But, nah. I don’t expect it all the time, but one would think most people would enjoy sex a couple times a week. At least. Why is that such a big deal? I can’t figure it out!
1-3 times a week.
Seems like the honest thing to do.
I don’t really expect it a certain number of times or even a range of times. I don’t know what my moods will be.
As often as ether I or my husband want sex. Hell if I know how many times in a year that is, and it would be weird if i did know a precise number. Its a lot
want: 700x would be nice. expect: sigh… 10?
Every day…and 300 times in a year is less than that…
Lets see, m Viagra cost 8.00 per pill, so i’d say i/2 time cuz all I gots is 4 bucks
Hubby says everyday if we could but it’s more or less 1-2 times a week, with some gaps in between during really busy weeks.
Never thought about it. I think if I were in a relationship, I’d want a lot of sex once I felt ready, but I wouldn’t want to set a quota, since I think that’s putting a lot of pressure on my partner, especially on the third date. I’d rather just go with the flow.
Honestly, I’d prefer to know this before we begin dating rather than be surprised after the fact.
Also, yeah. At least he wants to have sex. I think it must be equally upsetting, but more expected when a woman doesn’t want sex, but there’s nothing like feeling so undesirable that your boyfriend/husband/whatever doesn’t want it.Feel special.
100 would be a good number…
Maybe the third date was a little soon to discuss it but I think it is a good thing to discuss. I would like sex about three -four times a week if I had my way.
Ideally, if the world were a perfect place, every day twice a day. With how many factors work against us in life though, it’s an unpredictable question to answer.
Strange..but why counting yearly…and not by month or week…
i don’t necessarily have expectations. i would prefer it every day, with perhaps a few exceptions.
Man says: “So yeah…I expect to have sex like, 300 times a year. Just so you know.”
Me: “That’s cool. Good luck with that. So…hows the pasta?”
I don’t settle for any less than 300 times a month.
Me myself, I realistically expect to have sex 3-4 times a week I think… But if I could have it as much as I wanted, it would be more like 5 or 7 lol
Depends on if you’re asking a mother of a young child or a childless mother. Whether “childless” means the kids are all grown. or perhaps the kids still live at home. Either way, an older guy’s dick goes soft eventually. The older women commenting are proof of that. Either they’re single, or are in a sexually stale marriage.
every other day.. but that could just be cause for 3.5yrs we have been ttc .. you think sex would be easy but its exhausting when your trying to conceive
I’m insatiable. AS MUCH AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE
expect zero, ready to give about 26. I wouldn’t mind someone being direct, I’d just laugh and directly tell him that it won’t work out.
i mean i don’t have an exact number…..LOL. but i do expect it often. like…once a week (recurring) to once every few weeks just won’t work for me.
What is frustrating is, when you are enjoying sex with your spouse 3-4 times a week, and after the baby is born, she tells you “no more. My body belongs to the baby now, hands off.” And means it. I didn’t get married to be celibate. When you go from 3-4 times a week to 3-4 times a year, and she is complaining and bitching about even that…”oh God, just get it over with…” worked with counselors for over 10 years before I threw in the towel. Now I enjoy several friends with benefits…although I would rather have had my spouse… =/
It’s crazy how many people comment and say that it’s usually the women who stop wanting sex as much, and yet I see so many women on here saying they want it realistically at least once a week if not more. After we had our son, I wanted sex just as much as ever, I even broke the six week rule and we did it, carefully, after 2 weeks. Right now, with me being super pregnant, I don’t want it as much since I’m often uncomfortable or exhausted, but I do still want to have sex at least once a week. But honestly I’m lucky if I get that. Idk what exactly has changed, but my bf doesn’t have the drive that he used to, and he never tries, I’m always the one to start things. And he doesn’t ever say no or anything, but it really does a number on my self-esteem that he doesn’t try anymore. We’re still young, I’m 21 and he’s 25..so idk. I’m sure getting off drugs could be a factor in it. And maybe the fact that I’m pregnant makes him less attracted, but it didn’t seem to the first time I was, and my body is still the same just excluding the belly. It’s truly frustrating, but I can see why a guy would want to let a woman know his expectations, and vice versa. It doesn’t always go according to plan, and things do get in the way, but it’s a conversation that any serious couple should have. And realistically, when I am not pregnant and life is running smoothly, I like to have sex 3 to 4 times a week.
Here’s what I think. We all want sex frequently but real life gets in the way. For two people’s desire’s to connect take some planning and preparation which is often initiated by one person. Eventually that one person gets tired of doing the arranging and just does it less often. Ritual and habit can become the signal and present the opportunity to get it – like doing it on the weekends only,plus special occasions, plus vacations etc.
OVER 9000
… uh, not sure over what time span hahaha
I like sex 3 or 4 times a week. My last boyfriend was fine with it once every two weeks. I really missed it, but i got used to it. If I get involved again, I’ll want it with a man who is interested and capable of having it more often. I didn’t realize, until I was in that situation, what a big deal it was for me.
Dunno. The husband and I are together four days a week (we work 24 hour shifts for different companies) and usually engage in some sort of sexual activity 2-9 times a day… So, a lot more than 300? But what are we counting as sex? Penetration only? Naked fondling that leads to orgasms? Blow jobs?
I would certainly expect it more than that!
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I’m only 16 so…none.
Why wouldn’t a women love a guy that wants to have sex 300 times a year?
The author states she caught her ex-husband cheating, which makes me wonder if she’s a prude that drove her ex-husband to cheat or otherwise.
963 times a day. Anything less is just unacceptable.
@MommaFish89 - recently was alot of fun! ^-^ Good ol’ Sex-tember.
as many times as its meant to happen, AFTER MARRIAGE!
Zero. Nil. Zilch.
12.
Not had sex yet. Never had a girlfriend yet.
M probably wanted me to have sex with her, she wanted to marry me,
(N probably did and F maybe both wanted to date me)
300 times a year? Yes please! I’d gladly give my hubby sex that often! He’s pretty freakin’ fantastic, we have a “sex is unconditional” policy in our marriage Right now I’d say average 4 times per week. 300 times a year works out to about 6 times a week. Sounds like a plan
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so if he had sex 10 times a day for 30 days, he’s good for the year?
It seems that everyone wants to have sex based on the comments so why get upset if someone wants to be direct?
Sounds about right
@EmilyandAtticus - You women exist for people like him. It is why there are TWO sexes.
I don’t have a specific number in mind… but 3 times a day sounds good. That’s like…1000 something a year. Giving allowance for sick days. Haha.
I have no idea. It has been so long since I had sex that I’ve forgotten who gets tied up.
Few times a week.
3 times a day… that covers breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Snacks are a bonus.
@EmilyandAtticus - I only date when I am horny. I actually do not believe in dates. They are only a game played in the hopes SOMEONE gets laid. I like to get right to it. It’s why prostitutes exist.
A rule of thumb seems to be that if you put a penny in the jar each time you have sex during your first year of marriage, it will take you about a decade to match the number after that. I can attest that that is not true. Love builds – doesn’t decrease, and neither does frequency until pretty extreme old age
I’m a guy and 300 times a year is way too much for me so… no.
I’d like sex whenever I’m in the mood for it. That being said, it’s happened about twice this year. Most the time I’m pretty disinterested.
Only for a year or for a lifetime ? I recommend TiredSoVeryTired‘s post.Φ≡
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At this point, just once would be good! lol
But, nah. I don’t expect it all the time, but one would think most people would enjoy sex a couple times a week. At least. Why is that such a big deal? I can’t figure it out!
1-3 times a week.
Seems like the honest thing to do.
I don’t really expect it a certain number of times or even a range of times. I don’t know what my moods will be.
As often as ether I or my husband want sex. Hell if I know how many times in a year that is, and it would be weird if i did know a precise number. Its a lot
want: 700x would be nice. expect: sigh… 10?
Every day…and 300 times in a year is less than that…
I read the article. Charming guy lol.
1000
Most people wouldn’t believe my answer. ::sigh::
@Shadowrunner81 - lets hear it! this is the INTERNET.
0. Virgin for life -_-
lol Well, I have forgotten what sex even is!
1,095 would be ideal…if I did the math right. Lol
Lets see, m Viagra cost 8.00 per pill, so i’d say i/2 time cuz all I gots is 4 bucks
Hubby says everyday if we could but it’s more or less 1-2 times a week, with some gaps in between during really busy weeks.
Never thought about it. I think if I were in a relationship, I’d want a lot of sex once I felt ready, but I wouldn’t want to set a quota, since I think that’s putting a lot of pressure on my partner, especially on the third date. I’d rather just go with the flow.
A few times a week sounds good.
@Babieboo_Annie - LOL. That’s… a lot of exercise.
Honestly, I’d prefer to know this before we begin dating rather than be surprised after the fact.
Also, yeah. At least he wants to have sex. I think it must be equally upsetting, but more expected when a woman doesn’t want sex, but there’s nothing like feeling so undesirable that your boyfriend/husband/whatever doesn’t want it.Feel special.
100 would be a good number…
Maybe the third date was a little soon to discuss it but I think it is a good thing to discuss.
I would like sex about three -four times a week if I had my way.
Ideally, if the world were a perfect place, every day twice a day. With how many factors work against us in life though, it’s an unpredictable question to answer.
Strange..but why counting yearly…and not by month or week…
i don’t necessarily have expectations. i would prefer it every day, with perhaps a few exceptions.
Man says: “So yeah…I expect to have sex like, 300 times a year. Just so you know.”
Me: “That’s cool. Good luck with that. So…hows the pasta?”
I don’t settle for any less than 300 times a month.
@Shy___Away - Way to go! lol
Me myself, I realistically expect to have sex 3-4 times a week I think… But if I could have it as much as I wanted, it would be more like 5 or 7 lol
Depends on if you’re asking a mother of a young child or a childless mother. Whether “childless” means the kids are all grown. or perhaps the kids still live at home. Either way, an older guy’s dick goes soft eventually. The older women commenting are proof of that. Either they’re single, or are in a sexually stale marriage.
every other day.. but that could just be cause for 3.5yrs we have been ttc .. you think sex would be easy but its exhausting when your trying to conceive
I’m insatiable. AS MUCH AS HUMANLY POSSIBLE
expect zero, ready to give about 26. I wouldn’t mind someone being direct, I’d just laugh and directly tell him that it won’t work out.
i mean i don’t have an exact number…..LOL. but i do expect it often. like…once a week (recurring) to once every few weeks just won’t work for me.
What is frustrating is, when you are enjoying sex with your spouse 3-4 times a week, and after the baby is born, she tells you “no more. My body belongs to the baby now, hands off.” And means it. I didn’t get married to be celibate. When you go from 3-4 times a week to 3-4 times a year, and she is complaining and bitching about even that…”oh God, just get it over with…” worked with counselors for over 10 years before I threw in the towel. Now I enjoy several friends with benefits…although I would rather have had my spouse… =/
It’s crazy how many people comment and say that it’s usually the women who stop wanting sex as much, and yet I see so many women on here saying they want it realistically at least once a week if not more. After we had our son, I wanted sex just as much as ever, I even broke the six week rule and we did it, carefully, after 2 weeks. Right now, with me being super pregnant, I don’t want it as much since I’m often uncomfortable or exhausted, but I do still want to have sex at least once a week. But honestly I’m lucky if I get that. Idk what exactly has changed, but my bf doesn’t have the drive that he used to, and he never tries, I’m always the one to start things. And he doesn’t ever say no or anything, but it really does a number on my self-esteem that he doesn’t try anymore. We’re still young, I’m 21 and he’s 25..so idk. I’m sure getting off drugs could be a factor in it. And maybe the fact that I’m pregnant makes him less attracted, but it didn’t seem to the first time I was, and my body is still the same just excluding the belly. It’s truly frustrating, but I can see why a guy would want to let a woman know his expectations, and vice versa. It doesn’t always go according to plan, and things do get in the way, but it’s a conversation that any serious couple should have. And realistically, when I am not pregnant and life is running smoothly, I like to have sex 3 to 4 times a week.
Here’s what I think. We all want sex frequently but real life gets in the way. For two people’s desire’s to connect take some planning and preparation which is often initiated by one person. Eventually that one person gets tired of doing the arranging and just does it less often. Ritual and habit can become the signal and present the opportunity to get it – like doing it on the weekends only,plus special occasions, plus vacations etc.
OVER 9000
… uh, not sure over what time span hahaha
I like sex 3 or 4 times a week. My last boyfriend was fine with it once every two weeks. I really missed it, but i got used to it. If I get involved again, I’ll want it with a man who is interested and capable of having it more often. I didn’t realize, until I was in that situation, what a big deal it was for me.
Dunno. The husband and I are together four days a week (we work 24 hour shifts for different companies) and usually engage in some sort of sexual activity 2-9 times a day… So, a lot more than 300? But what are we counting as sex? Penetration only? Naked fondling that leads to orgasms? Blow jobs?
I would certainly expect it more than that!
Love my job, since I’ve been bringing in $82h… I sit at home, music playing while I work in front of my new iMac that I got now that I’m making it online… Red97.com
I’m only 16 so…none.
Why wouldn’t a women love a guy that wants to have sex 300 times a year?
The author states she caught her ex-husband cheating, which makes me wonder if she’s a prude that drove her ex-husband to cheat or otherwise.
963 times a day. Anything less is just unacceptable.
@MommaFish89 - recently was alot of fun! ^-^ Good ol’ Sex-tember.
as many times as its meant to happen, AFTER MARRIAGE!
Zero. Nil. Zilch.
12.
Not had sex yet. Never had a girlfriend yet.
M probably wanted me to have sex with her, she wanted to marry me,
(N probably did and F maybe both wanted to date me)
Not sure. But now I want sex… right now.
1086.3
@naguyin – I like to..exercise? ;p lol
It varies depending on if I visit a particularly rapey city or not.
@light_blue_fables - Lol! Don’t we all..
Hmmm, you mean with one person? hehehe
I think @UndyingNova had a good estimate. Hell, he better give it up at least once a week!!!
It’s the duty of the guy to keep his lady feeling wanted and special. So the correct answer is “ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.” hahhaa
At least a few times given that I’m in a relationship, but this really isn’t the kind of thing I would take the time to plan out.
@Babieboo_Annie - 3 times a day sounds about right to me. I was going to say this but you beat me to it lolz
@RushmoreJ - You sound wise! hehehe
300 times a year? Yes please!
I’d gladly give my hubby sex that often! He’s pretty freakin’ fantastic, we have a “sex is unconditional” policy in our marriage 
Right now I’d say average 4 times per week. 300 times a year works out to about 6 times a week. Sounds like a plan 
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SHAMELESS SELF PLUG.
The Doug™ is back, my hiatus is over.
Y’all stop by and say hi.
I’m older than dirt….and I lost the manual!
@Manbeast – Lol. Dirty..*ahem* I mean great minds think alike? ;p
so if he had sex 10 times a day for 30 days, he’s good for the year?
It seems that everyone wants to have sex based on the comments so why get upset if someone wants to be direct?
Sounds about right
@EmilyandAtticus - You women exist for people like him. It is why there are TWO sexes.
@CanuckFascist - I’m sure you date a lot.
enough times?
I’ll let you know when I get married next week.
I don’t have a specific number in mind… but 3 times a day sounds good. That’s like…1000 something a year. Giving allowance for sick days. Haha.
I have no idea. It has been so long since I had sex that I’ve forgotten who gets tied up.
Few times a week.
3 times a day… that covers breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Snacks are a bonus.
@EmilyandAtticus - I only date when I am horny. I actually do not believe in dates. They are only a game played in the hopes SOMEONE gets laid. I like to get right to it. It’s why prostitutes exist.
A rule of thumb seems to be that if you put a penny in the jar each time you have sex during your first year of marriage, it will take you about a decade to match the number after that. I can attest that that is not true. Love builds – doesn’t decrease, and neither does frequency until pretty extreme old age
I’m a guy and 300 times a year is way too much for me
so… no.
I’d like sex whenever I’m in the mood for it. That being said, it’s happened about twice this year. Most the time I’m pretty disinterested.
Only for a year or for a lifetime ? I recommend TiredSoVeryTired‘s post.
Φ ≡
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Minimum twice per week, so 104 times per year… minimum.