I thought I would throw out some basic advice to younger guys about women.
1. You can only date a woman you are attracted to but realize that no matter how she looks, she is going to get old and wrinkly. So make sure you like more than just her looks.
2. If a woman is constantly complaining about how other guys are stalking her or sexually harassing her, don't attempt to protect her from those men. Ditch her. She will say the same about you later.
3. If there is always drama in her life, ditch her. She will cause drama in your life later.
4. If a woman only likes to hang out with guy friends, don't expect that to change after you are in a relationship.
5. If she will not lose weight before you get married, she won't after you get married.
6. Take a good hard look at her mother. If you can't imagine sleeping with someone that looks like her mother in 20 years, ditch her.
7. If she believes in "soul mates," ditch her. She will make you miserable for not meeting up to the expectation.
8. If she cries during the movie "The Notebook," ditch her. You can never live up to that movie.
9. If she is always broke and spending all of her money, ditch her. She will spend all of your money too.
10. If you don't find her attractive without makeup on, ditch her. You will see her without makeup all the time.
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haha! that was great. Can you do that in the reverse as advice for women? I think you are wise enough :)
This is really good advice.
Don't agree with the one about looking like her mother, but that makeup one rings true lol
@quest4god@revelife - I've glad to hear that you found your soul mate. I wish you a lifetime of happiness together.
I don't quite agree with #4... Usually girls (and guys) would want to hang out with the opposite sex so they can have "a greater chance" of meeting their significant other... and when they have found a boyfriend... chances are will go back to befriend girls.
@MyTwoCentss - Thanks for your wellwishes. I meant to make it clear, though, that our years together ended with her passing....still, I am so thankful for her and the love we had. It's keeping me going even now; and I have that hope of seeing her again because we both were born of God through faith in His Son. That's not to say that I am not lonely and still grieving her loss - but I would not be honoring God or her if my grief were not still filled with that expectation.
@quest4god@revelife - Oh wow. I'm so sorry, I didn't realize. :( *HUGS* I think it is wonderful you found each other & had that time together though.
These will become my 10 commandments concerning women. I just might commit them to memory. Well said!
i love the notebook one! i am not a nicholas sparks fan. when i used to read him i would pick out the person who i think is going to die and see if i am right. why? b/c someone ALWAYS dies in his books
Why is it all bad??? Do we not have any good things about us making us good enough to keep???
Regarding #1 - that's only an issue if you don't end up being successful in life. If you're successful, you'll have more than enough money to ditch her once she's old and wrinkly and pick up a new wife who's college aged and has a good 20 years or more left of looking good.