October 20, 2011
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Are Most Women Bisexual?
A recent study found that most women are bisexual.
According to the study, 45 percent had kissed a woman. 50 percent had fantasies about the same sex. 60 percent were sexually attracted to other women. Here is the link: Link
Are most women bisexual?
Comments (102)
If they ain’t then they can go the fuck home.
yes.
I’ve kissed a woman. I have fantasies about that same sex. I’m sexually attracted to women. Does that mean I’m bisexual? All this time, I thought I was straight…
Not the ones I want to date anyway. -_-
I am, and that’s all that matters.
i’ve kissed a lot of girls, back in my party days. i’m not bisexual, though.
Yes.
a lot of the women in stripclubs are lesbians/bi as well. They always love my boobs.
and- I know A LOT of girls that are into girls. It’s crazy. but whatever. I know that I DON’T like women. I think they’re bitchy and arrogant and stupid. cocky and ignorant and straight fucked in the head.
I also know I don’t like kissing them, either. It makes me feel slimy.
@SKANLYN - and that’s probably why you’re sitting at home with your computer.
Nope, not a bisexual.
The only “straight” girls are the girls that haven’t met me.
we just know how to appreciate the female body.
No, they are just sick of men’s shit.
Girls on Xanga as a whole seem to almost prefer the same sex.
… and I appreciate it!
Couldn’t see myself with a woman sexually or romantically. So no.
You’re all really stupid.
Probably. Women are sexy, If I were a woman I would be bisexual. I think TV glorifies women and it makes them look even better than they do already.
i’d like to see the actual study first. who they sampled matters a lot. Also, the way they asked the questions could have influenced responses. There’s a difference between saying a person has sexually attractive features versus that I am personally attracted to them. Additionally, men might respond quite similar to women if it weren’t for the fact that our society views male homosexuality much less favorably than female homosexuality
I read a book in high school called ‘Bi America’ and it explained that there are probably certain levels of bisexuality. I don’t believe that because you are attracted, fantasize, or have kissed both sexes makes you bisexual. Because in my opinion bisexuality goes beyond that. I believe that people that call themselves bisexuals believe they could be in a relationship with either sex.
However, dictionary.com defines bisexuality as someone being sexually responsive to both sexes and being sexually attracted to both men and women.
So I guess its really up to who you are talking to. But as a bisexual, I believe it is someone that is not only attracted to and fantasizes about both sexes but can also someone that could be in a romantic/sexual relationship with either sex.
woah woah woah, i think there’s a big difference between kissing a girl/finding a girl attractive and being bisexual. there’s bias in the survey just in how its worded.
I think most men wish they were, but my sense is more males are actually bisexual than females.
Most of the girls I know, or at least most of my female friends, would never even kiss a girl. When I expressed my own attraction toward other girls to my best friend, she stopped having anything to do with me for two years because she thought I’d go after her. I have felt an attraction to certain girls, but I hate most of them so it’s rare. The one time I knew I really liked a girl had nothing to do with sex. I just looked in her eyes and was blown off my feet. I’ve never been in love with a girl, or dated one, but the attraction has been there. I don’t think every woman is bi, since so many are taught to fear homosexuality to the point it causes them to treat their closest friends like sex predators if their own sexuality is revealed. So, uh, that’s a stupid question, if I am to be honest.
I would be part of that percentage,
I can’t speak for others. I know I’m bisexual.
We spend too much time and effort compartmentalizing sexuality. Humans love those they feel attraction towards. Let everyone love whomever they wish, and let us all benefit from more love being in the world. Emotions need not be public knowledge, and Heaven knows that judgement should applied to ourselves, and never to others without proof of offense to others or to mankind. What harm can there be to the universe if two women kiss?
I am bisexual, but a lot of times I think most woman just say they are to get more attention from men.
That’s just my opinion though..
I’m not bisexual! And, I’m not a woman, There, that proves it!
Kissing a woman and having fantasies about the same sex doesn’t mean you are bisexual. It means you have kissed a woman and had a fantasy.
@ohletitbe - :( lol
i think it’s more than kissing and sexual desire. love is a greater emotion than hornyness.
love me some females!
@MethodOfMyMadness - riiiiight? it helps.
Can you blame them? Ladies bodies are so wonderful!
I am.
I’ve hooked up with girls but I would only call myself bisexual to say that I haven’t had enough experience on either side to really know if I’m straight or lesbian yet…and I’m 20. LOL FOREVER ALONE
I think objectively the female form is more aesthetically pleasing, and appreciation of it is often confused with or difficult to distinguish from sexual attraction.
I want a guy…I’m not bisexual..BUT us women are the more beutiful sex for sure. For the popular vote..would say…what do you see in ther front of most mens magazines?..Women ofcourse. What do you see on the front of most women’s magazines?..Women of course. We are the more beautiful sex. Period. Will Playgirl ever be as popular as Playboy?…Never..Because women are a way more beautiful.
I want a guy no doubt. But we are a hella of a lot better looking than the guys. And I’m a straight woman.
There is a spectrum (forgot the name of it) but I call it the “How gay are you” spectrum and it goes from 1 to 6.
1 being completely heterosexual, no ifs/ands/buts about it. 6 being completely homosexual, wouldn’t swing any other way.
Then there’s the in-between numbers. So, I’d like to think that NO female on the face of the earth is at a 1. Every woman is at least at a 2, 3 or higher. Personally, I’m about a 4ish.
Dan,
if God really really loves us…yes.
@ConfessionsOfAWhore - RIGHT?!
Just because a woman kissed another woman does not make her bisexual, especially if it was because she was drunk one night. That’s just total bull crap. Fantasizing about the same gender is normal for all genders, so it doesn’t necessarily make someone bi, you could be bi-curious though.. As far as being attracted to women (both physically AND emotionally) well, that’s a different story. There’s a good chance you are attracted to women. I’m pansexual, which means that if I fell in love with ANYONE (woman, man, transsexual, etc.) I’d date them.
It seems as if all girls are bisexual these days, and it really irks me, because most of these girls are just doing it for attention. Gives ones like me a bad name. One of my friends said jokingly one time, “The difference between a bi girl and a straight one is a few drinks.” Really pissed me off, but then again, it’s somewhat true. It’s upsetting how girls have made a bad name for bisexuals, the true ones.
I’m not bisexual
As I attempt to write down what I feel, I realize both my heart and mind are clouded, any attempt to say anything will result in nonsense. I feel anger, I can’t think straight. I can’t say my life is hell, it is very tolerable, even now as I speak, I am okay, I don’t feel suicidal.
I apologize for saying crazy things. You have to understand that I pleasure myself in alternative ways; while you talk on the phone, I am fantisizing my pretend world, since I do not know what reality is, I am constantly reinventing reality. I think about the dumbest things, and on the inside it fills me with joy. From my perspective, I understand basic things, like, people have a limited number of people they can trust.
I think I say crazy things when I am horny. Why I pretended to cum in a girl’s face should be kept to myself. I also doubt a girl on xanga will like me, it was pointless to ask for sex. I will try my best to keep inappropriate comments to myself, what I meant and how I write it are two entirely different things.
Now I just transformed into a different reality, I keep reinterpreting my existence, my illusions keep me happy, I feel like a normal guy and it is only a matter of time before I get laid. I am so confused, just thinking is messing up my thinking process. Yet I feel peace
Right now I am thinking about how I can become happier. My heart and ego are hurt. I shall have to cleanse my soul, welcome to my nightmare.
Here is a sample of how I really feel, ”I CURSE THE DAY I WAS BORN I.CANNOT LIVE A PRODUCTIVE LIFE WHY CANNOT I BE EUTHANIZE END MY TORMENT WHY DO I HAVE TO KILL MYSELF TO END MY LIFE.”
God please give me the power to think amen.
Maybe it’s ’cause when you’re close with someone, or find them really attractive, you just wanna try them
@rocketopossum -
Thank you! Someone else said it (TV glorifies women)!
I think everyone is bisexual, that the “who I’m attracted to” is a spectrum, not girls or boys. I, for example, am completely in love with a man, but like girls better. Like, im 65% lesbian, 35% straight. thats how i like to look at it. And we only see it being prominent in girls because its more expected. If a guy had ever 1% attraction to other guys, he’d be labeled gay forever.
I think most are bi curious but won’t admit it. Given the right situation presenting itself at the right time would they actually act on it.
I’ve kissed a woman or two, and I sometimes see another woman and think she is gorgeous but I have never wanted to be intimate with any.
Can’t say I blame them for being bi. I’ve seen my fair share of douche bags date my sisters growing up :-/
That doesn’t sound like most, that sounds like about half.
I’m not bisexual.
Look, people can recognize sexy when they see it. That doesn’t mean they’re willing to have a sexual partner of the same gender.
Maybe woman prefer another woman for sex just because most men don’t know where and how she would like to be touched. But any woman know exactly where and how, because she knows how to satisfy yourself.
Spaghetti girls…straight until wet. My favs!
This study doesn’t surprise me at all, considering the amount of “straight” women I’ve had.
In fact, my current lady was completely 100% straight for 30 years until she met me.
On Xanga they are.
I’ve heard all this before. New Age Crap. It’s like saying all men are secretly sexually attracted to their mothers and all women are secretly sexually attracted to their fathers as being the reason they end up marrying someone who is like their parent. People love. Who really cares who or why? Seriously.
I certainly hope not.
I would never want to be in a relationship with a female but I’ve never had a problem making out and feeling up a female. I would have no problem fucking one but I’ve never found myself in an opportunity where the chick had a clit I’d want my mouth on.
You seems to forget, most bi/lesbians have daddy issue. ^.^
It could be
I think the tendencies are there in most… Its why so many have experimented with kissing other women and fantasize about them… It doesn’t necessarily mean they act upon those urges or that they will even admit to it, but I think its there in most, like I already said. I find that a lot of women I know have tried it, some won’t admit it, but I know about it. The female form is quite beautiful… as long as you take care of it.
Are bisexual women bisexual because they think it’s hip? @grammarboy - Ha, nice one
I don’t understand how kissing another woman at some point or another makes you bisexual. That element of this doesn’t surprise me.. but it doesn’t really prove anything.
Actually, I think that is the wring question to ask. You see, women in the public eye are portrayed and portray themselves in a very sexual manner. That is what our culture revolves around: sex. And women are easier to “sexualize” than men. (generally speaking) So I believe that everyone working together as helped instill a mindset that women are universally attractive and if you don’t find women (or at least a certain type of women) attractive, then there is something wrong with you.
Going against the norm always has a huge risk of being shunned and (from what I can tell) most people are afraid of that or at least do their best to avoid it.
People are treating sexuality like it is some huge, life-defining aspect that bears down upon them and they must do all they can to stand up under it. And its only easy for straight people because they’ve been around for so long the burden has just gone away. Or it was never there in the first place because straight was the first of the sexualities.
Not matter what, people are putting to much weight into sexuality. It is not nearly as important as people make it out to be.
I’ve kissed a girl and I’m generally attracted to females, but never sexually.
But then again, I don’t like sex in general. Still, I would choose penis over vagina any day. Vaginas just gross me out.
I think everyone, male and female (or intersex) falls on a spectrum of the gray area in sexuality. Sometimes, very few of us fall into the category of no interest. Sexuality isn’t black and white, but rather a spectrum with a massive gray area of different preferences.
I don’t really believe that there are that many people out there who are exclusively homosexual or heterosexual for that matter. Most of us, I think, do prefer one sex over the other, but I’ve known straight guys who’ve done stuff with other guys and a lesbian who got a boyfriend.
I really think sexuality shouldn’t have labels, you like what you like, but I think that there are very, very few people who prefer one sex 100% of the time.
@SherylM - I’ve always thought of Sigmund Freud’s theories as poppycock. The thought of every little boy having an Oedipus complex is disturbing.
I think those numbers are a little off (too high), but eh, close enough.
I bet it’d be less than half on all those numbers for men though (make a post about it Dan).
@ShimmerBodyCream - Lol haha wtf.
Secretly perhaps a lot more than actually admits to be, but it’s like a gray area. When you actually cross over to have an affair or a relation is a really big step for most of us. When you have crossed the line there is no going back. I’m hooked.
@JadeMaster2 - No one could ever put it better in words than you just did, thanks a lot.
I don’t like the assumption that bisexuality is just about sex with someone of both genders. Sexuality is not that black and white. I have found myself attracted to women from time to time but could not see myself pursuing a relationship with them. Finding the occasional girl attractive does not make me any less gay o-o.
I think there’s a spectrum from straight to lesbian(or bisexual or gay). Everyone falls on it somewhere…
I’m more pansexual. I fall in love just in general. I don’t know what “romantic” love is. And if we had to choose who I romantically fell in love with, it’d be asexual. But I do fall in love. It would take the other party being romantic for it to fall into place. Most likely it will be a man, because I do prefer men’s personalities, but not all women/men follow their gender stereotype.
I’m starting to think I’m not attracted to anything
A lot of people say they are for attention or because they think the seem more attractive. I don’t know how many times I have had to explain that a true bisexual is one who can fall in love and have relationships with both sexes, and it’s not just about sexual activity. Women are promiscuous, but many are not truly bisexual.
personally I’m trisexual
I’ll try anything at least once, well actually I wouldn’t. I just like puns.
But I do beleive just as many men as women are bisrxual. But men deny it more due to social pressure.
I remember reading somewhere that women’s sexuality is much more elastic than men’s. I’ve found it to be true, at least personally. I guess I would consider myself straight even though I have been sexually attracted to women before. I feel my sexuality is elastic, so I don’t try to put a label on it. It is what it is. I’m attracted to some men, I’m not attracted to some others. I’m attracted to some women, I’m not attracted to others.
sexuality is considered fluid. women are more open to that because there’s not as much of a stigma on it for us as there is for men who are attracted to/experiment with the same sex.
@RealistFantasies - exactly what I was trying to say!
yes, all da lesbians i ever met seekritly crave big caucasian peckers and are prolly latent heterosexuels! (but unlike most of you ignorent sheeple i do not consider it to be a “turn-on” or anything.)
@then_you_stand - i like your comparison of “i’m attracted to some men but not others”
that’s a completely valid statement. people like to label things. to be attracted to a certain person of some gender doesn’t mean you will be attracted to all people of that gender.
I can see it being true, for sure.
Sex? What’s that. I am so old I have to look it up in the dictionary to remember what it is.
It’s just further proof that everyone needs to team up with team Curtis and pray the gay away. #sarcasm-lookitup
@grammarboy - i do too, so hopefully not lol.
@derpherp - Agrizzled
some people like pineapples.
why do we have to classify people as straight or bisexual or whatever? let people love who they love and like who they like <3
Who Cares?
according to a recent study, yes.
Sex is so closely tied to a woman’s self-esteem that they tend to deal with insecurity by sexual attraction to other women–so women who are “bisexual” tend to be attracted to women who look like themselves.
they all are. they just don’t want men to know.
I don’t title myself as bisexual, I have had relations with a female but never such a thing as a relationship itself, I have made out with many girls amung a few other things but it’s nothing that anyone should be ashamed of, I prefer men sexually but every once and a while, the comfort of a female is nice. It’s all about how comfortable you are with yourself and the world around you.
were all abit gay really
i find some women attractive, i kiss women when im under the influence of mind altering substances. i don’t have standard girl fantasies though, like booby twisting and carpet munching. i want to know what it feels to have a penis. penetrating women with a strap on etc. no one willing to make my dream come true .. yet. i don’t think im bi though. prefer penis. i think im adventurous is all
@ShimmerBodyCream - You’re my hero!
no…I think that is what pop culture is teaching them though.
i don’t know if the “bisexual” label serves any purpose whatsoever, but, yes, I do think most women are attracted to women. And, if there weren’t the religious prohibitions, we’d see a lot more female/female experimenting than we see already.
oh, yeah, I’m in those percentages too (in the day…before marriage, childbirth and divorce…maybe I’ll do it again…who knows)
I can’t speak for ‘other’ women, but I know I am when I feel the urge to act upon those tendencies….
50% is half, not most.
and 60% is close to half, barely over, just as 45% is barely under.
and there are plenty of college girls who will gladly hook up with a girl, but are completely straight and just like the attention:P
but that’s just my view on it:P
Does it matter?
I have always thought that it almost natural for women to be bisexual. However, I really hope that most women are not bisexual. Because I am so strongly polarized to wanting women, I am hoping that the women I am interested in are strongly polarized to wanting men. As a teen, whenever I had daydreams of falling in love, it was always me and one woman, not me and one woman and her female love interest, be it woman or man. So, the commenter who said, “but a lot of times I think most woman just say they are to get more attention from men“, they get no interest from me. I have dated a couple of women who REALLY wanted to bring another woman into the bedroom and it didn’t suit me at all. I am classic hetero romance / sex. (No big loss to me or the world of GLBT or whatever the acronym is.)
those things don’t really mean anything. i’ve kissed a girl before, like making out & i am in no way bisexual & i don’t think that “most” women are either.. so retarted.
I don’t really care one way or the other.
Actually I think [I forgot, I had actually discussed this with a friend a long long time ago] but most of the population is. It’s like everyone is 2% or something. Fantasies and everything is normal among men and women.
I don’t call myself bisexual. I’ve kissed girls, I’ve done other things with girls that don’t need details given lol. I find women attractive. But I don’t fantasize. And I’m dating a man who I ultimately plan on marrying. And nowhere in my future plans do I ever hope to have a woman in my/our bed. Some women go through “phases”, some fantasize, some are just curious. But you really can’t be bisexual, I think, unless you honestly believe you could fall in love, marry, and be monogamous with another woman
I think a lot of women are curious, but the percentage of women who would want an actual relationship with another woman is quite a bit smaller. And then there’s women who fantasize about sex with another woman all the time and then try it and it’s not what they thought, so it’s “been there, done that” to them. I think it takes more than a few fantasies to make someone genuinely bisexual.