I must admit that I sort of just pick my friends.  I am sure my friends feel like they pick me.  But I feel even more that I pick my friends.

I try to avoid people who are constantly dealing with conflict of their own making.  I want my friends to be loyal.  I want to believe my friends will be friends for life.

So I start slowly.  I just talk with them.  I go back and forth and just talk over a period of time.  I trust them slowly.  I shared things slowly.  I watch how they treat their other friends.  I am convinced that if a person can’t be loyal to their other friends, he/she will never be loyal to me.

So full friendship with me takes time.  Sometimes it takes years.  I refuse to make friendships because I am feeling needy.  That would cause someone potentially bad to pick me.  So I wait.

I must admit that one of the biggest disappointments for me personally, is if I pick the wrong friend.’

Do you pick friends or do they tend to pick you?

I found this idea on fark.com

I would rather be hugged than kissed.

Would you rather be hugged or kissed?

Have you noticed that less people are wearing a watch?  With cell phones and smart phones, we really don’t need a watch anymore.

Do you wear a watch?

ShimmerBodyCream and I are trying to plan the ultimate xanga meetup.  But we need your help in trying to find the best idea of what to do at the xanga meetup.  It is one of those situations where you have a few good ideas but you want to pick the best.

1.  Dwarf Tossing.

2.  420 Meetup:  We would take ecstasy and then video tape the event.  (I will not say who inspired this idea.  Here is the link:  LoveJenny).

3.  Nude Beach

Which one would you like to participate in?

Now imagine your 16 year old daughter told you she was pregnant.

You talked it over with her and she said she just does not want to have the baby.

Would you drive her to the abortion clinic?

The ex-wife of presidential candidate Newt Gingrich told a reporter in an interview that Newt wanted her to have a threesome with another woman while he was married to her.  Here is the link:  Link

(He sort of has that, “I am fat and ugly but I still have the audacity to ask for a threesome” look on his face).

Would you be angry if your spouse asked you for a threesome?
                                        
                                                               

We are working on an important project at work.  We decided that we would manipulate the votes on a hottie contest that is being held on a large local website.

It was my idea.  I thought it would be fun to create thousands of votes for a random woman.  So we picked a woman we knew and asked her to wear a bikini and take a few photos and we would help her win the contest.

Our thinking is that we can take a fairly plain woman, put her in a bikini and get her enough votes that she jumps into the top group.  Then my thinking is that once she is in the top group, that because she looks fairly neutral and the fact that other people were voting for her would cause other people to vote for her too even after we stopped manipulating the vote.

The funny thing is that every woman that heard the idea, wanted to be in the contest.

Would you want to win a beauty contest that was manipulated by a few nerds (cool guys)?

You must pick one of them.

1.  Falling from a skyscraper.

2.  Drowning

3.  Decapitation

Which way would you want to die?

The New York Giants just won and now they are going to play in the Super Bowl against the New England Patriots.

Which team do you like for the Super Bowl, New England Patriots or the New York Giants?
                
                                                                                                   

My wife dyed her hair today.  It sort of has this very light redish tint to it now.

What hair color works best for you?