April 18, 2013
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Thinking of Someone Else During Sex
A woman mentioned today that she never thinks of her husband during sex. She said she always imagines someone else.
Would it bother you to know your spouse was thinking about someone else during sex?
Comments (36)
She was always available and very wonderful about that. If she thought of someone else, it would not bother me.
For some reason the women I’m with always scream about some god person. Strange…
Nah. I once had a killer toothache while having sex. All I could think of was my dentist so I understand.
I don’t have a spouse.
If my SO was thinking sexually about someone he knew personally during sex, yes, it would bother me. But if it wasn’t sexually (like @TheSutraDude‘s dentist) or personally (like a celebrity) then I wouldn’t care.
For me yes, I find it a bit unsettling to know my partner needs to envision someone else to derive pleasure from our sex.
If my spouse was thinking of other people during sex, it would really bother me. Mostly because I don’t have a spouse. WHO IS THIS IMAGINARY WIFE IM HAVING SEX WITH?!?!
Great. Now all he has to do is strangle her while he is trying to figure out who he is.
Yeah….what’s the point otherwise?
Nope not at all after I I think he is Sam Elliot<:)
i think of someone else when i masturbate
Spouse, girlfriend, fling, whatever, it would probably bother me to know they weren’t thinking of me during any form of intimacy. I don’t think I would enjoy it as much after that.
No, don’t think this is an issue. He gets his share so there isn’t any reason for him to do so. But, to answer the question outright, no, it would not bother me.
I don’t have a girlfriend, so at the moment the answer would be no and always no
Every time, yes it might bother me if I knew. Occasionally… not at all.
I sometimes think of my wife when I’m having sex, but only if I’m having sex with someone else.
that would sting, and it would make me feel awful if it were every time… if that was the case that’s some information I’d prefer they kept to themselves…
@Lithium98 – Haha!!! Great comment
I think he does think of someone else but I don’t say anything. Probably someone with large breast!
I think about what I need to do around the house and I need to stop by the post office etc. sad isn’t it.
I don’t really care. I never have to imagine someone else during sex. I’m thinking about the orgasms me and whoever want to have. If you can’t even be present for that, then maybe there’s something wrong.
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Why did that bitch in the picture wear high heels to Fern Gully???
That’s messed up…
@amateurprose - she wasn’t going to let the fairies upstage her
Personally, if my SO was thinking of someone else… I would be slightly offended, like I’m not doing a good enough job keeping him satisified. That’s a big kick in the ego if I do say so myself….hmm.
No. It’s healthy for couples to pretend they’re having sex with someone more attractive than their actual partner.It helps to create an intimate bond between you and the person you’re fucking when you’re doing it as enthusiastically as you would be if you were fucking someone you actually wanted to be fucking.
What keeps a spouse, a spouse is just the right combination of silence and raw deception.
@SKANLYN - another reason not to get married
Almost everyone is guilty of this at one time or another.
If you say you haven’t done it, I’m sorry but you’re lying.
Unless you’re just an “angel” from “above” …
Sometimes someone else just pops in your head. Attraction, what have you.
Some people do it on purpose (their partner isn’t doing it for them), some don’t… some people just live in a fantasy world and don’t really know how to deal with “reality” or intimacy.
There are many reasons for why this happens.
i cant get off without thinking about shakira, so i totally understand
having sex with a spouse? I can think of at least 2 parts of that which don’t apply to me.
@korean_biyatch - ha ha, me too.
Meh, how would I know if they were? If they told me it would be malicious and in which case I would care and then proceed to end the relationship.
I think of being with a girl most the time, but I know that I don’t want to date one. SO CONFUSING. It kind of feels like cheating, which is also confusing. Makes the whole sex thing become a headache a lot of the time once it’s over.
YES it would bother me. A LOT
IVE NEVER DONE THAT BUT AS LONG AS WE BOTH GOT A GOOD FUCK OUT OF IT…..
WHO CARES AS LONG AS WE BOTH SCREWED UNTIL CLIMAXING. JUST BECAUSE YOU CLIMAX FIRST DOESN’T MEAN YOU SHOULD STOP UNTIL YOUR PARTNER DOES EVEN IF YOU THINK THEY ARE SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT…………