July 26, 2012

  • Why Do You Comment on Xanga?

    I was reading a post the other day and a woman mentioned she needed to comment on other people’s xanga sites so other people would comment on her site.

    I thought that was sort of interesting.  She was commenting in order to get comments herself.

    Do you comment so other people will comment on your xanga site?

                                                                                       

Comments (78)

  • Because I have no life.

  • Lol, I’ve never seen it really work. 

  • No.  I have nothing better to do.

  • that’s why i comment on your site ;-P 

  • Maybe I’ll get more people to comment if I say “come and see my giant penis” in other blogs…

  • No. I see it as a conversation. I enjoy commenting although occasionally, I regret having made the effort. Never here though. <3

  •  Reciprocity is nice but does not have to be and cannot be maintained indefinitely.   

  • Occasionally, when I’m bored. Usually I just comment on my friends’ posts. That’s why I come here.

  • yes -___- lol jk :P

  • I comment to let my words out. its not necessarily for others, but more as a way for me to think. I never expect anyone to listen. its just nice to put my thoughts down. Writing or typing helps me think; that’s why I comment.

  • Comments, especially on higher-than-average-traffic blogs, do seem to be an effective way of directing traffic back to your own blog, but it’s not why I do it. I like to engage in a conversation. 

  • I comment only to get Credits :P lol

  • I used to be a comment Nazi…8 years ago. Now, not so much. I don’t feel the need to comment on a blog I don’t give a shit about anymore and I don’t feel offended when people don’t comment my stuff. My blogs can be mundane at times and what I write doesn’t always warrant feedback. I find it incredibly immature when people get up in arms about getting a ton of footprints but no comments. Jeez, get over yourselves, people. 

  • No, there’s nothing to really comment on on my site. Mostly I just comment when the writer asks for feedback, or to praise something, or to say something random/silly/dumb.

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  • No. I comment because I relate to what the other person is saying.

  • I comment to make sure my keyboard works properly.

  • I comment, because if I don’t God will kill kittens… Oh wait… I’ve just been informed that God will kill kittens if I masturbate, so I honestly don’t know why I comment.  

  • I have nothing better to do and there are some really good bloggers on here :)

  • I comment because when my comment is submited, a nice little picture of myself pops up beside it. I love nice little pictures of myself.

  • HEY THERE’S ANOTHER ONE!!!! HAPPY TIMES!!!!

  • No, I usually only comment if I have something sarcastic to say

  • My own entertainment, generally.  I used to do it to be interesting or enlightening, but I wised up about that racket after a while.

  • I comment if 1) I am genuinely appreciative of what the writer shared or 2) I have an opinion on a controversial matter. When I get replies or comments in return, its only a bonus.

  • @Cestovatelka - So I mean nothing to you. I see how it is. It’s all good.

  • I comment because I love my friends. I love that picture for this post XD

  • I comment because I like xanga and after 7 years I’ve run out of original content to post daily.  I’m lucky to come up with something once a month, lol.

  • Why do I comment on Xanga?Several reasons.One to get people to laugh,two to express either my disagreement or agreement with a post.three,when I’m hurting or in pain,I might need to vent to try and get it out of my system.Four,just to let certain friends I’ve met on here I’m reading what they write and here.If you never comment to someone,how do they know if you read it?

  • I comment if I wanna say something. Sometimes I just read, other times I read and comment… It really just depends on if I want to voice myself to others…

  • Nope. I only comment if I found the other person’s blog entry was interesting. And if people took the time to comment on mine, great. If not, no biggie.

  • would you keep a post up if no one commented?

  • i comment because i wanted to say something

  • I never leave comments. Never.
    Never have, never will.

  • Dear Dan,
    I actually used to “promote” my website with the moniker “king of the comments.”  When I was a young lad, I read a book of Groucho Marx’s letters. I love the Marx Brothers, and Groucho’s collected letters were just as funny as anything he scripted in the movies, or ad libbed on the TV show, You Bet Your Life. I always said I’d be a writer, and also wanted to be a “man of letters”. When I read “Rebecca” in high school, I was really impressed with the description of Rebecca’s writing desk, papers, and pens. I used to write some really interesting letters myself, but sort of stopped doing it after a while.
    When I got on the internet in 1996, I acquired my ever present signature and method of writing emails as letters. This habit just sort of naturally gravitated to internet message boards and comment strings.
    Back in 2006-08 I could spend literally hours commenting on Xanga blogs. Some people wondered how I did it. My response has always been “I type really fast.”
    Sometimes I might have six or seven windows open with Xanga blog entries and notepad documents containing my comments.
    I’ve been commenting in much the same way as always for eight years now.
    In the beginning I just wrote a letter to the blogger.
    I will admit that I believe in “comment for comment” and will respond to each comment I receive with a letter. I’m not as meticulous as I once was, however. I used to return every comment, and I said I answered every email on my website. Now I only blog on Xanga when I’m in a creative mood, and hopefully, I’ll feel in the mood for “leaving comments”. I will respond to a “nice blog” comment with a novella if I’m interested enough in the blog of the blogger who left a comment on my blog.
    In the old days of “correspondence” (I use that word when describing Xanga comment exchanges with my readers/friends) one would write a letter, and the respondent would write one in return. I’ve kept most of my “loyal” readership because we exchange comments sort of as letters in the old days.
    If I post, and receive comments, and especially if an entry of mine is “featured” in any way and I DON’T “return comments” then I’ll feel bad, as if I’m slighting the people who’ve taken the time to drop by my blog and comment on something I created on the internet.
    I remain, as always,
    Michael F. Nyiri, poet, philosopher, fool

  • This is a fair question, and did you tell us why you comment on Xanga.  I comment, partially because I can have a friendship at surprising times of the day; just wonderful, sweet happy words and worlds picked up by my email, and it took me years to understand that I have something worth saying, so am I lonely?  I think all people, as we move along in years are lonely, for I can guarantee you that aging is a big damned surprise, and it happens whether we like it or not –  unless some of you have found that fountain which people have looked for through many of a millennium,  for the opposite of aging does not seem so danged desirable, although, I admit that last October when I was dying;  It was just alright.  I had a moment of panic about what I needed to do.  “What do you have to do when four more minutes could be it? T  Ihat experience left me knowing there is something beyond here, and it is right there;  Can you see it?//I love the people who gave me courage to finish my book and who put up with all of my worry.  Xanga has not been a good tool to advertise a book, for I feel guilty every time I mention: “Pinkhoneysuckle,” Barbara Everett Heintz, Amazon, Kindle, and Create Space, and winning book awards in San Francisco and a big award in Hollywood seems to suggest that I am a pretty good writer.

    But if I have sold three books because of Xanga, I would be surprised,for I am not going to take from my friends.  The word, “Friends,” is tricky for sometimes people are so interesting, and they just disappear in to the cyber space from whence they came.  Some people are friends when, “They need,” and do not understand the two way street business,” and some would call this selfish;  Whereas, I think they, for some reason, just do not get it — Friends.  Some you are having such a nice time with, then they disappear,  because they are over committed, and they have said something they regret, and you just want to tell them that we rarely expect of others what they offer in total, for, especially in California; It is an art form out here, for you are so interesting that people can hardly bear to leave you; “Let’s get together sometime,” but  dear do not hold your breath.  Sadly this mentality, as it does, is now flowing across country, so you are looking for people, sometimes, who just are supportive and truthful, and Xanga offers a larger pool from which you may share some common ground.

    I set out to write a book before Julia and Julia hit the big screen, so I can answer whether or not Xanga is a good format for that, and I am so sad to tell you that there are few places to do serious writing.  You can write on your own but getting paid for it is quite another thing.  I earnestly go through here and find people to write a note to now and again, for I fear they are sad, or misdirected, or they expect too much from a network where people socialize.

    If you want to find some smart  people;  Come to Xanga, though I admit some of the boys doo doo and bugger events suggested or written show me that some people have some maturing to do, but as far as writers go;  I knew that I was pretty good before I started getting some book rewards, but there are people on here who are darned good, and the photography and art is sometimes so amazing that I just feel like a zero, so there is talent on Xanga.

    I believe that we are all looking for something in thoughts or in words, for praise is wonderful — both in giving and in receiving.  Again, do not write any books, for you will then have to go in and take it out, for the publisher notes that if you have it out there for free, then who is going to buy it?  Another warning for those coming on; Do not make my mistake of writing long and complex sentences, for we are a new group of people for the ground rules which seemed clerer a few years ago is simply shot to hell. We have walked in to a very dangerous world where computer writing of all kinds take away the need for a fully literate world, and I just kep having the night mares of mass book burnings, because people have decided that their paper backs aren’t worth two cents.

    I am one who suggests two things;  Enjoy wireless of all things, but never let our world depend on it, for the decimation of man kind is beginning when we believe we know longer need the written word.  Have fun with Xanga, and wirelss folks, when they do not function but they are the way of all of learning; Fear wireless everything, for we are less than we once were when the bookshelves become bare.

    My opinions — Another reason I write on Xanga.

    Blessings

  • i comment to say my 2 cents.

  • because I like the attention, OKAY?????

  • people are ridiculously self centered; some just more than others. No one is psychic; at least, i’ve never met anyone who is. Which basically means if you stay silent and don’t comment here or there, no one will know you exist.. except the creepy xanga IT guy who has access to your naughty protected post (sorry xanga, i just naturally assume everyone(gmail, yahoo mail, blogs, etc) has a creepy IT guy who can access any info). yes, i wish i was him. it’s quite a sad, creepy envy i have.

  • Yes. I comment on Xanga for the sole purpose of getting comments on my page. I’m sure it will work ANY year now. 

  • I comment because I like commenting I love using the smiley faces I usually put lots of smileys in my comments I comment mostly to amuse myself xanga should add more new smileys or finally upgrade to animated smileys like yahoo messenger-they have the funniest ones.

  • sometimes I hope that happens, but mostly I comment so people read the comment. I get a little kick out of my comments being rec’d.

  • CCD, compulsive comment disorder.  I closed all my internet stuff down for a couple years because my life got so wrapped up in xanga and facebook and stuff that I super stressed.  I have a psychologist now…

  • Not really.. If I really liked the entry I will comment or I will put a smiley face.. But I don’t need a comment …

  • @MomWithoutaMinivan - In some ways people evolve from commenting and just concentrate on their blogs. I wonder if you will be blogging about that evolution? Maybe things just happen and there was no great change?

    @Cestovatelka - In a way I could try to claim commenting for credits. I seriously doubt anyone would use the credits for purchasing xanga premium, more often I have seen folks purchase a new blog name change.

  • I only comment when I like the subject, when I think I have something meaningful to say and when I think what I have to say can make a difference for the writer ánd for the ones reading my comment. 

    I want for my opinions to be inspiring for people, even when some of my sentences are not overall flattering for them.

    My comments are never meant to create a mental block! Nor are they meant to “just follow” without having taken for consideration and without having been adjusted to your own life, needs and culture. 

  • @PPhilip - I have 20,490 credits and I honestly have no idea how I’d spend them. I don’t know how much Premium I can buy with it. I could get a name-change but I changed from puella_sapiens216 to this name a year ago and I won’t be changing for a long while (hopefully). 

    It’s like “oh, how nice, a ton of Credits. Now what?” haha

    I guess all I can do is shower people with expensive Minis and maybe whore myself out by buying Plugz hahaha

  • I comment for all kinds of reasons and yes, sometimes just because they were nice enough to leave a comment on my blog

  • Just responding to a conversation they started…. IF I have a response.  I never say anything if I have nothing to say.  I don’t do small talk for its own sake.

  • I comment because I have something to say and I guess I hope others have something to say to what I write.

    I write on a public site for the purpose of validation, otherwise I would just keep a personal journal.

    So I guess the answer is, yes. I comment in hopes of others being interested in what I have to say as I am interested in what they have to say.

    If I didn’t get any validation here, I don’t think I would stay… I’m looking for commonality, communication and insight… and that comes in the form of comments. lol

  • Absolutely honest-Lonesome! Communication with other’s is very much necessary right now. I would very seldom be on this thing if people visited like we did in the 80′s and 90′s. It’s like pulling teeth. :) Since I’ve been here, I’ve made some good online friends and automatically go to their blog. Other cases such as this, i saw a friend recommended this topic and it sparked my interest as to what was on your mind.  I sensed your question was sincere so i answered. I’ve not read what  the others have said, so i imagine there are many reasons.
    I’m FAR beyond  such shallow reasons as you mentioned a woman told you.The ego is far from needy. Mercy; thats a whole other monster. Sometimes i happen across a person from a recommendation that i find interesting and will spend time reading through their old blogs, might comment or might not. If i can’t think of something to say i do not sit and think  until i come up with something. Just not wired that way.
    This is a good post and for thought!
    Have a good day!
    C

  • @IntoTheWind1 - No you are officially funnier than me, I laughed out loud =]

  • Because Xanga would be extremely boring if we didn’t comment as much as we do.

  • Nope, I comment when I have something to say.

  • @P0RCELA1N_D0LL - Plus you use it to let folks know you mean serious BIZZNESS  when it comes to loans and will surely wreck any debtor who doesn’t toe the line. 

  • the kittens still here Fagetabout it, ne I just like to run my mouth really

  • I comment because I like what I have read or seen.

  • I comment couse I’m nice. And when I comment not only do I get credit, but the person I’m commenting on is also getting credits.

  • …because I’m nosy and overly opinionated.

  • I comment if and when something inspires me to comment.  Since my blog is protected, the only folks who can comment back are people I already know, anyway.    No idea why I was inspired to leave this comment ….

  • No.  I only comment so that men can tell me how hot I am and ask me to have sex with them.  You know, every girl who comments is only doing so because she wants to have random sex with men she doesn’t even want to know.  :)   True story, sorta!

  • I don’t even know why I comment. I have no life. My site is mostly for venting, so I don’t really expect positive feedback on it.

  • I comment so I can get credits so I can give minis. :)  

  • i comment so i can be ignored just like in real life.  sometimes it doesn’t work and then i get to have a conversation.  that’s nice too.

  • @SoullFire - I’ll make them walk the plank directly into the sharky’s razor blade teeth:D they don’t call it a shark loan for no reason

  • well… do you ever comment on someone else’s site to get comments or sightings on your site? but considering how popular this one is I don’t think you’d need to!!

  • When I first started commenting that was one of my biggest reasons for commenting on peoples’ blogs but I wouldn’t just say random stuff, I’d actually attempt to contribute to the topic of the blog. Now I don’t normally comment unless I feel I have something productive to say.

  • At times, I would. I would mostly comment if I could give words of advice or support to said blogger. Rarely would I receive comments anyways unless it was a “thank you”. 

  • Because your blog commands me to.

  • I think it’s a common courtesy…if you stop by you should say something.  How would you feel if someone stopped by your house, looked all around and then left without saying a word.  It’s rude if you ask me.  

  • These are the questions I ask myself every day  . . .

  • I comment because it’s a nicely sanitized version of human interaction.

  • I comment cause sometimes I just want people to look at it from the way I see it.

    And yeah some of my best friends are all up in this computer on the net.

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