June 14, 2011
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95 Reasons You Want to Be Sexually Harassed
A woman hit the lottery when she was sexually harassed by her boss. She was awarded $95 million for being sexually harassed at her job at Aaron’s Inc.
Her boss touched her inappropriately and then whacked her in the head with his penis. He then lifted her shirt and masturbated over her while holding her down. Here is the link: Link
If you were given $95 million, would you be willing to be sexually harassed for one day at work?
Comments (145)
YES!!!!
Did I just say that outloud…. Haha!
That’s a lot of fucking money.
Helll yeah. I got sexually harassed all the time by my gay boss. Wasn’t to that degree of course
Also. WTF!?!?
$95 million dollar is a lotda money !!
yes!
Someone come at me with their thing, and I don’t want it, they will lose it, they will need that money for the hospital
No. I’ve been sexually harassed. Yeah it’s not rape, but it traumatizes. I wouldn’t want to go through what I went through again. Especially since no one believed me and I got bullied for it. The person who did it got away with it and there is no change in his life whatsoever. I still have flashbacks and nightmares about it.
I’m gonna start doing things that get me harassed. I’d do awful things for $95,000,000.
that boss will make an excellent congressman.
HOLY FUCK that’s a lot of money.
That’s not sexual harassment; that’s sexual assault. Regardless, no. I can’t be bought. It’s called integrity. I can’t imagine telling my wife, “Hey, love, guess what? We’re rich, and all I had to do was let a guy touch me with his penis.” Yeah, not happening.
yes!.. depends on my mood looool
I cracked up at the sentence, “and then whacked her in the head with his penis”. Hahaha! Sure, I’d get whacked in the head with a penis for $95million.
Just sexually harrased? Fuck yes. I wouldn’t have sex with anyone, but I’d totally let them groupe whatever they want to.
Hell no…it’s different for me, if I were given this money I won’t accept a cent, I’d give it to a charity or something. That harassment described above sickens me….
Honestly… probably. That’s a lot of money, and I’d have a lot of emotional issues to put into my art.
That is so messed up. I don’t think that it is worth it, but that is still 95 million dollars. I would agree to it for that amount, and probably that amount only. I hope the guy got locked up though.
I was accused of this kind of harassment at work. Oddly, it was the bozo who wanted to move into my job who claimed it. The girl he claimed I harassed thought it was funny.
I feel bad for this girl. Granted she got a lot of money, but if it was indeed sexual harrassment that is so traumatizing.
no, too much pride.
Why ask willing if she didn’t seem willing… It says she was held down…
What I am curious about that they sued the company for not handling it, what about him? Did her get any charges again him; jail time, payment, anything. remember its the company that has to pay the money not the guy?????
I’ll let tyson beckford harrass me for free
or if I’m willing then it isn’t being harrassed, so that’s called mutual.
nasty boss who thinks he owns me, no way. I’d rather have my dignity
I’m sure the money would be good… but actually those 95 reasons would not be enough for me to be harassed and demeaned …. sorry…
“Sexual harassment” sounded like he called her baby or something. He forcibly held her down as he beat off, after pulling at her clothes. Disgusting.
@blessedheartbeat - Please go into details.
Honestly, I do think that sexual harrassment and abuse is a terrible thing, as someone who has been sexually abused in the past, but with $95 million and all the debts I could pay off for my family and myself I would consider it selfish not to allow some guy to grope me and put his penis on my face. It’s not like I’d have to sleep with him, so I wouldn’t have to worry about contracting disease or getting pregnant. While sexual harrasment is traumatizing in this scenario I assume I would be aware that he was going to do it, so in reality the question should be, “would you let some random guy put his penis on your face and touch your boobs for 95 mil?”
Sounds more like sexual assault, to me. I do feel bad for her, but I also think 95 mil is excessive. And, no, I wouldn’t want to be sexually assaulted, just to get a butt load of money. Sure, that nice sum of money would be wonderful, but not for what it would cost…
@RulerofMasons - No thanks
It depends on the degree of the sexual assault.
If you are sexually harassed and you allow it to happen to get the money, then you aren’t really being harassed are you? But, to answer the question, no, I wouldn’t put up with it for a day just for the money. I refuse to let somebody sexually objectify me for their own twisted purposes. I am better than that.
I don’t know. Can I just be harrased and not masturbated upon and get half?
I was at my best friend’s house. This was four years ago. We both walked out of his room, and I saw his mother’s tities. She left her door open. I saw quiet the treat, but I did felt bad for my friend.
Wow… that’s…. horrendous. I can’t imagine having that happen. Awful things happen in this world, $95 million would only be the very start of what this guy should pay up.
@nerdyveggiegirl - That’s what they call “giving someone a mushroom stamp”.
@grammarboy - LOL!!! but 95 million bux?! … you’re right, thought.
I don’t have the background to answer your question, could you ask someone else please…
this sounds a lot more like sexual assault than harassment… huge difference.
Yes. I’ve had worse done to me for free.
not if it meant that some guy was gonna jizz on me.
no i wouldn’t allow myself to be victimized for money.
@RulerofMasons - Don’t ever ask someone for the details of painful memories for your own amusement or curiosity. That is, at best, inconsiderate, and I’d be more likely to call it demented. Have some respect.
I’m a terrible person, I laughed.
Sure I would.
Sure.
@grammarboy - Yeah, I totally agree that was sexual assault! Sexual harassment is different.
I have been sexually harassed a lot. That was not sexual harassment, that was sexual assault.
The best weapon against sexual harassment is being better at sexually harassing them in return. But with sexual assault, I say hit them where it hurts and get as much money as you can. Imagine putting up with that at work, horrifying.
@grammarboy - She said something was done to her and did not specify, which only fuels my imagination. I’m guessing she was in mexico. The guy fondled and fingered. Let’s say she was old enough to have some breasts, 13. She hated every minute of it, he felt pig lust and satisfaction, as his thumbs grazed the nipple area. When he finished, her breasts were hard as diamonds and her crotch wet and juices flowing. Although she had to endure the harassment, her body responded and begged to differ. Althougj she had nightmares, the arousal caused her body to react, and in essence, she became a woman. You see? The best erotic literature can come from bad experiences if women can just move on and let go.
LOL hell yes! I’d build my homeless shelter. That’d be so cool.
@RulerofMasons - I’m sure she would feel differently about your conjecture. Please keep your imagination to yourself.
Hell no!.
You do realize she’s not getting all of that 95 million right? If she took him to court, then she’d have to pay her lawyer’s fees etc; She will still get a pretty penny of it though. I suggest putting it in the bank and letting it collect interest and living off interest ;P
Wow, sounds more like she was raped!
shit, man.
Id do it for a lot less!!!
also, that jury was obviously full of xanga users.
For those wondering why this is sexual harassment rather than sexual assault, keep in mind that the legal system is a little weird sometimes and isn’t always fair. Sexual harassment is a civil case while sexual assault is a criminal case. The burden of proof is a lot lighter in a civil case, and in matters like sexual assault, it often comes down to “he said, she said” in regards to proof. This is why a lot of rapes go unreported, or the rapists go unconvicted when they are charged. The woman in this case may have chosen to go the civil route since it made her more likely to win the case since there wasn’t enough proof for a criminal conviction.
that makes me want to puke…ugh how horrible that situation must have been for her.
Um….thats called rape, not harassment. That guy should be in jail and the company shouldn’t be held responsible for a whack job employee. 95 million? You’ve gotta be kidding me.
@Crono09 - Wow that’s ridiculous. So instead of the guy who perpetrated the incident getting in trouble, the company (who did nothing wrong as far as we know) gets the pain of it. Thats wrong huh?
$95 Million?! In a heartbeat.
Ummm seriously?! This is NOT harassment. It’s more like molestation. And no way would I let what happened to that woman happen to me for any amount of money. It’s traumatizing and can affect a persons life negatively for the rest of their life. I can’t even believe this is on here. And it’s even worse that it was written in a somewhat lighthearted, humorous way. It makes me sick.
Any chick that says no to 95 mil, is nuts!
first, I thought it is a joke….. the boss is somekinda monkey
Wowzers. Where I come from we call that rape.
I love how all the sluts out here are shouting “YES”! They’d do it. But then you spot their blogs and comments on another post crying about being raped up the ass.
Fucking whores, decide which side you’re on. Respect yourselves ladies, money isn’t worth your dignity.
@AlluringAddiction - What about Jim?
That’s not sexual harassment, that is sexual assault. No, I wouldn’t be willing to be demeaned and degraded for 95 million. Would I willingly let some guy hit me in the head with his penis?; that is a completely different story. 95 million is a lot of money and I am sure my hubby would forgive me for whoring myself out.
@Erika_Steele - well said.
@grammarboy - Thank you.
@RulerofMasons - And this is why I don’t talk to you.
definitely tempted…
@Yoru_Kendo - Yeah, that’s a flaw with the system. I doubt that the guy is getting away with it completely. If the company has any sense, they will fire him. However, he’s probably not getting the punishment he deserves.
Calm down, there’s no way she’s going to get the entire award. The article you linked says it will drop to $40M, and she will not get to keep all of it either. The jury’s process in determining this amount is actually pretty logical, but there are many things in place to bring the actual award way down. Anyway, it’s meant to be punitive so what do you expect?
To answer your question.. everyone has a price and my price is actually much lower than that, haha. So yeah, I’d endure it.
@blessedheartbeat - ok, time to get married so I can have the whole of you. Just kidding! I didn’t know what else to say, other than point out the obvious, we would have great sex together.
DAMN, that’s a lot of $$$.
AMERICA FUCK YEAH
All I got from this was, how can you whack someone on the head with their penis?
Unless it’s the size or the weight of a baseball bat (which I really doubt).
No human being deserves anything close to such humiliation- for ANY amount of money. Once she gets her final settlement, probably about $ 800,000, she will still be scarred for life.
She’s gorgeous. I think under different circumstances, I’d be on my knees.
Probably, That’s a lot of money …
That’s not “harassed”, that’s assaulted.
@Mangonese - thank you
For that kind of money, yes!
Hell, according to some people that get an outsider’s view of my job, they think verbal sexual harassment has already occurred … would that net me $47.5 million?
@omgroxie - @allieday - @love_and_blackberries - @foreverdiet - @dude_this_world_sux - @TiredSoVeryTired - @apb102088 - @rape_awareness - @randomneuralfirings - @Erika_Steele - @RighteousBruin -
@Hinase -
thank you
@RulerofMasons - that is such a fucked up thing to say… a 13 year old girl getting aroused from assault? first of all, i doubt that would happen, and second of all – yeah, you know what, sometimes bodies to react a certain way when they are manipulated. but just because someone’s nipple gets hard because a rapist was touching them there, DOESN’T MEAN that they enjoy it, OR THAT IT’S OKAY, AT ALL.
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can’t wait until you’re in dark alley and are fingered by some homeless
dude. i hope your cock gets hard when he grazes your nipple.
THIS IS SO FUCKED UP…
UGH…
the question totally makes light of this whole situation. the woman wasn’t responding to a question like, “if you were going to get sexually assaulted (and this IS an assault, not just a harrassment!!!) would you take $95 mil?” no, she was in a place of EMPLOYMENT, she was going in to do HER JOB, and then she was HELD DOWN AND JIZZED ON.
THAT IS NOT EVEN FUNNY… all the comments of “woah i would totally do that” are totally misguided and mistaken… she went through a trial not knowing if she would even win the case or not. did she know she was going to be awarded $95 mil? or any money at all? no! and you know what? who knows if she will ever feel safe at a workplace, or even any public place with men around, at all?
and to everyone who’s saying “she must have at least been flirting with him” – first off ACTUALLY WE DON’T KNOW THAT – and secondly, look up rape culture. this is the kind of mindset that blames the victim, not the assailant. it’s NOT the victims fault – the victim could be flirting and grinding on you – but if they SAY NO or STOP – IT MEANS NO AND FUCKING STOP!! the person who ASSAULTS, whether it be jizzing on you or raping you, IS THE PERSON TO BE BLAMED!!! flirting is NOT illegal – HOLDING DOWN SOMEONE, LIFTING THEIR SHIRT, AND EJACULATING ON SOMEONE, DESPITE THEIR PROTESTS, IS!!!!
@StorySeldomTold - @MommyMarty22 - @LyricallyCharged - @MyInfiniteEmptiness - @grammarboy - @blessedheartbeat - @escapist767 - and everyone else who said no… amen to that and thank you for taking this case seriously!!
especially to the point “If you were given $95 million, would you be willing to be sexually harassed for one day at work?”
WILLING? IF YOU’RE WILLING, IT’S NOT HARASSMENT OR ASSAULT. NOT EVEN CLOSE
THAT’S JUST A CONSENSUAL, PAID SEX ACT, LIKE PORNOGRAPHY OR PROSTITUTION.
DON’T EVEN COMPARE THAT TO THE ASSAULT THIS WOMAN WENT THROUGH!!!!
theologians cafe – pseudo-intellectual – the discussion you generate is zilch… why don’t you ask a more carefully crafted, thought-provoking question that actually prods to the real injustic??? all the people who are harassed or assaulted and aren’t awarded a single dollar, or are in fact made fun of and not taken seriously?? do you know that when police take notes for rape issues, they ask questions to the VICTIM such as what clothes they were wearing??? and they don’t ask questions like that to the assailant… as if it MATTERS what clothes the victim was wearing. he/she can wear a sexy dress or paper bag, it doesn’t matter, nobody has the right to RAPE them…
@doctortoolittle - No problem.
But I do have to point out that for collection of evidence purposes, I think it’s completely fine to ask a rape victim what clothes she was wearing. You can’t just assume she’s wearing the same clothes as when it happened, especially if she’s reporting it more than a few hours after it happened, right? There’s a good chance that evidence will be on whatever clothes she was wearing at the time of the attack. Making a point of blaming a victim for what clothes she was wearing is abhorrent, but I think in most cases, it’s justified to ask.
Depends on how the boss looks
Haha jk, and yes, I think I could tolerate that….
@godfatherofgreenbay - Or senator.
Absolutely not. People who have never been through that kind of trauma have no idea how incredibly damaging it is. People who HAVE been through it often don’t even know…until years later when they’re still suffering over it. No. I’d never go through that again.
Thanks but I’ll pass.
@Mangonese - that’s definitely true, asking to collect her clothes (for evidence) is justified if not required!
@doctortoolittle - No problem ;P
@blessedheartbeat - Me too. (hug)
@doctortoolittle - thank you for standing up for rape victims, and victims of sexual assault everywhere. you are a true everyday hero. one who is not afraid to speak the truth and stand up for those who are being attacked. You would think that after a rape or a sexual assault, the victims already been attacked enough, but then they are verbally attacked by the police and by society. i don’t know why society thinks that it’s always the victims fault. but that blame only applies to sexual attacks. in murder is it the victims fault? no! it’s the murderer’s fault. but society pretty much murders these victims of sexual attacks by the way they treat them and react to their stories. its terrible.
@Crono09 - You’re right about that. One of my good friends now has a civil case against his assailants that consists of a manager and waiters of a Restaurant. While he was trying to get things started against them, he at first was filing for a criminal case against them. He was being discriminated by the waiters on the first time he visited the Restaurant. He was forced to leave without any reason at all and he wanted no trouble and left peacefully. Nearly a month later, he walked past the restaurant nearly on closing time and the same waiters who forced him to leave from before were outside the restaurant taking a break, saw him and harassed him, verbally. My friend only walked by there, because, as usual, he lives about 4 blocks away from the Restaurant and that’s how he returns from work.
He went inside the Restaurant to complain to the manager about these waiters and both the manager and waiters jumped on my friend and wanted to beat him to death. My friend defended himself and well, it was very terrible. To pursue justice, he thought filing a criminal case was the correct thing to do, but as you pointed out, proving who is truly guilty of the crime is very difficult in a criminal case and him trying to find a lawyer for this case was impossible. One lawyer even told him to pick up a gun and kill those guys. He had been able to take them to municipal, and the judge was paid off obviously, believe me, from what my friend endured, you’d think this is from a movie but this judge really acted in favor of the scumbags and treated my friend badly brushing off his side of the story and the evidence. However, thankfully, my friend had done more research and realized he should pursue this as a civil case and in a superior court where it’s all Federal. These a-holes can’t easily pay off a Federal judge, my friend realized, and he’s right.
I think that criminal matter is more for when there was a murder or attempted murder and not on crimes where no one was even close to being murdered regardless of having some physical harm done to them.
But either way, thanks to going the civil case route, my friend is succeeding and his assailants are now suffering and have made dumb mistakes, further vindicating him. The status is that the Restaurant is close to shutting down now, those waiters that attacked him have been fired, and the manager had been replaced a few months ago and opened up his own restaurant elsewhere(I think I know why). We know that they won’t escape, no matter what. When it comes to the law, and one wants to pursue a case, a lot of careful research and reading between the lines is a must. We found out the hard way, perhaps the rape victim in this article also found out the same way. As does mostly anyone else that wants justice.
@RulerofMasons - Okay, so your imagination was fueled by a comment on here. But your imagination went straight to a 13 year old girl being raped? You say the being raped at 13 makes her into a woman? I bet you got off on that comment too, which is just as bad as child porn. And thinking like that with that age in mind makes you a pedophile. I can’t believe that making up stories about the rape of a 13 year old girl is what you call erotic literature. And you do realize that the comment you made was made off of someone’s painful memories right? So you pretty much told that woman that you imagined her getting raped. I’m sure that traumatized her just like whatever actually happened to her did. And rape isn’t something we can just let go of and move on. It permanently scars us.
That’s not harassment! That’s worse. And hell no.
No. Why would anyone agree to the situation this woman was in for any amount of money? It’s scary. Especially if he was holding her down – he could have done anything and no amount of money is worth sexual assault or further, rape.
Also, $95,000,000… what a disgusting amount of money. Yes, obviously what he did goes beyond what we usually think of as sexual harrassment – it’s assault! – and she should get a lot of compensation for it… but that is too much. They should have given her something like $1,000,000 and made the company donate that huge amount of money to a charity like women’s refuge and such. That would have said a lot more.
@lifeonacitybusem4 - thanks for that – I really thought 95 mil was an exaggeration at first ha. Makes sense that they’d be negotiating the amount now.
@RulerofMasons - What the hell is wrong with you? >_>
a big “wow” to all the women who would be willing to subject themselves to the unwanted advances of a person(s) in exchange for large sum of money.
have you no self-worth? actually, you do. it just happens to be in the millions. and you’re willing to degrade yourself to get it.
in other words, you’re doing it the sleazy and cheap way. a common prostitute or hooker. i’m glad you women are still classy.
also, not to burst people’s bubbles here but the plaintiff won’t get $95 million.aaron’s is going to appeal and probably pay off a lesser settlement. let’s say she gets about 75% of it which is roughly… $72mil.then she’ll have to pay off her lawyers which would amount to roughly half of that… now $36 mil.then she’ll have to pay taxes … now $17 mil.
so yes… $17 mil is a lot of money but now you’re the infamous woman who managed to sue a corporation because you allowed a guy to slap his penis on your head/face/etc.
way to asterisk that settlement. with a penis on top of your money.
@misslei11 - nothing.
No way dude. That’s disgusting. There are other ways of getting money without being traumatized.
@blessedheartbeat - You’re welcome.
@BloodIsLove - Well no it’s not really a matter of negotiating. In civil cases like this one there are many types of damages. The bulk of this money is probably punitive damages which means that they’re requiring the company to pay this money to punish the company – so it has nothing to do with the woman at all. She just gets to benefit from their punishment because the wrong happened to her.
The reason the amount is going to drop so much is because the judge can lower the amount based on laws that will sometimes put caps on the amount of punitive damages that can be awarded. And also there are some laws in place that will take a large fraction of the award from the woman and give it to the local government.
@doctortoolittle - While your comments are exactly right, I have to wonder why you come to this site looking for reasonable, responsible adult discussion, and why you’re surprised that you don’t find it here. I’d have to assume that you’ve never visited the theologian before.
@allieday - we spoke in private. You told me you deserve to be punished by aggressive men. For being weak you must endure male aggression. How can you accept masochism, and then be scarred by it? Makes no sense! How can something that is making you stronger, be a burden? Sens this message to all your little friends who were raped. Move on! It really isn’t that bad. To be raped can be a blessing in disguise, but little girls like you have to cry about it and become lesbians.
@RulerofMasons - I don’t know what your issue is, but you should know that if you continue making comments like the ones I’ve seen from you, you’ll end up banned. More importantly, your words have real consequences. You hurt people. Even if you’re a sociopath and don’t care about them, you should fear for you soul. I’ll pray for you.
@grammarboy - I know you wish ill of me, but I will speak the truth to the grave.
@RulerofMasons - First of all, I don’t wish ill of you. You make me angry and concerned on behalf of the people whom you’ve hurt with your words, but I want only the best for you. I warned you for your sake, not mine. I genuinely hope and pray that you will come to know a true, heart-changing love and learn the error of your ways. I don’t want you to die alone and miserable to much applause, but you will if you go on like this. Turn your life around while you still can.
Secondly, the things you say are not truth by any stretch of the imagination. I’d say you can ask anyone whether the things you’ve said about them have been accurate, but at this point, I don’t advise you to say a word to anyone except in repentance.
Hmm… probably… I mean, damn… 95,000,000… That’s a lot of zeroes!
If I knew I was getting $95 million from it? He could whack me anywhere he wanted with is penis. LOL.
@RulerofMasons - I NEVER said the I deserve to be punished by aggressive men. I didn’t deserve what happened to me at all. I can accept the bad things happen in my life and I can handle the pain that goes along with those things. However, nobody DESERVES to get hurt, ever. Especially not the innocent victims of rape and sexual assault. I am not a masochist because I neither want, need or enjoy pain in any aspect of my life. All of my little friends who have been raped? 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men in the United States alone will be raped, sexually abused or assaulted in their lifetime. So I send this message to them: it’s not their fault. They need not beat themselves up over something they could not have stopped. they were hurt as a direct result of another person’s actions. I sincerely hope that some day you will understand that your words can cause scars that are already there to become deeper ad you cause new ones. I don’t know if you enjoy hurting people, but you do and it really needs to stop, I am strong, because I know I have a support system. And being raped isn’t that bad? It causes physical, mental, and emotional harm that stays with a person the rest of their lives. They endure the flashbacks, the nightmares, the trials, the fears, the inability to function for some time, the loss of control and having something taken from them in such a manner by the way is illegal.
I got hung up on the phrase “whacked her on the head with his penis.” Really? Is that a Thing to do now?
Harass me all you want – I want that money!
oh geez….
I was sexually harassed by a male juvenile who openly grabbed my penis while I was at work in the middle of CVS. They did not believe and did nothing and the fact no jury would ever believe me because I am 6’10″ and the kid was a a16 year old who was about 5’8″ and even a detective that no jury in the real world is going to ever believe that this jackass is ever going to believe that I got sexually harassed even the detectives believed me because they knew both of us and they he is a jerk-offf who would do something like that to co-work. So the onluy that came out of my sexual harassment was I got my apartment by the same jack ass and his friends 4 times. Being tall or being out of the ordinary in any way shape or form really sucks in this country so she deserves whatever she can get and no I would not do not my self rspect is more important than money is. Money comes….money goes…and it causes trouble your self respect does not and is more important.
@allieday - please forgive me.
My answer to your question is FUCK YES.
But lets say i was talking to my friend Bob about something inappropriate and someone away from us yet close enough to hear heard. They would have the right to file a report on us harassing them. That to me, is extremely stupid.
hell yes! I slipped in my parking garage and tore my hamstring off my pelvic bone (completely). my goal is to gross $1,000,0000 . But I would definitely take a penis in the head for $95M!!!! I’m still in pain 6 months later, I almost committed suicide 3mths post-op, and my ass looks like shit from the operative scar that will never go away. What’s her claim to $95M? geeze…..
can we have a little respect for the victim and not act like she won some sort of lottery because she was sexually harassed?
@RulerofMasons - comments like yours to whoever you were talking to on here remind me of the movie “Taken.”
“If you let my daughter go now, that’ll be the end of it. I will not
look for you, I will not pursue you. But if you don’t, I will look for
you, I will find you, and I will kill you.”
That’s how I feel about people who troll rape survivors/people who know rape survivors.
I would never allow anyone to sexually harass me, no matter how much money they offered me. Sexual harassment/abuse/rape is not a laughing matter. The guilt, shame, and pain run much deeper than $95 million dollars.
@ScarletMoth - If you have never been raped, do not get involved.
@blessedheartbeat - That’s terrible.
Maybe you shouldn’t have led him on
Sexual harassment is what you call civil description of this nature. Sexual assault is what you call the criminal description of this nature.
Would you be okay with your boss sexually assaulting you for $95 million? Would that make everything better in your world? Let me tell you, I had to deal with this and only addressed it on the employment level, but a year and a half later it’s still hard deal with what happened. I don’t know that the money would more than distract me. Distraction is not the same as healing.
@grammarboy - @allieday - @ScarletMoth - Disregard rulerofmasons. He’s a wannabe troll.
@RulerofMasons - an asshole to one is an asshole to all.
@QuantumStorm - I know he has to be a troll but… even at that level, why would someone do that? Even if you don’t actually believe it, saying shit like that to rape survivors is incredibly cruel. Joke or not, statement like that feel real. Uguhghhgh
no thanks. the humiliation and embarrassment can’t be erased by a large sum of money. n it’ll stay with you for the rest of your life.
@RulerofMasons - I already have. I don’t hold grudges against anyone, even those people who made my life hell. I just hope that you try to be a little more sensitive in the future.
uh, no way.
@blonde_apocalypse - you’re putting words in my mouth… i didn’t come here LOOKING for responsible conversation, it was just on the xanga homepage and i clicked it because i was outraged and had to speak my mind… i was hoping the comments at least would be better than the article. i’m not SURPRISED, per se, i just think it’s so outrageous that this xanga would call itself the theologian’s cafe, especially after seeing this article.
but thanks for the support. some of these comments are obviously trolling (RulerofMasons – really?!) but others are totally serious
it just disheartens me…
@doctortoolittle - it’s rare to find anything other than the lowest common denominator on this page.
Don’t encourage it. Women will entrap innocent men to get that money and those who intentionally assault will continue to do as they do. An innocent man is led to believe a woman is interested, until he drops his guard and makes a move that typically gets the girl for suave guys, then BAM, law suit, jail time and jobless for life. I wonder if there’s a good resource for people who can’t figure whether they’re being led into a trap by the other person or (s)he’s really is interested but is being used to trap (to get rid of / profit from) them.
First, as other people have commented, this sounds like assault. Second, the question at the end – “If you were given $95 million, would you be willing to be sexually harassed for one day at work?” – is offensive and misleading, as if the sexual assault in this case was some deal that the victim struck willingly for profit. From all indications (i.e. the fact that she was held down) nobody asked her if this was a tradeoff she was willing to make.
@jasonwl - If women are so interested in entrapping men into sexual harassment cases, why are less than 10% of sexual assaults reported?
@Diana - It could be just to mess up his head so he sleeps less and less, goes nuts trying to figure out the truth of things (based on loads of conflicting advice by a lot of people), and just loses performance until he gets fired for that. Then he’s traumatized until he’s been out of work too long for anyone he can afford to report to work for to want to hire him. But it is also conceivable that in some of the reported cases it was entrapment, because it was a convenient way to extort money from his employer.
@blessedheartbeat - castration is recommended in this case.
Does everyone else actually believe this story? Granted, it COULD have happened, but it still sounds pretty far-fetched.
@RulerofMasons - So you’ve been raped? Moron.
That boss should be in prison for sexual assault.
No, I wouldn’t. I’ve been a few times, the pain and stuff… ugh. No thank you. and I don’t think being paid some money will make me feel any “better” about what happened. Let alone having to explain it to whom ever I marry or move in with? No thank you. I could be poor, but my self worth still means something to me. c:
@RulerofMasons - Shut your fuckin face. Your completely don’t understand what its like. and to pick at it, it proves your really kind of disgusting. And I can’t believe you felt like you needed to explain what you think happened to her. I’m sure, 100% sure she knows what happened, and its her choose to share, but you don’t need to add your “I think i know” bit.
Please don’t share your horny ass wet dreams, Leave them to yourself. =) thank you.
Absolutely! It’s a lot of money, so technically she will never have to work again. However, she will have to deal with the emotional outcome of what has happened, probably spending the majority of that money on therapy and future rehab. Like they say money can’t buy happines, but it is a good down payment.
No. Afterwards you are probably rich but broken.
It may not be a fully reliable source, but if you check wikipedia and search AFI’s best female actor list, you’ll find out that a lot of them had been molested, or abused. But I wonder if everyday they keep wishing that they can trade all their fame and achievements to not be abused.
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OMFG LET’S ALL LIKE GIVE UP OUR RIGHTS TO OUR BODIES LOLOLOL! So stupid to say yes, why would you? Absolutely ridiculous that as women we are not supporting this woman but wishing we were in her place. That is disgusting.