I'm personally not turned on by a man's looks...it's more emotional attraction for me. Like--if I have feelings for him, than I will think he's very handsome and be physically attracted to him. But it's hard for me to feel physically attracted before there is emotional attraction.
He needs to be a Brick. One who in his own head is confident of himself, firm in his convictions, strong in his resolutions, and stubbornly positive in his compassion and understanding and temperance for all others. Φ≡
I'd date a guy like that in a heartbeat, and at one point, I knew one.