July 27, 2011
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Would You Drop Her If She Got Fat?
A recent survey showed that half of men would dump a girlfriend if she got fat. Here is the link: Link
Do you think your significant other would drop you if you got fat?
A recent survey showed that half of men would dump a girlfriend if she got fat. Here is the link: Link
Do you think your significant other would drop you if you got fat?
Comments (133)
If they weren’t fat when you begun your relationship, then it’s absolutely acceptable to dump somebody after they get fat.
My SO wishes I was slightly thicker in the legs for some reason. But if I get fat I don’t think he would dump me. Probably be less sexually attracted though.
Then again for me being fat isn’t an option.
Or would I drop HIM if HE got fat you mean?
no s/o. ummm… maybe? weight is a touchy subj, but i think i can tolerate a few extra pounds but not lets say… 30-40-50? idk we’ll see
No. I don’t think my SO would drop me if I got fat.
I’m pretty damn sure my ex lost interest in me when I went up a couple of dress sizes.
So I’m better off without him.
I was 224 once and my wife did not dump me. I went to 165 when I was 40 and kept the wait off. My wife still did not dump me. My conclusion is that my wife will not dump be based on my weight.
If I got fat, I don’t know if she’d be strong enough to lift me up and drop me.
If that mattered so much to a person, I wouldn’t date them in the first place.
I meant the vows I said. No amount of weight gain will change that.
I’d tell him to go f*** himself.
I wouldn’t drop him but if he dropped me… oh well so be it. I know a cruel world so what’s a little more pain threshold tolerance.
I already am fat.
maybe the reason why I don’t have a significant other is because I’m fat, my award winning charm only goes so far.
meh, idk, he helped me GAIN weight when i was going through a depressive/not eating period. his weight has also fluctuated a lot since we started dating, he’s actually pretty fit right now. honestly it has such little bearing on my view/level of attraction, but i guess i can’t technically speak for him. we’ve been pretty good for these first 3 years, i’ll let you know how it goes.
depends, did they just completely let themselves go and pick up some really unhealthy habits?
YES!! but first….. I’d drop him if he got she
No, but he’d tell me I was getting fat. And to lose weight or we’ll have to start having sex with the lights off.
A total disregard to health is unattractive to me, but at the same time I know life’s happenings can lead to some weight gain and that I don’t mind that. I don’t think weight gain is a good reason to leave someone. If you really love them, you don’t leave them. You sit them down and show concern for their health and most likely offer to be an ally.
If I got fat???????? Heck no, he. would. not.
I’ve been “fat” 13 times and yet he’s stayed with me.
@QuantumStorm - Don’t take this wrong but I love you! :D
You have to look at WHY the weight was gained.
Hard shit going on in your SO’s life? Let it go, but suggest doing active things together and eating healthy meals together. Life can happen and it’s hard to have motivation to workout or eat this and that when you’re miserable.
But if the person is getting lazy and content to the point where they are packing 20-30+ pounds in a matter of months, I think that’s indicative of other traits that are typically bad in a relationship and I think it’s justified in that case.
My SO wants me to get “fat” because then, he says, people would stop hitting on me so much. o.0
maybe. fat people are harder to carry, so maybe if they didn’t have a good grip, then yes, there’d be dropping.
My husband and I started to date 7 years and about 40 pounds ago. I was 40 pounds heavier when we started to date, and when I started to lose weight (the weight gain was a side effect of medications), he asked me how much more I was going to lose. After we have a child, he always looks forward to when I stop breast feeding to gain a little bit of weight back… I never have a had time losing weight after having children, but tend to gain about 10 pounds after stopping breastfeeding, which still puts me at the 40 pound weight loss. So, my conclusion is that I do not think my husband would leave me if I gained weight/got fat. :)
I’ve never been dropped!!
that large has other issues either medical or mental and if married you promised in sickness and in health.
Stick it out
It’d take a lot more than that for my girl to dump me.
LOL My wife and I just got through talking about this. Going through old photos, I guess we both got bigger, she gained like 30 lbs more and I gained like 20 so neither one of us would be attractive to anyone else.
Nah, my charisma will keep her with me! Right? Right? …./forever alone
I don’t think he would, no.
However, the only time I gain weight is when I’m depressed, so if he did dump me when I got fat, I think it would have more to do with the fact that I became an emotional-less numb zombie rather than I got fat.
I always make my boyfriend’s promise me they won’t let me get fat and vice versa. The fatter you are, the more unhealthy you are.
I’d never get fat, but even if something happened to my brain and I get fat instead of dying first, my husband would not care. I wouldn’t leave my hudband if he got fat. He is the only overweight man that I’ve ever been involved with. I would hope that if he wasn’t fat when I meet him, I wouldn’t dump him if he gained weight.
I would expect my significant other to drop me if I got fat. Hell. You trying holding up that much weight against the wall and still performing. Just sayin…
It is entirely implausible since I am a vegan.. but *shrugs* I don’t know. Maybe?
@emberfly_layouts - What if you developed a thyroid disease? Even if you’re vegan, there are things that can cause you to gain weight.
As someone currently battling and attempting to recover from an eating disorder, I am really hoping that there are people out there that don’t only judge people based on weight.
That’s probably why I don’t have a boyfriend. Whatever I’m over it. If he can’t love me for who I am, then it’s his loss.
@your_paper_heart - LOL, that was my response too.
so would he dump me if i got skinny?lol
um, yeah. cause it’d be harder for him to carry me…..
Nah, my personality makes up for it.
He’d encourage me to go to the gym…
It depends on why they’re gaining weight. Someone who doesn’t care enough about themselves to take care of themselves, may not care about much else (like our relationship!).
The way I see it is… if you fell in love with someone and stayed with them long enough for them to get fat, then you shouldn’t really have a reason to leave them. It’s not like you see them skinny one day and they gain 30 pounds over night. You love them for who they are and eventually people age and change in appearance, and when you’re with them for so long, you hardly notice it happening.
Unless they’re on their way to an unhealthy bad weight… and your were concerned with their health, of course.
Nope, because Im already fat.
He probably would if I got say, morbidly, disgustingly obese.
If it’s just a few extra pounds, then I doubt it. He likes me for my personality and way of thinking. x3
It all boils down to the reason she is getting fat. But the statistics in the survey are exaggerated in my point of view. The men might say that now, but what if the bigger boobs become too much of an incentive to stay? Just saying.
He wouldn’t be silly enough to try to pick me up in the first place.
there are various reasons/factors of why some people are fat, so it depends on why he got fat. some medical reasons, understandable. food consumption as the main way to deal with stress, unacceptable. I honestly get disgusted whenever I see anyone, fat or skinny or whatever size, pig out on food. maybe because most of my family is obese and I know that it isn’t due to medical reasons. they just love to eat and have health problems because of it. I gain maybe 1-2 lbs per year and it isn’t noticeable. drastic weight gain is different. taking care of your health when you’re young and getting into healthy habits is good for the long run to maintain health. if we’re both older and have slower metabolisms, then that’s also different but weight gain within reason. I’d have lost my libido by then and reaching menopause anyway, so a hot bod for sex isn’t even on my mind. my guy has had flings with a fat chick lol but he wouldn’t make her his gf. he prefers the thin barbies like me. who doesn’t want the best of both worlds of hot looking and a good personality. I don’t blame him. he is also my type of the toned biracial ken doll. some people are still sexually attracted to fat people and that’s cool, but I’d lose interest sexually if he was hot to begin with. we’re young now but our perspectives will change as we age. so til then, I prefer the hot toned guys and I offer the same.
Probably not…but he also probably wouldn’t let me get fat in the first place. We’re both pretty active people. Barring some major medical trauma, I’m not sure either of us would ever get obese.
if i had a boyfriend, yes
I have dated fat men.
If my SO gained weight due to laziness, unmotivated, or anything in that category then maybe. Not necessarily because she’s fat, but reason behind that weight gain.
Now if she’s gaining weight because of stress or having kids, then I can understand completely.
Weight really isn’t a factor for me. It’s whether or not she’s willing to take care of herself if she is able to take care of herself.
Nope. He wuvs me.
He got chubby, I still loved him and wanted to be with him. Of course, he ended up cheating on me and choking me and walking away with her while I lay on the ground clutching my chest, but -shrugs- ce la vie
OH, but anyways, I think I’m pretty chubby anyway, so if a guy shows interest, he’s probably crazy
I’m quite disgusted how people will dump one if one gains weight. I just do not think it is worthy of a relationship if attractiveness is the key. People are just plain shallow. People do not look great long term.
@Roadlesstaken - QUICK DO A SAVING THROW
If I get any bigger, I’m dumping my damn self.
Both of my ex husbands are heavy people and I never cared. In fact, I prefer hefty men over skin and bones. My man likes big women so he’d never dump me. I am not massive but I am not small either. I think anyone who’d dump someone for their weight is pretty shallow to say the least.
I always hear “you’re so tiny!” or some such variation… so, the answer is “in a heart beat” without a doubt
Hell yes. I didnt fall in love with someoen for ‘em to get fat when I’m putting effort into becoming thinner.
No,..my husband didn’t drop me after I got fat. After woman has a baby,..she often has a weight gain,..which is hard to lose.I had my first weight gain after I had our son almost thirty years ago!! My husband and I have been married over thirty years. He DIDN’T drop me after a weight gain!!
My first husband told me over and over that if we had children I had better get back to pre baby weight asap…he was an abusive douchebag so that was par for course. My most current ex added my weight gain (40 lbs from when we met me) to the list of reason he dumped me. I swear I am a magnet for douchebags.
@DearAngie - “I’m quite disgusted how people will dump one if one gains weight. I just do not think it is worthy of a relationship if attractiveness is the key. People are just plain shallow. People do not look great long term.”
Yeah. There was a man who didn’t ditch his finace even after she were paralyzed from the waist down:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/25/rachelle-friedman-paralyzed-wedding_n_908942.html
Besides, weight is a reversible ailment. ^_^
I wouldn’t drop her, I would drop “him” if I was in a relationship he got fat and continued to gain weight without any thought for me or us. It’s a symptom of a larger problem… literally.
yes, cause he has bad knees so of course he would.
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if u truly love someone and you would love and accept everything about them even if they gain some weight lol
Not a survey but an actual research study of married families completed here at the University of Tennessee reported that for young marrieds the highest level of happiness in the relationship was maintained by couple in which the male had a higher BMI body mass index than the female. If the female had a higher MBI unhappiness increased overtime for the young couples.
http://www.thirdage.com/news/body-mass-index-linked-to-happiness-in-marriages_07-18-2011
Geez, I hope not! We both have put on weight so he has no right to do so. Now we exercise together and encourage each other to get fit. People who are married SHOULD be in it for the long haul, through the thick and thin (literally). Putting a lot of emphasis on weight is just a shallow thing to do, especially if it’s something one can change on their own by diet and exercise.
I think the girl in the pic is cute!
Yes! but i actually asked him if i got really fat if he would and he said yes. My SO use to be 300lbs and lost a lot of weight. I use to be 145/150 and i actually gained 20lbs from pregnancy that won’t come off. Luckily, he still sees me sexy and beautiful but i wish i could see that for my self. I am only 5′ 2″ and 20lbs on me is a lot of weight. :/ so i have a tummy. :/
But yes, if you gain way over 50lbs and it looks bad i think it is acceptable. :/ I mean seriously if your hubby went from semi skinny to 300lb i am pretty sure most girls would dumb the hubby, then again some girls like a bit of fat makes a skinny girl bounce a little on top
As for me I probably wouldn’t be sexually attracted to my husband if he went back to 300lb but i love him enough that i’d probably get him to lose the weight again and make sure it stays off.
My boyfriend and I joke that when we get married, instead of a prenup that protects us each financially, we’ll have a prenup that says neither of us can go over a certain percentage of body fat.
there are too many variables to answer this question properly… it depends on why they gained weight, how long had i been in a relationship with them for, are there children involved, do they want to make the effort to change….etc.
No. I’d be concerned though, usually things like that don’t happen out of the blue. I think there are more unattractive things that can happen to a person than gaining weight. Like getting possessive and bitchy or lying, or becoming lazy and depressed or something along those lines. Like, if she became someone else– if she changed enough in her personality that I didn’t recognize her (which could theoretically lead to the weight gain) then I think it’s acceptable to leave. But if it’s still her, sweet as always, I wouldn’t be capable.
no, because I wouldn’t get fat.
My wife would never dump me if I got fat and vise versa. When you do something like dumping your SO for a selfish reason, it always comes back to bite you in the arse somehow.
It’s what’s on the inside. Not the outside.
He would be less sexually attracted to me. ;(
But, that’s not me though. I work out a lot and try to watch what I eat. There’s no way I would let myself get that big.
yeah it sucks because you rarely hear girls dropping their men when they get fat. i once had an so that went from prolly 170 to 220 and i stayed by his side. lol
wow, i can only hope that the people saying they would dump their SO if they got fat are joking. i expected a couple of immature shallow people would say “yes” but not so many. at least you are easier to spot than a fat person at an all-you-can-eat buffet. karma is a bitch sometimes. if you would dump someone over their weight then you aren’t worth pissing on in a fire. you will have your own fate handed to you at some point in YOUR life. you better not lose your job or get a growth on your face or grey hair…..
don’t even try that bullshit line “well if she is fat then obviously she doesn’t care about herself…..” that is a cop out. the truth, men, (and i use that term loosely) is that YOU are the one with an unhealthy self image or else why do you need a skinny girl to make YOU feel better?
My boyfriend would looove for me to gain around 30-40 lbs.
@ItIsAllGravy - That is so rude to drop someone if they got fat after you started dating them. because they felt they even if they put on a few pounds they thought you still might love them.
If it’s just a relationship, yes. I don’t blame anyone who would do that. If it’s a marriage, then no, it becomes unacceptable.
I know my man wouldn’t drop me if I got fat because it happened and he didn’t. In fact, he says he likes me best right now but I still want to lose about 40 more pounds. There are rare men out there who actually prefer meat on one’s bones AND, in addition, who would love you no matter what size you are, whether thinner or fatter than their ideal woman. Regardless of preference, I think it’s shallow to dump someone based only on weight gain. If other personality factors have changed along with it, then that runs a little deeper. But just because he/she got fat? Fuck that. I prefer to base my relationships on more important factors.
My boyfriend wouldn’t dump me. I can guarantee that. Doesn’t mean I’m going to go out and gain 100lbs though.
@SilverBird_Loves - Yeah, I pretty much agree with you. And there are even people who are like “Yeah, if I got fat but nothing else changed, I wouldn’t mind if my SO dumped me.” Really? Fucking seriously? Then you must not really love that person because if you truly love and care about someone, that would not matter and you’d support them. And I totally agree that the whole “It means they don’t care about themselves anymore…” etc. etc. is indeed a cop-out. It’s just a bullshit excuse so that people don’t have to come right out and say “I’m shallow,” so they justify it through other reasons.
@Mer16 - If you’re not physically attracted to somebody, it’s hard to want to be with them. Rude or not, if they’re not who they were when you started your relationship with them, then maybe it’s not worth it.
Loving somebody is a different thing than a relationship. If you love somebody, then the layer of fat is probably irrelevant.
I guess that deppends on the depth of the realtionship, i guess if someone is with me just for the way i look then he could dump me if i change, but who wants to be with someone as shallow.
@ItIsAllGravy - i want to understand: so you are saying that if you meet a girl and she is thin (not fat) and you date and fall in love, that is all good. but over time she gets heavy so you get turned off and decide to look elsewhere? i would LOVE to know what happened between “skinny and fat”. what were those months like? you didn’t just wake up one day to a heavier girl. obviously taste and preference aren’t the only factors either. it sounds more like a self esteem issue for YOU, not her. oh, and are YOU the same as you were when you met HER? no gray hairs? no changes?
Well, I don’t think I would flat out leave her but I would be concern and talk to her about it. It’s not about the weight as it is a fitness issues. We are rock climbers and if she got too big to climb anymore, that would take away something we love doing together. There’s always other actives/hobbies we can do but honestly, most of them demand that we are fit and strong. Not being outdoors cycling, climbing and hiking with each other would make us both sad.
On the flipside, I gave her full permission to dump me if I was ever too weak or fat to at least climb a V1 =P
@godfatherofgreenbay - Some people dont base their opinion on weight
I have dated fat guys, skinny guys.. To me it doesnt matter… I like people based on their personalities 
@needmoreink - Agreed
No.
It definitely depends. It depends on how fat, if it was temporary, how long I’ve been with the person, how well I connect with that person. If it was my wife for 10 years or something, and she got fat for 3 months, then no lol. If I just started dating a girl a month ago, and she got morbidly obese, and made no effort to change that, maybe I would.
My bf and I have been together for four years. He’s been with me through countless (some serious) medical problems. Two caused me to gain maybe 60 pounds all around my stomach area..
It wasn’t as if I got fat because I got lazy. And nothing I do really helps the weight (now I’m seeing a nutritionist, so maybe!!). I think that as long as he sees that I’m trying to change what I don’t like about myself, he won’t leave. I’ve asked him before if my weight bothered him and he always says, “I love you for you. I’ll always love you for you. I see you, not your stomach.” etc. etc.
I don’t have an SO right now, so I don’t know if he would dump me if I got fat.
But I don’t know if my current love interest would or not, if he were ever my SO. He’s quite easy-going and accepting, but he’s still a guy and guys are supposed to be visual. I think it would probably depend on how fat I got, how committed we were, etc.
As to if I’d drop him if he got fat…probably not. I can’t imagine him fat, since he could probably stand to gain a few pounds. But I think it would depend on how the relationship was going. If it was going well, a few extra pounds wouldn’t bother me. If it was already going badly, I think it would add to the problems we were already having. I think that to a point, if a person is satisfied with other aspects of the relationship, the sexual attraction can stay strong despite changes in the other person’s experience. (but TO A POINT!) If the relationship is already going badly, just about everything about the other person becomes bothersome and kills sexual attraction.
yup – if no effort is made to reverse the trend.
a lot of weight gain (30+ )is usually the result of other issues.
not willing to face the issues? i’m not willing to help carry them.
(ps: pregnancy doesn’t count while the baby is in the belly. that’s nature, not fat. 6 months post-baby and no downward trend? different story.)
He says he won’t, but I don’t intend to find out. If he got fat I wouldn’t leave him, but I would tell him he needed to lose weight.
Fuck yeah he would. He already thinks I should drop 30 lbs.
Fat is ok…I am more concerned about the state of mind that comes with it…j
i’m already fat and he thinks i’m beautiful. but deep down i know he wishes i was skinny
Maybe? I’m already fat, so maybe if I couldn’t see my toes anymore he would? Hell, I would! I’d just tell me to eat a salad haha.
chea….i’m already fat.
Truth be told I think some overweight people look sexy. More cushion to cuddle, grab and hold
To me, when a woman (or man) lets their physique become so out of control that they’re very overweight, it says that they don’t have much respect for themselves. I don’t think you can have respect for others if you don’t have it for yourself. I also think it screams, “I’m not attracted to you enough to care whether or not you find my appearance aesthetically pleasing”.
I think if the weight gain is through a period of depression (some people are eaters) then it’s pretty harsh to dump someone over. But otherwise, weight gain out of laziness and apathy for your appearance, health and partner is a perfectly reasonable excuse for dumping. I wouldn’t want to have a family with someone who doesn’t take care of themselves and has a poor diet. They are likely to pass this onto my children.
I’ve been with my fiance over two and a half years and we’ve both gain some weight. We both notice it and we both decided to work it off. I wouldn’t leave her if she got fat and I know she wouldn’t leave me if I got fat.
I gained a lot of weight, and my bf didn’t drop me.
So no. He never cared about those things.
If a guy only fell if love with you because of your beauty…and then falls out of love when you get fat, then its def. not love
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If someone really loved you, they wouldn’t dump you just because of how thin or thick you are, especially on gaining weight.
They would support you&&help you lose weight <3
Me and my boyfriend got done watching 200 pound beauty&&i asked him, “What would you do if I got a plastic surgery?” He tells me that if I was unattractive to him, he wouldn’t look at me or ask me out. Even if I did get fatter, he would make me run 5 miles. Lol! <3
I wish other men were more supportive to their lovers too :l
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Yes, & I wouldn’t blame him if he left. We’ve discussed this before actually and think there should be a “weight clause” in every prenup! The point is, when you fall in love with someone, yes, you fall in love with who they are, not necessarily what they look like. But attraction is important. And if you lack the attraction to your mate because they gained enough weight, that will affect your relationship. You may love someone still, but you wouldn’t be attracted to them, and if you don’t want to be intimate with them, love isn’t going to cut it.
Great question, I think this is something people should discuss because it happens more than you’d think!
I don’t think he would, but if I got “fat” then I think it would be a sign that I’m being really disrespectful towards my body (and unhealthy) and he would hate that. I wouldn’t blame him. I’m not saying everyone who is overweight is being disrespectful of their bodies, but I’m relatively health conscious and have no reason not to be fit (ie; no medical conditions that cause/can cause weight gain). Still, I don’t think he’d break up with me even then… he’d probably do his best to encourage me to be healthier.
I agree with Gravy..
Along the same lines, if I *GOT* fat and my boyfriend refused to dump me, I would dump him because I got fat… I would basically do it for him.
Yep. Have to. unless she fucks like a tiger. then no.
I’d have to lift her before I could drop her.
If Rupert Grint got fat, I’d still F**k him.
I personally believe that, if you were skinny or fat when you started the relationship with your SO, it means that he/she fell in love with how you were. Some people like the curves while others like the stick thin or the toned muscles. I read an article once that drastic changes in weight can be a major problem for some people which can lead to the ending of a relationship.
I do however think that looks shouldn’t be the first thing to end a relationship in any circumstance.
I’m not gonna lie, i love a bit of fat.
I got dropped when I got fat in college. It sucked.
Now I’m “buff” and I hope he has a 50-yr old beer belly, lol!
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If I did it would pretty much mean that I’m somewhat of a pretty superficial person……but I feel and somewhat agree with what The_Aftershock_3650 is saying. But then again, I’m attracted to thick, voluptuous women like the one in the picture.
I’m already fat. One of the good things about being ugly is that when guys seem interested and arent trying to sleep with you, you know it’s for you.
The guy I’ve been seeing calls me beautiful.
I’ve gained weight by being in this relationship but I am not considered “fat” and such a thing doesn’t matter, however if you completely disregard your health and go off the deep end, despite your S.O. being concerned, it’s your funeral.
I like a little “fluff” : )
@SilverBird_Loves - If you’re in love with somebody, that’s a different thing. But if you’ve been dating, and just lose your physical attraction to them, there’s no reason to carry on the relationship if there’s nothing else.
My boyfriend told me he wouldn’t dump me, but that he’d help me go on a diet.
If she cared about him, she would not get fat in the first place. I would have to say yes.
I don’t like my boyfriend would dump me if I got fat. Less attracted towards me physically? Most likely.
I’ve gained 25 lbs since we got married, i was 190 then and am 215 now, it makes me sick! I have a huge hang up about my weight. He was around 165 and is now 189. He looks good except for his stomache, it’s all in his stomache. He doesn’t care about my weight or his, he has absolutely no hang up’s about weight (I wished he did). He’s not a slob by any means. but he loves food! he knows i’m upset about my weight but he simply doesnt care, he’ll bring 12 packs of cokes home knowing that i like cokes but also knowing i prefer not to have them around, he thinks he’s doing something nice for me, but its sabotaging me. If he packs me a lunch for work, he’ll put sweets in it for a dessert unless I absolutely positively ask him not to. so….in answer to your question…no, he won’t leave me if I were to gain more weight. I can deal with his weight right now, but I would be totally turned off if he got heavier or became a real slob.
It just means she isn’t taking good care of her body, and if she doesn’t care about herself, why should her mate?
@ItIsAllGravy - ahah.. i can say the same about boyfriends with receding hairline..
i’ve gained 15 pounds since we started dating.. (all from the cakes).. if he dumps me, oh well, i’m sure i won’t have trouble finding a guy who likes my fat version.
Yes I would. Dump him or her.
It’s just embarrasing to hang out with fat people.
Drop her like it’s hot? xD Well, I think men tend to like slim women. If he has a problem w/ my weight, he wouldn’t ask me out in the first place.
But if both of you never meet before and then he ask you out and he finds out that your weight is not as “light”as he expects, he’ll do one of these 2 things. If he’s into you as a person (he has no problem with your wight), he’ll ask you out again. If he doesn’t ask you out again, then it’s probably because of the weight issue. Just my .02 tho
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This also happens to women meeting men, not just men meeting women