May 30, 2011

  • H**** Rape Day

    If you see a woman in the military, wish her a h**** rape day tomorrow.

    A woman in the military is 20 times more likely to be a victim of sexual assault than she is to be killed in the military.  In other words, for women we don’t need to celebrate Memorial Day and those who have given their lives for our country.  We need to celebrate the women who have given their vagina for our country.  (Apparently I have to edit out the word “happy” and give a disclaimer that I don’t actually advocate rape in order to get around the xanga censors which by the way weakens the post a bit).

    According to the article I am linking, only 8 percent of sexual assaults reports in the military were referred to the courts.  In civilian courts, 40 percent are brought up on charges of rape.  Here is the link:  Link

    In other words, we need to take Memorial Day to remember women who are raped in the military.  Hug a woman in the military and thank her for the sacrifice she is making on our behalf.

    For some reason, when I post this there are people that say it shows disrespect to the military to do it on Memorial Day.  I am not sure why mentioning women being raped and the people not getting prosecuted shows disrespect to the military.  In fact, I would think raising the issue is only being disrespectful to rapist and those who cover it up.

    Is it disrespectful to the troops to mention the rape issue on Memorial Day?
                                                                                 
                                                         

Comments (120)

  • it’s disrespectful for women to venture outside the kitchen and then complain when they get raped. 

  • Respecting our military also means respecting the females in it enough to talk about the issue. I don’t see how Memorial Day is an inappropriate day to do this.

  • I think it depends on the context and how. You cant just throw questions like that out there!

  • Thank you so much for censoring yourself for such a sensitive issue, Dan! It makes me h****. ^.^

  • No, it’s disrespectful for that type of ignorance to go on without being called out.

  • There are a lot of women that serve, and those who do should be safe from their own fellow servicemen.  I think it is entirely appropriate to mention this tragedy that takes place on a Day where we are meant to Remember them most….

  • No, I don’t think it is. Some people consider it disrespect to imply that an organization such as the military is capable of less than perfection. I think it’s disrespectful to women to pretend such things do not happen. 

  • By critizing rapist in the military, you are helping the enemy win. Shame on you. (Please note the heavy sarcasm.)

  • @phosphorickike - hopefully you are trying to be funny and are not serious about that remark

  • No it is not disrespectful because we all need to remember that women and men are beign raped, and we all need to try to do something to help and stop this violent act.

  • I was serious about joining the military when I was in high school. My mom told me if I ever enlist, she would disown me for good. Now, after hearing stories about women being raped in the military. It makes me feel glad that I didn’t join the military.

  • I think it’s an issue that too few people know about.

  • Men are raped in the military too, just much less often than women.

  • It’s an important issue. If we are really thinking about the sacrifices people made, and how people suffer, isn’t this part of it when those women have left their families to serve their country and are subjected to that? I was trying to figure out why you edited the H word, thanks for the explanation.

  • At it again, eh?  Interesting- at least the first page of comments seem to uniformly support you, and I feel like that was not the case one of the last times around.

    I think it’s a good topic for veteran’s day, and really we should be going further and talking about all problems facing vets (such as a higher unemployment rate after their service ends compared to the average civilian).    Veteran’s day all too quickly becomes a summer holiday and not a day of remembrance or reflection.

  • Yeah, one of my high school classmates that went into the military posted on her facebook articles about the officer who raped her and an interview about it. So I see how common it can be.

  • @phosphorickike - That is awful on so many levels. The worst part is that I laughed.

  • I am so h**** ** * **** *** **** *** ** ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • It’s not disrespectful at all. It’s important to shed more light on this issue.

  • No. It’s not disrespectful… I bet a lot of the guys who rape womenz in the military get away with it too. I don’t know, but I would imagine since ya never hear about it a lot that ya know it’s kept on the DL. Guys who do this need to be held accountable and more disciplined. Sadly, I thought we’d already been more disciplined. That’s a thing of the past I guess… – TOJ

  • Happy Rape Day again! I can’t believe so many people forgot about it

  • It kinda surprised me. I thought women in the military would be man enough to handle those guys. But then again, there are fewer women and more horny-with-maybe-psychological-issues me.

    But rape in military is not the only we don’t hear about. Some of them also abuse some prisoners. I saw it in human behavior experiment (I’m not sure if that’s the full title). It showed how when you put a badge on someone that indicates they are in control or the boss, they tend to abuse that power.

  • As a female Navy veteran, I will say that “yes” it is disrespectful.  Memorial Day is for those who gave their life for our country.  This means people who died while in military service, especially during a time of war.  There are plenty of other days to bring up the issues surrounding sexual harassment/assault/rape in the military.  Please don’t take away from the men and women who have given their life for our country.  Using Memorial Day is just a cheap way to bring attention to a real problem… pick a better day.  Thank you.  

  • @ScarletMoth - Veteran’s Day is in November and celebrates all who have served.  Memorial Day is to commemorate those who have died in service to our country.  Perhaps a day during Women’s History Month would be more appropriate.  

  • @f5ye_angel5 - Women who join the military come from all walks of life. I’m not “man” enough for anything but I still joined the military and I’m a woman.  

  • it saddens me that not enough of these cases are being brought to light

    many of these women are told not to report the case and get back to work
    or in worse cases : the officers disregard the whole issue / may even fire them for bring it up :(

  • I know from experience that women are raped daily in the military, and the officers and men above her sweep it under the rug. The only women that come out on top are the ones that are protected by their families and special close military personnel. That is the only way to survive. 

    Men are raped daily in the military as well, and the civilian world knows little about it, due to the fact that it is even more of a black eye to the military. 
    Women in the military are most likely to be raped on deployment, but will be raped on base and in places they are led to feel safe. There are offices called SARC, to stop rape, and violence awareness. But it doesn’t stop. The rates have not gone down, they have gone up, in times of hardship, they skyrocket. 
    The great thing about military is, a lot of people hate them these days, and don’t care enough to dig into the military closet and grab out the skeleton of truth. 
    My father served 27 years in the military, and protected the females under his command, he was passed over for a promotion because of it. 
    Hug a female, and thank a male, do your research, and if you have military members in your family, be there for them always, they need you, always, even if they don’t say it. Stop the pain before it spreads. 
    Thank you for loving those who serve the Red, White and Blue

  • I guess.. to a certain percentage of those male servicemen. My husband (an airman, who serves this country, ovbiously) would never do this, he’s been committed to me his whole service. i don’t know where to go from here.

  • that is sad Dan.

  • Men who rape know how to use it.

  • I just feel that all these raping should be stopped.

  • I remember how last year this similar post got so much heat. LOL.

  • Nope, it should definitely be mentioned

  • Attention should be brought to this issue.  How are we any better than our foes if we are raping each other?  

  • I expected more dumbass comments, nice surprise to see such thoughtful responses. A couple of failed trolls tried but so far the most effective negative point is the watch spam. :)

  • Yeah, and I’d like to see the number of cases where a woman has actually been raped. I have a friend in the Marine Corps that refused sex to a female Marine and she filed for a rape charge.  I believe that there are plenty of cases where there are legitimate circumstances where rape has happened, but a female filing for rape, at least in the Marine Corps, is not taken lightly.  They even tell Marines right out of boot camp not to ever be in a room alone with a female Marine because all she needs to do is say there was rape or sexual assault of any kind and you’re out.  I think it’s important to shed light on the issue, but just know there are women out there that use “rape” to their advantage… which is just sick and cruel to those poor women who have ACTUALLY been raped.

    I do also think it is disrespectful to those that have died for our country to try and divert the attention to rape.  I don’t think it shouldn’t be talked about, but if you’re going to take today to remember those servicewomen who have been raped, you better also be paying respects to those men and women who have died.

    I appreciate servicewomen for their service to our country, and it’s great that women brave the chances of being raped – but can we maybe thank them every time we meet a female service member and not just bring it up on a day when our country is mourning?  It’s just funny that it HAS to be today… a day of mourning and remembrance of our friends and family who have been KIA.  So yes, to try to push for this time to be shared with “rape day” as you so coldly put it, is better than being used as a day to discount cars and the first official day of summer for businesses- it’s still something that seems a lot like a cry for attention because you knew people would come and stick up for their beliefs or for the friends and family we’ve lost.
    Good post, I’m glad you shared it.

  • It’s not my choice of post to see from you on Memorial Day.

    & OH! I was wondering what five letter bad word started with “H”! Lol.

  • @TiredSoVeryTired - @Lindsey_e - I thank you ladies for your wonderful comments as they expressed my thoughts exactly. I’m in the Navy myself. Most of my family has been in the military at some point in their lives, and my grandfather is a retired Master Chief Petty Officer. It sickens me that

    Sure, women are more likely to get raped, but at the same time, men are more likely to die. Last time I checked, dying was worse than getting raped.

    (Btw, did no one else see the sarcasm in this blog post or was it just me?)

  • @phosphorickike - I never understood the thing how women are supposed to cook. My dad was always the cook and most cooking shows I’ve seen are with males. Later I realized that everyone should know how to cook.

  • I would say so. I commend you for bringing up the issue, but Memorial Day is NOT the day to do it. I also disagree with the selected name of choice for said day/situation. ‘Rape Awareness Day” would be a better choice

  • @phosphorickike - Oh my god am i terrible person for laughing so hard at that?

  • BTW, it’s not Veterans Day, it’s Memorial Day, really….., My family members are in the military and i have too heard stories of certain things going on behind closed doors, it’s sad and a very touchy subject, but there is a time and place for all that, there are so many resources to speak out now and that is what needs to take place. I take this day very seriously because of the friends and family members that have lost thier lives and that is what this day stands for. So i as a wife of a soldier, salute those who have given sacrafices. And open my heart to those who have been taken advantage of by people in the military or in general, who assume that “POWER” to think they can do what ever they like to another human being! To me Memorial Day is not just for those who have fallen in combat, but for anyone close to you that you have lost, so in memory of all who have served thier country whether it be working, nuerturing or prepping the new generation, i ask that they pray for us, we are the one that need it!!

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - lol The sarcasm was evident.  However, I don’t believe that dying is worse than rape.  I do believe they are quite similar.  However, that’s no reason to take away from remembering those who died in service.  

  • @TiredSoVeryTired - You’re right. By the way, most of my comment got cut off somehow. I don’t remember exactly what I wrote, but I said that it sickened me how someone could hijack  day like this for their ’cause. Something like that, but way more amazing.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - I noticed you stopped in mid-sentence. lol

  • @TiredSoVeryTired - I tried replyingbefore and I dont think it went through (so if it did, apologies on double posting!)  Wow, shows how much I pay attention, so I agree, this isn’t the right day.   Maybe we need a day just for… social causes or veteran causes, then.   I think having part of women’s history month might not send the right message since it is like saying (not actually saying, but implying it, of course) that rape is just a women’s issue rather than an issue that effects both men and women in the military (both because men are usually rapists, and because they too are sometimes raped); also, considering we have women’s history month to celebrate the undercelebrated in history, it would seem sort of sad to use that to talk about women being raped, since history month usually celebrates things women have actively done, rather than things done to them over which they had no control.

  • @f5ye_angel5 - ”I thought women in the military would be man enough to handle those guys.”   Wait, what?  o_0  I mean, I get that your intentions are good here, but for the sake of people cruisin through the comments I want to deconstruct why this is problematic logic (and the type that in part perpetuates rape culture in the military).

    -Is rape something any woman just “handles”?   This wording is disingenuous.   You can have the “toughness” of a seasoned sailor and still be raped because it’s not a mere case of giving a stern look or pushing people away.    You can be raped while you are sleeping, while you are on your off time and drinking, while you think you are with someone you trust with your life- all reasons why a woman in the military might not be able to “handle those guys.”

    -Women can be strong so there’s no need to refer to strong women as “man enough.”    Strength and toughness is not something only relegated to men.   This also implies that civilian women are raped because they are “more womanlike,” which isn’t really true.   Rape isn’t about sex or gender, it’s about power. 

    -even aside from that, men also get raped, so there’s nothing about being a man that will necessarily allow you to be “man enough” to prevent yourself from being raped.

    The only sure fire way to prevent a rape is to have no rapists.   

  • @phosphorickike - rofl.. wrong time to be sarcastic…

    Or ignorant, even as far back as 10 000 years ago during the time of hunter gatherers women were either equally responsible if not the head providers of the “house” it wasn’t until the industrial revolution that men were deemed the providers and women were labeled as those who “belong in the kitchen”women are just moving forward to where they always should be: equally in power.

    now stfu and go make me a sandwich.

  • @ScarletMoth - That’s a good point about women’s history month.  

  • @reichael@healthkicker - Show me a woman who wants to be equals, and I’ll show you a spotted, purple-backed, prairie frog.

  • It’s not disrespectful at all. I think it is an issue that needs more attention brought to it. In fact a friend of mine served overseas and was raped by a fellow soldier. She ended up pregnant, but loves the baby. The other soldier was not punished for raping her. 

  • @Resilient_Light - You don’t think it’s disrespectful at all that on the one day we nationally honor the men who have fallen for our country, some people would rather turn it into a day about women’s issues?

  • NO.  and honestly I think it’s rather funny that you did this; I have mentioned this issue every year for the past 4 years on my facebook page and received much the same response of people thinking I’m being disrespectful to the troops.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - we also honor them on Veterans’ Day, and rape is not a “woman’s issue,” troll.

  • @long_haired_muse - Trolls aren’t people who disagree with you. And I called it a “women’s issue,” because the OP is only referring to women. I’m aware that men are raped, too. At least no one is telling women that arousal equals consent.

  • @ScarletMoth - Where’s the beef?

  • I’m pretty sure if you went up to a female service member and told her “Happy Rape Day” today, she would kick your ass.

    I do not condone rape no matter who is doing it…but today isn’t the day to focus on rape.  And most definitely not saying “Happy Rape Day”…that sounds like you’re condoning rape.

  • No…its real. but I think the timing could be better. Memorial Day is meant tot remeber The Dead. Most of whom were not rapists.

  • It sounds as if the women are giving their ALL……..

  • As a member of the military, I find it disrespectful to call a day for honoring the sacrifices of those who have served “Rape Day”. Yes, I believe that the rape of women in the military is an important issue and it should be brought into awareness; however, it should not be emphasized on this one specific day. There are many problems within the military, problems which should be addressed in a continual basis. This one day is time spent to positively think about our servicemen and women. By focusing on the darker aspects within the military on this one day spent to celebrate good, you are taking away respect for the military as a whole. It is much like celebrating a friend’s birthday or an anniversary with a loved one. Would you try to bring up any disagreements that are on going? No, you would take your time to try to celebrate what they have given to the world. In tainting the celebration, you are being disrespectful. My 2 cents.

  • So which day should we set aside to honor our war dead?

  • I’m going to break with the crowd on this one.  It is inappropriate to say happy rape day or happy vagina day.
     We should proud of our women who serve in the military for the same reason we are proud of our men —  because they are risking their live to protect the interests of the U.S. . Although women are still not allowed to serve on the front line, or special operation, they serve and they still die — just like men..
    Moreover, to the point of your post, both men and women — not just women — are the victims of rape while serving. The latest data I was able to find showed 30,000 men traumatized by forced sexual penetration (by other men) in the year surveyed. And that was just the ones that reported Trauma.   Your article showed 2,000+ women raped. According to my math, that’s about 1% of the total women in active duty, while 2% of the men in active duty report being traumatized by rape in a given year.    
    Let’s celebrate memorial day for what it’s meant for.    Leave the problem of rape in the military for another time. And don’t forget the men who are victims of this tragic and traumatizing violent crime. 

  • wrong day to post something like this. It disrespects the honor of every man and woman that has died for this country

  • It’s disrespectful when someone completely ignorant of anything military latches on to such a topic to carry out a personal vendetta, then attempts to make humorous a traumatic, painful event. This has nothing to do with Memorial Day. Congratulations, you got some eProps by exploiting traumatized women for your personal aggrandizement. 

    I suggest you first attempt to understand military culture and its legal system before you make comments comparing civilian prosecution to courts martial, misquoting and improperly contextualizing statistics due to your ignorance — or decide to completely sidestep the issue that this is a cultural issue affecting men as well, not simply a misogyny issue affecting women.
    I’m glad you watch CNN; it’s apparently made you enough of an expert on the subject to make sweeping generalizations about an entire demographic without quoting a single reputable report, study or legal case.
    Information is not knowledge and spouting words on a topic does not convey a constructive message. You’ve done nothing here to advance a cause or bring to light any truth. Way to go on being popular though; that’s just so super awesome!

  • It’s NOT AT ALL disrespectful to talk about this on Memorial Day! That would be like saying that it’s disrespectful to the U.S. to talk about rape statistics in the U.S. on the Fourth of July. In fact, it’s a perfect time to bring it to attention. I’m happy there are people out there (like yourself) who are bringing it up. There is not enough transparency as it is when it comes to how the military operates.

  • Did a lot of these people seriously miss the sarcasm and satire of the post? 

  • @phosphorickike - wow theres ignorance at its best lol, never realised straying from gender roles relinquishes your humainty, thanku for your insight however uneducated it may be ;)

  • @nyfemme - couldn’t agree with you more

    As far as the title i seen it as a way to grab attention just like all headlines read lol isn’t that why most of you were drawn to read this lmao

  • I think it could be disresepectful because you are almost demeaning troops by bringing up the issue on a day we are supposed to honor them. There is another day for that. The issue does need to be brought up, but its a little tasteless to do it today. Just sayin’ =)

  • @wolvenchic -  you ever get laid?

  • @Lindsey_e - So if a woman is raped in the military and then dies for her country, THEN it’s ok to mention it? Or not even then? Your claims that rape is not an issue because women are just faking is similar to the garbage spouted off in the civilian world too to minimize the seriousness of rape. How revolting to see a woman spouting that crap.

  • rape rape rape rape rape rape rape rape…I’d rather celebrate freedom of speech which doesn’t exist at Xanga.

  • Well you switched back and forth between two separate issues – rape and “sexual assault” (which means anything anyone wants it to mean, including a “Hey, you look nice today” if a girl doesn’t like you).  So, which one is it?

  • @wolvenchic - Why exactly do we need a day to honor them for doing the job that we PAY them to do?  Do I get a day where everyone is supposed to kiss my ass because I do the job I’m paid to do?  Hardly.  Do teachers?  Nope.  Cops or Fireman?  Nuh-uh.  No one else gets a day dedicated to kissing their ass just for doing their damn job.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - it is not about women’s issues in general. it is about our female service members who are giving up their lives to serve this country being raped by their male counterparts without their attackers being held accountable. If it was just about rape in general yes it would be disrespectful. But this is an issue plaguing female soldiers that no one is really paying attention to. I think it is pathetic that you think it’s disrespectful that he brings attention to something painful happening to female service members. It’s not just the men who deserve recognition today, it is all of our service members. They all sacrifice pieces of their lives or their entire lives for our freedom, why can’t we offer them something as simple as recognizing some of them being wronged by the very military they serve with their lives? Again, I saw the effects first hand in a very good friend of mine. 

  • @BimmerPhile - Memorial Day is for the ones who DIED, not the ones still alive.

    @Resilient_Light - “it is not about women’s issues in general. it
    is about our female service members who are giving up their lives to
    serve this country being raped by their male counterparts without their
    attackers being held accountable.”

    Which is fine, but there’s a time and place for everything, and this is most not the time.

    “If it was just about rape in general
    yes it would be disrespectful. But this is an issue plaguing female
    soldiers that no one is really paying attention to.”

    So, as long as were only speaking about the rapes of women, it’s not disrespectful? Once we include men, it becomes disrespectful?

    “I think it is
    pathetic that you think it’s disrespectful that he brings attention to
    something painful happening to female service members.”

    Because it’s not their day today.

    “It’s not just the
    men who deserve recognition today, it is all of our service members.”

    No, just the ones who have died.

    “They all sacrifice pieces of their lives or their entire lives for our
    freedom, why can’t we offer them something as simple as recognizing some
    of them being wronged by the very military they serve with their lives?”

    Because this isn’t the day for that.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - So?  They were still doing the job they were paid to do.  Again, countless people die as a result of their job every year – yet we don’t reserve days to worship them.  Also, if you want to ignore that, then why do we have veterans day?

  • @BimmerPhile - “So?  They were still doing the job they were paid to do.”
    Yes, but there difference between a soldier on the battlefield and a guy working at Staples, is that the guy on the battlefield is putting his life on the line so that the guy ay Staples can sleep safely at night.

    “Again, countless people die as a result of their job every year – yet we don’t reserve days to worship them.”
    No one’s worshiping the soldiers. I mean, hey, someone out there probably is, but that’s not what the day is for. It just a day to say “thank you for being a soldier.” Yes, people do die at their jobs, but there are people who die all the time, period. This is a day to say thanks to those who have intentionally signed their life away to specifically defending the country. Personally, I think policemen and firemen should be included in that, as they do their share at protecting, serving and saving.

    “Also, if you want to ignore that, then why do we have veterans day?”
    Because it’s also celebrated as the anniversary of the signing of the armistice that ended World War I.

  • @BimmerPhile - If you have the risk of dying at work for our country, then sure – you deserve a day. In fact, I want to say men (and maybe women) are still under the draft. Its not always a particular choice and they are frighting for you. I think that cops should have a day too for men and women in service. Heck, they have a administrators day? Why not. Find someone to kiss your ass and stop bein’ jelly =P they deserve the day.

  • no i don’t think it’s disrespectful, and i’m amazed at how people feel the need to dictate where people’s attentions are focused on a particular day. “don’t divert attention from this,” “maybe women’s history month would be more appropriate,” seriously? gtfo.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - “Yes, but there difference between a soldier on the battlefield and a guy working at Staples, is that the guy on the battlefield is putting his life on the line so that the guy ay Staples can sleep safely at night.”

    Bullshit.  He’s doing it for the money.  Also, there’s the wonderful fact that almost everything the US military has done in the last 100 years has NOT been about defense, but about forcing our will upon other countries (and yes, I know plenty of former military people who 100% agree with that statement).  Forgive me for not feeling bad when Joe gets killed because he’s murdering people for daring to follow a different religion or political ideology than the US thinks they should follow.
    “This is a day to say thanks to those who have intentionally signed their life away to specifically defending the country.”
    Again, they are NOT defending it.  Going out and saying “Hey you, don’t you dare support X socioeconomic system! *rape and murder*” is NOT defending our country in the slightest.  SOME of the people in the current war can claim that (if they were in Afghanistan), but other than that and those who fought against Japan in WWII, no one in the last century can make that claim.  The rest were all about US aggression.

    “Because it’s also celebrated as the anniversary of the signing of the armistice that ended World War I.”Another beautiful act of US aggression that destroyed Germany (the ones who were being attacked and simply did a damn good job defending themselves) and directly caused Hitler’s rise to power, the Holocaust, and WWII.  Yup, well over 10 MILLION people were killed as a direct result of US aggression in WWI (and I’m talking just about the ones killed during WWII, not even the ones murdered by the US in WWI).  Aren’t you SO proud about that?  I sure as hell am not.  
    @wolvenchic - “If you have the risk of dying at work for our country, then sure – you deserve a day”
    Sigh, if you’re going to say that any of this is “for our country”, then you’re not worth arguing with.  The fact that you cannot distinguish between the good of the country and the will of corrupt politicians is disheartening, but not a surprise for an American.

  • @BimmerPhile - Not all the soldiers agree that they should be one place or another. When they enlist as an individual, it is for the good of or country – politicians are another matter. But I agree- this convo isnt worth it hahah

  • @BimmerPhile - Not everything is as black and white as you believe. Also, I think you might need a history lesson or two. 

  • @tseng1234 - A history lesson in how we didn’t go to Vietnam and Korea to murder people over political ideology?  How we didn’t go to Iraq to murder people over their own disputes that had nothing to do with the US?  How we didn’t go into WWI to aid England despite England being one of the aggressors in a war to prevent people from achieving justice for the murder of their leader?

    If you believe any of those things, then it sounds like you’re a perfect example of why the US education system has horribly failed the citizens of this country.

    You see, it’s VERY black and white.  All you have to do is ask a simple question – was the US in any danger?  If the answer is no, then the war is unjust and everyone soldier who participated in it is / was a murderer or aided in murdering people.  As Nuremburg established, “just following orders” is no excuse for committing immoral acts.

  • @Melza - wow.  troll that you were on this post, lol, thanks for taking the time to read what I had to say and seeing my point of view.   

  • @BimmerPhile - No, in WWI, the US went to war only after Germany sunk U.S. merchant ships with their submarines. Additionally, the Zimmerman Telegram is a main factor in the US going to war. President Woodrow Wilson avoided going to war until the interception of the Zimmerman Telegram. One of Wilson’s major campaign slogans was: “He kept us out of war”. America declared a state of neutrality and warnings to Germany were sent for sinking American ships with their submarines. Only when the Zimmerman Telegram was intercepted did Wilson finally declare war. I trust you know what the Zimmerman Telegram entails, so no further explanation is necessary.

    And if I’m not mistaken, WWI began with the assassination of the Austria-Hungrian archduke by a Serbian nationalist who was affiliated with the Black Hand. Subsequently, the Emperor of Austria declares war on Serbia and Russia. Austria-Hungry invades Serbia. Germany then declares war on Serbia and Russia and then invades Luxembourg. After the invasion of Luxembourg, Germany declares war on France as well as neutral Belgium. Germany then conducts a bold flanking move to attempt to envelop France. This begins the Western Front. Britain then comes to the aid of France. Now, this is fact, not opinion. This same account of history runs in many sources. Nowhere did I hear any initial aggression by the British towards Germany or Austria-Hungry in any way. Your opinion regarding English and American aggression during WWI is null. I believe you’re partially the product of a poor education system (something the US does have in secondary education systems–aka high school–and below). This does not count as a history lesson.

    We did go to Vietnam and Korea for political ideals and much more. Those were needless wars. In fact, the South Vietnam government was the far more corrupt government. We did go to Iraq for resources, a foothold in the Middle East, to begin/test the Wolfowitz doctrine, to get revenge on the assassination attempt on Bush Sr., to lessen the probability for terrorists to gain weapons, and much more. That was also a needless war. However, WWII was an entirely justified war, not just on the Pacific front. Without our intervention, millions more men and women would have perished for the wrong reasons–reasons from a sick, racist ideology.

    Where I call your statements black and white go beyond misinformation of WWI and WWII. Men and women join the military for various reasons, not just for money. In fact, doctors could make far more money in the civilian world; however, some choose to join the military for sake of what they believe is a greater cause with far more risk, uncomfortable conditions, and worse hours. As bad as the military can be, they have done much good. During times of crisis from natural disasters, the military has the funding, resources, and training to assist the civilian population in both the US as well as other nations. Yes, the military can be used for the sake of political gains; however, at times they may be used in the correct manner and be used for international aid and national defense. The Army created the initial highway systems, dams, and other large engineering projects.

    I argue that theoretically, the men and women who serve are indeed fighting for the common citizen. If these men and women choose not to volunteer for service, a draft will be necessary to sustain a show of force (force deters other nations or societies from invading). With a draft in place, the common citizen would still ultimately fight for the sake of political policies. However, this is not the case in our day and age. Because men and women do volunteer for the armed forces, the common citizen ends up being free from needing to serve the country. Thus, because of the choices of service men and women, citizens like you are free to be, well, free. You don’t have to fight in needless wars; they are fighting them for you in their stead. They fight without the freedom you so enjoy.

    I look forward to your reply.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - do you really think that none of the female officers who died for our country were never raped in service? By rape in general, I meant rape of a private citizen on U.S. soil. He is focusing on the rape of a soldier by a soldier. It would not be disrespectful to discuss the rape of a male soldier, however that is more rare. Yes we are honoring those who died, but can we honor our military when it is failing some of it’s service members?

  • @wolvenchic - do you really think this post would be getting half the attention it’s getting if it were any other day? controversy over putting it up on Memorial Day is probably the main reason it’s being read, but it is being read as it should be. 

  • @SnowshoeTrails - I think you need to reread my response with a little less gripe that I didn’t fall into just following the herd with a simplistic, “I agree” as this is a subject that I do need to carefully take into consideration.  If a woman who was raped in the military dies, it’s expected to talk about it… I don’t think that it shouldn’t be discussed.  However, this post felt like someone said “today is a day to mourn our fallen soldiers” and someone else bursts out with:  ”Women are raped in the military every day!” Yeah, it seems very disrespectful… let us have this one day to mourn without bringing in another tough subject to counter.  This is especially for our fallen military – men, women,people’s brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, cousins, friends…

    I am sorry that you seem to think that I’m claiming that rape is not an issue.  I am sickened by women that fake rape and take away from the seriousness of the situations of the many women that have ACTUALLY been rape.  If you read through, I mentioned that from the get go.  It’s another thing to consider in this discussion.  I like that you just automatically jumped down my throat with “you’re a women, I expected more from you!”
    I am just exploring other things to consider in the numbers.  If that bothers you, I don’t really care.  The fact is, it happens and you SHOULD be pissed, but you should also shake a finger at the women that pull that shit. When they reap the benefits of a situation like that, they are a disservice to women who have been victims to sexual assault and rape.  Seriously, reread my response.  Realize I’m not making ANY claims that rape isn’t a big deal because some women lie.  It’s just a fact that a lot of people don’t realize or consider when they see those numbers.  Rape is not taken lightly when it’s brought up.  You can get kicked out of the military for being obese, if someone makes a rape claim, it isn’t just brushed off.  If there is any suspicion of truth, there is trouble to be had.

  • @Resilient_Light - “do you really think that none of the female officers who died for our country were never raped in service?”
    I wouldn’t say none, but I’d say the number is small. Regardless of that, they don’t need to hijack Memorial Day to further their cause. There are 365 days in the year. Pick one that’s not the last Monday in May.

    “By rape in general, I meant rape of a private
    citizen on U.S. soil. He is focusing on the rape of a soldier by a
    soldier. It would not be disrespectful to discuss the rape of a male
    soldier, however that is more rare.

    Well, according to you, “this is an issue plaguing female soldiers”. If we’re speaking of the rape of soldiers by soldiers, then include everyone, even if the men do make up a small percentage. If I want to talk about deaths in the military, political correctness demands that I mention “the men and women” even though 97% of military deaths are men. But no, you can’t say that death is an issue plaguing male soldiers, or you get labeled a sexist. (I don’t care what I get labeled, but you get the idea.) Either way, to talk about the rapes of soldiers on a day where we’re supposed to be thanking them for all of the good things they do is completely inappropriate and disrespectful. Once again, there’s a time and place for everything, and Memorial Day was not the day.

    “Yes we are honoring those who died, but can we honor our military when it is failing some of it’s service members?”
    We’re not honoring the military as a whole, we’re honoring the individual members who died in service, most of which I’m sure had nothing to do with any rapes.

  • @Kazydai@mancouch - Your mentality on this subject sadly shows why this issue exists. Your mentality says “Let’s not talk about it right now, it’s too depressing for a day honoring soldiers.” Too often excuses are made for not talking about this issue. 

  • @Resilient_Light - I never said it was depressing. I said it was inappropriate and disrespectful. What I get from your mentality is that we should talk about this all the time in any situation, and anyone who disagrees with you is a misogynistic bastard. I can think of TONS of situations where it is inappropriate and disrespectful to bring up a topic like this, and a bunch others.

  • @londonparisnewyork - I’m a female in the military and never been raped.  please don’t think that all of us are susceptible to this and that it happens all the time. it can happen anywhere…male or female, adult or child, it’s not fair to assume the military is rape-central.

  • I guess the fucker deleted my comments… oh well. 

  • why would you delete my comment?

    your post is stating that women in the military are victims of rape.

    A comment was made that women belong in the kitchen I think an intellectual rebuttal to that on women and men power is fair, and yet you deleted it. I would like to question your thoughts on that.

    Still I don’t really give that much of a shit, just thought it was pretty ironic.

  • @vivachu - As a man in the military, I really appreciate this. Thank you.

    @Diary_of_a_fatman - @reichael@healthkicker - I don’t think it’s him deleting the comments. Xanga has been messing with mine as well. If it was him deleting posts, mine would’ve have been deleted a long time ago.

  • @Diary_of_a_fatman - @reichael@healthkicker - @Kazydai@mancouch - He is right.  Xanga was having problems.  I did not delete your comments.

  • @Lindsey_e - LOL with a “little less gripe.” Wow. I guess if you can’t respond, start off swinging with a personal attack, and that will win for you. I read your response. I’m not any more impressed than I was by your original comment and I stand by my comment. 

  • @tseng1234 - Actually no.  The US was well aware that it was a war zone and intentionally sent merchant ships in to give an excuse to go to war, since the American public was against going to war.  They rightfully knew that it was Europe’s war and not ours – but the good old power hungry politicians wanted an excuse to stick their nose where it didn’t belong.

    As for what started the war?  After Ferdinand was assasinated, Austria-Hungary asked Germany for support (Germany did not declare war) if they went to war with Serbia.  France and Russia then started massing troops on Germany’s border to try and bully them into submission. Germany demanded that they remove their troops or Germany would defend themselves – France and Russia refused, so Germany defended themselves (as any nation would in the situation).  But you’re going with the typical anti-German bullshit that’s “taught” in schools (when it’s mentioned at all) in the US.  However, if you bothered reading actual history books, you’d find out what really happened.

    The rest of your stuff simply isn’t worth replying to.  You want to deify the very people who rape and murder for fun.  The same people who murdered US citizens without blinking merely because they were told to.  People who typically pick to be in the military because they’ve failed in everything else in life and it’s their only hope of a decent paying job.  So there’s no having a discussion with you when you refuse to accept that they are anything other than demi-gods who would never do anything wrong.  I’ve met plenty of military worshippers like you before.  My family did too when they were hunted during WWII by the Nazi’s.  So forgive me for not sharing your delusions that the military would never do anything wrong.  History has shown countless times that you’re wrong.

  • No! This should be discussed more!

  • @BimmerPhile - What about the Zimmerman Telegram? President Wilson did not want to go to war. This is accounted in many history books and is largely accepted as fact. His aids wanted otherwise, but he stuck to his ground, despite the sinking of merchant ships. Let me place emphasis on this: only when the Zimmerman Telegram (a secret telegram sent from Germany to Mexico) was intercepted, did the Americans go to war. Yes, France did mobilize troops after Germany mobilized their troops, but this was to be expected. Germany expected it enough that they devised the Schlieffen Plan (revised 1906) prior to WWI and subsequently utilized that very plan.

    In my initial statement, what I was trying to illustrate was that Germany wasn’t defending themselves. This was a war between Austria-Hungary and Serbia. However, my new argument is that Austria-Hungary ultimately started the war. Serbia had no intention in going to war. Austria-Hungary’s ultimatum to Serbia was extremely hard to achieve for any nation with dignity. Because both Russia and France were weak militarily compared to Germany, they urged Serbia to concede to the ultimatum. Serbia agreed to all 10 terms except term number 6: that Austrian police be allowed to operate within Serbia. Any country would not allow such a deal. Upon hearing the news of Serbia not accepting term number 6, the German government talked amongst themselves. It sounded like they were praying for war. Statements like, “Everything must be done to ensure that he [Wilhelm] (German Emperor) does not interfere in things with his pacifist ideas.” -German Foreign Ministry. As well as, “Here, every delay in the beginning of war operations is regarded as signifying the danger that foreign powers might interfere. We are urgently advised to proceed without delay.” -Austria-Hungarian ambassador to Berlin’s message to Count Berchtold (Imperial Foreign Minister of Austria-Hungary). Because of these facts, one can see that Austria-Hungary was looking for war. They were the aggressors. Serbia lacked the power to afflict any sort of damage upon Austria-Hungary in a war effort and were looking to prevent war. Serbia conceded to almost all of the impossible ultimatums. This is proof that they did not want war. Austria-Hungary wanted it and started it. They were the aggressors. The weaker France and Russia also did not want war as seen with their urge to Serbia to comply. Germany can seen as aggressive from the messages sent within their political network. The same can be said of Austria-Hungary. Again, Germany and Austria-Hungary can be seen as the aggressors, not France or Britain. You fail to see the necessary details.

    Now, about WWII. In response to your statement, “My family did too when they were hunted during WWII by the Nazi’s” – I’m sorry to hear that. My Chinese family were hunted and mistreated by the Japanese. Yes, at times the military can be a terrible force; however, I’m saying that the military can also be used for good. Without the military to protect innocent civilians from the evils seen in WWII, many more people would have perished. Without American forces, both the African and European front would have arguably been prolonged or even unsuccessful. The British were nearing destruction in Africa. If we hadn’t pushed through Africa, we could not have even made it to Sicily (which put pressure on German forces). Additionally, much of the Normandy Invasion force across the English Channel were Americans and would have likely failed without the aid of American forces. Without establishing this solid foothold in Europe, there wouldn’t have even been a European front at that phase of the war. Without establishing a European front, Germany wouldn’t have been pressured and could divert reinforcements to Russia. Additionally, without pressure on Germany, almost all Jewish men, women, and children would have been killed. The American military was necessary to prevent such a tragedy.

    Hm. “People who fail in life.” So, doctors who go to med school and are successful practitioners failed in life? Judges failed in life? Lawyers who pass the bar exam fail at life? I can provide many solid examples of people who have joined the military after such accomplishments. You only provide a general misconception with no factual basis. Once again, you fail to see the details. You only see in black and white and this is your flaw. You are unable to distinguish truth from general misconceptions because of this. People who have multiple degrees from Princeton, Harvard, and Stanford fail at life? Show me that this is not the case. If you try to, I will show you many men who have succeeded in life despite being in the military. You argue with emotion, not fact. This is a major flaw in your intellect.

    Now, I have stated bad exists within the military. There are rapists and murderers. I am not deifying anyone. I was stating fact–fact that you do not attempt to refute. The military has been useful. They have been used in international and national aid. That is what I am stating. Fact that can be supported. The military is necessary for national defense. Without a volunteer force, a draft would be in effect which would prevent the freedoms of being a common citizen. The freedom to not fight in unnecessary wars. The freedom of not having your freedoms taken away from you for a year to a couple years. This is my argument. It is simple. You avoid it because you cannot refute it.

    I also want to talk about rapists and murderers in general. They exist everywhere in society. Because of this, many organizations are prone to having rapists or murderers. A good amount of rape occurs in the Peace Corps. Does this mean that it is an evil organization that must be put down? No. The Peace Corps does much good. It’s just bad people exist anywhere.

    Now, you’re likely going to either not respond (because you don’t know how else to reply or don’t want to put in the effort to reply) or you’ll say that I’m a military warmonger who is not worth talking to. That I have no knowledge and that my information is all fed on lies–lies that many researchers and historians in many countries believe in. However, you’re probably tempted to say that I am not worth talking to because you, yourself, do not know how to argue back successfully with sound logic. If you had actually read my post, you can see that I am not a warmonger. In fact, at times I don’t see why everyone can’t just get along and try to talk their differences. Many psychological studies (Smetana) show that in sincerely working out problems between ingroup/outgroups, any illogical dispute dissipates. I just wish politicians around the world didn’t have to behave like school children in a play-yard.

    Once again, I am merely providing logic found on fact. I hope you can do the same. I’m enjoying our discussion. I look forward to reading your response.

  • @tseng1234 - Read up on the Zimmerman Telegram – it was only going to be an issue IF the US declared war on Germany.  That’s a pretty foolish reason to go to war, because someone discusses what they’ll do if you decide to attack them.  Wilson absolutely wanted war, just as Lincoln did before him  

    As for the rest?  I don’t mean this in a belittling way, but I have better things to do (I’m in grad school as well as employed full time) and just don’t have the time / energy to go into all of that.  I skimmed over it, but with multiple research papers to complete in the next week, I just don’t have the time for it.  Though, I will point out that when you try to rationalize why we “needed” to be in Europe during WWII (I’m not arguing about Japan since they attacked us), you fail to realize that if we had minded our own business during WWI, there wouldn’t have BEEN a WWII and Hitler never would have come to power and the Holocaust never would’ve happened.  Every single death during WWII and the Holocaust is a direct result of the US getting involved in a war that they had no business being in 20 years prior.

  • @BimmerPhile - No, the Zimmerman Telegram was as issue because Germany offered incentives for Mexico to declare war with the US if the US seemed likely to enter war with Germany (not if the US entered war. It’s if the US appeared as if they were going to enter war). This is a declaration of hostility. It’s much like if someone paid your neighbor sums of money to attack you. You would interpret that someone’s actions as an act of hostility.

    And as for WWII. It happened. This is not a hypothetical (like what your argument is based on), this is fact. Without the US military, Hitler would have killed millions more people over sick ideologies. Thus, the US Military was necessary. I rest my case.

    And even if the US military didn’t enter WWI, the same outcome could have occurred. The US had a small, inexperienced military. General Pershing had to redesign how the military operated and new equipment had to be constructed to transition the US military from a largely defensive, coastal military to one that could support an expeditionary Army. The support of the American Army was not a decisive reason for the Allied victory. The Allies did not have significant American man-power during the strongest German offensive (when troops from the Russian front could be utilized in the Western Front due to the armistice between Russia and Germany). On the other hand, American manpower in WWII proved decisive.

    And with hypotheticals (what your argument is based on), anything could have happened. It is much like predicting the future: you can’t. It is impossible because of the billions of minute details you cannot account for. That is why you cannot trust hypothetical situations which attempt to capture large situations (like WWI). These large situations of near infinite complexity (involving the minds, actions, and luck of entire nations) cannot be accurately predicted. That is why your argument fails once again. Your “proof” never happened.

    Ditto on having a life. We really have dragged this on far enough. Good luck with grad school and thanks for the intellectual stimulation.

  • It is not respectful because it is a real issue.  I have dealt with such cases once or twice.  There are also many more cases in which the female military members are not forcibly raped, but seduced, led on and used, then heartlessly abandoned when the deployment ends.  That is nearly as bad.

  • @phosphorickike - wow. Your a disrespectful ass hole. I am a military woman and I love being a COP. which means. Oh wait. I’m outside the metaphorical kitchen and fighting for OUR country! Not every woman is meant to be domestic so do be a sexist ass.

    I had an issue with a Msgt saying a very inappropriate thing to me. I brought it up my chain of command and nothing happened. All he got was a little smack on the wrist and I didn’t even get an apology.  Something like that is the reason its hard to be female in the military when its dominated by 80 % of men. I don’t think any time is in appropriate to discuss these issues.

  • @f5ye_angel5 - You need to understand something. We are Man enough to handle what we can. But when I am a whopping 120 pounds and a guy who is over 200 and something pounds attempts to over power me. No amount of fighting is going to help if he over powers me. Yes they train us for COMBAT but they do not train us on RAPE.  So to sit there and state you think we should be man enough to handle that situation is insane. Especially when you have 3 or 4 men trying to rape ONE female. 

  • Women in the military are taught that sexual assault does not exist until there has been genital touching.  And in any aspect of the country, rape only counts if their are witnesses and the victim is sober.

  • @f5ye_angel5 - It kinda surprised me. I thought women in the military would be man enough to handle those guys.

    Hmm I don’t like the sound of this… It’s making a lot of judgments and sort of makes women who have been raped look weak or something… When that’s not true. There is a lot that goes into rape, and physical force plays a small percentage. Fear plays a much larger one. Fear of loosing one’s job. Fear of being hurt. Fear of upsetting the boss. Manipulation.

  • @Eyesbehindthesoul - don’t let phoswhateverhisnameis get to you, only a troll says things offensively just to get rises out of people. Don’t play his game… it’s not worth it. He must be a relatively new troll, a lot of people don’t know who he is, so don’t feel bad.

  • It’s disrespectful because it makes it sound like the army is made up of rapists. Believe it or not, the vast majority of soldiers are NOT rapists, and you disrespect them by drawing attention to the few bad apples.

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