June 8, 2011
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Feeling Your Genitals
It appears to me that for the most part if a man is going to get his genitals examined, he wants a woman to do it.
Women tend to want a woman also.
If you are having your genitals examined, do you want a male or female doctor?
Comments (119)
As long as they have good hands their gender doesn’t matter. ;]
Female, unless the male doctor is cute.
I don’t want someone without a uterus telling me about mine! hahaha
If it is their profession, hopefully they’re good at it whether they’re male or female. However, a female might be a smidgen less awkward for me.
I want you touching my genitals
A woman. I feel it’s a little less weird.
Guys want women because they think if a male touches them it’s gay.
I don’t have a preference, as long as they’re not creepy.
Female.
It doesn’t matter to me. If I see a male dr theres always a female stand in.
I think I’d like to have a gal-to-gal convo if it concerns those parts.
Doesn’t matter.
At my age I’m just happy someone is willing to touch them. I guess they have never heard, “Don’t touch that you don’t know where it been.”
woman. the thought of a guy staring at my crotch or boobs disturbs me
I’ve always had a male doctor for that and I prefer it that way. I don’t like women touching me lol.
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Female.
Female
I don’t care. It’s just a doctor. Not like I’m holding auditions for a new lover.
male
I don’t care. I’m getting my genitals examined. Male/Female – it sucks!
Don’t care.
At my age, who cares?
During physicals my brother and other men in my life have said that they’d prefer a man because they tend to be more gentle around those parts than women are hahaha.
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Well, it’s about the specific doctor for me. Good doctors are hard to come by, REALLY hard to come by these days. I wouldn’t throw away a good doctor just because of their gender, because I likely will not be able to find another good doctor… they just aren’t common enough. And I’d MUCH rather be in the care of a GOOD doctor, than a bad one, any day. I’ve been in the care of a lot of bad doctors, almost died because of their screw ups numerous times. It’s uncomfortable enough without that worry. My gynecologist is a man. He actually is the man who delivered me as a baby, did my mom’s care when she was pregnant with me, and for a long time. He’s actually openly gay, which I feel like helps some people deal with the fact he’s a guy, since he supposedly isn’t attracted to women anyway. He’s a good doctor, though, either way, so I think for me, that’s probably what matters the most. It’s never gonna be a pleasant experience, of course. But I don’t think such simple things would make it any better for me.
i’m a girl, and i just want someone who knows what they’re doing….i’ve had stupid female gynecologists before.
female. having a strange man poking around down there for medical reasons has always seemed a bit weird to me
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As for my answer, it’s only awkward if you make it awkward. If the doctor is professional and quality, it doesn’t matter. I may, deep in my head, have a little homophobia, but I tell myself I’m being silly and I get over it.
I find it very challenging to even answer this question but it might be good practice. I would prefer a women but don’t dare ask for it. The worst is when a very young man is taking the task . I feel sorry for him. The whole thing makes me feel uncomfortable. It just feel like science fiction. Why do we even have genitals…
I’m definitely more comfortable with a female doctor
I don’t care if my doctor is male or female I just want to get the exam over with so that I can do other things. I would think that if a male is having a prostate exam, he’d want a female doctor because she would have smaller fingers.
female…
@raspberryjade - I agree. No matter how many books a male doctor would read about a uterus, I still think he can’t really relate. I feel more comfortable woman doctors doing my pap smears and stuff, that’s my opinion.
The gender shouldn’t matter, what should matter is the professionalism and expertise of the doctor. Anyone who says otherwise is being a little silly.
female.
But my current doctor is male and I’ve had him for years so him before any other female doctors.
could I go into some detail discussing this
male doctors without creepy mustaches or male/female doctors without hairy arms. just nobody hairy because it would make me uneasy. a friendly, efficient and non-creepy looking doctor.
Female
I had a woman give me a physical once and I had a physical reaction.
As long as they do theLonelyIsland’s creep dance before they examine me, I don’t care who it is. It’ll make me laugh/relax.
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I’ve had both. Doesn’t matter to me.
@AGreatPerhaps - Thats true.. Good doctors ARE hard to find! My last one I had was terrible! She charged my family a bill for couseling… Even though I didnt ask for it at all, I was there for birth control… And shes had me wait for my appointment many times and just never showed up.. One time I waited 3 HOURS before someone told me she’s not coming in… As of now, I dont have a doctor though, no insurance.. Yet atleast.. But I think I’d rather have my own gender for those types of things.. But either way its akward, male or female! LOL
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Woman…
I have a woman dr and hubby says he would want a good looking female dr. Hubby is a dirty old man-”chuckling”
I once read that a male gynecologist is like a mechanic who’s never owned a car. You can know how it functions, but you can’t REALLY know how it feels to make it run/work. I prefer female.
Lady, please.
I’ve had one female Dr for that kind of visit before and I hated her. I rather a man do it because they are more gentle cuz they don’t know how it feels….whereas the woman knows exactly how it feels and wants You to suffer as she does…
I prefer male OBGYNs. Some of the roughest and rudest OBGYNs I’ve had were actually women. When it comes to a doctor removing my cancer (I’ve had skin cancer) I didn’t try to make sure he had skin cancer before he worked on. So, I don’t buy the whole he needs to have a uterus thing.
I once asked a female resident a question about pregnancy and she said, “I don’t know I’ve never been pregnant before.” Doh, wrong answer. I do find residents/student doctors are fun though.
@PoetMcChick - I had a female OBGYN like that once. Obviously I didn’t go back to her. She was rough during the exam and I made a noise and she told me to get used it since I’d have yearly exams for the rest of my life. I’ve had male ones apologize when they thought they were too rough but weren’t.
Male. lol.
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Female. If it’s a male, I want him to be older. x__x
Girl. I’ve actually known a lot of girls who said they prefer guy doctors because they’re gentler.
I personally don’t care who examines me. Its not sexual, or at least it shouldn’t be.
if the doctor is professional, the gender is nothing.
I don’t care. They should be professional, knowledgable, considerate (ie. open to my communication with them; if I say something is sensitive, back off), and they have clean hands/gloves.
my first pap was by a woman which was comforting. but once i got pregnant the ob i chose was a male and i was ok with that. it honestly does not matter to me. i don’t like that he doesn’t understand the female pains but i’m close friends with his female nurse so i just talk to her about all of that.
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My lady parts doctor is a lady. I just like her.
My general care doctor is a little Asian man that says “Oh, gooooooooooood” all the time in a weird voice. I’m glad he stays away from my lady bits.
I would want a woman. I’ve had men gynos before and they were good…but I felt uncomfortable.
No preference. Just anyone available usually.
I worked 15yrs for a woman dr. and she said that men are more likely to come to here cause she’s gentle plus when Viagra came out they were afraid their male dr. would laugh at them; my hubby got me to ask for some from our dr. and he did laugh and ask me if Dave knew I was asking for him and I said,”he asked me to ask you for it.” The dr. said,”we’re the same age.” I think he said it so casual cause I worked for him in the early 1980′s but still…
I’m a guy and I would prefer a guy (though whoever has the most expertise will always win regardless of sex) to examine my genitals because he probably examines his own and knows how things are supposed to feel and any slight variations on what is the norm will be noticed. At least, that is my theory.
I don’t care who. Just get it over with already.
My gyno is a guy and he actually made it seem a lot less awkward than my old gyno, who was a girl.
Basically, I don’t care who does it as long as they make it not awkward.
I hate doctors. Female if I must.
As long as it’s not some newbie or rookie doctor I’m comfortable with both man and woman. It sucks when you get some rookie who just made insensitive nasty comments about your genitals (eg. why you have your down there shaved/waxed and now there’s ingrown) when you’re already not at the best comfortable position to be examined. Experienced doctors usually don’t do that (as least to me that is).
A woman or a really hot guy, I don’t care either way.
hmm honestly i dont think it would really matter. im normally a lot more confortable around men though… so i think i might actually prefer a guy.
Oh. Oh! OH NO!!! You mean examination by a medical professional!! I was enjoying the thoughts and memories and prospects of genital examination within a personal relationship until I realized what you are REALLY asking!
My medical professional primary caregiver is a young woman. And if either of us decides my genitals need a medical exam, I’m perfectly comfortable with her. I’m also OK with it if she sends me to a male colleague for reasons of her own.
Female doctor for sure. Even when I was a little kid, I felt really awkward whenever I had a guy doctor & he looked at my then essentially non-existant boobs and vagina. I have a male doctor now, but thankfully I haven’t ever had to be ‘examined’ in recent years at a regular doctor’s visit. But yeah, whenever I start going to the gyno I DEFINITELY want a woman doctor or else I will cry lol.
@AGreatPerhaps - most logical answer
in general i’m more comfortable with a man touching me anywhere but i’m seeing a doctor, you’re right, the most capable person should do it!!
Female. I’ve had both and female doctors are gentler.
as long as it’s not a hot female doc either sex will do. I’m already too prone to popping random wood.
males are kind of associated with rape/pedophiles automatically if they’re strangers, I think. This is by both sexes.
Girls tend to be associated with maternal instinct and gentleness. Think; if you had a choice, most people would rather their mother examine their genitalia than their father.
same principle.
I definitely don’t really have a preference, because its their job. The first time anyone ever “examined my genitals” it was a guy and it wasn’t awkward at all.
When it comes down to it, my experience with gynecologists, i’ve found that men are more gentle and patient then women are. =
@AGreatPerhaps - Oh really? My former gynecologist delivered me as a baby as well.
I have always preferred a woman doctor. As a rule I typically find them to be smarter, less arrogant, and more likely to actually take the time to listen to me. However, when the time came for a prostate exam during my last physical, my doctor couldn’t perform the procedure without another person in the room because she was a woman. So she had a female nurse come in. Therefore I had two women in the room while one of them stuck their finger up my ass. Can you say “humiliating?” I sure can.
It depends. I’ve been examined by men and women. It’s probably just my luck, but the women don’t tend to be as gentle as the men. The last woman took a ridiculously long time to get shit done, while my male doctor is quick and efficient. Out of those experiences only, I think I prefer a male doctor.
As has been said before, the quality of doctor and their hands make a good deal more difference than male or female.
both, (as for seeing the dentist) I prefer a woman to checked my teeth, as I have find men to be more rough whilst going for a checkup.
i dont care as long as its not a creepy old man
When I turned twelve or thirteen I demanded a female doctor over a male one. It just made me really uncomfortable.
All I know is that there is a picture of Patrick Dempsey.
As long as they do a good job, it doesn’t really matter if they are male or female, at least not from an intellectual standpoint. But from a personal, emotional, comfort standpoint, I prefer a female doctor.
I guess as long as their cool, then it doesn’t matter weather if their a guy or a girl. But if the guy happens to be cute then…i guess I’ll go with him lmao
I don’t care, but I’ve had better luck with female doctors.
When I went the first time I thought I’d prefer a woman, but I ended up not liking the one I picked at all. She didn’t listen to me and she was kinda… um… rough, if that’s the appropriate word. At this point honestly I wouldn’t care, as long as said doctor actually listened to what I was saying, and was gentle. I’m fragile, dammit.
I want to feel my own damn genitals… oh wait, I already am. OHHH YEAHHHH
u need to have ur head examined
I want a female doctor to discuss female issues with. To me, it only makes sense.
can i have patrick dempsey?
Female. But who knows if your female doctor is closet lesbian? *shrugs*. Don’t mind either way.
@AmanduhPie - LMAO
Hmmm I suppose it doesn’t really matter to me. When I go, I take a book and read the whole time to keep my mind off of it and myself relaxed.
doesnt matter so long as they know what they are doing :3
I want a woman. I guess guys want a woman, too, because they can’t turn sex off of their brain, or they’re homophobic? Maybe I’m wrong. But, I don’t think those are mature ways of looking at the situation of a doctor examining you…
Male. All the women gynocologists I’ve gone to have made me incredibly uncomfortable.
Woman. Women understand female issues more than a male and are more gentle. My mom’s friend was having issues with her period and the male doctor said to get over it basically. My friend went to a male doctor and the tools he used hurt her and she bled. That’s enough for me to want a female doctor.
Doesn’t matter to me. Sometimes I think women doctors understand the pain better, but I currently have a male OB/GYN and I love him. He actually LISTENS to me and doesn’t assume he knows exactly what is going on.
I’ve had good and bad experiences with doctors of both sexes but I prefer a male when I’m choosing. In my experience they’re more gentle.
Female. I just don’t trust a male doctor with my female issues.
I used to prefer a female but after giving birth twice, it really doesn’t make a bit of difference because after that, how modest do you really stay?
The first time I ever had to go in for a pap smear was when I got pregnant, and I had a male doctor. BEST DOCTOR I WILL EVER HAVE IN MY LIFE! He was funny and made me comfortable and didn’t make me feel weird at all (other than the obvious awkwardness of my vagina being on display under a bright light.) I have a female doctor for my lady parts now and it’s a little more weird, I feel like she’s comparing me to herself (even though I know she’s not) or that women are more judgmental. I think I’d actually prefer a male doctor just because I had such a wonderful experience with my first doctor. I mean I love my current doctor now (I actually saw her today for my yearly check up haha) but I just feel weirder when a girl is lookin’ down there.
I want a lobster.
Neither… that’s why I refuse to get mine examined. I’d rather die and I don’t care how horrible that makes me.
@ColdSkivvies - Humiliating because you had two girls in the room with you and your pants off? That’s more like most guys dream (granted, without the finger in the ass part). Humiliating would be having another guy stick his finger in your ass….especially if he smiles while doing it.
Female, but I would hope not to get a boner!
woman.
(As a male) ultimately, I don’t care. If a male doctor is touching my genitals…ZOMG!…he’s doing his job. I’m at the doctor’s office to make sure I’m okay–not to be worrying about some random guy or gal feeling me up and reinforcing my own sexual insecurities. I would assume most doctors, male or female, have examined genitalia of both genders in-depth more than any typical human being does on a daily basis.
For me, it has to be a woman. I don’t want anyone near my vagina other than myself, and my sweetie. Seeing as the vagina exam is a necessary thing, it has to be a woman. I don’t want anther man down there. Gah.
Female, always.
As a guy, I’d want the doc with the smallest hands ever doing my rectal exam. I’ll pass on captain gorilla-hands McSausage digits, thank you very much.
Definitely a woman. She can even be ugly. I don’t want another guy checking out my privates!
I think I’d definitely rather have a female. My girl friends in high school had an argument, and they all seemed to think that female gynecologists are lesbians… which is ridiculous. I would just feel more comfortable with a woman doctor– Not to say anything against men, but a woman could empathize with me better.
Well, I don’t think women have genitals, but when I’m gettin’ that regular check up done I know that I’d rather have a female doctor. It seems less weird to me. I seem to tense up more if it’s a male doctor.
Female. Just dont really feel comfortable with a male other than my husband prodding around down there, even if its for medical purposes.
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