posting (and taping?) the video without consent and given the normal sentence. They did not kill the other guy. He killed himself. Adding to their sentence because someone committed suicide is an emotional response and I’d rather see clear and level-headed people making decisions about other people’s lives rather than emotionally-charged people.
that is just wrong.
yeah, I read about it last night, what a tragic! I say 5 years is enough to teach them a lesson. Some pranks aren’t funny
@seeker_nyc - He must love Sharia law. The next of kin gets to throw the first rock or grant forgiveness. Forgiveness is not the common result of that choice.
@trunthepaige - yeah thankfully victim’s next of kin don’t get to administer justice in this country. We’re not Pakistan.
maybe sued, but idk. A lot of people ae saying it should be considered manslaughter because of what manslaughter means (not he same as murder)
But I think it might have spiraled out of control and there might be a chance that his suicide was not a direct response to what happened.Maybe it had a little to do with it, but then everyone else who ever teased him taunted him etc deserves the same sentencing.
Yeea, according to media they taped it and then released it, but we don’t know that. and then for people to say it’s horrible and worse than anything they’ve done themselves is a little selfrighteous…esp when people say they should burn in hell for doing something like that
guess basically wait untilall facts come out and see if they REALLY did what themedia says.
Nervetheless…incredibly tragic what happened to Tyler, irregardless of whether or not it was intentional.
@seeker_nyc - @NightCometh - well there’s involuntary manslaughter, which is not the same as murder, but sounds terrible (man…SLAUGHTER)
http://criminal-law.freeadvice.com/violent_crimes/involuntary_manslaughter.htm
Though I don’t exactly agree that the charges for manslaughter are right, and Ithink this might have been media blown up, since we don’t actually know everything, i guess it makes sense after reading those descriptions…
@swtaznxtc90 - thank you
@joyouswind - yes! exactly what I think, it is an emotional response. Whether people are mad at the fact that he died, or becuase a homosexual was targeted (both of which I’ve seen being said, not just making it up) Ithink it might jut be fair t o charge them for violation if they did indeed do what the media said, and voluntarily video taped him and voluntarily posted a sex tape
“two classmates”
That doesn’t even begin. These kids that did this to him were in Rutgers Pharmacy School. They were top top of their high school class, had near perfect SAT scores, and were in a professional healthcare school. THEY got in instead of me. And, because they got in, this boy is dead.
It is the most infuriating.
@trunthepaige - agreed. as joyouswind had said, there is a LOT of emotional response.
I think we are all very fortunate that this never happened to us, that the result of ou gossip, our idiocy, our bullying no matter how harsh or minor it was, did not amount to the suicide of a guy.
and even then we aren’t even sure if his suicide was due completely to ravi and wei, as i’ve stated before. r
@amateurprose -
I think your conception of legal causation might be a bit off. Your example of the underage drunk driver just isn’t how the law works (at least from what I know so far). What they did was horrible, but it is a valid argument to raise the point that he acted under his own will.
If Tyler would have been so angered by the incident that he brought a gun to school the next day and shot 50 people, would Dharun be criminally liable for Tyler’s actions?
If Tyler had decided to just kill Dharun, how would that work out? Can Dharun be criminally liable for the murder of himself?
Causation can be a tricky thing, but just because it seems just to expand causation in one case doesn’t mean it would be a good idea for all cases.
Invaded his privacy and more. People don’t know when to not goof around
No, that is so sad.
@trunthepaige - “And what if he had thought it was funny instead, as a lot of guys would?” Name 5 guys that would find it funny to be outed to friends and family via the internet.
I think he should be sentenced to five years of having to wear a shirt that says “I TAPED MY ROOMMATE HAVING GAY SEX FOR MY PERSONAL ENJOYMENT” … after he does his five years getting taped having gay sex for someone else’s personal enjoyment in prison.
@Luscious_Life - Dan Savage, George Takei, Elton John,Wendel Duppert, and Bob Smith.
SO you have never met a frat boy who thinks this sort of this is funny? You need to get out more
I don’t think they’re in any way responsible for his death (unless they knew he was suicidal and intentionally tried to make him commit suicide; but that’d be hard to prove). If he was having sex in his room, then I guess whatever the amount of time in prison for placing cameras in someone’s room would be is a good amount.
@trunthepaige - lol I’m pretty sure none of my fraternity brothers would find this funny at all. And since you said “a lot of guys” I want 5 more.
Edit: 5 more guys that you know for a fact would find this funny. Not 5 gay celebrities. Two different things.
@Luscious_Life - Good lord you know I could do it all day long. Using the same sources of famous open homosexuals with reputation for being funny. I could also give you a few gay guys I grew up with who would have thought this funny as hell. One was caught in an act of sodomy in the high school greenhouse and spent the next two years bragging about it
I think that the sooner America as a whole has a truer conviction/sentencing system the better. Perhaps this could be the start who knows. These two individuals basically raped this guy, in a way, and I think they should be punished for it. (Of course, I also think it’s rather ridiculous to kill oneself over it, but there was probably more going on in this kid’s life than just this one incident.)
I find it hard to believe so many people want to defend those who not only invaded this guy’s privacy, but also publicly humiliated him forever. If this had been a case where it was a government surveilance these same people would likely be demanding justice and reconciliation. The two morons to did the videotaping with complete disregard for the sanctity of this kid’s privacy just to amuse themselves should spend at least their five years in prison. If it had been my kid who killed himself over it I’d be looking for something even more severe.
@forgottenphoenix - if we are going to bring bullying into it i say execution is a fitting punishment. if you intentionally torment somone to the point that they take their own life, you have shown that you have no regard for their life to begin with. “intent follows the bullet” so to speak. the fact is if you intend to cause grievous physical or emotional harm to a person and they take their own life as a result, it is no different than you killing them yourself. this is why we have the felony-murder doctrine. to put it in it’s most basic form, if someone dies as a result of your crime(felony level), even if it was unintentional, you get charged with murder.
my only question, and mittigation towards the female would be was she aware of and complicit with what was going on? i’m not always paying attention to what people are doing when they are on the computer when im around. so, most likely she knew he was spying, but did she know he was streaming it? what exactly was her involvement? as much as the guy(funny how it says he is the one that got released) deserves punishment for sure, it would suck if he brought her down with him if she wasn’t actively involved.
5 years is an absolute joke. Lock that motherfucker up for 20, easy.
I don’t know.
@korean_biyatch - i concur. it was beyond repulsive what they did.
Five years & the classmate’s names / faces plastered all over the internet.
They must not have known this guy well enough to forsee that he would take it this badly; either that, or they just didn’t care. In any case, their intent was obviously to humiliate him for their own entertainment.
And they did it twice.
I’m sure they feel guilty NOW that he killed himself / it’s in the news (and they might actually be held accountable for it); but I doubt they would’ve gave it a second thought if he didn’t.
dumb… he chose to jump off the bridge. no one forced him. i’ve been embarrassed God knows how many times, that doesnt mean i’m gonna kill myself. srsly? -__-
@forgottenphoenix - I didn’t mean to say that a suicide resulting from a breakup was a comparable situation, I’m saying that in a legal realm convicting these two of manslaughter would open the door for a liability anywhere where a negative emotional state has been incurred, intentional or otherwise. I don’t know that, under present law, a bully would be liable for the suicide of one of their victims. Now, violation of privacy is an entirely different story, and in this case I have no doubt they could be hit with the maximum possible penalty for such a violation.
@trunthepaige - PLEASE tell me you are not trying to justify their actions by saying the guy could have thought it was funny. Being caught in the act by one person is different than having it streamed for your entire college to see.
NO ONE deserves to have their sex lives put on the internet, guys OR girls. I remember reading a story about a girl who killed herself after her ex-boyfriend sent naked pictures around her school as revenge. Ravi deserves a severe punishment so he can be made an example of. I don’t know about Wei, it seems like she really didn’t do anything besides it being her webcam. Either way, people commit suicide because of bullying way too fucking much. People don’t know what their actions can cause.
five years is NOT enough. Here, someone (Canada) has been charged with child porn for posting a rape!!
I wonder what that will bring for a sentence!
These two should at LEAST get that! They should get 20 plus so that if they serve a third, THEN it’s more comparable to the crime.
As for their lives being ruined, they did that themselves, those are the consequences to their actions. Some kids today don’t seem to get the whole idea of consequences, they too often shift the blame rather than on themselves for their own CHOICES.
I know, i sound like a hard@$$ but i’m sick of the coddling kids get for doing stupid stuff that we would NEVER have dreamed of in our time. And it’s time they faced the consequences of their actions.
it’s most likely considered involuntary manslaughter and the court would have to be convinced this young man killed himself as a direct result of him being streamed on the internet without his consent.
to me, anyone who films such crap and posts it on the web is not only heartless but also without morals. it’s disgusting what people find funny.
if it was guaranteed he’d get five years of being publicly humiliated(sp?) then i’m all for it.
@misshoneyscottage - You’ve had your most personal secret and intimate moments broadcasted for your entire college to see? Yeah, don’t pretend any embarrassment you’ve endured is even NEAR this.
@seeker_nyc - The analogy using a minor as the subject was implemented to illustrate the violation of a law, not to suggest that Tyler was under age, I find it very hard to believe that you were genuinely confused about the intended context. Either way, whether this fact was lost on you or not, now that you are aware of the intended context, all other statements you made in reference to that point are quite irrelevant. Furthermore, I suggest that you allow you arguments to stand on there on merit, instead of trying to play spin doctor through the twisting of my words.
When addressing you I referred to “your opinion”, and not you as a person, as being ass backwards. You however decided to approach this in an inflammatory manner and attack my character by calling ME ass backwards. Making that proclamation is implying that you know more about me as a person than is humanly possible to discern from a comment made regarding a single subject. Again, this shows me that you lack the confidence in your argument, to allow it to stand on its own. Classic spin doctor maneuver. That is not an insult, or an attack, just an observation. Again, I don’t pretend to know who you are as a person. I can only address what I have read in your comments on THIS post.
As I was trying to explain to you in my previous analogy, these students set into motion a sequence of events that would not have been set into motion without there involvement.
I would like to layout another analogy to help illustrate my point but feel that it will be futile, being that you have proven to me in your last response that you will attempt to refute the specifics and not the general principal, which in essence is the purpose of an analogy.
I suggested that you imagine it were your brother, not to evoke an emotional response, but to try to get you to open your eyes to the fact that this man was an individual, with a unique personality and not just a face and name in a newspaper; and consequently capable of responding in a multitude of different ways. His roommate did not have the power to predict what this guys reaction would be. Can you grasp that fact? What he did was IRRESPONSIBLE. He KNEW that it would affect this guy in some negative way. HE KNEW THAT. Therefore he is responsible and should be held accountable according to what ever the results of his illeagal action/actions may have been.
Now I assume you are going to twist that around and say “yes he could not predict how he would react and therefore he did not know Tyler would kill himself which negates any culpability in his death. No, he did not SPECIFICALLY know that his response would be so extreme, yet he could not definitively say that it would not be.
This type of reaction to bigotry and homophobic attacks is by no means uncommon. There have been MANY suicides which have taken place under similar circumstances. Knowing that fact, one must admit that such a reaction is extremely plausible. And to ignore that fact is bordering on criminal negligence. In fact I believe that this crime is just on the outskirts of manslaughter. You may be so close minded on this issue to think that these facts are mailable but they are not. They are concrete and based on logical reasoning.
Now lets deal with this asinine comment “ Objectivity is the level to which you adhere to external reality. Look it up”I am well aware of the nature of objectivity. Again, you attempt to direct your comments in a condescending direction. I can “objectively” say that, throughout your entire retort, you have adopted a hostile tone which is not conducive to a productive conversation.
Again, to repeat my point from the previous paragraph, the external reality is that Tyler Clemiente could have reacted to this attack in a thousand different ways.. His roommate opened up a flood gate of endless possibilities. By doing so he also opened up the possibility, no matter how remote the possibilty was, of Cliemente killling himself. As I said we can not predict the reaction of an individual an ANY situation.
“If Tyler had killed someone with that level of planning, it would be called premeditation.”
Okay, sure, I can honestly see how you could arrive at that conclusion but, honestly, the chaotic thoughts were a part of his own internal dialog, directed at himself, inward and NOT outward; not twords an outside subject. The Psychology involved in this pattern of thought/reasoning is completely different. Perhaps if he had killed his roommate, yes, that would be a circumspect thing to deduce, however, It was an external influence that caused the internal collapse of logical thought and reasoning in Clemiente, which ultimately led to his suicide.
@radicalreefer - doesnt matter. HE chose to kill himself. if it’s that bad, then fine, his choice. but the fact is, suicide is and will always be a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Idiots abound in this situation. The two guys are idiots for taping and then posting the vid, and the guy in question is an idiot for committing suicide.
@amateurprose - I’m just going to focus on your last paragraph because I think it’s the linchpin of your entire argument. “Okay, sure, I can honestly see how you could arrive at that conclusion but, honestly, the chaotic thoughts were a part of his own internal dialog, directed at himself, inward and NOT outward; not twords an outside subject. The Psychology involved in this pattern of thought/reasoning is completely different. Perhaps if he had killed his roommate, yes, that would be a circumspect thing to deduce, however, It was an external influence that caused the internal collapse of logical thought and reasoning in Clemiente, which ultimately led to his suicide. “
I say if they are found guilty of their charges, then Molly Wei and Navi should be sentenced to no more than the penalty on the books. The burden of proof is on hysterical people, such as yourself, to show the thats and whys these two kids are responsible for this boy’s suicide. But…oh wait, you’re not a prosecutor! Thank God for that.
not to say that what those kids did is okay. they are completely and utterly in the wrong. but to blame them for his suicide is taking it a little far. that’s all.
@radicalreefer - Ok I am guessing you never read much of what I wrote. I said that they did not kill him. that their crimes are minor ones and the fact he killed himself is not relevant to what they did. 5 years in prison is out of line for their crime. If the guy did not kill himself most would think of this as amusing, give them probation, court costs and move on. Prison is for threats to society and not petty crimes
@misshoneyscottage - It’s a hell of a solution.
@misshoneyscottage - After realizing what happened, he probably went a little insane. He made a rash decision, but he shouldn’t have been forced to make that decision. It needs to be taken seriously because shit like this happens all the time.
@misshoneyscottage - sure you have been embarrassed. We all have. But are you honestly going to tell me that you have been humiliated to the same extreme as this guy. You are well aware of the stigma that goes along with being gay. You cant even compare it to being videotaped with a lesbian. I cant even imagine what it must have been like for this kid. Being a straight guy, I cant even conceptualize how devastating it must have been and you sure as hell cant either. You dropping your lunch try in the cafe, or have a tampon fall out or whatever humiliating scenario you have been through would have to be pretty damn awful to compete with whatever this guy went through. So, you think about that and then honestly tell me that nobody should be held accountable.
@amateurprose - i just believe that nothing is humiliating enough to kill yourself over. suicide is extreme. i dont care if your gay or straight. i feel bad for the kid and all i’m saying is he shouldnt have killed himself… lol, is that so horrible of me?
@trunthepaige - I didn’t because I didn’t feel like looking through comments. The fact that he killed himself is VERY relevant to what they did. Do you really think he would have still killed himself had they not have posted it? Everyone ELSE might have thought it was funny but he wouldn’t have. 5 years in jail is light, considering their selfish actions caused someone else so much pain he killed himself. Like I’ve said before, it happens too much, and it needs to stop.
kind of makes you wonder, what were 2 guys doing spying on 2 guys having sex?
They are the true deviants.
@radicalreefer - That is irrelevant they had no reason to think he would kill himself. The actions of someone who was mentally unstable were not their actions. He did it not them. They commented a minor crime and need to punished only for the crime they committed.
Thank god for the law because the mob would kill them for what was a joke that had no potential to kill anyone.
@seeker_nyc - Is it really beyond you to A) communicate without throwing out insults. You make decent points here and there but then you totally loose all credibility by throwing out childish insults. It really looks bad on you.
B) Address the rest of my points. You can’t because you know I am right. I mean, just have a conversation. If you disagree with something, then calmly articulate your point. I am not above admitting that I may be wrong. That is what a discussion is about. Its when you are no longer able to communicate intelligently that one resorts to insults.
No, I am obviously not a prosecutor, I am a Psychology grad student so law is not my specialty. Commenting on topics like this provides you with a chance to learn, to see things from anothers perspective. Sometimes a clearer perspective than your own. I am not intimidated by that fact. I am open to learning.. When you communicate they way that you do, you destroy the whole constructive dynamic that could potentially exist in discussion about important issues such as this one. I am completely capable of being open minded and listening to an intelligent non inflammatory, conflicting opinion.
But you cant seem to do that. Just calm down and have a conversation.Not a battle.
You skipped over ALL of my other points. Why. I don’t know. It seems as if you did so because you could not intelligently refute them. It’s a real shame because this could have been a great discussion. For example read the message from whataboutbahb Are you not capaable of responding like that. Getting your point across in a calm constructive intelligent way. It really is a shame. I challange you to repond to my many other points like an adult and not a child. I am an open minded individual. Have confidence in the substance of you opinion
@whataboutbahb
I’m thinking there’s more to the story than just the two incidents mentioned in the news. There had to have been some history of bullying for him to get up the nerve to jump off a bridge. But if he was a freshman, then maybe the roommate only knew him for a month? I don’t know. I don’t think suicide is ever the answer. There are always people to reach out to no matter what. Everyone goes through rough shit in their lives, some worse than others, but it’s still sad nonetheless. But do I believe they should get more than 5 years in prison? No.
@whataboutbahb - You bring up a lot of good points. You are right, I do not have a law background, as I told the other guy, Im a psych. grad student so law is not my strong suit. I am just giving my take on things, and doing so by saying more than “that guy sucks” or ” fuck him, hes dumb for killing himself” Im responding with a thought out honest perspective.
Thank you for addressing my opinions in a constructive manner, instead of trolling like the other guy.
@amateurprose - Awww…did I make you want to commit suicide? Are you blaming me for that, too, now?
If you don’t get what I just did, you’re beyond help. I was making an analogy, something you claimed to doing before. Yeah I don’t think it’s safe for people to be overly emotionally in a case. It impairs judgment, something which you demonstrated when you wanted me to imagine myself as a relative of someone in Tyler’s situation. And that kind of skewed reasoning led you on a path to imply Dharun was responsible for Tyler’s situation.
If you were a cop or a district attorney, and you blurted this out to Tyler’s family, without having any proof whatsoever, you would think that this would make the Clementi family hellbent on seeing Wei and Navi punished for their son’s death. That’s why I’m glad you’re not a prosecutor. It’s not an insult if it’s a fact. See? You’re not being very objective. It’s impossible. You’re the emotional one.
@mirrorslie - If someone videotaped you personally having a drunken one nightstand with some random dude and then put it on the internet,for EVERYONE to see, including your parents, grandparents, teachers, friends, your current boyfriend, how much time do you think they should get?
@trunthepaige - What about drunk drivers? They don’t MEAN to kill people… Have you actually looked up the definition of Involuntary Manslaughter? I did you the courtesy: death by an unlawful act or a lawful act done in an unlawful way.
Yes, thank god for the law.
@misshoneyscottage - Okay, lets forget about the whole suicide thing. If your room mate videotaped you personally haveing a drunken one night stand, without you knowing about it and put it on the net for everyone including your teachers, parents, grandparents, current boyfriend, best friends, and potentially anyone you know or even dont know, with a computer to see, how much time do you think they should get?
@seeker_nyc - I will not be pulled into name calling. I dont know you and will not lower myself to that. Sorry. I refuse to. I CLEARLY explained to you that I was attempting to illustrate that Trevor was an individual, and that is why I posed the whole “what if it was you brother’ analogy. I intended for you to use that information, in a non emotional way. I know you are capable of doing that. You are obviously a smart guy, I thought we could discuss it. You seem to know a lot but instead of talking to me in a productive way you want to sling mud. Its just a shame. No, I am not “upset” or “emotional” about your inabilty to just speak to me like a rational adult. As I said, It is just a waste of an opportunity to have a rational, informative conversation. If you appllied you obvious intelligence in a positive, constructive way, you could be a very interesting person to talk to. So be it. As I said, its basically, just a shame.
Life in prison.
@radicalreefer - They have a specific law about that and there is no potential to kill (unlike a car) by sending video on line. Again they did nothing that would kill anyone ever. He committed suicide, maybe we need to send his parents to jail? I bet they have much more to do with his unstable mind than any sex video. Or maybe he was taking anti depressants. Anti depressants have a history of making it more likely that someone to kill themselves. Lets blame someone or something, not the guy who killed himself
@radicalreefer - I agree with you completely. Well said.
@seeker_nyc - So if someone makes an illegal right on red, even if it ends up killing someone, they should only get a citation? Because that’s how your logic feels to me.
These kids did something with typically minor jail time, but it went above and beyond in that it led to a death. While it does make me incredibly heartsick that the victim chose to commit suicide, I’m sure that wasn’t the intended result. 5 years seems sufficient to teach a lesson here, on top of the guilt those boys must be feeling.
@trunthepaige - Paige, let me ask you this; Lets completely forget about the suicide for a second. If someone videotaped you personally having a drunken one nightstand with some random dude and then put it on the internet,for EVERYONE to see, including your parents, grandparents, teachers, friends, your current boyfriend, how much time do you think they should get?
I think it should have been more than five years.
@disorderedpersonality - You know what usually makes the difference in the cases you cited? the prosecutor. Is he going to go for just the penalty allotted or is he an overzealous type or is he out to make a name for himself because it’s re-election time and he wants to make an example out of someone?
I’m not saying that Navi and Wei are blameless in this guy’s death. Obviously if the video had not been filmed and broadcast, Tyler would still be alive. But is there beyond a reasonable doubt that they’re culpable for this kid’s death? Or that they even intended for him to commit suicide?
I don’t believe this. I would need to see the video… 4 times.
@amateurprose - Then they will end up having committed a minor crime. My desire for personal vengeance is not what the law is all about. The law ist all about preventing vengeance from being the basis of law and order
i don’t know, their are never any easy answers but having done a couple of years in prison, and having an ex who is finishing up what is the second of two terms = to 16 years, i have an idea of what goes on behind them bars, and i can say i bet their time will not be easy. unfortunately people in this day and age do not think about the consequences of their actions, and a large chunk of society is hmm ..ok stepping of my soapbox now , sad just sad.
@Texana - uh… one of the other ‘spy’s was a chick. not that it makes them any less of a pervert. Did you read the original article?
@trunthepaige - Fine, I can agree with that. What would be a typical sentence for the crime that I described. Under 5 years?
Wow… well…
Fair– but because they aren’t being charged for manslaughter. The fact that he killed himself is sad but not relevant.
The charge itself is illegal invasion of privacy and the general ickyness that they were trying to profit (or at least gather some kind of porn party) by some streaming of his room mate’s personal life. They weren’t getting charged for manslaughter; and they shouldn’t be. So I think that a 5 year conviction is fair. It’s not their fault Clementi committedsuicide. But they should at least be responsible for being invasive ass hats and go to jail with the same people who break into other people’s homes or embezzle thousands of dollars from a big company.
What sucks is that this prank– which was probably all in good fun, is going to make a huge crater in their own lives. Can you imagine, you play a joke on your room mate, next thing you know you’re carrying the responsibility of their death on your back. I feel bad for them. They look like they’re smart (or at least smarter) kids. And that Wei chick is hot.
@amateurprose - Probability probation and a fine for a first offense, as is typical of anyone with a clean record. But they are still left open to a law suit for real damages.
@seeker_nyc - I agree that the prosecutor can make a huge difference, but still, just because they didn’t intend this result doesn’t mean it didn’t happen anyway. I may not intend to hit a pedestrian making my illegal right on red, but if it happens, I should still be held accountable. I do think they need jail time to emphasize that their actions were illegal and caused serious emotional damage that led to death, but 5 years should be sufficient for that.
@amateurprose - Well it’d certainly be extremely embarrassing, but I’m not even sure that I’d care about how much jail time they’d receive? That would be up to a judge. Not to mention that I don’t drink, so that wouldn’t happen. But I see how you were trying to put me in his shoes, and I understand that, but the fact right now is that we don’t know all of the facts yet behind this story. Were they taunting him for the past month? Do they have a past history of bullying? Did he have a mental condition, history of depression? What about his family life? What pushed him over the edge? I just don’t see how a sex tape is a good reason to end your life. Not to mention, if they didn’t know him well and were simply just playing an incredibly stupid and awful prank, then how could they have known how he’d react? I don’t think most people would kill themselves over a sex tape. There are just too many unanswered questions right now, that’s all.
This is equivilant to cyber bullying. I just saw a commercial where a guy is getting tattoos and they’re all words that people were calling him and right in the middle of the tattooing, he gets another harsh word via text message and tell the tattooist that he could put “worthless” on his back.
I think its time that the suspects of cyber bullying, or any kind of bullying for that matter, should pay the price and when it ends with the victim’s murder, suicide or otherwise, the suspects should spend time in prison with other killers.
As for my opinion for the sentencing, I think 5 should do, but I also think that they shouldn’t be in minimum security prison. I don’t know if the article says anything about that, but I think that’s what should be done.
Its time for bullies to pay!
I think the least they should be charged with is manslaughter, if not also sexual harassment. I mean, that’s the guy’s private life, and they had no right to do that. I’m not sure if manslaughter is the word I was looking for or not…when you kill someone without meaning to but it’s still your fault for doing something stupid and insensitive.
Five years? not enough! These kids had no right to be spying on him! People these days honestly have no lives.
If those two caused this kid to committ suicide, they shouldn’t get five years. They should get LWOP at the very least, and preferably the needle.
If the guy would have showed the video or sent it to the other 2 guys, then I would def say no. However, it was video from a camera that was hidden, correct?? If that is the case, then 5 years is def appropriate, in my opinion. They did not have permission and it humiliated the poor guy. Horrible situation…
Now see… If he had been with a hot woman he would have been proud to the point of promoting the webite himself.
@disorderedpersonality - what if when you hit a pedestrian with you car, your case gets upgraded to attempted murder? How would you feel?
@theandyman1982 - yeah, that’s a sad commentary on our society…
@mirrorslie - Nicely put. I feel comfortable agreeing with the majority of that. I think you did an amazing job at articulating you view point.
@trunthepaige - Yes. That sounds reasonable.
@theandyman1982 - nice.
@seeker_nyc - It wouldn’t? It might get tagged as manslaughter, which I could totally understand if I was maliciously breaking laws. Perhaps I was also speeding when I made my illegal turn, who knows? These boys were doing something clearly illegal, and it ended up having deadly ramifications. It may have been involuntary, but it could still qualify as manslaughter theoretically.
the bridge he jumped off of is literally 5 minutes away from my house, it was in the paper today. such a shame.
@amateurprose - considering the way you put that… uh, they should get however much time is given for invading privacy. i’m not sure what the exact law is, but yea, that should be the punishment… personally, i would never have a one night stand though. ;] but IF i did, i would be the one who’d have to live & deal with what my close friends & family saw on the internet. it sure would be tough, but that’s todays world, i guess. luckily my gma doesn’t understand computers very well! bahaha… anyway, i’d be pissed and want the worst kind of revenge, obvs. but like truinthepaige said, my personal vengeance and the law dont always coincide.
@misshoneyscottage - I gotta say, there are some smart girls commenting on this post. Yourself included. Great answer ; )
@Babylons_Crowing -
Sorry I misunderstood. I see what you’re saying. This post/blog is actually misleading and I don’t think we’re all very clear on it. I read the article and from my understanding the two classmates are charged for privacy violation. That is, they recorded nudity and sexual activity without the consent of the victim and they posted it online without the consent of the victim. From my understanding, that is what the charges are. They should be punished for breaking the law. The question of the blog should be about whether or not they should be held accountable for the death of their classmate as a result of the crime.
Now, the crime committed resulted in the death of the victim—Clementi killed himself. I am not too familiar with anti-bullying policies and I know they vary state to state. I’m sure it has to do with school safety. I’m pretty sure there are lawsuits of parents holding schools responsible for the death of their child (child commits suicide) because the school failed to address bullying. Somewhat related, both Ravi and Wei violated school policy. When I read your post, I immediately thought bullying because a bully intends harm on another person and in this case both Ravi and Wei intended harm. However, they may not have intended the victim to kill himself and a bully doesn’t intend that either. But a person can be abused and harassed to that point and again, I’m not familiar with current laws in that regard.
Another thing to consider and that was mentioned in the article is that this can be considered a hate crime. The crime (invasion of privacy) was committed because of (and due to) the victim’s suspected sexual orientation. Even though we don’t know all the details even from the articles, we know that such a hate crime has a negative psychological effect that caused an extreme consequence. We can’t reduce the actions of Ravi and Wei as a prank that has gone wrong because their actions targeted a person based on a specific sexual orientation, a social group that is known to be a target and victim to discrimination, harassment, abuse, bullying, and murder.
@crystal_air -Collecting or viewing sexual images without consent is a fourth-degree crime. Transmitting them is a third-degree crime with a maximum prison term of five years.
This makes me very sad as a recent alumnus of Rutgers University. This is obviously a really tragic story, but its questionable as to whether it can be called a hate crime or manslaughter. Is 5 years enough? Well, that’s all they can be charged for as an invasion of privacy.
It bothers me that people do not think before they act, but then again, I’m not surprised that people are so stupid as to not. I’m also very disappointed in my fellow RU students especially when it comes to all the trolls that have posted such nasty things on Tyler’s memorial page on facebook. Just goes to show you how cruel people can be.
The trouble with this kind of law is that if nothing happens you get 5 years. If something happens like a suicide you get 5 years. This law can’t judge the outcome caused by breaking it.
I heard about that on the news this morning. So sad. =[
Those little shits knew what they were doing. Hope they enjoy their 5 yrs. Can’t believe how freakin mean people can be.
@ionekoa -
Right. That’s the point I wanted to make that the crime Ravi and Mei committed intended harm on another person. I compared it to bullying. In both cases, harm is intended to another person regardless of whether or not that harm could mean death. Thank you for sharing your understanding of legal details since I lack that knowledge.
I’m not sure about an execution since that’s contrary to what I believe, but that’s another subject altogether. Even though I answered the question about 5 years being reasonable for the crime committed as this blogger asks, I’m not sure what would be a suitable punishment.
For Mei, I don’t know the extent of her involvement based on the article we read. At least for the purposes of this discussion I held them equally responsible.
@Losertastic - agreed. mother fuckers
@MrAlmighty - um he didn’t get “emo” … normal people don’t invade other people’s privacy for their own enjoyment. truth.
The poor guy may have wanted to be more careful, but whoever streamed him online have severely violated his privacy and should be prosecuted for that. If he lived to sue them, they would never see the end of it.
I cannot honestly imagine how the guy felt, but from where I look I think taking his own life was an overreaction. You only get one chance to live, but you may get more chances to establish your identity and choose/defend your way of life.
What’s shocking is that I live just 10 minutes away from the university. It’s truly a shame.
Five years seems like a joke for something so cruel. On the other hand, they will have to live with the guilt forever.
I think 1 year is a good amount of time for them to reflect on what they’ve done.
@Morgann - True or not, the dude was still a retard for committing suicide. Thats his own damn fault. Nobody else’s.
@seeker_nyc - except that its completely illegal to stream video of someone without their consent, let alone of them engaged in a sexual act. Would it be ok if they put hidden cameras in the bathroom? I mean, its a public bathroom not solely one persons right?
I am a student at Rutgers University – New Brunswick, the same college at which the student who recently committed suicide attended. It’s so depressing to hear this news; our whole campus community is distraught and sad. We have news vans from everywhere and we’re constantly being bombarded with individuals and groups who are in protest of the whole ordeal, making the problem into a legal and civil rights issue. I’m distraught, however, because people would rather fight over issues like these than mourn the death of a student…the magnitude this news has hit is incredible, but the story itself remains a tragedy.
As for the whole conviction regarding the two students, again, I’d like people to reflect rather than violently and naively post hate comments. I’d be hard pressed to find that the victim’s roommate intentionally did this as a hate crime; knowing the age and the status of the student — an 18-year-old freshman — makes me realize that it really was just a prank gone wrong. Young people do stupid things. Young people in college do even stupider things. Humans in general make mistakes; I challenge you to admit to me truthfully that you’ve never made fun of someone. The problem essentially stemmed from this…a careless prank that turned into a tragedy. You can’t say who does and doesn’t deserve anything. These people don’t deserve manslaughter charges. They know their little jokes ended up having someone commit suicide. This guilt they must live with for the rest of their life (since they’re still so young) should be enough punishment.
they shouldnt have posted it online and i feel really bad for the guy who died, but i dont know if 5 years is a suitable sentence. one kids life is already gone, and now there ruining two more? they have their whole future to look forward too..
You know, personally, I think that when you kill yourself, it’s your decision. They didn’t push him off that ledge. But if someone asked me, want to put the assholes in jail for being horrible people? I wouldn’t say no…
God, that’s so disgusting. I can’t even wrap my head around that.
They just didn’t record him naked, they recorded him having sex without his permission. And to put it online? How sick do you have to be?
I think I just threw up in my mouth a little.
Some ugly fobby below avg in intell hos at school annoy one by acting like they’re so popular or so cool when they in fact don’t have any ideas or do so well and came from less worthy. One doesnt like the slut who is currently vp – dumb fob needs to stop wearing those tops as they make her look trampy. This avg looking & below avg in intell slut better have good ideas. Dumb ugly hos need to act in their place. Annoying fobby hos.
these people will do NO time. they won’t be fined or kicked out of school. the parents of the boy CAN file a wrongful death lawsuit though but that’s all. looking at the facts – it was a nasty prank. prison time is too harsh because the potential consequences were unseen. i seriously doubt either of the two considered anything past their own excitement of airing the video. it’s tragic all around. oh, i can’t resist this childish stab: to contrarians – since most of your posts consist of getting laid and thinking only with your tiny dick i imagine you are a closet “faggot” yourself. that’s ok. we forgive you because we all know the biggest closeted queers are the first to start slinging the homophobic terminology around.
This isn’t a prank. This is stupidity manifesting itself. As for the innocent, unsuspecting victims — please stop committing suicides.
@forgottenphoenix - i plopped out execution just to illustrate the point that if they are culpable under such a doctrine(though i don’t believe that what they did constitutes a felony, i could be wrong but i doubt it is) this goes from “invasion of privacy” to murder, the same as premeditated murder with no stops along the way in the “manslaughter” zone. in my mind, intent is the key in deciding culpability. if there was malice involved(ie the intent to do harm) then i would say they are culpable and to the extent of their involvment should be punished for the crime of murder(ravi being fully entrenched and the young lady’s involvement thuroughly investigated). i will reiterate that the impression i got from the article is that the main actor in this is walking free on bond while a potentially innocent second victim(it does not say she knew what he was doing) is still rotting in jail. i find that to be very disturbing.
it depends on what his charge is if they are chargeing him with the persons suicide no that is rediculous but if they are prosecuting him for the digital acts like spying and illegal posting then that is reasonable
everyone who is saying 5 years isn’t enough are all a bunch of racists. If these were two white people playing this prank you would all be mad at the fact that their names were even being dragged into the story.
@DenimPants -
yes. i read it after i commented though and figured it didn’t make any difference. fucking deviant spies. they are getting a good dose of their own medicine now.
5 years is a long time in prison. It fits. It wasn’t a homicide, and I’m sure the poster didn’t ever think it would go that far.
that was dumb for all parties
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@seeker_nyc - i have no idea LOL
nope. they tortured him, but he committed suicide.
that in no way pushed him off a bridge. and to the people bringing up sexuality, it is a non issue. i’m asexual due to childhood trauma. i don’t tell people cause i generally then have to explain what asexual means. this closet nonsense is irrelevant, there should be no closet.
what irritates me is that people talk about rights, in an abstract way. if there was some peice of paper that actually supported the assertions of rights, and made a logical argument for the vallidity of such a concept that would be fine, but there isn’t. does it refer to article 12 of the un human rights thing?
and our judicial system scape goats the crime upon the guilty. that might make a few less people do the crime in the future (the guilty included) but it in no way fixes the capacity to commit the crime in the general population. i’ve personally been assaulted by guys like the guilty, however incarceration does more harm than good. either kill them or do nothing, cause nothing short of murder will fix their influence upon the world.
So sad… may he RIP! my heart goes out to his family, I’m sure he was a bright kid. I hope my daughter doesn’t have to go through this shit when she starts school cause I’d be damned!
When I hear the word “prank”, I think-putting shaving cream on someones hand while they’re sleeping and tickling their noses. This is an f’ing CRIME!! psychos pull hardcore shit like secretly filming people having sex and then posting it for everyone’s perverted viewing pleasure. What is this world coming to if they call this shit a “prank”? like this is just a little joke gone bad. WTF?!
No, 5 years doesn’t compensate for making a guy take his life. Maybe life would do more justice, but that’s a little too much I think.
It’s pissing me off how people aren’t even mentioning the most important part: HE WASN’T OUT OF THE CLOSET YET. Imagine having one of your secrets spilled into the open in such a way!
No, I don’t think it’s a long enough time. A man is dead because of someone else’s actions.
If he had been straight and he was with a girl, it wouldn’t be such a big deal for the guy. But the girl on the other hand, would be devastated and possibly commit suicide.
Such a sad story, five years really isn’t enough.
To all: I am shamelessly going to Dan’s site to ask you to read my posts on this topic, including the 13yr old Asher Brown and 18yr old Tyler Clementi suicides! (Mostly because of their relevance, but also because I can’t figure out how to tag any more:
Gay Suicide – Privacy Crime or Hate Crime at Work?
Watch This! On Bullying GLBTs
@crazy2love - good point about male versus female attitudes about getting caught doing the deed. However, I dont know of anyone commiting suicide because it “came out” that they were straight. Embarassed, most likely. Mortified, possibly. But suicidal about being just like the majority of humans with regard to sexuality? Just food for thought!
@nyfemme - Well, it wasn’t the gay aspect about the female committing suicide… it was the complete invasion of privacy.
@crazy2love - ooops!! miscommunication. I thought you meant if a girl was taped having sex with a guy she might commit suicide. I don’t think that happens. You’re right. A male will brag. I suspect, a girl will feel mortified or embarassed. But (this is a question) do you think she would commit suicide due to the invasion of privacy? I haven’t ever heard of a girl committing suicide after sexting or youtubesex, etc, have you? Really…just a question. I think you raise a really pertinent issue.
@nyfemme - Sexting and youtubesex is consensual, and the consequences of the girl’s actions should be thought of if she partakes in those actions… such as the pictures/videos making their rounds on the web for anyone to see. In that case, it’s her fault for the embarrassment because we all know how quickly these things can get around. But if she’s having sex with her boyfriend and he tapes it without her knowing? That’s different. It’s not the same thing, but a while back there was a young girl who killed herself because there was a mother of another student who pretended to be a guy who was interested in her. When the girl found out it was not a guy, she committed suicide. It’s not the same thing, no, but it’s a story about a girl killing herself over a mortifying situation.
@Texana - true– asshats all the same.
@seeker_nyc - you are acting like a child. You are really embarrassing yourself by acting this way. I have explained to you IN DEPTH what I meant by that. I accepted the fact that I worded my argument in a way that could be misconstrued and then provided you with a clearer illustration of my point.
You refuse to address my explanation because you know that it dismisses your point. You are just making a fool out of yourself, you are still arguing the point that I blatantly informed you that you misunderstood. HAVE ENOUGH CONFIDENCE TO ADDRESS MY RETORTS. Don’t throw around insults out of desperation. No one is going to think less of you because you are wrong, or do not have a rational response. Debates go back and forth, Sometimes you will be right, sometimes the person you are debating will be right. Nobody is completely right about EVERYTHING. Your pride is making you look like a fool. Rise above that. For your own sake
I cant help but believe that you are better than this. As I said, you seem as if you could be somewhat intelligent but you are just destroying your credibility by blatantly ignoring my responses as if you never even read them. Do you not see that? How can you be completely blind to this fact.
Alright, now its your turn so I guess I should just prepare myself for insults that having nothing to do with anything that I just discussed.
@amateurprose - the only person who should be embarrassed here is you. Because you are an overly emotional person. By your reckoning, whatever that kid Tyler did, is the fault of Ravi and Wei. So if Tyler had shot up the school instead of jumping off a bridge, he wouldn’t have been held responsible. He was just responding to what had happened to him. I’m going by your “logic” here, which is laughable at best.
@contrarians - many of the young ones are because of people like you.
@trunthepaige -
preface: not trying to be a dick.
I just noticed this when glancing through the comments–when you said:
“Anti depressants have a history of making it more likely that someone to kill themselves.”
Okay, this has got to be a circumstance where correlation clearly does not imply (or =, whatever terminology you want to use) causation. This seems to be a pretty obvious case of confused causation (people who take anti depressants, as compared to people who do not, are more likely to commit suicide in the first place).
No? Yes? Thoughts?
definitely not enough…why would that roommate do something this terrible. Also, everyone can have their own sexual preference. But I also agree with some of you, it’s really sad to see that the victim choose the commit suicide path….what a tragedy..
I know the dorm, it’s a small former army barracks. It’s not like they’d have much privacy anyway because the walls are thin and all the rooms are ground level.
If they’re a first time offender, which they probably are, and have good lawyers, they can plea down to a light sentence. What’s more important is that as a community, we remember the names of these suspects and continue to cast judgement and sentence upon them like a 4chan mob.
This whole thing reeks of the stupid college behavior everyone is almost expected to do in college, and have it excused because ‘it was in college”.
@Babylons_Crowing - Thank you! I’m glad someone finally said it.
I have a friend who’s (ex) boyfriend killed himself after she broke up with him. Is it her fault he committed suicide? She was the one who caused his emotional damage that led him to doing it…Maybe…
No one kills themselves over ONE incident. This was something he was (probably) struggling with and was more than likely caused by a slew of things, not just the video. Yes, the boys invaded his privacy and should be punished for what they did, but they by no means killed him.
Shit! I have friends who go to Rutgers (only a few updated their statuses about this story — guess nobody really reads the news), I grew up around that area in New Jersey… That’s disgusting.
@seeker_nyc You continue to prove me right with each response you make. AGAIN, you attack me as a person and not my OPINION. A classic sign of insecurity. There is no reason for you to harbor such self doubt. I hate to point out the obvious but, your childish insecurity is VERY thinly veiled. I wish there was something I could do to help you but unfortunately it is something you must overcome on your own. I DO have faith that you can do it though. I really do.
”I am an overly emotional person” so you say; again, at the risk of beating a dead horse, I will assert that you can not define a persons character based on one comment, to assume otherwise displays ignorance, especially when that person has moved past that initial opinion, has considered valid points made by others,and has articulated an ever evolving opinion based on further discussions of the topic.
Again, you refuse to acknowledge that, refuse to address comments made to you explaining this fact, and refuse to address anything other than twisted versions of a point that has been long since dismissed.
Your inability to have an intelligent conversation is BLATANTLY obvious to ANYONE who has been following this “discussion” I suppose its my fault for trying to reason with someone who has proven himself to be a troll.
I cant help but wonder if you have read anything past the first sentence of my first comment. I find it hard to believe that someone can truly be as dense as you appear to be. I do not mean that to be insulting, it is just the way it is.
Attempting to communicate with you has proven to be futile. I truly hope you develop the confidence someday to have “real” discussions and not just childish arguments, void of reason or merit.
Once you gain a bit of confidence in your ideas and opinions you will find that having an honest discussion will become much easier for you and you will no longer have to ignore strong valid points that contradict your own and you will no longer have to resort to petty, irrelevant insults. I’m genuinely rooting for you. I mean that with all sincerity. You will be amazed at how fulfilling a good, adult debate can be. Good luck to you.
@seeker_nyc - Their reckless actions lead to his death. That’s the definition of manslaughter. It’s no different then if they had ran him over while driving recklessly.
NO
@trunthepaige - You’re just ASSUMING he had a mental disorder, and even if it did, it was set off by the actions of these people. THEIR ACTIONS CAUSED IT. They should be held responsible. Ridiculous. Your view is, “Oh, the guy was mental anyways, he did it himself.” They shouldn’t have taken the risk of publicly humiliating him so terribly because anyone could be unstable and no one knows. Letting them get off easy is bad and you should feel bad.
I was appalled by this. I can’t fathom how anyone can even think of filming another person during his most private moment and then putting it on the web for the world to see. This isn’t a prank if it’s so harmful. Even if the poor kid didn’t jump to his death, he would’ve lived a life of shame and humiliation. In essence, the roommate is guilty of taking a life regardless of the poor kid’s decision.
@whataboutbahb - Actually they put warnings on anti depressants about that, so the FDA doesn’t think it is a coincidental correlation
@radicalreefer - Whatever just take vengeance, you will make a good lynch mob
The only crime here is invasion of privacy, they should be charged and sentenced so. Being gay or straight has nothing to do with this.
Dan,
The question “Is five years an appropriate amount of time in prison…?” isn’t near the top of the list of what we should be thinking about. Some things that are more important to reflect on are:
1. What causes individuals to disregard the respect of others?
2. Does society’s internet and peer culture give the impression of making such violations on rights permissive?
3. If others (such as the asian girl, internet audience, etc) knew about this “cyber-bullying,” does their non-response make them complicit with the actions of the Indian dude?
4. Where do we draw the line on the “fun” individuals may have at the expense of others and where it may be detrimental to ourselves/others?
I also sometimes think that your blog posts on “thetheologicanscafe” does cross the line of “disrespect” of others for sake of entertaining your vast audience… whether you see it or care to know of it, who knows? Deep thought doesn’t seem to be your thing.
@trunthepaige -
Ah, should have seen that coming. After quick google search and reading, seems like I spoke too soon; antidepressants can have the opposite effect and actually worsen depression in some people. Always seems weird to me that stuff like that occurs, like benadryl wiring some people instead of making them super tired.
Fail comment on my part.
To try and rescue at least some of my point: They have the opposite effect in only a minority of people taking them. So far the majority of people taking antidepressants, if suicide does happen the real root will still most likely be the previous depression that the antidepressants were attempting to treat.
How dare somebody hurt another person like that. The ones who played that prank should be thrown out a window.
I would be distroyed if I lost my child this way. This poor boy was obviously gay and I’m certain he must have had a hard enough time figuring himself out without needing other kids getting into his life like that.
I hope the guilt they feel ruins them for life, the way they ruined his.
Animals.
i saw this on yahoo.com. such a shame this has to happen. this goes to prove that internet is a powerful media now a days and there has got to be laws to prevent such thing happened again in the future.
Considering how much time people who do petty shit like selling weed get, that’s not NEARLY long enough.
@contrarians - What a delightfully morbid joke! Heh.. jumpy..
@contrarians - You got that right!
@whataboutbahb - I bet you can see were I could take this.
The point being that it was not logically foreseeable that this prank could kill so any punishment needs to be based on the real crime and law and not on the mans death. Law suits can do whatever they want, but criminal law is just not going to throw these 2 in prison nor should they
Do I think what they did was heinous? Absolutely. Do I think that they deserve to be tried for manslaughter? No.
One commenter on this entry has countless times referred to “choice” as a reason as to why these two students are not responsible. Tyler CHOSE to kill himself. That much is undeniable. But what’s getting overlooked is the fact that these other two kids CHOSE to be bigots, to invade Tyler’s privacy, and to inflict emotional harm upon him for being a homosexual. That, to me, is the truly heinous part of it all.
The defense of “Oh, they were just joking around” doesn’t bode well with me, because these two HAD to have known that nothing good would have come from this “joke.” In addition to the privacy charges, I also think they should be charged with committing a hate crime, as their intentions were fueled by the fact that Tyler was a homosexual.
Regardless of everyone’s view on the law and what should be done to those in question, I hope we can all agree that this was just an absolute horrible tragedy that should have never happened in the first place.
Still don’t see the big deal here.
@trunthepaige - meh ignore the tangent I tried to bring up. Prob shouldn’t have bogged down this thread with something completely unrelated.
And look back at my previous comments on my thread in regards to your last paragraph. You’re arguing against air.
This is for the people who are saying his sexuality had NOTHING to do with what happened: If this guy had been taped with a woman, I’m pretty sure the results would have been different. Obviously his feelings about his sexuality were not resolved, and these guys that taped him manipulated that.
I think these guys should be punished, though I don’t think jail will do either of them any good. People like them are narcissistic and generally self-righteous. They’d still be laughing about it if he hadn’t jumped. What kind of punishment? Oh, how about the same kind of torturous humiliation he endured. I’ll leave Karma to that one.
Legally speaking this is a complicated situation. Emotionally speaking, we want them to be held accountable. Otherwise, we’re talking about legal accountability. [Can we really say that their actions inevitably caused his death and prove it? ] If we do, then what? No matter the result of the trial, a life was taken because someone wanted to have fun at someone else’s expense. It’s not fair. It’s not right, but the law isn’t so good at dealing with situations such as these because the law dwells in the realm of right and wrong and the interpretation of that. This is a grey area.
This story made my heart sank. They will do 1 or 2 years then they will be parole out. Depend on what state they in though. They might just get 5 years probation. I hope they learn their lesson.
If there was a woman involved, they might have not gotten only 5 years. I would commit suicide if I was him too. Shit. Those kids should have been more mature.
@RachelEliason - so vehicular manslaughter is the same as internet manslaughter? are there laws for the latter? It’d be really hard to prove.
The shitty thing about all of this is that the prosecutor is going to overplay his/her hand, at the behest or on behalf of the LGBT community, and the case will be botched. That’s what I predict.
@cornyonacob - This guy shared a room, what he was doing was perverted. If he wasn’t doing something immoral why does he feel so guilt he had to jump of a bridge. I will tell you it goes against human nature. To bad this dosn’t happen more often.
If your sharing a room you better keep your perversion in the closet.
there are many aspects of this case. from just this info there is no indication that it had anything to do with him being gay. i have a feeling that if the guy was having sex with a girl the friends would have still taped it — these are the kinds of things that go on in college. the sentence is probably fair, because they had no intention (i would assume) of motivating him to commit suicide, probably had no clue he would do that, it was just a college prank. however, kids in college need to learn to think about what their actions could possibly lead to when they are doing “cruel” pranks.
personally I think since they did it to make fun of him because he was gay..I think they should get TONS of time…what a couple of assholes…
@catman517 - Immoral? Who are you? What gives you the dictation over what is right and what is wrong?
I cannot believe how many people are blaming the victim in this case, or how many people just seem to care less.
@seeker_nyc - amateurprose is an arrogant asshole. He thinks that just because his post get a ton of views and recs, his opinion matters. Fuck him, I wouldnt worry about him
@Fail_Atio - I don’t spend much time worrying about him. I just like seeing him get pissed off because right out of the gate he comes and insults me.
If you’re asking “Do you think 5 years is too long?”, then no. If you’re asking “Is it not long enough?”, then yes.
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It’s not enough. It’s a fucking hate crime. They should be whipped or something.
@Truth_and_Triumph -To answer your question its called the Bible, you may want to readit sometime. I know you hate me for shining a lite to this perversion. I don’t care the truth is the truth and it pisses you off. And someday you will find that out the hard way.
@catman517 - maybe i’ll take you seriously if you use proper grammar. YOU’RE just being a narrow-minded prick, and that isn’t helping YOUR cause.
It’s really sad. I don’t think, there was justification, for the hurt, which they put
this young student through, that pushed him to kill himself. Yet, it’s hard to
judge, if manslaughter is correct punishment? I just hope others learn from this
tragedy. R. Hood
It’s really sad. I don’t think, there was justification, for the hurt, which they put
this young student through, that pushed him to kill himself. Yet, it’s hard to
judge, if manslaughter is correct punishment? I just hope others learn from this
tragedy. R. Hood
Is 5 years appropriate for invasion of privacy leading to possible defamation of character, sure. Is the fact that this particular invasion of privacy lead to influencing someone to commit suicide worthy of just 5 years, probably not. I’d tack on something like negligent manslaughter or something, depending on how directly related it was, sounds about as directly related as can be.
OMG. Poor guy
Those guys need to spend 10 years in jail, in my opinion. They may not have killed the guy, but they provoked him. Some people are really insensitive and heartless.
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