February 21, 2006

  • Emo

    Whenever you move into a new culture it is necessary for you to learn the language of the people.

    What is emo? And am I emo?

Comments (233)

  • Emo? I have no idea… I’ll ask my kid.

  • emo is hard to explain, but one thing is certain, you are not emo

  • emotional.

  • sad, depressed, lost, and all the like.

    no, you are not.

  • I was afraid to ask that Dan…thanks for doing it for me!

  • I’m not sure what it is, but I’m pretty sure your NOT emo

  • Too many people bash emos on xanga…

  • you are not emo

  • Emo is short for emotional.It’s more so a state of mind in addition to the way you dress.I think you could be considered emotional, but I highly doubt you would be considered ‘emo’ by one of the ‘emo’ group, Dan.

  • No, Dan, you are not. I can sum it all up in this simple statement: Emo is supposed to be the new goth, except goths are still around, so it’s just becoming unbearable. But you have to acknoledge the fact that there are two types of “emo”: the gay kind, and the goth wannabe kind. Both are self-explanatory. To become emo is simple, wear black and call yourself emo. Or become gay at age 15.

  • included in the top ten.. yahooooo

  • you? emo? ha! no. emo is short for emotional.

    emo is an epidemic, if you ask me.

  • emo are very emotional people. but they dotn have a reason to be. the best example is the kid that cuts himself because his parents grounded him for a weekend

  • The only 2 definitions that I’ve heard about being emo is “life sucks besides there’s some good things too” and “emotional”. And no you are not emo. Who told you that you were?!

    ~Pesky

  • emo is acting like ur like sux and that noone cares. and ur are far from emo

  • I don’t know.

  • Haha! No, you are most definitely not emo. Emo kids are mostly posers anyway. It’s not something most adults aspire to.

  • To me, emo is when you constantly sulk about how hard your life is, dress in very punk (strange, different from the norm) clothes, have very long black hair that covers your eyes, sing songs complaining about life, and possibly cut yourself to release tension. While I don’t approve of emo culture, I do admire how emos aren’t afraid to express themselves and show emotion that makes them seem weak. What emo music is is highly subjective–the only bands I can label as emo confidently are Dashboard Confessional and Simple Plan.

    And no, Dan, you’re not emo, at least from what I can infer from your xanga.

  • what’s an emo? checked on the dictionary and i didn’t find the meaning… could somebody tell me what is it?
    anyway, happy to know that im in top 20.. wrong when i say im in top 10.. lol.. i thought so..

  • You are definitely not Emo.

    For the best definitons, try http://www.urbandictionary.com and search for ‘emo’. Defintions 3, 6, and 7 seem the most accurate.

    Melissa

  • Btw, for these kind of questions, check urban dictionary. Be warned, definitions there can be highly offensive.

  • hmm.. emo.. emotional… im guilty, im an emo…lol

  • Black plastic glasses, tight “retro” shirts and women’s jeans, badly died hair, etc.  Poetry in a composition journal about frolicking in the moon light, that sort of thing. 

  • I hope to God that you aren’t.

  • is it some sort of ebonics term?  Ok let your hair grow longer, always have it hanging in front of at least one eye.  Oh, color it black and wear some leather.  then listen to screaming music and like KrNbOi54843837 said sulk around a lot.  Then you can be emo.  

    Tim

  • Ah hahahahahahah!  Sorry, it’s just a very funny question to ask.  Heh.

  • Apparently, there is a lot more to “emo” than most people would think. I’ve had a few conversations with people who enjoy music, and specific parts of the lifestyle that is now termed “emo” in such a lack-luster fashion, and have come to learn that it’s been around since roughly the 70-80s, as an off-shoot of the Punk movement of those years, and as a response to something-or-another. I’ve listened to a few short clips of various songs from that era that have been shuffled my way — none in an illegal fashion, mind you — and can say that what is called “emo” today is not quite the same as what was then called “emo.” Comparing the two would be like comparing modern punk to the punk of an older generation. Somehow, the DKs just seem to be much stronger than a lot that’s come along in the past decade or so, during my time.

    But Dan, when you say “Move into a new culture,” what do you mean? If you mean shuffling around the world and, quite literally, moving into what is a new culture to you, though already established — as in, a region, or ethnic based culture — then it may help to learn at least a few of the more commonly quoted terms and/or phrases, and maybe even brush up on your ideas. If you’re going to have to work with those people, then do so for communication’s sake. If not, then I would still do so, purely out of interest.

    If you mean to imply the moving into a new lifestyle, while remaining in a static position, geographically, then I would say that it’s almost imperative that you learn the lingo; if you’re going to attempt to integrate into that culture, you won’t be able to without doing so: to try would make you look like a complete fool, both to those already involved, and those “on the outside” of the culture-rim.

    It would be like trying to work your way up to the Major leagues without knowing what a baseball bat was; I could see you (not literally, though it could be done) pointing to one on a field and saying “You, hand me that there mega-toothpick ball-hitter!” much to the amusement of everyone who happened to be watching you. If you’re going to go for something, go big or go home. It’s that simple, especially where your entire lifestyle is going to go. There’s no sense in “half-assing” any sort of transition.

    Stephen

  • FUCK EMO!! ITS FOR POSERS! ITS LIKE GOTH BUT WORSE

  • Emo people are those geeks that wear the thick, black rimmed glasses. They are lame. You are not emo. Emo actually is short for emotional. It is a style of music and dress. I am anti-emo…thanks.

  • emo is a short term for emotion

    you are not emo sir

    *alex*

  • dunno.  but i know what and who is elmo.

  • Ah emo, the latest trend.

  • *laughs hysterically* no, dan, you are not emo, and never will be. emo is mostly classified by being teenager, dying your hair black and having it hang in your eyes, and writing poetry about how much your life sucks while sitting in a warm house where you have good clothing and food on the table and probably at least one loving parent.

    emo is what i hate more than anything, the glamorization of depression.

  • And It’s What Cry Baby’s Are Like My X Girl Firnd Left me Emotion

  • No, you’re not emo

  • Thankfully, you’re not emo…

  • you are most definitely not emo. while it’s really hard to define emo (and even though i like it, don’t go by the UrbanDictionary definition), you are certainly not.

    that’s not a bad thing, though!

  • urban dictionary gives a great definition…and no…from what I know about you..which I will admit is not very much…I would say you are opposite of emo…lol…but I could be wrong…

  • YES ITS A BAD THIN YOUR LABLEING YORSELF LIKE THE GOVERMENT WANTS US TOO

  • Emo is like being neutered… Whether you are a emo guy or a emo girl, you will act, dress, talk, and try to be like both sexes.

    That’s the way I see it, anyways…

    Nicholas

  • I kind of thought it’s more emotinal, but it also goes to style of dress and preference of music as well. My son is emo!! He wears black tight jeans, black concert and vintage shirts, and long hair. I think that’s what it is?

  • emo is short for emotional.

    http://www.fourfa.com/
    go here.

  • Lady kick your sons ass

  • No Dan, you are most certainly not emo.

    Nicholas

  • Well, there’s the fashion emo, with tight pants, tight shirts, thick rimmed glasses, studs in wristbands and belts, and of course, hair that eats your face.

    There is one personality emo, which is when people feel (or just act) depressed all the time, smoke (or pretend to smoke) pot a bunch, have a bunch of sex, I guess emo guys are notorious for being bisexual. I think it came along with them wearing tight pants.

    Emo is also short for “emotional.” So at it’s core, an emo person is simply one who is very emotional. It usually narrows down into the above written, though.

  • emo…emo…is..well..we’ll just say that you aren’t emo

  • And you’re not emo.

  • They slit their wrists, write about killing themselves, slit their wrists again, and then get high, have sex with whatever comes close, and then they die. 

  • haha…simple plan got changed to emo…

    i dont know i thought emo music was like bright eyes, death cab for cutie, and fall out boy…i dont really know why…

    emo is ridiculous because its basically saying its a style to be a cutter…

    real cutters certainly are not proud of what theyve done and wearing it as a style would be the last thing they’d want to do.

    you’re not emo

  • and no, Dan you are most definitely not emo

  • emo is short for emotional….which as a woman isnt a bad thing…but when you cry over someone giving you a dirty look or calling you a sissy…thats when it becomes a problem…so no your not emo

  • oh yes and um…apparently emo guys like to wear girl jeans.

    if you’re gonna be a transvestite just be a transvestite and not make a big cliquey (word?) deal about it.

  • mournful, emotional, teenage rock. You’re not emo.

  • emo = emotional, and no you are not. at least not from what i can tell lol.

  • emo=EMOTIONAL

    You are not emotional. Therefore you are not emo.

    The emo culture are the kids that listen to depressing/sappy (emotional) music and let there emotions control their actions, dress and music tastes.

  • emo is short for emotional and is a state of mind, as well as a trend in clothing.. much like goth, only not quite so gothic, the music is very whiney and sad… they think that their lives are a bunch of crap.. i don’t really think your emo.. lol

  • You’re not emo, they have funny hair. And I don’t think you wear girl jeans

     It’s black notebooks full of poems about how much you love the one person who will never love you back and drawings of bloody knives and smoking guns. It’s lots of pictures taken by holding the camera above your head and having your hair covering one eye. It’s about revenge and self inflicted pain.

  • “Emo” is the slang term for those who listen to overly emotional music, which often concentrates solely on loss, sadness, dispair, yearning, and other greiving emotions. It’s also referred to as “emo music”.

    They are characterized by black-dyed hair, tight jeans, tight shirts, long bangs, and constant focus on sadness and regret “oh man my girlfriend dumped me. I’m really really hurt. I feel like the black sadness of dispair.”

    No, you’re not.

  • wow. I didn’t see LilJeLLiE’s comment until I posted mine. Weird.

  • an emo is very similar to a retarded person.

  • To me emo is short for the type of person who is dark,emotional and kind of whiny..but it’s also a style among teens.  A type of haircut and way of dressing….I personally think the emo style is cute!

    Dan you don’t seem the emo type….but I could be wrong….

    You seem to have your own individual personality….I think it’s way more attractive than emo…..

    Love, Candy

  • you are VERY observant Dan, more than most people. If you are emo, i think you’ll be talking more about ending your life and be VERY depressed on stuff

  • Emo’s hard to explain. You are not emo.

  • “Emotional” is where it came from originally…assosiated with music, now has become a whole world, a whole style of clothing and actions and music.

  • emo is a form of the teenage “life is shitty, i want to die, i cut my wrists, and i listen to horrible, incomprehensible music” things.

    and you are not emo.

  • emo = messed up. you’re not emo. and you don’t want to be emo.

    well played, sir.

  • you are not emo.
    i am not emo.
    boo on emo.

  • never seen the expression emo.

    Yes, should have to learn the language of the people.

  • If “emo” applies to anyone who is emotional, than everyone is. But from what I understand, there are emo and “emo-wannabes”. Real, true emo is a style of dress and music rather more like metallica or death metal than gothic, in the sense that it’s a way of expressing emotion, not surpressing it. Only the emotion here is just sort of whiney, sad, or depressed, not angry. Emo kids generally (again, from what I understand, I could be mistaken) don’t like the posers, because they think they don’t understand. It’s almost like the “posers” are looked down upon for being too cheerful. But if emo is emotional, why is it limited to sadness and depression? What about the other emotions? Anyroad, I think that’s more than two cents.

  • e vil

    m isguided

    o verly confident

    just a guess.

    have a great day

  • hehe… i enjoyed reading ppl’s definitions of “emo”.  i just kinda gathered my own understanding of what the word meant from people’s use of it in their posts, but what i gather, you’re definitely not emo! :)

  • You don’t fit the category, nor do you want to. Trust me, I know these things. ;o)

  • Isn’t that the little red Muppet that looks kinda like a gay Grover?

  • what the hell is emo anyway? is it those wannabe punk kids who moan and groan about their life?

  • You are FAR from emo.  Far, far, far from emo.

  • haha at first i thought emo was some kind of brand. when i found out and let my roommates know, we all had a good laugh.

  • Emo WAS a music type that conveyed alot of emotion, but now its a label to depict a person who is very emotional to the point that it is rediculous. No, you’re not emo. Boys wearing girlpants with black hair is emo.

    Eva.

  • Emo is lame.
    No, your not emo.
    Emo is complaining or petty shit when you should be to old to care.

    this is a really funny video on the subject
    http://www.somethingdirectory.com/main_emo.htm
    it’s a little long, but worth the watch.

  • I think you’re only allowed to be “emo” between the ages of 12 and 17 yrs.

    It seems to me to be younger teens who decide their life sucks and must complain about it and wear strange clothes (big, long hair wuith very tight and skinny jeans for boys, for example, making them look slightly mushroom-ish).  It also seems like a large percentage of emo kids tend to come from suburbia, who have so many keys to life and happiness and decide they must instead sulk over things that may or may not matter. 

    Gosh, I must be getting old… lol

  • here is an example of emo music

  • No- you are no emo!

    (((((( GRANDMA HUGS ))))))

    Lori

  • Emo is a type of (in my opinion, relatively crappy) music.

    Nice switch from the uber controversial subject to a much more mild one. 

  • I had to answer this one since “emo” is in my username! :)   I’m not an overly emotional teenager; I just like emo music a lot, especially Dashboard Confessional and Brand New. It’s pretty music with good lyrics. And yes, it is good music when you’re going through a breakup or feeling sorry for yourself.

  • You are most deffinatly NOT emo

    Sad music, slit writs, black clothes, bad hair, THATS emo.

  • emo is emotional…my life sux, i wanna die…etc
    you are not emo
    who said u are?

  • Well, I’ll tell you what emo isn’t… : goth

  • I think if you are going to live among people in a foreign place, you should learn the language… I mean… everyone that moves to American should learn to speak English…we EXPECT them to. Thats how it should be.. I would never move to, oh… France and expect them to learn English for me… I would do the learning.

    And from what I was told when I asked what Emo was…it means “emotional” often used to describe teens and their hormonal fluxuations… you are not emo.

  • I have a post about Emo. Just go to my site.

    It says what Emo exactly is among other things.

  • I don’t understand ‘emo’ either.

  • emo as an animal, that is all i “know”

  • I don;t believe that you are emo. Emo stands for emotional. It began as a form of music and grew into pop culture. They are not dark enough to be goth and too soft to be punk. (So what I have heard)

  • LOL! you are definately not emo.  As I understand them, “emo” is a person who be pessimistic, isolated, overly dramatic, listens to some sweet music, writes semi-sappy poems, and dresses to fit the part.  I don’t really care to label people, but sometimes others describe themselves, or at least their moods as such.  Really, I don’t see anything wrong with belly-aching to those who’ll listen once in a while, or just doing what makes you feel like yourself.  This statement is conveluded.  and I probably spelled conveluded incorrectly.  oops. 

  • I dont know… but if emo is emotional.. then I think I am? and is that a BAD thing?

  • Haha, my dad is always trying to understand what emo is.

    1.)  Emo is punk, minus the anger.  They take the “poor me, the world hates me” approach, with the cutting and such.

    2.)  You are definitely not emo.

  • Emo, is when your Depressed.. down all the time… feeling no purpose.. rather, feeling nothing… like no one is there for you, like your in this mortal life for no cause and your just another worthless occupied space on this shithole we call Earth.

  • emo is like the aftermath of the punk rock trend. you are not emo.

    Right Winger

  • Listen to the radio. That crap that you hear on every rock station…. yea, that’s Emo. What ever happened to good ol’ 80′s Metal?

    ~Stix

  • It seems to me that a lot of goth people are highly threatened by emo people. Have you noticed this? They keep trying to draw the distinction, because in the end they realize they are far too close for comfort. Emo always seemed to me to be a blend of punk and goth- a garishly dressed, more colorful form of sadism.
    *sarcastically* Woo! Top 150! (Man I really dislike that attitude. Seems to me that people keep reloading your page, waiting for an update. Are they really that lame that they get a feeling of identity or importance from being first to comment?)
    -Steve

  • Well emo is complicated. I think of emo stereotypically, but I see it as almost poser-goth. Emos are the kids with the black greasy hair combed thickly over one eye, and they sulk in the corner, moping about their mundane lives and sometimes cutting themselves. Emos are very big on low self esteem and pretending to be deep by talking about blackness and sadness and their sucky lives. They also tend to cross-dress, sometimes are bi-sexual.

    That’s the best I can think of, and you are in no way even close to being emo, haha.

    -Jared

  • i haven’t seen you, but i highly doubt that you are emo.

  • hahah, I sooooo always wondered what the heck emo was too! According to a few ppl’s replies, its short for emotional, duuuude, we soo knew that right? I thought it was something else. Why do ppl on xanga write emotional/emo so much? I’m going to look into that, let me know if you figured out why

  • I’m with you Dan… I have no clue… A girl turned me down because she listens to Emo… and I don’t. but according to some people I do… I don’t know… I only Know that I’m an individual. and would rather not be put into a category like Emo, or Jock, Or Nerd… ’cause while I have aspects of all of them, I am none of them. I would identify with what Grissom said on an episode of CSI when he was asked what group he was in… “Me? I was a Ghost.”

  • Short for emotional, and generally used in a derogatory manner to describe someone who considers themself an intelletual, cries a lot, etc. but has no real problems. There’s a video on ytmnd.com called “I must be emo” or something like that, which will give you a good idea of the “emo stereotype.” Personally, I find nothing wrong with being emotional. And you are that, but also wise. Go Dan!

  • Emo=emotional. Usually associated with people who are constantly depressed in their posts.

    No, you are not emo. You are inquisitive

  • As far as I’m concerned, emo is a genre of emotionally-charged rock music that started in the early 1990′s.  Today’s “emo kids” have a certain way of dressing, usually — however, I dress in “preppy” clothes and listen to emo music… so yeah.  Though, I prefer to not label myself.  I wouldn’t call you emo.  =)

  • you are not emo.

    emo is more of an angry, “my life sort of sucks right now and there’s no way out” way of looking at life. if you are an avid music fan think dashboard confessional, (some) yellowcard.

    that is a really broad generalization, but its the best i could come up with.

  • Emo is an excuse for girl tweens and teens to cry about their boyfriends and for guy tweens and teens to wear girl’s clothes, all under the assumption that these people have experienced real, time consuming pain…oh and of course, they are all very, very deep in emotional thought.

  • you are not emo. emo kids dress what most adults would consider a combination of punk, goth, and gay (most guys wear girls clothes).  they tend to be depressed…. both male and female dye their hair and wear makeup, especially eye makeup. and most importantly, they tell you not to lable them, but they’re all the same.

  • ROFL.  No.  You are not emo.
    Erika

  • emo is something you will have to answer yourself…how do we know you’re not hiding behind xanga…not showing your emo.  :P

  • PUNK ROCK WITH A CURFEW THAT WON’T UPSET YOUR PARENTS….

  • to answer your question ummm

    are you planning to live with the new culture? then yes!

  • Emo is a type of music and people who listen to this music are classified as emo. Steriotypically an emo kid would be depressed all the time, if he’s a guy he wears tight and/or girls jeans, an emo kid would be really sensitive, write in a diary, and more than likely cut themselves, but I reapeat this is a steiotype. Emo music is really loud, lots of screaming, and its usually about the following: Love, death, being depressed,etc. The most popular emo band right now would probobly be Hawthorn Heights and dude you are so not emo. Hope I helped.

    Marisa

  • It’s harder to explaine then most people are saying. In short a bad and false stero-type of emo is the bands fall out boy and my chemical romance. No, you’re not emo.

  • oh and excuse me. Hawthorn Heights is also a bad and false example of an emo band.

  • Emo= emotional… Also, it’s like “goth lite”… It’s hard to explain.

    http://www.ifilm.com/ifilmdetail/2685784  click on the emo song. It’s making fun of emo kids, but it does have it’s valid points.

    I have a hard time understanding emo. When I asked people answered me with “emotional.” And yes, they seem emotional. Tragic ups and downs. But emo also has a certain fashion look to it.

    Also, nothing against the person b4 but the stereotypical emo kid writes more about how there life if black and dark and how they cut themselves, not really frolicking. Then again, I guess some may be emotional happy, not sad. : )

  • Thanks for asking this question. For a minute I thought I wasn’t hip because I didn’t know either, but emo turns out to mean what I already assumed.

  • ok, so far as i have read, no one has given you a correct answer. As punk rock came and went, new genres formed. These post-punk replacements became some of the most popular genres in this present day, although they have been around for over a decade. Emo is not the cool new thing, it is one of these genres of music. At first it was a mix of melodic hardcore, punk rhythms, and a combination of the two in the way of vocals. Soon, new bands came with new sounds, but still in the same strain. It is a genre of music. Sadly, however, it has become known as a defining trait of a group of people or their clothing style and their whiny characteristics. Now it is a pop-culture icon, and pretty much anybody can say “emo” now without having the slightest idea of what it means.

    e.g. Mineral, Braid, propagandi, Hey Mercedes, Further Seems Forever, Dashboard Confessional, Thursday, Cursive, The Anniversary, Hot Water Music, At-the-Drive-In, Saves the Day

    btw…I am not emo…I swear…it is something one can listen to, not be

  • Dan. You are the exact opposite of Emo. LOL!

  • KrNbOi54843837 said that Dashboard and Simple plan were emo…far from it Alternative and the Punk for those. Emo has been twisted from an expressive state to a feel sorry for me I am in black state.

  • That’s a good question Dan, thanks for asking! One of my pet peeves! Not only is it necessary to learn the language of your new culture but arrogant and disrespectful if you don’t. I realize that is some cases age or ability might be a factor but otherwise YES! Communication is not only crucial but vital.
    As far as Emo….I ask my son all the time what it means BUT I still do not have a clue, I guess it’s beyond me? Peace ~J4J~

  • Oh, trust me, Mr. TheologiansCafe, you are not emo (short for ‘emotional’). You are the farthest thing from it!
    And that I am glad for …
    God bless,
    Shohna

  • Emo. It’s all just sub-cultures. Punk. Goth. Country. Hip-Hop.

    It’s about the fashion, and the music. And fitting in with people who like your fashion and music.

    It’s nothing new, it’s nothing complicated, it’s just another sub-culture. We’ve been doing this for years people.

  • well emo is very complex (being emo i should kno) its rather hard 2 xplain to sumone who isnt emo…its so much more than a tred or hair or clothing styles…it goes down to the music u listen to, and how u handle every situation that u encounter in life….you are on the very xtremes most of the time and are very highly opinionated, and no one can tell u different….im guessing that its highly unlikely that ur are emo

  • GEESH!! NONE of u ppl ACTUALLY KNO wat EmO IS!! If ur NOt EmO than dont comment!!! serioiusly!! emo=ing emotional dose NOT give you the deffinition of Emo…gosh…..and sumone said that emo encludes hip-hop…ya rite….but watever….

  • For a long time I feared that an emo was probably someone who didn’t know what an emo was. Now it seems clear that the reverse is true (albeit not definitive), namely that if you don’t know what one is you aren’t one.

  • Yes! when you move into a new culture, learn the language. It’s the smart thing to do. It’ll make a person happier in the long run, human beings have always had the need to “fit in”. Adopting the accent of a place is also the way to go.

    lol, emo. It’s an epidemic here in Aus! It’s the new Goth, really. But apparently (I quote) “Not as dark”
    Characteristics: Tight black or dark pants, hair cut into short spikes at the back and long in front, usually dyed black or black with bright blond streaks… eyeliner… Teenage thing. It’s the new trend and kids EVERYWHERE in Bris have that damned haircut. And it just so happens I had this haircut FIRST about 2 years ago and now I look like a poser… Gah.

    Anyway – you’re not emo. I’m sure you’ve figured that out. Ha.

  • ryc:  Tom Cruise just has that certain something. 

  • EMO IS SIMPLE.  THE NORMAL SETBACKS IN LIFE THAT WE ALL GO THROUGH, THE ORDINARY BUMPS AND MINOR PROBLEMS, THESE PEOPLE OBSESS AND DWELL OVER UNTIL THEY CREATE SOME SORT OF ARTIFISCAL DEPRESSION FOR THEMSELVES.  THEN THERE ARE THEIR TRADEMARK ATIRE.  THINK GOTHIC PEOPLE IN GIRL’S PANTS AND LONG SCARVES

  • emo is a genre of music, not a fashion trend or a lifestyle

  • hmmm.. i think it would be best to learn the language… however, in some cases it’s not neccesary

    errr… i don’t think you’re emo…

  • Emo

    is a stereotype formed by others to classify a group of people who have developed, Emotions, but most times far too exagerated.

    And it began that emo people wore black, were depressed, and cried.

    but it just seems to be another group of people trying to get along in a crazy world.

  • Ok I understand emo & what it is (maybe?) but what is a “scene kid?”

  • Emo can be summed up with a few words:

    “I-Hate-My-Life-I-Wanna-Die-Cut-and-Bleed-Cut-and-Bleed-You-Broke-My-Heart-Here’s-a-Gun-So-Shoot-Me.”

    You are NOT emo whatsoever.

  • black hair parted to the side, tight fitting jeans, and some of them cut them selves. no, you’re not emo.

  • emo = emotional hardcore

    http://www.youdontknowemo.tk

  • Listen to Fall Out Boy or look at pictures of them. They are emo, and from what I know of you, you are definetly not emo.

  • emo is a state of mind, and it does not have to be negative. you don’t have to cut yourself or be gay to be emo. emos sometimes have bad days, where all they do is cry. other days, they are happy. it all depends. an emo is basically a normal person (who just happens to like black) with normal feelings, they just act on their feelings more often.

    as to whether or not you are emo, i dont really know you. sorry.

  • Emo used to be a style of music where the artist made music that lyrically and musically contained a lot of emotion and envoked a similar feeling in the listener.

    Currently the term Emo refers to little Punk kids who got and lost their first boy/girl friend and can’t get over them, and write half a million songs about it and then sing in a whiny, nasally voice. Their sense of style seems to be an (unsuccessful) blend of the late-70′s/early-80′s Punk scene look with a bit of Gothic style. Any self-respecting genuine Punk or Goth wouldn’t think twice about giving an Emo Kid a genuine beat-down.

  • this is a funny question.Emo is emotional.I dont think you are emo.Emo is usualy refered to a type of rock music.

  • In the early 90s there was a movement in the hardcore genre that came to be known as “Emotive Hardcore,” spearheaded by Rites Of Spring. Harder-core-than-thou kids, who swore by Dischord Records a la Minor Threat, actually coined the term “Emo” as something of a put-down for the kids who really liked Rites Of Spring, Indian Summer and this new wave of “Emotive” Hardcore bands. That’s right, “Emo” was once not something kids called themselves. The field exploded outwards from there – Level-Plane Records has always been the most famous Emo label. Acts like Yaphet Kotto, I Hate Myself, Saetia, Hot Cross, A Day In Black And White, Funeral Diner, I Would Set Myself On Fire For You, You And I, and hosts of others came in the next decade. Most emo bands have since broken up, but there’s still the occasional hold-out (again, the majority of Level-Plane Records’ roster has been a procession of emo acts). Like most DIY hardcore/punk of the time, a majority found its way onto vinyl and not much else. Some people consider bands like Fugazi, and later Sunny Day Real Estate, a progression of emo, but personally, I don’t quite follow that philosophy.

    Often, more recently, this gets intertwined with post-hardcore, and understandably so – that’s nothing to make an issue of, since well shit, at least it’s close.

    Since the late 90s, though, bands have been emerging in the vein of Taking Back Sunday, Dashboard Confessional, and the thousands of their clones. As far as I can tell, some lazy journalist somewhere, writing an article about them, decided “Well, crap, no one knows what emo is anyways, so I’ll call these bands “emo” – sounds more appealing than bubblegum pop rock…” and the spiral continued downwards into the current amalgomation of bands MTV has told everyone is “emo.”

    Somehow, people decided that “emo” meant “emotional,” which is obviously bullshit, as 99% of bands make music to illicit emotion, which would make “emotional” a completely all-encompassing genre from classical to opera to pop to rap.

    Hope that helps.

    Taking Back Sunday, Senses Fail, and My Chemical Romance falls under the “horrible pop rock” genre, not the emo genre.

    Rites of Spring is emo.

  • You aren’t emo, or even close. At least, from what I can tell. Here is a pretty good (long/thorough) view of emo- what it used to be, what it is now, etc. It’s really long, but really thorough on the many faces of “emo”- I’m sorry it’s that long but if you want a good definition this will help you understand.

    “Emo” has so many definitions, it’s hard to explain, and I don’t know where to begin. But as a teenager, I have a decent understanding of the whole idea. Urbandictionary.com definition #7 is very accurate about what it really is, but nowadays, it’s taken on a different meaning. Emo was a term coined as an insult, and if you really are emo you won’t be the first to label yourself that; maybe after lots of people have you’ll start saying you are too. It didn’t start out being short for “emotional” but the more recent kind of emo is beginning to mean that.

    When you see kids with band tees, girl’s jeans, hi-tops or checkered shoes, dyed-black or burgundy-brown-red hair (maybe with a blonde streak), thick black rimmed glasses, say “i hate my life and everyone hates me” all the time, want to commit suicide, bangs across your whole face, black eyeliner, listen to depressing music, a suit jacket/blazer and a scarf (plus they probably cut themselves)…that’s the stereotype of what emo kids are. Some of those kids really are emo, a lot are posers looking for attention. Emo, even genuine emo kids today, has become different than the #7 definition and now is closer to that stereotype. A lot of kids think they’re emo because they’re different, sensitive, and fall into some of those categories, when in reality they’re not emo at all.

    I have been considered emo even though I don’t really dress like that (though I am a lot of those, but not as a result of being “emo”). If you’re emo, you might have big problems in your life like depression, being different so people don’t like you, being really artsy/poetic so people think you’re gay, you really are gay/bisexual, parents don’t support you, etc. The problem is that a lot of people who call themselves emo live in a nice area, have money and a nice life, and really don’t have big problems, just little ones. But the conception of emo is so twisted nowadays that heck, everyone’s a little emo by the world’s many terms….

    I’ve been considered emo because of the way I look sometimes, the music I listen to, I’m really quiet, I’m an art kid, I write poetry, and so on and so forth. Plus, for the past year I’ve had problems with a guy friend that I won’t take 10 more pages to describe. So emo used to be totally and completely different from what it is now. I won’t even get into what is considered “emo” music…but if emo means emotional like people mistakenly believe, then all music is emo! Almost all people don’t understand it- someone called me emo because I changed my xanga colors to black and white to match my black and white icon (not emo). Emos are emotional, though, and usually open about that.

    So I hope that covers what emo generally means, what it is today, and how that all ties in together.

  • Emo = Bullshit

    It’s a simple as that.

  • emo is depressed. it is usually characterized by black clothes and horrible hair cuts that are sometimes dyed red and black. it is also a type of music that is somewhat depressing. no, you are not emo

  • I’m guilty for using the word “emo” far too much. Basically, whenever someone’s complaining to me about things that I don’t care about, I call them “emo.” I guess, my definition of emo is anyone who complains or acts depressed, not because they legitimately are, but because they want the attention of those around them.

    And those people should get eaten by bears. That’d give them something to cry about.

    Oh, and their music taste pretty much sucks balls as well.

  • Lol no you are not emo…. and the way I see it, emo kids are kids who are almost gothic, but they are even too depressed for that.

    I hope that doesn’t offend anyone… but anyone who actually has the nerve to label themselves emo, likes drama a little too much. After highschool, no one cares anymore anyway.

  • Yes I think you must learn the language. Besides being incredibly hard to live without knowing the language, I think it’s pretty rude. Though I would hope others would be patient because it can take a LONG time to learn a new language.
    No thoughts on the emo thing, though.

  • you are not emo!!!

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  • HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

    Trust me, you’re not even CLOSE to emo.

    The emo sterotype for men is: tight jeans, black eyeliner, thick black glasses, long-ish hair usually worn over one eye, a pessimistic outlook on life, and now for the emo(tional) part: they usually have xangas/myspaces/livejournals and they talk about how much they hate their life, write bad poetry, and talk about cutting themselves. However, I do know some people who just like the clothing style for some reason beyond me.

  • dan…hey this is my first comment. i have a question to ask you and a comment to a few of your past posts (i just found your page). can you email me at jcully5 at yahoo dot com?

  • lol- I can’t wait to read the answers people have given you about this, Dan.

    As usual, I can only speak from my personal perspective. I first heard about “emo” as a style of music, back in 2000 when I first went away to college. Back then the biggest emo band was a group called Sunny Day Real Estate and Further Seems Forever. Suddenly there was another “emo” guy, calling himself Dashboard Confessional. It evolved from there.

    Emo was a big deal in Nashville before it ever made it around the country like it is now. It caught me at a very opportunistic time because I had just gone through a bad break-up and lyrics like “as for now I’m gonna hear the saddest songs and sit alone and wonder how you’re making out? But as for me I wish that I was anywhere, with anyone, making out” rrrreeeeaaaallllllllly made sense!

    I ended up taking the emo thing into the next level- which was letting it infiltrate your lifestyle. I became “straightedge”. Straightedge was an emo trend for a while where kids took great pride in the fact that they did not drink, didn’t do drugs, didn’t take medicine (even asprin)- sort of like a thing where we don’t let anything foreign or harmful in our bodies because we’re already messed up (read: emo) enough. It was actually a pretty cool trend. I would actually say to people- “Sorry, I’m straightedge” and they knew what I meant.

    I didn’t last long with emo. 6 months max. At that point emo got pretty ridiculous and annoying. But to answer your question: NO. Dan, you are not emo!

  • I haven’t figured out what emo is.  I’ve heard of it but don’t know what it is.

  • Emo is short for emotional.

    It’s commonly referenced with “cutters” people who cut their bodies because they feel no one cares.

    Lots of emo people commit suiside.

    That’s all there is to know.

  • lol emo has lost its meaning by far..emo used to be the kids who didnt fit in,…the girls and guys with black hair and black glasses….white shirts with ties and band pins all over them…messenger bags and the like…that was before it was “cool” to be different…now if you listen to crappy bands like from first to last,your automatically considered emo…i think some unknown person said it best when they said “wheres waldo” was the original emo….its the damn truth….

  • From what my children call me, in the context, yes they say I’m emo, it means someone who is messed up, and emotional…..my daughter won’t tell me EXACTLY what it means but she continues to call me an Emo….she said if I knew I’d start using it and then it wouldn’t be cool anymore…**sigh**  Yes, Teenagers have their own language…’til the next

  • I have no idea what or who Emo is?

  • Are you emo? I have no clue because I have no clue what an emo is. LOL

  • wow, reading the definitions that people have been giving here is pretty entertaining. i think by this point you realize that emo is short for emotional, and you must also realize that you are not emo. i haven’t read every comment, because that would take forever (good luck), but i’ll try to add something to the definition i haven’t seen in the other comments yet. the world of emo is pretty inclusive. i say inclusive, because there is such a wide variety people, music, fashion, and attitude that is classified as emo. it makes sense, i suppose, seeing as how the name of the game is emotional, and there is such a wide variety of emotions. you have angry emos, who tend to wear a lot of black, have piercings, and listen to music that involves a lot of screaming. you have the sensitive emos, who tend to where either black with hot pink accents or more colorful (though rarely matching, mind you) outfits, and listen to music that involves less scremaing and more pleading or reminiscing (sp?). those are the two major groups of emos as far as i can tell. just a side note: a large majority of the emo population seems to be getting away from being emotional and getting closer to just being vain and self-pitying. while i actually enjoy a good deal of what would be considered emo music, i can’t help but think of all of the camera whore emos (see “featured content”) as being a collective narcissus in denial. they are what the “real emo kids” (quotations to show subjectivity) would call scene kids. scene kids: people who enjoy all of the superficial elements of any given scene without actually giving a crap about what lies at the core of said scene. perhaps the word “scene” deserves some disambiguation as well. a scene is just what it says–a scene, a setting. every musical genre has a general ambiance. that’s the best i can describe it all. sorry if it is still confusing, but it’s a strange world we live in.

  • haha… i’ll agree with “Black plastic glasses, tight “retro” shirts and women’s jeans, badly died hair, etc.  Poetry in a composition journal about frolicking in the moon light, that sort of thing.”  that’s exactly what emo is. emo bands are those bands that have songs about cutting themselves and having no life because their girlfriend left them. YOU ARE NOT EMO IN THE SLIGHTEST.

  • Nice…thanks to the person who listed urban dictionary…Thanks was very funny and also got me to learn how to add links into my posts. So Emo is the new goth? Or the new gay goth? Or the old gay goth that’s new in a “gay goth is so five minutes ago” type of way? I’ve learned something new. I guess this means that goth has become a large enough group to split off…

    I think this is why fads are so cyclical. I always had this theory that I called “smallest possible group” theory. I always figured that people had two competing drives: one to be accepted as part of the group, and another to be known as an individual. Where these two drives meet is your “smallest possible group”, that fulfills both your needs. When this group becomes too big, some members have to move on, either by picking new names, new interests, whatever.

    A buddy of mine and I came up with this while shooting the breeze around the indoor running track in college. We wondered why all the really good runners were wearing whatever, and all the bad runners were wearing all the coolest gear. Well, it might be that for the good runners, they didn’t need all that crap to put them in a small group…they were already smoking everyone’s butt on the track.

    Anyway, maybe that’s what’s going on…Goth is old, gay is too mainstream, so now gay goths just aren’t getting what they need from that so they need a new identity.

    Of course, that’s just my two cents…I could be completely wrong

    Kosovodad

  • A group of teens who all try desparately to be different from everyone else by the way they dress and look. The funny thing is, they all look alike. Kinda like how the goths wanted to be different, so they all dressed in black and somehow developed pastey white skin. I think emo is a goth with a different haircut, not so baggy clothes, and a different style of music.

    Identity crisis maybe?

    I dunno, when I was in high school you set yourself apart by being a goth or a skater. And if a guy wore womens jeans, well, I don’t have to tell you what “F” word would be directed towards them…

    Are these emo kids the ones who started the new “choking” game?

  • Ahh, thats it, attention seekers.

  • Feminized clueless – usually white - males thinking this is what feminist want men/boys to be. They are responding like Povlov’s dogs to a gender neutralized brainwashing in a postmodern world. A truly sad group of people. Perhaps creative but ultimately lost and depressed. I like some of the music but the cluture sickens me as bad as rap. You’re wearing girl pants you idiot. Get a clue!

  • I think youre finally wearing your commenters the fuck out.

  • are you emotional?

    then you are emo!

    you don’t have to dye your hair black and look sad all the time…

  • don’t really know … i just know you are not.

  • do you comment on other people’s sites?

  • If I moved to another country or culture, I would not expect them to speak English.  I would expect that I would have to learn their language if I wanted integrate myself into their culture.  I would be grateful for anyone who could speak English, but it would be a pleasant surprise.  I think that’s pretty much common sense.

  • Now I don’t have to ask… Thank you, Dan.

  • Well, I doubt you’re emo :) . But some people can be biased about people being “emo”….Me for an example…I’m told I’m ”emo”, because I’m so skinny and wear tight clothes. I just like wearing that stuff. I’m really big into hardcore bands and “emo” bands. Thus when I can, I buy my favorite band’s t-shirts….and most band t-shirts are black…thus I’m labeled “emo”. *shrugs* I can dress like it…but most people that really know me say that I’m not.

  • Its like emotional upchuck…same as expressionism in painting, only darker many times. I think emo might be very bipolar as well…perhaps.

  • some1 said ‘emo’ meant ‘emotional’.  from what i’ve seen on here, ‘emo’ to me means annoyingly moody.  w/ eyeliner.

  • maybe your not emo, but your questions are weird…

  • I don’t like how people label other people. i.e. emo, punk, thug.

    What ever happened to originality and simply just being you’re own stereotype.

  • Why, are you moving into Emo culture?

    You shouldn’t.

  • No, you’re more ‘elmo’. :)

  • you are truly a star sign up for neopets

  • I am also clueless what “emo” is.  Please let us know when you find out.  WOW I noticed a few people provided a dictionary link…how thoughtful

  • too much emo not good for anybody. for emo music, look no further than death cab for cutie.

  • that’s what emo is? god, it sounds so over-dramatic. and cutting is now trendy????? when the hell did that happen?

  • You are not even close to emo. Stereotypically, the emo guys like to wear tight women’s jeans. Lots of angled hair cuts that are overly dyed. Tight shirts are often worn as well. A lot of the time they write poetry, most of which is bad.

  • emo is a horrible term. emo means emotional. everyone’s fuckng emotional. i’m emotional. that doesn’t mean i wanna kill the world. what a baaaad name.

  • Wait. So know one can be “emotional” without being considered “emo?”

    haha. good lord. what would our ancestors think about us.

    this is stupid.

  • Thanks. I wondered what emo meant. I do know what the councelor types think that the word fine stands for………f.i.n.e. Fucked up, insecure, nerotic and emotional. So sorry…I heard that somewhere and had to laugh…”How are you feeling today Jane? “Fine.”" No no thats not acceptable, you know what we here in the group think of that word, don’t you?” “Now how are you feeling today Jane?” “Like slapping you silly!”

    I must say that you get more comments than even Dragon’s breath does. I changed his name slightly so as to not give him any ego juice.I like your site and questions and the comments you get.

  • Emo in my opinion is a mindset, a type of music, and a style of dress. The three usually go together. The emo mindset is “my life sucks, everyone hates me because i’m an individual” and etc. The music is many not-well-known bands that have whole CDs about breakups and heartbreak and etc. The lyrics are very deep. There are some mainstream emo bands but the underground scene is huge. The emo style of dress is, for guys, converse low-tops, girl pants, small t-shirts, and thick-rim glasses. But of course there are varying styles “emo” people. It also varies depending on where you live. But that’s just my opinion.

    No, Dan, you’re definitely not emo.

  • ussually people who criticize emo are the people who don’t really know what emo is or how it started. They simply do not have the taste for emo. Emo is a genre. And now is also a term used to describe someone who is emotional.

    If whining and complaining is all that emo is about then I guess we could call any genre of music emo. Country  for example is ( in my opinion) extremely whiney music . So are we going to call punk ,country, rap and Indie emo?

     It is a music genre wich branched out of the punk/hardcore scene. Emo is very melodic and poetic. Check out some bands like rites of spring or Christie front Drive. They don’t have to be complaining about something, they could be singing about anything.  emo is more of a  style of  music and singing than that of content.

    Rites of spring was very punk, yet they branched out by playing more technical, melodic guitar parts.

    By the way, the term emo  was something that started because sometimes lead singers would get so emotionaly involved in the performance that he might start crying while he was singing/ screaming.

    Christie front drive is another good example of emo , the vocalist would often not write down lyrics, he would simply sing what came to his mind based upon how he was feeling.

    Although this may sound silly there are some bands within this genre who do whine and sing about thier girlfriends breaking up with them. I have not encountered this much except for DAshboard confessional etc. Thus, those who have heard this music and found out it was emo figuired that emo must all be about the same thing…. upsetness and whining and girlfriends.

    and no you are not emo. :)

  • and by the way people… post hardcore is more about fashion and tight pants ,not as much emo. don’t get em confused

  • “Emo” is now used as a word used to define a style of mostly teenage culture, so to say. This “label” is usually defined as someone who is “non-conforming”, depressed/angry at most things, tells people about it, and there is a trend of self mutilation as well. The ironic thing is, these nonconformists tend to look as much alike as possible. Most are seen to have qualities of both males and females. Fashions conisist of tight clothing, mostly band tee’s and women’s pants, sometimes black nail polish, rimmed glasses with a certain shape, dark eyeliner around the eyes for both sexes, and a choppy, multi-tonal haircut that obscures almost all vision. The more blind, the better. More points if you cut your own hair.

    Now, I don’t see how this short word for emotional warped into this megatrend, but it did. And, I think it will be awhile before we see the end of it.

    [ariana]

  • Haha!  Emo is a yet another genre in today’s youth, to categorize people who are more “emotional” than their peers.

    And no.  You would not be classified as ‘emo.’  :P

  • Emo is either music or a hairstyle… NOT a way of life…

    To all those who call themselves emo… get over yourself…

  • “Emo” is not short for “Emotional.” “Emo” does not mean Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional, despite what MTV has lead you to believe in the last few years. “Emo” is not sidebangs, tight pants, and male vocalists who sing like little girls about their failed relationships. “Emo” is not the use of diluted, meaningless metaphors and similes such as “My arms are like pinecones,” and most definitely is not the rampant use of words such as “autumn,” “heart,” “knife,” “bleeding,” “leaves,” and “razorblade.”

    I just thought I’d clear that up after all of these “definitions” in which I have encountered an unbelievable amount of people who try to pass off their blatantly false pretenses as fact, and are slowly infecting others with their high-horse, holier-than-thou bullshit. Because honestly, with your ridiculous definitions, Beethoven, George Gershwin, and Britney Spears are/was “emo bands.”

    Now, onto the real definition.

    In the early 90s there was a movement in the hardcore genre that came to be known as “Emotive Hardcore,” spearheaded by Rites Of Spring. Harder-core-than-thou kids, who swore by Dischord Records a la Minor Threat, actually coined the term “Emo” as something of a put-down for the kids who really liked Rites Of Spring, Indian Summer and this new wave of “Emotive” Hardcore bands. That’s right, “Emo” was once not something kids called themselves. The field exploded outwards from there – Level-Plane Records has always been the most famous Emo label. Acts like Yaphet Kotto, I Hate Myself, Saetia, Hot Cross, A Day In Black And White, Funeral Diner, I Would Set Myself On Fire For You, You And I, and hosts of others came in the next decade. Most emo bands have since broken up, but there’s still the occasional hold-out (again, the majority of Level-Plane Records’ roster has been a procession of emo acts). Like most DIY hardcore/punk of the time, a majority found its way onto vinyl and not much else. Some people consider bands like Fugazi, and later Sunny Day Real Estate, a progression of emo, but personally, I don’t quite follow that philosophy.

    Often, more recently, this gets intertwined with post-hardcore, and understandably so – that’s nothing to make an issue of, since well shit, at least it’s close.

    Since the late 90s, though, bands have been emerging in the vein of Taking Back Sunday, Dashboard Confessional, and the thousands of their clones. As far as I can tell, some lazy journalist somewhere, writing an article about them, decided “Well, fuck, no one knows what emo is anyways, so I’ll call these bands “emo” – sounds more appealing than bubblegum pop rock…” and the spiral continued downwards into the current amalgomation of bands MTV has told everyone is “emo.”

    Somehow, people decided that “emo” meant “emotional,” which is obviously bullshit, as 99% of bands make music to illicit emotion, which would make “emotional” a completely all-encompassing genre from classical to opera to pop to rap.

    And you can be emo if you want to be. And stop the emo bashing. Let people be people.
    Hope that helps.

  • “Emo” is not short for “Emotional.” “Emo” does not mean Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional, despite what MTV has lead you to believe in the last few years. “Emo” is not sidebangs, tight pants, and male vocalists who sing like little girls about their failed relationships. “Emo” is not the use of diluted, meaningless metaphors and similes such as “My arms are like pinecones,” and most definitely is not the rampant use of words such as “autumn,” “heart,” “knife,” “bleeding,” “leaves,” and “razorblade.”

    I just thought I’d clear that up after all of these “definitions” in which I have encountered an unbelievable amount of people who try to pass off their blatantly false pretenses as fact, and are slowly infecting others with their high-horse, holier-than-thou bullshit. Because honestly, with your ridiculous definitions, Beethoven, George Gershwin, and Britney Spears are/was “emo bands.”

    Now, onto the real definition.

    In the early 90s there was a movement in the hardcore genre that came to be known as “Emotive Hardcore,” spearheaded by Rites Of Spring. Harder-core-than-thou kids, who swore by Dischord Records a la Minor Threat, actually coined the term “Emo” as something of a put-down for the kids who really liked Rites Of Spring, Indian Summer and this new wave of “Emotive” Hardcore bands. That’s right, “Emo” was once not something kids called themselves. The field exploded outwards from there – Level-Plane Records has always been the most famous Emo label. Acts like Yaphet Kotto, I Hate Myself, Saetia, Hot Cross, A Day In Black And White, Funeral Diner, I Would Set Myself On Fire For You, You And I, and hosts of others came in the next decade. Most emo bands have since broken up, but there’s still the occasional hold-out (again, the majority of Level-Plane Records’ roster has been a procession of emo acts). Like most DIY hardcore/punk of the time, a majority found its way onto vinyl and not much else. Some people consider bands like Fugazi, and later Sunny Day Real Estate, a progression of emo, but personally, I don’t quite follow that philosophy.

    Often, more recently, this gets intertwined with post-hardcore, and understandably so – that’s nothing to make an issue of, since well shit, at least it’s close.

    Since the late 90s, though, bands have been emerging in the vein of Taking Back Sunday, Dashboard Confessional, and the thousands of their clones. As far as I can tell, some lazy journalist somewhere, writing an article about them, decided “Well, fuck, no one knows what emo is anyways, so I’ll call these bands “emo” – sounds more appealing than bubblegum pop rock…” and the spiral continued downwards into the current amalgomation of bands MTV has told everyone is “emo.”

    Somehow, people decided that “emo” meant “emotional,” which is obviously bullshit, as 99% of bands make music to illicit emotion, which would make “emotional” a completely all-encompassing genre from classical to opera to pop to rap.
     
     
     
    Be emo if you want. Stop the emo bashing.Let people be people.
    Hope that helps.

  • I think emo was an attempt to be different from the norm… but it’s failing because so many people want to be different that they all wind up doing the sam ething, thus defeating the purpose.

    And by the way, you are not emo.

    I think you’re repeating yourself, Dan! I could swear you asked this before.

  • Also, I think Colored_shadow had a very good definition. Thanks dude.

  • emotional kids who cut themself because they are depressed. they go to a lot of shows && drink, do drugs, have sex. they don’t care what you think of them. they wear tight jeans && shirts && chucks && vans && dye their hair strange colors. they wear black rimmed glasses && listen to screamo && emo music. you are definitely not emo. people like to call me emo.

  • You have started so much emo bashing with your supposedly innocent questions. But no, you are not emo, as so many before me have assured you.

  • Emo is only a term used to decribe someone whos very emotional. But its been a bit transformed into a sterotypical ‘kid who cuts him self & cries all the time & is so so depressed.’
    I’m emo. & I dont cut/cry all the time/act depressed.
    It’s all in how you look at it.
    And nope… you’re sooo not emo =)

  • emo is an emotional punk and… idont realy know u but im pretty sure ur not emo…

  • heh..dan, you’re most definitely not emo. =]

  • emo is short for emotional.  it often includes a lot of depression, eyeliner, tight shirts, dyed hair, a lot of poetry.  whoop, poetry, see you DONT qualify… and i doubt you wear eyeliner

  • the way people describe emo is way not how it is. they’re describing the scene emos that people see. most emo people wear band shirts, tight jeans and stuff, but they aren’t whiny like people say. all it really is is an emotional side of punk.

    coming from an emo girl.

    ~Hillari

  • Emo means emotional.

    Some people say they hate emos and that is completely stubborn. Emos are confused about their purpose and place in life, along with other hardships. They don’t have to wear a certain thing to be emo, and I stand by that.

    Believe me.

    Oh and someone had said that Simple Plan is emo. I’m sorry but they are not emo. I have been a hard core SP fan. They write songs of teen angst, something everyone goes through not just “emo”s.

    -Ash

  • “Emo” is not short for “Emotional.” “Emo” does not mean Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional, despite what MTV has lead you to believe in the last few years. “Emo” is not sidebangs, tight pants, and male vocalists who sing like little girls about their failed relationships. “Emo” is not the use of diluted, meaningless metaphors and similes such as “My arms are like pinecones,” and most definitely is not the rampant use of words such as “autumn,” “heart,” “knife,” “bleeding,” “leaves,” and “razorblade.”

    I just thought I’d clear that up after all of these “definitions” in which I have encountered an unbelievable amount of people who try to pass off their blatantly false pretenses as fact, and are slowly infecting others with their high-horse, holier-than-thou bullshit. Because honestly, with your ridiculous definitions, Beethoven, George Gershwin, and Britney Spears are/was “emo bands.”

    Now, onto the real definition.

    In the early 90s there was a movement in the hardcore genre that came to be known as “Emotive Hardcore,” spearheaded by Rites Of Spring. Harder-core-than-thou kids, who swore by Dischord Records a la Minor Threat, actually coined the term “Emo” as something of a put-down for the kids who really liked Rites Of Spring, Indian Summer and this new wave of “Emotive” Hardcore bands. That’s right, “Emo” was once not something kids called themselves. The field exploded outwards from there – Level-Plane Records has always been the most famous Emo label. Acts like Yaphet Kotto, I Hate Myself, Saetia, Hot Cross, A Day In Black And White, Funeral Diner, I Would Set Myself On Fire For You, You And I, and hosts of others came in the next decade. Most emo bands have since broken up, but there’s still the occasional hold-out (again, the majority of Level-Plane Records’ roster has been a procession of emo acts). Like most DIY hardcore/punk of the time, a majority found its way onto vinyl and not much else. Some people consider bands like Fugazi, and later Sunny Day Real Estate, a progression of emo, but personally, I don’t quite follow that philosophy.

    Often, more recently, this gets intertwined with post-hardcore, and understandably so – that’s nothing to make an issue of, since well shit, at least it’s close.

    Since the late 90s, though, bands have been emerging in the vein of Taking Back Sunday, Dashboard Confessional, and the thousands of their clones. As far as I can tell, some lazy journalist somewhere, writing an article about them, decided “Well, fuck, no one knows what emo is anyways, so I’ll call these bands “emo” – sounds more appealing than bubblegum pop rock…” and the spiral continued downwards into the current amalgomation of bands MTV has told everyone is “emo.”

    Somehow, people decided that “emo” meant “emotional,” which is obviously bullshit, as 99% of bands make music to illicit emotion, which would make “emotional” a completely all-encompassing genre from classical to opera to pop to rap.

    Hope that helps.

    A special thanks goes out to urban dictionary.com, and my many friends who classify themselves as quote unquote “emo”

    -Jason-

  • Once again, in case you didn’t catch that, emo in NO WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM MEANS EMOTIONAL. Culture people, get a little..

  • Oooh, apparently im not the only one that jacked that from the urban dictionary website. Ont he other hand, i am the only one to cite it. Plagarism, gotta love it.

  • it is a fictional world in which people who choose to be part of the “Scene” whatever that means, live in. people who are emo feel emotional pretensiously a lot and this sub culture seems to be based mainly on who has to deal with the most emotional pain.

  • First off, after reading all of this, I have to say that I don’t agree with anyone. Yes, Emo is a style of music that developed in the early 90s that had very deep lyrics and many people think it’s all about “bad relationships” or how “life sucks” and “no one understands”. Many people do think that “emo” is short for “emotional”, and I kind of agree with that. However, I do not agree with it when people say “Emos are always depressed and they cut themselves and complain and cry all day long.” If “emo” truly does stand for “emotional”, then wouldn’t emos have to feel more then depression? And what’s with everyone saying that “most emos take anti-depressents”? I’m labeled emo, and I don’t. Nor have I ever. And I don’t cut because my “life sucks and no one understands.” I cut because I feel that it is my only way to relieve stress, despite what anyone says to me. And also, over the years people have associated it with guys being gay, wearing girl jeans, converses, thick rimmed glasses, dying their hair black and parting it to cover their face, but that’s just a sterotype. Maybe guys are gay because that’s how they feel about guys, and maybe they like tight pants and “guy pants” aren’t tight enough for them. Maybe the want their hair to be black, and maybe they like that hairstyle.

    One day at my school, a classmate and I decided to mess around and wear these masks that we had gotten from art. We wore them around the halls before last period, and as I was coming by one of the set of stairs, this guy came up to me and started screaming ‘EMO!’ in my face. A bunch of others joined, and they kept saying ‘Take the mask off, you emo!’.

    If you don’t mind, I would like to ask you a question; How does wearing a mask and enjoying oneself put them as emo?

  • You learn something new every day!  I thought you where talking about elmo!!!! lol

  • Emo, though originally shorthand for, “emotional,” is a fun state of being characterized by: bad poetry; worse music; tight clothes; black; eyeliner; cutting.

    You do not seem Emo. Trust me, I go to a public highschool…I know Emo.

    -Tori

  • emo= “slit my wrists and black my eyes” cause i have so many problems…

  • emo is most of the people on featured content these days.

    umm, you’re not emo.

  • Lmao you are the farthest from.

  • Most of the replies fucking make me sick.

    Emo is a type of music short for “emotional hardcore.”

  • here are the beloved lyrics of Adam and Andrew

    pretty self explanitory

    ”My life is spiraling downward. I couldn’t get enough money to go to the Blood Red Romance and Suffocate Me Dry concert. It sucks cause they play some of my favorite songs like “Stab My Heart Because I Love You” and “Rip Apart My Soul” and of course “Stabby Rip Stab Stab” And it doesn’t help that I couldn’t get my hair to do that flippy thing either…like that guy from that band can do….some days you know…”

    I’m an emo kid, non-conforming as can be
    You’d be non-conforming too if you look just like me
    I have paint on my nails and makeup on my face
    I’m almost emo enough to start shaving my legs
    Cause I feel real deep when dressing in drag
    I call it freedom of expression, most just call me a fag
    Our dudes look like chicks and chicks look like dykes
    Cause emo is one step below transvestite

    Stop my breathing and slit my throat
    I must be emo
    I don’t jump around when I go to shows
    I must be emo
    I’m dark and sensitive with low self esteem
    The way I dress makes everyday feel like Halloween
    I have no real problems but I like to make believe
    I stole my sister’s mascara now I’m grounded for a week
    Sulking and writing poetry are my hobbies
    I can’t get through a Hawthorne Heights album without sobbing
    Girls keep breaking up with me, it’s never any fun
    They say they already have a pussy, they don’t need another one

    Stop my breathing and slit my throat
    I must be emo
    I don’t jump around when I go to shows
    I must be emo
    Dye in my hair and polish on my toes
    I must be emo
    I play guitar and write suicide notes
    I must be emo

    ”My life is just a black abyss… ya know…it’s so dark. And it’s suffocating me, grabbing a hold of me and tightening its grip, tighter than a pair of my little sisters jeans…which look great on me by the way.”

    When I get depressed I cut my wrist in every direction
    Hearing songs about getting dumped gives me an erection
    I write in a live journal and wear thick rimmed glasses
    I tell my friends I bleed black and cry during classes
    I’m just a bad, cheap imitation of goth
    You can read me “Catcher in the Rye” and watch me jack off
    I wear skin tight clothes while hating my life
    If I said that I like girls I’d only be half right
    I look like I’m dead and dress like a homo
    I must be emo
    Screw XBox I play old school Nintendo
    I must be emo
    I like to whine and hate my parentals
    I must be emo
    Me and my friends all look like clones
    I must be emo

    ”My parents don’t get me ya know. They think I’m gay just because they saw me kiss a guy…well, a couple guys …but still, I mean it’s the 2000’s, can’t two…or 4 dudes make out with each other without being gay. I mean, chicks dig that kinda thing anyways. I don’t know diary, sometimes I think you are the only one that gets me…you’re my best friend. I feel like tacos.”

    -Jason-

  • emo= no hope for life. typically spoiled and makes up their problems. slitting own wrists is a common sign. bi-sexuality is another common sign.

    http://www.nearlygood.com/video/mustbeemo.html

    ^the song describes an emo, the pics were added later, but they kinda show what an emo looks like too

  • u are not emo lol

  • My friends and I have just come to associate the word emo with anyone self pitying. In fact, its been so overused, its more of a joke than anything else between us.

  • wow everybody forgot the other question yes i live in africa and i know for a fact its very importent when i was a preteen i thought africa was gay  and i hated it now that i am a little bit older i realize how much i missed not knowing the languege and you need to know coulture so you dont accidently offend

  • yes.  If I moved to France to live, I would do my best to learn French, or the same with Gremany or Mexico, or anywhere else.

  • emo people dont get 1000 of comments

  • Woah woaah what’s this bashing for? Some emo kids are cool. I mean, if you want to wear tight pants, that’s cool with me, do your thing, but not circulation-cut-off pants. That’s weird…

  • Plus, emo kids have really cool hair.

  • http://www.liquidgeneration.com/content/a55hat.aspx?cid=1808

    I suggest you listen to this song. its a parody of emos.

  • I find it curious how these people who spend 6 hours a day on the computer commenting on Xangas and whatnot are calling “emo people” messed up. Also, according to at least 80% of the comments, bands like Korn and Limp Bizkit are emo, along with Eminem. I happen to find their recordings “overly emotional” and “whiny”. The working definition I have come to recognize [past "emo" culture aside] is “emotionally charged punk rock” which to me separates Dashboard from Blink 182. It works for me and if you’re one of the four percent who hates the way MTV has changed the culture, I hate you too.

  • do you like green day? are you pierced? is your hair bright orange? is your hair black and spiked? do you hate your life? ARE YOU A PUNKIE? and the most important one- do you wear black eyeliner?   DO YOU LIKE GREEN DAY???? answer: yes, i love green day… but thats besides the piont, if u answered yes to 3 or more of those questions (besides do you like green day? cuz everyone duz), you are emo. if not, you are not emo. dan, why would you ask a stupid question like that… did your son start callin himself emo or something? i really don’t think an older man (i.e. you) would be emo. emo is more for teens who hang around on the street doing crack and pot and other crap which makes them feel like they hate themselves and the world. so i, dr.phil-bot v. 2.0, have come to a conclusion that you are not emo, dan.  

    *michelle* (a.k.a. dr.phil-bot v. 2.0)

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