August 9, 2011

  • The Ideal Stomach for a Woman

    We have talked about the ideal body type for a woman and a man.  But I thought we would focus on the stomach this time.

    So lets look at the different types of stomachs.

    1.  Thin

    2.  Slightly thin

    3.  Medium

    4.  Athletic

    5.  Chubby

    6.  Obese

    7.  Fat

    Which type of stomach do you think is ideal for a woman?

                                                                                                   

Comments (167)

  • Slightly thin is just too small, I prefer medium. 

  • 1 or 2, as long as it’s proportionate to a woman’s body. The picture for #1 is pretty unrealistic–there’s no way a woman would end up with her body proportions without a boob job. I think a combination of a slim, yet toned and athletic stomach is ideal (and my athletic I don’t mean scary man-abs like in number 4). 

  • 2-6 are all awesome. 

  • Either 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, or 7.

  • Medium, it allows for maximum boobage while not distracting attention away from them.

  • I would classify 2 as thin, not slightly thin, and I prefer it the best

  • I prefer 2, but 3′s not bad either. It depends on proportions.

  • 1 and 2 look exactly alike to me. Probably the most appealing. lol and why does fat come after obese?

  • 2 or 3 … healthy and in shape

  • Fat and obese need to be switched….although when i think of obese, i think of a LOT of fat.

  • for me i’d like 2nd. but really there is no ideal.

  • not pregnant with my child

  • Let’s just say, it ain’t me. 

  • Oh, and, thanks for the reminder. 

  • 1 and 2 and maybe 3.

  • Medium.

    Also, fat and obese need to be switched. xD

  • Way to bring out the shallow in everybody. -_-

  • I think 1, 2 or 3 should be ideal for a woman. One and two are both attainable through diet and exercise, stomach number three allows you to eat what you want with little exercise. Number four is too much work and some women might not have the time to keep that up. Stomachs 5, 6 and 7 is just lazy.

  • Once again i like women curby so i’d go with chubby.  Don’t really like those girls that you might brake anytime lol

  • I’m on a slump right now.  G.) All of the above

  • Slightly thin. Or at least that’s my goal. :)

    And shouldn’t obese come after fat?

  • medium, definitely. 

  • 1-3 for me please, a 1 or 2 is my goal.   4 is just creepy. 

  • Any. Obese and Fat need to be switched though. I’m happy to see that there are so many people that are saying any stomach. My stomach/back is what makes me so self-conscious about my rather large weight. Still looking for love.

  • I like my girls to have slightly thin stomachs. I have a slightly thin tummy myself.

  • Medium, for my taste. Although I’ll take slightly thin, I guess.

  • I see you’re still causing trouble. :P

  • don’t think it should be about the stomach.

  • As you know, I keep evolving. I feel burning wrath, but when it is time for me to speak, I can be a gentlemen. I expect others to be low life takers (black) and I always provide excellent customer service. I never take advantage of others but I expect others to do so. I am a very trusyworthy person, but I expect others to lie. I give, I put my ego on the line; the more I give, the more people take.

    My problem is, although I abide by my country’s laws, although I show patience and act with diplomacy… Underneathe my act, lies a beast, and I find myself wanting to have sex with 15 women a day, going up to random children and carrying them with hugs, not out of love, but out of the delight I get from such delicasy. What I mean is, children are so weak and innocent, their blood is purer and their pain is virgin. Nobody wants to hear a grumpy old woman yell in pain.

    I find myself fantasizing what it would be like to eat a human flesh. I look at people gathered at malls and train stations and wonder to myself how vulnerable society really is, IF only more evil people existed. And by evil, I don’t mean guys who overcharge you.

    I mean, where are all the bloody psychopathic killers? In my world there was at least a kid killing into open crowds. In my world, people kidnap to sell body parts more common than the housefly.

    This world, where people want to be happy is driving me nuts. I ask again, where is the violence?

  • Gosh Dan don’t you know that obese is bigger than just “fat”? :P  

  • I’m the medium and proud of it =]

  • I would love to be the second

  • @theflowerstem - Shallow much? And FYI, number three is not eat what you want with little exercise because otherwise that’s the stomach I would have.

  • I think 3 looks the healthiest. Maybe 3 with a dash of 4 lol.

  • Your medium looks pretty small to me.  Your chubby kinda looks like a weird pregnancy thing going on??? And your obese and fat are switched.  

  • I thought it was all about the boobs, Dan?

  • The ideal stomach for a woman is the one that makes her feel good about herself in every way. 

  • There is no “Ideal” when it comes to a woman’s stomach. If I HAD to decide on one I guess medium, but any are fine with me.There is more to a woman than just her appearance right? lol

  • 2,3,4. Not into ribs or rolls.

  • thin & toned or a tight looking body but not overly athlethic looking. nice waist/hips ratio. I don’t find the skinny-fat medium one hot, but I’m straight, so I often prefer looking at toned hard bodies of men than soft looking features of women.

  • Your perceptions on what fat is seems to be all skewed.

  • Objectification much?!

    Who the hell deconstructs a woman (or man for that matter…) and chooses based on parts?!

  • I guess an ideal stomach would be a flat stomach. Supposedly it has a correlation with heart disease, regardless if your BMI is within the normal range.

  • My stomach looks a lot like the “chubby” one but I am 4’9″ and 90 lbs.  Explain that logic.

  • Oh, vomit. Like women aren’t stressing out enough about ideal this or that on their bodies. How about chucking physical “ideal” notions altogether.

  • @mypandabear - Ironically for a homely-looking guy (I’m talking about Theo) that’s certainly not too thin himself, his standards for women are ridiculous. LOL!

    @brosephine - Theo and logic are like oil and water.

  • I probably have a 1 or 2. So 1 or 2.

  • I don’t know about the ideal stomach for a woman, but I know the idea stomach for me…as long as it’s flat.

  • im trying to get down to slightly thin or medium, i dont know if i want to be completely thin, ya know? 

  • I like slightly thin, medium, or athletic.

  • 2 and 3 look the same. I like them the best.

  • Ummm…maybe I have bad eyes but the first 3 look exactly the same to me and the obese one doesn’t look big at all. That fat one looks more obese. And the chubby one looks like an early stage pregnancy belly lol. 

  • oi… unbelievable. you have gone and done it again. 
    first the boobs and now this. dude, get your priority straight. pay attention to all the sizes here. the first three are all the SAME!!

    i just think you’re size blind. >.<

  • For me, I would love a medium!  Healthy looking without the fat!

  • Number 3 still says “skinny” to me, but I like hers the best. Number 5 looks pregnant. 

  • that is actually the lower abdomen. Thin is best.

    Retired nurse here and actually the stomach is rather small and shaped like a goatskin wine pouch. I used to have a plastic model on the top of the refrig. at home that the kids liked to show off.

  • I think 3 is best…. for me. For anyone else, they’re beautiful how they are, “thin” or “obese.”

  • Slightly thin and/or medium. 

  • Meh.  Depends on the size of the tits.

  • I’m a #3 and it suits me just fine. 

  • What a silly question!  

  • Also, I noticed that when I eat healthy for an entire day, my stomach looks more like #2. And by that I mean I have something nutritious for every meal and not skipping any meals.
    But when I eat unhealthy foods for a day (soda, doughnuts, processed stuff) or skip a meal, my stomach looks more like chubby #5.
    It’s my own weird personal way of knowing how I’m eating just by looking at my tummy.

    Does this happen to anyone else? haha

  • Number 5 looks pregnant. So that doesn’t even count. Lol. ;)

    Obese should come AFTER fat. ;)
    I like number one. Only because her booty looks good! haha

  • I’m a medium and I’m damn proud of it. 

  • Depends…did she have a baby?

  • I prefer a stomach that belongs to a woman that is kind, smart, and confident.

  • 3 or 6 is sexaeh. :)

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  • Do you even know what obese looks like? That’s just mean.

  • 2, 3, 5 and 6 look ok to me – there’s no absolute that fits everyone – a lot depends on the build and lifestyle of the individual.  I do wonder about your “obese” picture though – my stomach looks like that and I have a BMI of 24 – could be better certainly but not obese at all.

  • The first one, imo, although I’d settle for the second.

  • Well this is pretty degrading to any woman and a little sexist. Where’s the post on men’s stomachs?

  • 1 is scary. I have 2, but I think I’d look better if I had 3 because my boobs are too lawwwge

  • This post actually makes me want to gag.
    1-4 are all completely WRONG for a woman. We are MEANT to have curves.
    6 is FAR from Obese, its actually what I would consider MEDIUM
    and 7 is chubby.
    trying to attain that “perfect figure” is sickening, no woman is meant to be that skinny, its all media misrepresentation and a stigma against curves. For those same reasons having big boobs is seen to be in correlation with being fat, so all Bra’s go up a back size before a cup size, when actually, there are quite petite women with naturally large boobs that get made to FEEL fat when they arent.

  • @adrieell - 2&3 are probably the same size, ¬¬ Picture 2 platantly has the woman holding her arms up which makes her stomach look flatter.

  • The chick in 5 is pregnant…

  • 1, 2 or 3. but shouldn’t obese come after fat ?

  • 6 is NOT obese, and it’s ridiculous that you would put “obese” before “fat”. This is why so many women have complexes about how they look. 1 and 2 are too thin, but everyone chooses that one, and then 6 is classified as obese, when many women look like that. Oy.

  • Stomache type for any man or woman is what they can accept themselves as.  Easy to look at those young, toned tummies and think I can look like that at the age of 63.  Not gonna happen.  I am just happy to be alive and have a body that still works.

  • Maybe it’s the angle but good lord number 1

  • I love how matter-of-factly this is introduced. Plus, don’t two and three look identical..? Two’s just zoomed in.

  • 1, 2 and 3 and maybe 5, maybe because it might look better from the front.

    but probabaly just 1 2 and 3

  • 1, 2, and 3. i’m workin on mine

  • As long as they all work at digesting food, they are all ok.

  • Uh…. Your obese pic isnt really obese.. Yes, fat, but 100 pounds over weight?… I dont think so.. And your chubby picture looks more medium to me… Whatever though, you obviously dont know shit

  • Is this all you people see about women? No wonder we have so many young girls going all anorexic these days. This is disgusting. Get back to reality folks–the vast majority of women don’t have the abs that you seem to prefer.

  • @tigress_fidelis - I don’t think having a physical preference means one stops caring about personality qualities. I also don’t think that knowing what your physical preference is means you’re placing it above personality. *shrug* Nearly everyone’s got a preference. There’s a difference between stating what it is and saying other body types are ugly.

    I’ve liked several girls that weren’t my “ideal” body type. I’m sure I’m not alone.

    @almost_mage - Wow. Way to put down a ton of healthy women. I have no idea where you get off saying, say, 3 is “wrong” for a girl. There’s some fat on her stomach – not a ton, but it’s there – and she’s proportional. Saying that 1-4 is “wrong” for girls is just as bad as saying you’re supposed to be that size. You’re doing the same thing everyone else is doing, you’re just trying to impose different standards on us. As someone who couldn’t be a 5 or above without overeating a ton (and making myself sick in the process), I call bullshit.

    Most of my friends are 1-3. My friends that eat the most poorly are around a 5. All of them are beautiful.

  • @beachkiissed - one of my friends has dd boobs and fits into a size 0 pants.. those 100% natural body types exist.

  • @beachkiissed - actually, my stomach is the same as hers, maybe a little bigger, and my boobs are at least twice her size and my butt’s bigger. It isn’t unrealistic at all. Maybe it’s just uncommon, but I’ve seen plenty of girls with my shape.

  • One that she’s comfortable AND healthy in.

  • medium or slightly thin (2 or 3) 

  • Slightly Thin and Medium are the sexiest ones.

  • I prefer 3 and 5.

    #3 shows a little meat on the bones, which means a pretty solid body with some cushioning, but not much. This is more my cup of tea, and what I’m personally working towards.

    I’d say I’m more of a 5, and I dig it. It reminds me of the belly-dancers that I used to love when I was a kid. There is something more appealing to me about seeing a chubby girl with curves and solid legs. The ‘obese’ picture is far from obese though.

    I used to think that a 1 or 2 would be better. But after looking at so many skinny twig girls, it kinda grosses me out. I don’t want to look like I’m starving, and I don’t want to look at people who look like they haven’t eaten a crumb in months.
    Just my personal opinion.

  • 2 looks most beautiful to me. 3 a close second. but i think the person attached to the stomach makes the most difference lol

  • I run 7 to 10 miles a day and I eat pretty healthy and I manage to maintain something a long the lines of your “obese” photo. My stomach to entirely flat and I weigh about 150 pounds.

  • Somewhere between 3 & 5. Toned, but curvy.

  • Answer: healthy thin (not anorexic thin) with large boobs

  • I think atletic is good.

  • hahas i dont see the difference between thin and slightly thin? 

  • @theflowerstem - I don’t eat big portions, ever. It doesn’t always have to do with portions or amount of exercise or diet. If it did I’d be somewhere around what this post considers “medium”.

  • way to get controversial!

    You know the answer dan, all women are beautiful.  The “ideal” is in the eye of the beholder, and one would hope it has more to do with what is inside the body than on the outside.      

    But me, I’m working on #4 (my daughter thinks that’s gross) 

  • personally, I like slightly thin to medium, though I think your pictures are off, medium still looks really skinny! haha

  • 1 or 2, preferably 2.

    @UnconventionalButterfly - Someone hurt that she’s overweight and therefore no one is picking the one that resembles her?  Grow up and do something about it then.  I know I don’t look how I wish I did (like I used to a few years ago), so I eat healthier and exercise when I can with my hectic schedule.  Don’t complain about things you have the power to change.

  • I would like to look like number 1, and I think most men would like number 1. I used to look like that, but it’s really difficult to keep up. I am more “medium” now.

  • I wish i was slightly thin but Medium is probably best anywayyys.

  • @almost_mage - I meant the idea of 3 more than the actual picture. Does that make sense? lol

  • I think 2 and 3 are most ideal. 1 would be too much on the skinny side. Whereas I’d find 4 to be a turn-off if a woman has massive 6-pack abs, that takes the feminine right out of a woman, not exactly my idea of sexy. Also, I wouldn’t mind if a woman is slightly chubby, for some women this works out well, it all depends, but I really mean slightly.

  • Depends on the woman. Personally I’d like a toned slightly thin/medium stomach.

  • #3 would be my ideal. 1 & 2 are too skinny for me (I like curves, meat, boobs, butt, etc and you usually can’t find that one someone with a stomach like that).

  • Seriously? This might as well be fucking thinspo.

  • I think they are all perfect. This is a terrible post. Of course everybody will choose either 1, 2, or 3.

  • It makes me feel uncomfortable that I really don’t look like any of these….

  • @princesanana - Really?  So you think that you’d be perfect if you weighed 200+ pounds?  Prove it and chow down on pizza and drink several 2-liters of pop a day for the next 6 months (no throwing up after allowed).  But you’re super tiny and feel “superior” by claiming that you think it’s OK to be Shamu.

  • @BimmerPhile - Not everyone has complete power to
    change things just at their own will, and people shouldn’t have to
    change to be able to feel okay about themselves, anyway. That’s an
    incredibly ridiculous thing to say. Like, “oh, well you hate your boobs
    are too small because people are constantly ragging on you for it? Get a
    boob job, or stop whining.” It’s not THAT person’s issues, or their job
    to go to great lengths to change THEMSELVES so the world is more
    accepting. People are being shallow, fucking period, regardless of what you weigh… it’s still shallow if you’re thin, you just perhaps have a better chance of being okay with it because everyone here seemingly loves the thin girls, dislike the fat girls (go so far as to say if someone is fat, they are lazy) so it doesn’t feel like a personal attack to them, but it’s not any less shallow. Why can’t someone be fine the way they are and point out that something is being done wrong, why do they have to CHANGE in order for it to be acceptable in your eyes? It seemingly looks a lot like you’re saying that someone can’t complain about something hurtful like that going on if they aren’t a size two… why not? Why does someone have to be thin in order to be able to expect people to be decent? It seems completely illogical to me, I don’t see where her weight factors in to any of it, but it does seem a hell of a lot like if she was thinner, YOU would accept her statement, but since she ISN’T, you won’t for some bullshit reason that actually probably makes no sense.

    Why can’t people be okay the way they are even if they are heavier, and expect humans to be treated with decency, period, regardless of what they weigh? Why do people have to be thin in order to DESERVE to feel okay? It’s like you say… “lose weight if you don’t want to feel like you’re being attacked”… okay then, what about people like me, who physically, literally CANNOT? The weight CAME from medication that I CANNOT just stop taking, I have to be on. So what about me, I can’t just go on a diet and lose weight, I’m sick, I’ve been on a diet all along, it never mattered? So I just NEVER deserve to feel acceptable? How is that fair? It’s not. And it’s really not actually fair to anyone, because in most cases it’s not as simple as just having an easy time cutting back on food, exercising more, and BAM, you’re instantly thin enough that you can feel entitled to push other people around for not being thin. In a few lucky cases, yeah, it’s that easy, but in most of them, it’s a lot more complex, and just not that simple, and unless you’re gonna get on the ass of everyone underweight too complaining about anything, then stop being a hypocrite. Maybe some people WANT to be okay with how they are NOW and maybe it’s just the other people that aren’t, and that can get in the way of day to day life. Why can’t people speak up about that? Why does it have to turn into a flat out discriminatory thing these days about weight? As a whole, we’ve tried to get past “you’re this color, so you can’t have thoughts/speak/etc.” or “you’re this gender so you can’t have thoughts/speak/etc.”… there are still problems, but as a society we have marked it as “bad” and we are TRYING to move forward. But now it’s “you’re this weight so you can’t have thoughts/speak/etc.” and we’re not going ANYWHERE because everyone says it’s okay. Because it’s something you “choose”. It’s STILL discrimination. Why can’t we realize that isn’t fair or right and move past that too?

  • @TheExitium - No, it’s not shallow because he didn’t say “Which body style is someone not worth dating if they don’t have?” – he said what is IDEAL.  No one said fatties are less of a person or not worth dating – merely what they’d IDEALLY like to look like / have their SO look like.  You really need to learn what ‘shallow’ means.  I also never said that whats-her-name was less of a person for being overweight – merely that it’s ridiculous for her to bitch at other people because she chooses to not do the diet / exercise necessary to fit the “ideal” for physical fitness.

    Well, that covered 90% of your bullshit.  Now what’s next…oh yes, you claiming that you “physically cannot” lose weight.  Bullshit – EVERYONE can, even those with legitimate medical issues regarding weight gain.  As you said though, you’re “on a diet” – news flash, diet alone doesn’t result in any meaningful weight loss, you need EXERCISE to go with it.
    So lets see – you think that you DESERVE for people to find you attractive, even if you aren’t?  Well aren’t you the special one.  No one owes you a damn thing, especially not being your friend or finding you attractive (I’d also say that your anger issues probably have a good deal to do with people finding you unattractive – personality really does make or break it….even the physically hottest girl alive isn’t attractive if she’s a total bitch).  You’re right – it’s not just “I ate healthy and worked out for a week, I’m thin and pretty!” – those people BUST THEIR ASS and usually pay very careful attention to what they eat to look that good.  To quote Jason Stackhouse on True Blood after Andy complains about girls finding Jason more attractive “I work out like a mother fucker to look this good”.

    No one can make you feel ugly except you.  I have a friend who’s quite overweight but she doesn’t go around thinking she’s ugly or complaining about thin people – she’s learned what you haven’t – how to be happy WITH HERSELF.  She knows she could change her lifestyle and lose weight, but she doesn’t feel it’s worthwhile.  Yes, it is fair to discriminate on something you CHOOSE to do.  If you choose to have lots of tacky tattoos and piercings, guess what?  You’re not going to get a high paying job (most likely) because most businesses won’t hire you.  If you choose to not do what it takes to look attractive to the majority of people, then they’re not going to want to date you because they find you unattractive – that’s YOUR choice.  Don’t bitch at them to change their preferences when you refuse to change yourself.  I’ve never told anyone that they should be thin, merely that it’s bullshit for them to complain about thin people being “evil” without doing a damn thing to lose weight themselves and achieve the body that they’re jealous of.

    You’re far more judgemental and pushing an agenda than any thinspo person I’ve come across – I’ve yet to see any of them pressure anyone else to change, merely talk about why they choose what they do and state what they find attractive.  But according to you, people aren’t allowed to find things attractive / desirable if YOU don’t approve of it.  Then you have the nerve to talk about “discrimination”.  It IS fair and right that each person gets to decide on what they prefer.  It’s not fair or right for you to claim that people should be forced to change their preferences just to make you feel better.

  • @BimmerPhile - 

    For the record, the only issue I ever had was with the ACTUAL discrimination, which your dumbass failed to ask me to elaborate on… like all sizes not being represented properly (the “fat” girl relistically at best resprents overweight or the lower end of obese, but likely not even that, and there are way more body types than these) and the lower end represented in a decent light (called “thin” not “underweight”, “skeleton” or other offensive terms, but the heavier side was) or people making rude remarks about heavier people like that they are “lazy” and such, that’s what isn’t acceptable. People can like what they like without being disrespectful assholes but you DON’T… people like you can’t like what you like without being a COMPLETE stupid jackass to people for NO REASON, and that’s where my issue lies.

    I said and nothing else diet because exercise is sketchy for me… it CAN’t be what is the typical weight loss regime for most people. I get a lot of exercise too and according to set guidlines abd doctor instruction, ffor me, it’s more than fine, but I feel like it’s not enough now, even though it’s well over the recommended amount because it’s not incredibly hardcore or anything. I was a competitive athlete before I fell ill so with occasional nine hour practices, at least two or three hours of hardcore practice on our slow days, in comparison it just feels light when it’s really not at all light for my condition and WELL OVER whatever is recommended. I would say at minimum at least a good hour a day, but it’s walking or swimming, because I’m on the verge of being wheelchair bound, so that’s the best I can do. Personal issue there sort of, didn’t know you would nitpick so much. I’ve been in the hospital several times lately, very ill, so I think you underestimated the level of illness… I’ve been told on more than one occasion I’m terminal, but without a sure diagnosis, it’s based on the path of damage the illness has left in it’s track. So if I wasn’t crippled, and yes, my illness has crippled me, I walk very poorly and with great deals of pain on my GOOD days, so that’s something to consider too, I’m absolutely physically incapable of MOST forms of exercise, but also, at this point, crippled or not I can’t say I could be doing more… I’m averaging a couple of trips to the hospital a week now, a lot of time forcibly doped up at home too, where I absolutely couldn’t exercise if I wanted to, I have to rest. But I’m actually CURRENTLY getting well over the recommended amount of exercise at this point, I only didn’t mention it because I didn’t realize you were SUCH a huge jackass and I DO realize it’s not always going to be a possibility for me, and so I prepare MYSELF for /having/ to give it up by not mentioning it and hoping people can make allowances for the fact I’m crippled and likely terminal ill, because the discrimination has been so bad since I got sick, I pray and pray people are soulless assholes like you, and then they are. But it’s just practice now, but for YEARS I’ve been strictly on a nutrionist made up meal plan and about double the exercise recommended to me by doctors… WHILE I GAINED THE WEIGHT. You cannot tell me my reality is bullshit, thank you very much. It’s not uncommon for people on the medications I’m on coupled with the health problems o have, but you COULDN’T know, because instead of asking or researching, you just call bullshit and *poof* it doesn’t exist. Even though it does in YOUR little fantasy world, you’re the magical all knowing God and only you can say what is and what isn’t. In reality, what you say is bullshit, but hateful people like you with a need to discriminate just CHOOSE not to believe in such things so you cam be hateful little asses and not have to own up to BERATING A DYING CRIPPLE FOR NOT EXERCISING ENOUGH EVEN WHEN I DO GET UP EVERY DAY I’M STILL ABLE TO AND EXERCISE TGE BEST I CAN AS MYCH AS I CAN YOU JUST CHOOSE NOT TO GIVE ME CREDIT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO FEEL OKAY FOR HATING ME, SO YOU TRY TO BLANE YOUR HATRED ON /ME/.

    Thanks for being a jackass and for making me want to die. You’re a great person. I give up. You win. I’m scum and worthless because I’m fat. It’s seemingly the only attitude I ever get from people and all I ever hear… so… guess I’m cursed to go through life taking people’s shit day after day for something I didn’t choose. Who would ever want to live to see another day of that?

    I sure don’t…

    And so this is fair to me? Since when? I DO bust my ass, just to never get credit and be bullied and torn to pieces anyway and it’s all I EVER get. You TRY being in my shoes for half a mile (if you could bear the pain without cracking) and THEN try to tell me it’s my fault or I’m not good enough or it’s that simple for me to CHOOSE everything. I’d bet a million dollars you have never been where I am, and another that it would change your view completely. You’re lucky. And naive. Not everyone gets to be.

    And my anger issues? You’re bullying a dying cripple because they don’t meet the physical standards you believe they should. My first post was not even written angrily, though I can’t deny this one was written with sonething akin to anger, sure, buf I could never match your level of anger and patheticness no matter how mad I seemed, so you should probably not even try that one, it’s just ridiculous considering the level of anger managment problems you appear to have.

    I’m sure there are better ways to release your frustrations than mercilessly bullying people for a trait that ultimately regardless of whatever other bullshit you wanna spew, doesn’t define them as a person? Why not someone who maybe really is bad, a rapist or something? Why fat people, regardless of whether you can believe they all totally chose it or not? Why is it that wrong that I shouldn’t be allowed to be at peace with it because jackasses like you keep coming along making it clear I’m worth nothing because of it, and I either have to deal with the abuse or stop being fat? What makes you think someone fat earned this kind of misery and has no right to anything better.

  • @TheExitium - Because the thin girl was….THINK.  She wasn’t anorexic – but your bias is showing and anyone under 200 lbs is a “skeleton”.  Just like how he didn’t need a category for “Jabba the Hut” – fat is fat.  Once you get to the point of having multiple rolls like that, the size / number of the rolls ceases to matter – you’re still significantly fatter than human beings were intended to be.

    Again, you’ve shown NOWHERE that I, or anyone else that I’ve read (I didn’t read every comment on here) saying anything negative about people who are overweight.  So how am I an asshole for telling you that if you don’t like how you look, you should change it?  Pointing out that it’s YOUR CHOICE to continue to be something you dislike is not me being an ass, it’s YOU having a problem with personal responsibility and reality.

    The amount of exercise to be a given fitness is not something that is a binary choice (you’re either doing the right amount of X minutes of Y activities or you’re not) – it depends on each person.  Also, I find it interesting that you went from “being overweight” in one post to “being nearly a cripple” in the next to all of the sudden justify why you don’t do more exercise – if it was relevant, why not put it in the first post?
    Again, get the fuck over yourself.  I never said one negative thing about you, so your “hating me” comment is bullshit.  All I talked about was YOU hating YOURSELF (which in your own xanga, you admit to).  Sorry that you want to push your self-loathing onto others who couldn’t care less what you look like – only how you ACT.  Your personality is a very unfriendly one that wants to blame others for your own personal issues and wants to make everyone else “the enemy” and demand that they change to fit how you wish the world was.  Those are YOUR issues and no matter where you go or what you do, they will remain your issues until you learn to accept who you are instead of saying “This is who I wish I was” and getting mad that you’re not doing what it takes to become that.

    “I’m scum and worthless because I’m fat. It’s seemingly the only attitude I ever get from people and all I ever hear.”
    Because it’s the only attitude your bitchy ass wants to hear.  I’ll say if for probably the fifth time now – NO ONE SAID YOU WERE BAD BECAUSE YOU’RE FAT.  Only YOU have said that because YOU can’t learn to deal with reality, so it’s easier to blame others instead – this goddamn victim mentality that the blacks / gays / overweight / every other group has is really starting to get annoying.  The overwhelming majority of people don’t care one way or another what you look like or what your views are – because you’re just one of 7 billion people on the planet and as such, with that many people NO ONE is important – so quit thinking that you’re so important that people are actively out to get you, because they’re not.  The only negative thing you have been told here is to not complain about wanting to look a certain way if you’re not busting your ass to get that way.

    I have multiple medical issues that cause me to live in pretty much constant pain – yet I don’t sit around bitching about it or expecting special treatment.  I get up, go to work / class, and fucking DEAL WITH IT.  The world doesn’t stop just because your life sucks because you are NOT the center of the universe (this applies to EVERYONE, myself included).  THAT is why you’re as unhappy as you are, because you think you’re special and deserve special treatment – you’re not.  Get over it and accept reality and fucking deal with it.  I accepted years ago that I can no longer do certain activities as a result of my medical (incurable) conditions getting worse – but I don’t berate my friends and family who still enjoy those activities, I don’t demand special treatment for not being able to do them.  

    “You’re bullying a dying cripple because they don’t meet the physical standards you believe they should. “
    OK, time number six here.  No one is bullying your goddamn bitch ass.  YOU are the only one saying that fat people are bad / worthless / horrible / whatever.  Again, all I said was DON’T FUCKING BITCH about thin people when you aren’t running yourself to the point of self destruction to be one of those thin people.  

    “ I could never match your level of anger and patheticness no matter how mad I seemed, so you should probably not even try that one, it’s just ridiculous considering the level of anger managment problems you appear to have.”
    Yes, I have anger issues because I tell you to not blame other people for your issues.  Yup, me promoting you having the slightest bit of personal fucking responsibility or the slightest ability to realize that the world doesn’t revolve around you is me being mean and angry.  Jesus christ.  Yes, in THIS comment, I’m angry, because you’re a fucking idiot who keeps blaming me and everyone else over the fact that  YOU don’t like that YOU’RE fat, as well as flat out lying and saying that I’ve said things that I never said so that you can try to justify your self loathing. That is YOUR problem and only your problem.

    “I’m sure there are better ways to release your frustrations than mercilessly bullying people for a trait that ultimately regardless of whatever other bullshit you wanna spew, doesn’t define them as a person? “
    Ok, 7th time!  Jesus you’ve got a thick skull.  NO ONE SAID YOU WERE BAD OR WORTHLESS BECAUSE YOU’RE FAT.  Hell, no one said the slightest negative thing about you or your personality.  This whole goddamn post has NOTHING to do with what people think about someone as a person – it’s purely about what physical trait do you think is most desirable.  END OF STORY.  You are the only person saying that someone is lousy or a bad person because they’re fat.

    “Why is it that wrong that I shouldn’t be allowed to be at peace with it because jackasses like you keep coming along making it clear I’m worth nothing because of it, and I either have to deal with the abuse or stop being fat? “
    See, you are worth nothing – not because you’re fat, but because you’re an idiot who blames other people for YOUR PERSONAL ISSUES.  You project your self loathing and add things that NO ONE said to justify your idea that you’re a victim and are owed something.  That makes you shit person – not your body, but your lousy personality.  NO ONE here has “abused” you for being fat – hell, no one has said  a damn negative thing about your weight.  Only you have said that because YOU can’t deal with the fact that you’re fat.  Grow the fuck up and quit blaming others for your inability to deal with life.  No one cares if you’re fat if you’re a good person.  However, as you’ve shown in your irrational attack rants, you are clearly NOT a good person, hence why people don’t like you.  Like the one character in season 4 of Skins was told “Try not being such an asshat and people might like you more”.

    “What makes you think someone fat earned this kind of misery and has no right to anything better.”
    Because YOU are the only one bringing on this “misery” by inventing things that were never said to justify your own self loathing.  When you stop attacking everyone and claiming that everyone hates you just because they exist, your misery will disappear.  Like I said multiple times before, it’s personality that matters most – yours is quite lacking.  I suggest you work on fixing it, because if you don’t you’re going to have quite the lonely and miserable life.  

  • Ideally, a stomach should be attached to someone, otherwise, it can get rather messy.

  • I wasn’t aware my entire medical history was tequired for you not to bully me yo tears, sorry or i would have. And like what the fuck is supposed to indicate to me you’re so ill-informed you believe that a person cannot have two entirely unrelated issues is beyond me. I’m sorry, i didn’t realize people could ACTUALLY be that stupid. O.o being crippled, by definition has NOTHING to do with weight. It’s SERIOUSLY like saying “I don’t get it, you went from having blue eyes in one post to being crippled in the next” but they are ENTIRELY unrelated features that are not mutually exclusive.

    And telling me that only doing the one of many things I could never do again is the only thing that will make me good enough? (how would one even go about trying to run with a cane at very least anyway… I can WALK with no less assistant, possibly never will again, thanks for taunting me. You don’t think I want to run? I had all hardcore athletic activity taken from me by force, among many other things…) How is it not bullying me to NOT give me credit fir what I’m doing and say that it can only ever be enough once it’s far past what I’m likely to ever be physically capable of again? Plus, the excessive name calling, though that is nothing in comparison, telling me I’m going to have “quite the lonely and miserable life” (for essentially asking you for credit for what I HAVE done and still do while I can). And you can say none of it’s about my weight, but I simply asked for those who are overweight to be treated with respect and the bullying STARTED when you called felt the need to bully someone who had done nothing wrong because you think “fat people deserve it” and went further to say in essence, if we don’t like it, there is never any excuse not to fix it, so you treating us like shit is something we “earned”. That it is bullying in my case to say I can change if I don’t like it, after all the work I do and doctors telling me because of where my body is at it’s NOT a feasible goal, but STILL bullies like you justify it by insisting EVERYONE chooses it, and so EVERYONE deserves that. It is demeaning, it is unfair, and so you can say it’s not about weight, but THAT’S the kinda of thing that makes you wonder why you even still get out of bed anymore. So it STARTED there and that WAS about weight, so you saying it’s not now is frankly all bullshit.

    Do I get to forsee your future now, tell you how miserable and lonely you’ll be for being a narrow minded bastard? If only the world worked like that. But you having the nerve to call me a bad person when you’re doing what you are is just… a bit crazy fucked.

    Me wanting something better than to face your bullying bullshit, stereotyping, and discrimination, and people like you who do the same thing and WORSE is hardly blaming you for anything but YOUR actions. You CHOOSE to be a jackass. You don’t have to be, and sometimes I get sick of being told I have to put up with being treated like trash because I don’t work hard enough, because THAT’S what is bullshit. And outright lie and I am going to stand up for myself… the problem is still with you for having to demean people for it in the first place. Maybe I’m not the best at doing what I do but there is nothing “bad” about standing up for a necessary change, or when you see someone doing something wrong, like bullying someone for their weight who never said a WORD to you… where is your excuse there? You say I’m doing something wrong, and I’m making this choice, and I’m a bad person (for whatever reason, you said it) and that I’m a “crazy ass bitch” I believe, and SO many other things, but what was your excuse for bullying someone who did nothing to you? You have all sorts of ways to justify this, so what made THAT reasonable?

  • 1 or 2 is it for me.

  • @BimmerPhile - Btw, why do you not have to take responsibilities for the actions that made YOU look like a dumbass like you’re inability to not jump to stupid, stereotypical conclusions, you then accuse ME of nog being honest when I explained after you had already jumped to a ridiculous unnecessary conclusion without even bothering to ASK… why do I have to take more insulting offensive bullshit for YOUR mistake there. Incredibly hypocritical, and that’s only one of several such instances of YOU refusing to take responsibility… you’re the only one REALLY doing it, because you’re actually jumping to a shitton of conclusions that are confirmed by nothing I’ve said at all seemingly to justify you being so cruel. Why don’t you have to be responsible for your actiona, and of them, you make up some horrid hurtful exude so someone else takes the blame, AND you go off ripping people a new asshole and being unjustifiably cruel alledgedly for similar actions, which no on has really been quite as guilty of as you? Just saying, seems odd.

  • @TheExitium - Because I responded based on the information you provided.  I then said I am skeptical of you being crippled since you haven’t mentioned it previously and you clearly value emotion over logic, so it’s rational to think you lie to try to “win” through emotion.  If you think me telling you not to bitch about being fat instead of accepting what you choose to be is “cruel”, then you’re way more fucked up and irrational than I previously thought and you’re definitely not worth wasting my time on any more.  Once again, you create fictitious “attacks” to justify your self loathing.  I’m done reading your shit, so don’t waste the time responding.  Please, for your sake (and everyone else’s), get some therapy – maybe it’ll help you learn to be happy.

  • It completely depends on the woman and how she rocks it. Each and every one can be absolutely beautiful.

  • i know this comment may never be seen waaay down here on the bottom of this older post, but i just wanted to say that is NOT what an average “chubby” stomach looks like. that is the stomach of a woman who has probably been through pregnancy. chubby bellies are chubby, no way around that, but they aren’t lumpy and grotesque like that. without pregnancy or an extreme amount of weightloss factoring in, a chubby belly can be round and proportioned, the chub does not gather in one lump at the bottom.

  • i dont agree with some of the labels…like the obese one looks like the picture below it more and the slightly skinny looks very skinny to me, not just slightly. But thats just how I see it, everyone views things differently. i like the very skinny look personally. other than that good post!

  • Slightly thin! That’s my ideal…

  • I’d take the athletic one.

  • the first three are the finest, so shapely & sexxxy

  • Your chubby woman is definitely pregnant.

  • “obese” is actually supposed to be worse than “fat” — on a technical basis. But to answer your question, it should be # 1-6. we are all born with different types of bodies and carry weight differently. if we were all meant to be the same, then we would be… but we’re not. so… neither should our stomachs!

  • @AutumnShadowsQ - actually, i’ve seen lots of women AND men who look fit and still have that little pooch. idk what it is… well, it’s abdominal fat, yeah, but idk how it comes like that but i’ve seen it. and they’re not pregnant..!

  • HAHA, 1, 2 and 3 are the ideal bodies that most women want!

  • Chubby looks pregnant, not chubby. 

  • Is “obese” really… actually obese? I thought that was healthy, normal. Especially for women. Meanwhile, different bone structures seem to be represented too. Not that that’s a pass for the “fat.”

    In any case, you didn’t use the right categories.
    “There are eight stages of fat: ‘dumpy, frumpy and fat’… er, six phases.” — Coach McGuirk

  • I used to look like number 2 now I look like number 5. My husband likes number 3… so I’ve never been right for him lol

  •  if it was chubby or less, I’d still find that person attractive. i think i’m a bit more than medium, so im working on getting slighty thin!

  • i think the term “fat” comes before “obese” 

  • Personally, #1 scared me… no way that could be healthy. #2 was thin, not slightly thin. Its a little better, if you’ve got the physical frame for it. #3 is pretty healthy looking, again, if you have the right frame for it. Athletic disturbs me a bit… I just don’t see the appeal for those kind of muscles on women. O.e The chubby one isn’t really chubby… I know plenty of healthy women and men with a little meat on their bones. I’d rather look like that than be scary thin. Obese is NOT obese, and the lady in the picture doesn’t look that much different from the one labeled ‘chubby’. Again, they seem to be healthy, and healthy is more ideal to me than skinny. Lastly, the one labled fat is a little chunky, but I’ve seen way worse. And isn’t the term ‘obese’ is used to describe someone heavier than the women in the last picture? If I recall, ‘obese’ is someone over 180 pounds. Morbidly obese would be closer to 250 or more pounds. In conclusion, I think a person’s individual body frame matters more than weight. For some people, 150 pounds is overweight. For my mom, it is her ideal weight and she is anything but fat. On the contrary, at her current weiight of 135, people often wonder (and ask) if she’s anorexic (probably because she’s so bony, due to sickness; she certainly doesn’t look like the cliche 135 pounds most people picture.) So, there’s no real ‘ideal size’ or weight for all women. People are individuals, and have different needs. If you’re really concerned, ask your doctor for a medical opinion. Don’t depend on some chick magazine or whatnot.

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