September 8, 2011
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Are Moms Hotter?
My wife and I were watching a movie called “Just Go With It.” In the movie, Adam Sandler lies to women and lets them think he is married. He finds himself in a mess when a woman also thinks he has children. The woman thinks he is more attractive because he has children.
Now I have always thought women who are mothers tend to be hotter than women who are not mothers. Mothers tend to be unselfish and care about something other than themselves. That makes them hotter.
A perfect example is Bekka from Milfncookies. I find her new “Mom” look attractive.
(I hope this takes away all the excuses of all you fat mothers out there. She is a mother of two. Yes, I posted this photo with her permission).
The photo suggest a mother who cares about her children and that is just attractive.
Do you think being a parent increases or decreases a person’s hot factor?
Comments (68)
Uhhh it doesn’t do much for me to be honest. I wouldnt know they were a mother by just looking at them.
No excuse for the mommies. What’s ur excuse dan? I don’t see any half naked pics of you yet.
wooohoo for hot mommas!
i believe she is gorgeous! ….n yes no excuses for any moms…
Holy Smokes! She is not “attractive” she is ABSOLUTELY PHENOMENALLY GORGEOUS!
INCREDIBLE to say the least.
I had to come back and edit this and fix my spelling error’s. I couldn’t even spell after looking at THAT!
I guess so.
By the way, Milfncookies is gorgeous.
I wouldn’t use the term “hotter”. I would however, say that women with children definitely have a different air about them, which makes them desirable. But for me, it’s like, not sexual at all. It’s almost.. endearing.
REC FOR THE PIC
I can’t say… i’m a female and can’t really judge this fairly. Haha!
It’s a fetish Dan, a fetish. Why not ask your wife, I’m sure she’ll have something to say about it.
HOw does that photo suggest ANYTHING about her children? LOL Kudos to her though, she is gorgeous! I think I looked hotter before I was a Mom.
Be nice to us fat moms. It isn’t all that easy for all of us.
If becoming a parent means looking like that, yes.
I have that same bathing suit!
I find it hard to believe that she’s a mother of two.. working full time? and balancing kids?
Unless she has a job that pays her incredibly well and she can eat healthy and work out, which is a sign of luxury, I dunno how she did it.
@lucylwrites - I didn’t realize Dan was a mommy.
I think we all want to see Dan in a bathing suit.
…right?
My boyfriends baby mama is incrediably ugly inside and out. Same thing?
I think people give more credit to the looks of mom’s. A childless woman may be given a 7 while an identical woman who has children would get an 8 or higher. For example, today I made 3 deliveries to a prison. I actually go beyond the gates and barbed wire onto inmate grounds and walk among them. When they cat call, stare, and make comments, it isn’t quite the same as if men on “the outside” do so. Either way it’s inappropriate and immature but my point is, they don’t see women all that often so their standards are lower. Much the same I think men’s standards are lower for women with children.
On the flip side, it seems that the dateability of a woman with children is rated lower due to the schedule limitations, priorities, and possible involvement of the father. While some men won’t take children into account in a negative light, most do. They’ll give you the credit if you’ve held up well but, tilt their heads at the idea of actually having a serious relationship with you. My bf didn’t shy away knowing I came with kids and an obnoxious ex but he isn’t your typical guy either. Honestly, you can’t blame a guy (or gal) for not wanting to enter into a situation with kids… it’s more difficult.
and milfncookies is f-n’ hot whether children exited her or not.
Whether a man is a father or not does not affect his raw attraction level to me.
She is hot! I tend to identify with folks who have kids, but I sure respect those who don’t rush into it!
Doesn’t do too much for me … I guess showing they can be responsible parents, and how they treat their kids would make me see them more attractive because they’d treat me just as sweet etc …
This post and the photograph compelled me to take my thoughts captive.
(sigh)
…may have to read and look at it again. Deserves some objectivity.
(sigh)
…definitely very hot!
Bekka is an anomaly. Judging the rest of the world against her is just unfair to the rest of us.
Hmm, confusing post Dan, and I’m not sure if this was supposed to be funny. :/
“The photo suggest[s] a mother who cares about her children and that is just attractive.”
It’s really hard to tell whether you’re being sarcastic or not since you have a dry sense of humor. But what does a photo of a MILF say about how she is a good mother? And her “new ‘Mom’ look”? If my mother posted a photo like that, I would be embarrassed. Perhaps you have a very hot wife, but I don’t think having children makes a woman “hotter.” What about teenagers who get pregnant? Are they hotter too?”I hope this takes away all the excuses of all you fat mothers out there.” But if a mother is automatically more attractive than someone who is not a mother, wouldn’t all those “fat mothers out there” be beautiful in your mind?
Although mothers tend to be unselfish, they are not necessarily more or less physically attractive. They are beautiful within, but “hot” suggests something more sexual IMO.
Or maybe all of these inconsistencies within your post were intended…
i feel weird when i put “hot” and “mom” together. it brings back memories of guys in my high school hitting on her when she picked me up from school. o_o
Depends on whether they are a good parent or not…
I don’t swing that way so I would feel….indifferent.
Well hopefully the mom-factor makes up for the stretch marks and loss of 6 cup sizes.
I started off with “This question is ridiculous,” but I couldn’t post it.
This whole entry is ridiculous. You take a non-typical example and post it as if it’s the standard, which is ridiculous, and you ask a question that is so loaded, no matter which way you look at it, it’s ridiculous; this post renders itself ridiculous.
So, either well-played on your part, or get ready for the backlash.
(AS a non-mother of none who plans firmly on never having kids – I’ve just admitted my bias.)
I have been married 56 years to the same woman and she had our 3 children. She volcanic hot.
I don’t know about moms, but justin beiber’s dad is a DILF. I’d do him, but wouldn’t marry him. I’d like to be someone’s first wife, not second, and first person he has children with, not second. it seems like sloppy seconds to date a person who already has kids or was previously married. being a mom or dad doesn’t necessarily mean they are unselfish or more caring(deadbeat parents/abusive parents,etc)
No…some moms are just hot. That’s why there are those who are considered milfs and those who are not.
I hope my post-baby body is even half as sexy. Holy hell that woman is stunning!
@BenelliMan - This is an interesting theory. I’m gonna pretend it’s accurate, even if “luxury” translates into scraping by month-to-month on a very very VERY part-time freelance photographer’s work schedule while taking care of my 2 kids under 2 during the week, and a husband who owns an automotive fabrication shop and has a car addiction’s meager earnings.
Decreases. San Jose.
@EroneousMonk - San Jose makes everyone less attractive. That’s why I’m moving.
I don’t understand how this picture makes her look like a good mother… Not that she isn’t, but a skimpy picture is a skimpy picture… and this is a skimpy picture.
Well, being a mom keeps you running around on your toes…so you lose lots of weight
I’m a mom of three. Hubby thinks I’m hot stuff 
@ANVRSADDAY - Hats off to you!!! it really feels great to see someone like you!!! God Bless you both! and i pray that you live to another 103
It is easier to be hot when you’re not a mom (sorry but it is). After having live people camp out inside you for months at a time, your body takes a licking and it takes a lot more to get yourself back into shape. I know this because I’ve been both a mom and not a mom and losing weight as “not-a-mom” is easier. So, in a sense… some will say that hot moms are hotter because they had to work harder. I agree.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL - Neither moms nor dads on the dating market are sloppy seconds. That’s offensive.
i’m not into moms or dads…that’s sick.
Bekka is smoking that’s for sure! I’m getting ready to take my kids to their weekly home schooling co-op.
The moms there are truly wonderful ladies …… But they don’t look like Bekka.
@TiredSoVeryTired - the sentence prior to that told the context that I wouldn’t want to be second, thus, it was implying that I didn’t want to be their sloppy second:D I want to be the first one
it is my personal preference to not date people, who were previously married or have kids. other people don’t mind, and those people will date one another.
I got to admit she is hot! But pregnancy changes women’s bodies all the time that a lot of woman don’t realize it is a lot of work to be a HOT mommy.
My friend A had two kids and she is back in her size 0 jeans like she didn’t have any kids.
but my friend B gained a shit ton of weight because she thought she lose all the weight after pregnancy and she didn’t.
The thing that friend B didn’t know is Friend A ate healthy stayed active and made sure not to gain a lot of weight.
In order to be a HOT mom, eat healthy, exercise and watch what you eat constantly. It is ok to cheat a little, but don’t cheat a lot.
She is very hot.
But no, being a parent does not make someone look hotter to me.
I dig moms. And that is one HOT mom!!!
Goes either way. I’ve known some great, attractive parents. I can also think of a parent who is a self-centered douche bag.
<~ Needs to get a swimming suit like that!
I wouldn’t say it increases their “hotness”(which I take to be looks only) but it definitely does increase their attractiveness (which goes for personality, too)!
Genetics have a lot to do with the way a woman looks after she has had children. No amount of dieting or exercise can rid the body of stretch marks. Some women are fortunate, others are not. I think your comment about no excuse mummies is extraordinary shallow and hurtful to those who struggle with the long term effects of pregnancy and the weight gain they struggle with thereafter. Do you and your wife have children Dan? Why don’t you start posting half naked pictures of you and her before your start criticizing others? Furthermore, I see nothing about the woman in this picture that would say to me this woman is a lady who cares for her children. There is nothing here to show that she is even a mother. To me it shouts, “look at me – aren’t I gorgeous and hot” and that denotes a certain level of self centered narcissism. Beautiful, sensuous, sexy, hot, caring woman come in all shapes, sizes, and ages, with or without the added blessing of motherhood.
Decreases. Maybe it’s something you like when you’re older… I’m about to be 21, and I have no interest whatsoever in a man with kids. Ick.
I still don’t know how she managed to get that shot holding the camera like that. Amazing. Great suit, too.
I don’t know whether having children makes a female appear “hotter”. I think part of it has to do with the way a woman takes care of herself. Personally, I know men who have found ‘mothers’ more attractive due to a fuller body. It can be more sensuous looking several weeks after child birth. And shame on you Dan for not being kinder to those women who have gained weight after bearing children. It’s not always easy for some.
I forgot what you were saying after I saw Bekka’s pic.
There is something about a woman who is attractive and taking good care of her children that makes her more attractive.
In a way, yes. In a way, no.
Sigh. I guess I will probably never be that hot. Not only am I no where near that good looking, but I’m probably not going to have children either. What’s unfair is that guys regularly compliment my mother. She’s not skinny like that girl, but she’s aged well and… everyone just thinks she’s really hot. The trouble is, she had three more kids after I was ten and left them to me and my older sister to care for. My mother is the most selfish person I know. I raised her children and she gets all the credit!
I don’t think it would matter but most guys don’t want to raise another man’s children. It takes a special man to do that and there are some good men still out there.
Depends on whether they are being motherly.
Ouch. I’m a fat mother.
I can’t tell by looking at someone if they have kids or not, so I don’t know if it makes them hotter. But I also don’t really want to date a guy with kids. I am not really at a point in my life where I want to potentially become a mother figure to a kid. I don’t even know if I want kids myself.
Increases it foresure! For the caring reason, assuming they do seem to care
The ones that have kids but don’t care are kinda a turn off.
‘though it would be a fun experiment to see if they started to like their kids more because their new bf did, or because they merely have a new bf.
Uuum. Sorry. Not all men are “into” thin women. There are some guys out there who like women with larger curves and rolls!! There are healthy ladies out in the world, who have no desire to display themselves to men other than their husbands and that is a fact. There is more to life than just being..”hawt!!”
Hot is in the eyes of the beholder, really.
Every woman is different. Metabolisms affect how well weight is lost. Whether a new mother is nursing or using formula ALSO makes a difference. It is not a sign of laziness when a mother can’t lose the baby weight as quickly as others and go back to the way she looked before, or better. Some pregnant ladies gain upwards of 50 lbs. when they are pregnant. I only gained 15. It was much easier for me to go back to my old weight because I had less to lose. Changes in a woman’s body during pregnancy and birth wreak havoc on a woman’s body. Some get lucky and don’t have to work their butts off to get their old shape back while others do and with a new baby and new responsibilities and very little sleep, it is unfair to say the woman has no excuse. Every woman is different. It is very possible I would not be grouped into the “hot” category as a mother. But I really don’t care. My husband thinks otherwise and that is all that matters.
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@BenelliMan - Really? I don’t find it hard at all to believe she’s a mother. But then again, I’m a 35 year old single mother of 2 who works 45 to 50 hours a week. I eat healthy, still take an hour long ballet class and quite honestly am in better shape and weigh less now then I did when I graduated from high school.
@cja1976 - rare indeed. :)