yeah. it's really weird- I don't know if I'd be able to do it again. i think being attracted to someone you're in a relationship is really important and i often see really ugly people and wonder how anyone could ever date them.. maybe i'm just shallow.
Yes, as an adult I decided what most might call 'ugly' just might be better than what most call 'pretty'. I've known a great number of pretty people whose behavior made them unbearably ugly. 'Ugly' far from being ugly in practice, can be downright beautiful!
Everyone has, due to the fact that everyone views people differently, no matter who we've dated someone will think they're ugly and someone will think I'm ugly thus anyone that's dated me has dated someone ugly and I've dated someone ugly. Whoever says "no of course not...how can anyone possibly date 'whoever' they're so ugly". You're retarded.
Ugly people need love too! What matters the most to me is if they are going to be abusive or not. I have no intentions of being raped, beat, or locked in a basement again. When you look at serious stuff, petty things like looks don't matter.
I dated someone who I wasn't romantically attracted to in any way. Why? Because I'd been really attracted to him before and I thought maybe it would come back, and at 21, I thought it was time I at least gave someone a chance. The relationship lasted less than 2 weeks. I realized I just didn't feel that way about him and preferred being friends, and he thought that since we'd probably never get married, what was the point? (He saw things that way. Dating was meant to find a marriage partner in his mind. I didn't, and still don't, see it that way.)