Before Matthew and I started dating in the real world (flying across the country and whatnot), we only knew each other from xanga. He left footprints all over my photo section, but I don't have any photos in it. We also used to sit online on "xanga chat" and hope the other would start a conversation.
hahaha. i think there are people who wanted to stay anonymous by hiding themselves. I could say that most of my friends in xanga are smart and good people who almost share the the same thoughts with me. Based on what I read on their sites I can feel that they are attractive people...=)