September 30, 2011
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Xanga and Homosexual Cheating
Over the years on xanga, I have watched people respond to the revelation that their spouse was homosexual. I remember a certain religious lady on xanga who found out her husband was gay.
They had children together. She was devastated when she found out that he wanted to be with another man. She spoke about how it was against the teachings of the Bible. She also told of the feelings of rejection and the insecurity of thinking she may have failed as a wife and a woman.
She wondered whether she was just not attractive. Some of her friends told her it was for the better. That her husband was born that way. He could not help it. Others said that even if he was gay, he was wrong for cheating on her. Some provided ongoing emotional support and others condemned her for her judgmental ways.
A certain man on xanga found out his wife wanted to have sex with another woman. He asked if he could watch and maybe join in.
Is it me, or are women more complicated than men?
Comments (36)
They are, but we’re not perfect either.
It isn’t you.
Me thinks there was a far better question in that story
If everyone just had weekly, all inclusive orgies, this wouldn’t be a problem.
What a useless question. I don’t think there is any reason to believe in a causation (or even a correlation) between one’s sex and one’s level of complication.
–Yao Wentiao
Lol, perhaps. Personally, I’d be with the men on this one.
i really don’t miss following your blog.
#sexism
#heterosexism
@Yao_Wentiao - you rock.
Do it another woman? It never crossed my mind at all.
your wife found out you’re gay?
Sounds to me like it may be the same guy. He’s into the homosexual thing.
I suppose that keeps life uncomplicated in a sense.
i think women are not more “complicated”. the word is “complex”.
I think I know the woman you’re referring to in the post, but it’s possible that it’s someone else. I don’t think it was right for him to cheat or leave regardless of his sexual preferences. Marriage is a sacred vow. You can’t just change your mind. It’s the same regardless of gender. My wife has no more right to have sex with another woman than I do.
Troll blogger is a troll
No, men are more depraved than women.
Cheating is cheating. It doesn’t matter how or with whom. It has nothing to do with gender or level of complication.
life is complicated….not just women.
Are you trying to tell us you are gay dan?
hm.. i think i would be really hurt if my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl. but i find myself trying to be more understanding about the situation if he ever cheated on me with another guy. i don’t know.. i would feel like as a romantic partner, i don’t understand gay people in the way they need to be understood.
wow people are freaking out over an obvious tongue in check question. settle down guys.
I get what is being asked. Its not sexist by any means.
given the same situation different people of both sexes with react both similarly and the same. it would probably be far less common for women to be interested in watching their men have sex with another man though and it will always be far more common for a man to want to watch women have sex with other women. hell even women would rather watch women have sex with other women.
what a husband he is-join in?
well, that just shows you the difference.
I think that cheating is wrong in any relationship.
I have a reciprocal agreement with mine concerning Angelina Jolie, whoever gets there first gets to choreograph.
hahaha men a just pigs
I think it is irrelevant if your partener is of the same or opposite sex
I wonder if this blog was once an actual “Theologian’s Cafe,” or if it’s always asked questions about black people being more violent and homosexuals burning in hell?
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Mydog will join in if you wish. It will need those little doggy treat biscuits though, or it tends to get sullen.
If that’s the case, then I’m a dude.
Which actually explains a whole lot. Although not the boobs.
Considering that I know a man who’s in the same position as the woman in the first story… I’d say that there’s a difference between your spouse coming out and saying that they want to have sex with someone else… and your spouse coming out and saying that they want to leave you for someone else.
if I had a husband, he is more than welcomed to watch as I have my fantasy threesome with twin men. I have no interest in women. I’ll give him a free pass to have sex with another man as I watch if the man is jensen ackles
everybody else, cheating is cheating:D
Oh, barf. With pictures like this it’s no wonder people are stereotypically grossed out by gay kissing. Blech.
havent we known that for years?!!?
Men are just as complicated as women are. It just depends on the differences of explaination. For men, they have a hard time understand us (women) for the simple fact that we have a river flowing from our brains when we talk. We are detailed and explain every emotion. We don’t always understand why they do the things that they do, because men just have a tendency to say to say “I was being stupid” or “It’s just how I am”. Women tend to go into more depth with it, because we want to explain why or how we feel. Men just want to cut to the chase and it’s like pulling teeth to get them to divulge further into deeper reasoning. So your comparison of a man leaving his Christian wife because he likes men, seems reaaally simple. “He likes men!” But why did he decide to marry her, impregnate her, and then turn around and say he’s always been gay? Seems simple enough, but to a woman in the situation, it needs further explaination. Also, I think there’s nothing simple or good about a man leaving his wife and child to live a separate life. They were innocent in the matter. If anything, he was the fucked up, complicated person in the equation. Not his wife or child. The wife just wanted to be a MOTHER AND WIFE. Nothing more, nothing less.
@At_Sixes_And_Sevens - Exactly. Has anyone ever watched Cheaters? Most of the men on that show had their wives or girlfriends followed, and sometimes the women were having adultery with other women. How many of those men were happy about it??? None that I could see. It was still an insult and betrayal. The way I see it is, if a man or woman is happy to see their partner sexing another person, either they don’t care or they are just in a small minority. No one wants to be blind sided with the revelations of an affair, especially if they see the relationship as serious and commited.
Husband found out wife WANTED to have sex with another woman.
Wife found out husband DID have sex with another man.
Complicated? No. Just loyal I guess.
You’re a retard.
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