June 11, 2012
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Rating Your First Sexual Experience
I noticed in my last post that some people mentioned they regretted their first sexual experiences.
Others said they enjoyed their first sexual experience.
1 – Terrible
10 – Amazingly orgasmic
On a scale of one to ten, how would you rate your first sexual experience?
Comments (96)
3.
2
0.2
-10, we got caught by his mama.
3 it was awkward even though he was experienced….
On my end it was about a 1. How was it on your end?
5. I’m being nice since we were both virgins and didn’t know what the hell we were doing.
Ah Shannon Elizabeth……We ate scrambled eggs later that night and stayed up to talk and played texas hold em poker. She is quite good at poker you know. I would rate that whatever a pair of aces is worth.
3.2
7. I subtract one point for the cliche of it being in a car, and another point for it being in someone’s driveway. Whose, I have no idea.
Oh, and one point for the condom breaking. Other than that, pretty good for the first time.
3
Do I get to rate it if I was really drunk and don’t remember it?
hmm. 3.
1, but every time since then, 10…
sometimes i think it was a 10 (most of the time) sometimes i wish to believe there’s something else still waiting for me
Mine was like a 9 or 10. It felt kinda like fireworks were exploding in my stomach
3 but I dont regret it he improved lol
I’m supposed to remember that? damn.
Besides the pain of ovarian cysts that I have no control over, 9. It wasn’t awkward or freakishly emotional like I was expecting.
0
you mean coitus?
I would say a 9.5. We were too young to understand the physiology of making the other reach orgasm, but we were old enough to care deeply about the other & approach it from that angle. I wouldn’t trade my first experience for the world.
2…I would’ve given it a 1, except it wasn’t really an emotionally negative experience. It was so painful though, that the best part about it was that it was over really, really quickly!
8
I didn’t regret my first experience per se, but I felt I should’ve waited until I was a bit older. Anyway, my first time was a 6.5/7. It was rather enjoyable, but it wasn’t what I thought it would be. I was expecting explosions. Well, that didn’t happen until the second time and hot damn, it was good!
I’ll have to go watch the video, then I’ll let you know.
6.
I learned in a study that most women give their first experience less than a 3.
5. At the time it was a 10 because my mind kept thinking: HOLY SHIT I’M HAVING SEX.
3 because I couldn’t tell if it was in and 5 because my first position was girl-on-top and I initiated it. I never wanted to give my virginity away like in the movies where the girls lay there in awe while the man did all the work. I took what I wanted, that was the only cool part.
@heart_leigh - I agree, my second time was MUCH better. My first was a 7.
I’ll pass on rating it because I don’t really know how I would, but I can say it was special and I’m glad I waited for the right person.
9 to 10 for sure. Every time after that (with that person) has been like 10+.
It was pretty epic. One of my favorites. 10.
i’m going with 5 since I was wasted and barely remember
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1.5
4 =/
An 8
7
I will post my answer, if it happens
0. I lost my virginity to a pedophile,lazy pot head that was also Puerto Rican.
5
@RazielV - I JUST HAD SEEEEEEEEEX
1
1
I don’t even think about rating it.
Definitely 10!
Sexual Experiences? Not necessarily intercourse. I think the early stages of petting and exploration are very exciting, sort of like a chess game Seeing how far you can get, how far you are willing to let the other person get, the exhilaration of touch, excitement about doing something we are conditioned to think is not allowed. The risk of getting caught. As for intercourse, first time is emotional for each party on different levels, then there is the inevitable guilt factor that kicks in, for there is only one “first time”. With the right person, practice makes perfect. I like to get plenty of practice…
XD take a wild guess
Great job Dan, trying to prove you still are the king of xanga but getting people to answer these super personal questions. I can’t believe people are actually answering them and I can’t believe you’re taking advantage of them.
1 because neither of us knew what we were doing and neither of us came. Was like trying to shoot a target with no bullets.
I would say that we would claim it to be an 8.
And we have just gotten better. Its probably around 25 by now. And its still rising.
2 I wished I would have waited for someone who I was more emotionally connected to. That being said, just the whole experience with him…left me a little disappointed. I know I didn’t have any experience, but I still knew there was more to it than that! ): At the time I was pretty disappointed and even not so great future experiences with other partners made me realize just HOW disappointing that first time really was.
I forgot how it went hahaha hmmm give me a sec…it was an 8 I think, was not perfect as a lot of people they would be but it didn’t suck like most people experienced
I’ll say a 2, but only because he was wearing Polo. In 1984, that was a serious aphrodisiac. Other than that, it was a major let down.
1. Just kidding; I’m still a virgin.
I didn’t regret it but I didn’t really have an interest in pursuing a relationship with him or calling him the next day. I’d rate it a 5 for effort on his end (he had ED).
I don’t know how I’d rate it. I don’t regret the act itself, just certain aspects of it (we didn’t use protection and it was with a stranger, both things I promised myself would be different my first time). As for the experience itself, it was awkward.
I was 14, she was 18, you do the math.
We came together after days of anticipation. Couldn’t have asked go a better first time. 10.
Another intrusive question.. Do you tell others??
Notice how the fatties are always so picky- it’s not a sandwich, just thank God someone even stuck it in you.
outb4: all the feminists, self proclaimed humanitarians, and internet morality scholars start attacking me.
Mine was a 9 <3 I can definitely say the second time was a 10 ^^ everything felt right<3
2, maybe a 3. A bit anti-climactic, if you’ll pardon the pun.
My first “sexual experience” – 1. The first time actually having sex – 1. Every time after that – 1.
@Lithium98 - Maybe rate it by the way you felt the next morning? lol.
Oh, and how dare you take advantage of me by making me answer this most personal question simply by asking it?! -scoffs-
@JinnLedet - Hey, I dunno, some people are into that. Lol. Ever heard of “squashing?”
3, and I am being generous because he was a good guy :/ But then I think of it, how could he be a good guy when he was 21 and I was only 15?… It was legal where I lived, but still…
@JinnLedet - Wow, you’re really fucking rude.
Sounds like everyones was either really good or really bad.
Definitely a “1″. I was thinking, Wtf? That’s it? Why do they make it look so awesome in the movies?
4
I’d rather not think about it
15 yrs old + First time + Popped Condom + Pregnancy = Shitty first experience….. so 0.
8+
9. Amazingly orgasmic, but unplanned and kind of tacky (in the back seat of a car that my dad later bought off of him, heh)
Also, I had unknowingly started my period (which explains why it was so amazingly orgasmic, I always turn into a raging sexual beast in the first few days of girl time), and I got blood EVERYWHERE. On him, on me, in the car, on our clothes. Neither of us realized until after he had dropped me off. I was mortified, but it made for a hilarious story.
1
I’ve yet to have sex but to avoid any regret, I’m going to take my virginity from me. ALL BY MYSELF XD
@script_kiddy – that is horrible…I didn’t even wear a condom with my first 3 partners, never got pregnant and 6 years later I’m not using protection and have no pregnancies so I assumed I wasn’t meant to be a mommy…which might be good cuz I am a little selfish.
i would say about a 4
Never had one yet so Dont know. I know the longer I wait the more horrible its gonna be hah
Mine was actually not bad! It was not akward or painful in any way. It was pretty much what I expected. It just didn’t last long because we didn’t have a condom so I made him stop. Therefore I give it a 7.
5
Sex is for children.
What number corresponds to “Hilarious”? I’m guessing 4.
Emotionally negative experience -he used the infamous “L” word/confessed later that he didn’t mean it, it wasn’t exactly consentual, we were caught/laughed at by my Dad, annd I was dumped the next day at school so he could go after one of my my more “experienced” friends.
Total Score: -10 (If no negatives allowed…0)
-10
4. He was ok, but I was really inexperienced and we were both drunk. Also, never saw him again. Not even sure what his name was. I used to know, but I’ve forgotton. My husband, on the other hand, is usually at least an 8.
3. It hurt, it was fast, and then he fell asleep 15 seconds after we were done.
@Iam_so_fat - It was definitely an….experience. Lots of lessons learned though.
3 definitely. I had no freaking clue what the hell I was feeling or doing
Below all negatives. It’s in the category of antimatter.
hmmm maybe 2!?!?! It was freakishly awkward and i thought i was in love and going to get married LMAO!
11. NO JOKE! He knew exactly what he was doing to me…for SIX whole hours! I couldn’t believe what I freak I turned out to be, or how long it lasted. I was so comfortable and it was honestly so fun just exploring and touching each others parts, that we just couldn’t stop. Ah, to be young [and not 25] again. 11 or a 12, fuh real.
@imTHEmeowMIXcat - God! That’s awful!! SO glad you never have to go through that again.
@MarlowesMoon - Hah! Right?